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ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
Fri Mar 9, 2018, 08:54 AM Mar 2018

100 easy ways to make women's lives more bearable

To the men reading: You may already do some of these things, and others you may not be in the position to do. But a good place to start is by, at the very least, reading the list through—in its entirety. And remember: These apply all year, not just during the annual 24 hours dedicated to half of the planet’s population.

1. Before explaining something to a woman, ask yourself if she might already understand. She may know more about it than you do.

2. Related: Never, ever try to explain feminism to a woman.

3. Trans women are women. Repeat that until you perish.

4. RESPECT PEOPLE’S PRONOUNS. It’s not hard.

5. Remember that fat women exist and aren’t all trying to get thin. Treat them with respect.

6. In fact, just never comment on a woman's body.

7. Be kind to women in customer service positions. Tip them extra. (But not in a creepy way.)

8. Trust women. When they teach you something, don't feel the need to go and check for yourself. And especially do not Google it in front of them.

9. Don’t maintain a double standard for… anything, ever.

10. CLOSE YOUR LEGS ON PUBLIC TRANSIT, OH MY GOD.

11. Trying to describe a woman positively? Say she's “talented,” “clever,” or “funny.” Not “gorgeous,” “sweet,” or “cute.”



https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/bj5ex8/how-to-help-gender-equality-international-womens-day
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100 easy ways to make women's lives more bearable (Original Post) ehrnst Mar 2018 OP
Not going to tip women extra. dawg Mar 2018 #1
Keep that extra $0.25/dollar for your investment portfolio. BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2018 #2
I will. dawg Mar 2018 #8
Actually, you dont need to do anything to keep that status quo going- BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2018 #9
A woman walking down the street isn't looking for a date or for dick crazycatlady Mar 2018 #3
My cat would just look at me like I'm nuts. Dave Starsky Mar 2018 #4
When at a bar, don't touch anyone's drink but your own crazycatlady Mar 2018 #5
Mostly common-sense stuff with some bullshit ones thrown in for good measure Blue_Tires Mar 2018 #6
This is certainly worth thinking about el_bryanto Mar 2018 #7

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
2. Keep that extra $0.25/dollar for your investment portfolio.
Fri Mar 9, 2018, 09:39 AM
Mar 2018

Not like pink collar jobs love the pay gap or anything.

dawg

(10,624 posts)
8. I will.
Fri Mar 9, 2018, 10:45 AM
Mar 2018

I try to be a generous tipper, especially when the service is good. But I'm not going to favor female servers over male. (Although, I suspect that many men generally do.)

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
9. Actually, you dont need to do anything to keep that status quo going-
Fri Mar 9, 2018, 01:39 PM
Mar 2018

High end restaurants, which charge a lot, resulting in higher tips, tend to hire male waitstaff.

Cheaper venues tend to hire women.

Lower tips for the pink collar ghetto. Voilà.

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
3. A woman walking down the street isn't looking for a date or for dick
Fri Mar 9, 2018, 09:43 AM
Mar 2018

IN fact when a woman's (stranger) walking down the street, leave her alone. Do not whistle, do not comment on her body, do not ask for her number, just leave her alone.

I don't know anyone who's been to a wedding where the happy bride says "yes he whistled at me on my way to xyz. I gave him my number and now I'm his wife."

If you want to catcall, the recipient should be a feline.

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
5. When at a bar, don't touch anyone's drink but your own
Fri Mar 9, 2018, 09:52 AM
Mar 2018

MEn typically don't bring their drinks in the bathroom with them. Women have to.

Edit-- should be in the general thread.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
6. Mostly common-sense stuff with some bullshit ones thrown in for good measure
Fri Mar 9, 2018, 10:23 AM
Mar 2018

And before anyone asks I mean stuff like 68-69, 53, 54, 47 (seriously, fuck that shit), 52, 7, 30, 32 (wars have been waged over less outrageous proposals than this)...

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
7. This is certainly worth thinking about
Fri Mar 9, 2018, 10:25 AM
Mar 2018

Can't go along with all of them, but worth thinking about.

Bryant

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