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LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 12:59 PM Mar 2018

#deletefacebook

Facebook is using us. It is actively giving away our information. It is creating an echo chamber in the name of connection. It surfaces the divisive and destroys the real reason we began using social media in the first place – human connection.

It is a cancer.

I’ve begun the slow process of weaning myself off of the platform by methodically running a script that will delete my old content. And there’s a lot. There are likes and shares. There are long posts I wrote to impress my friends. There are thousands of WordPress notifications that tell the world what I’m doing. In fact, I would wager I use Facebook more to broadcast my ego than interact with real humans. And I suspect that most of us are in a similar situation.

There is a method to my madness. I like Facebook Messenger and I like that Facebook is now a glorified version of OAuth. It’s a useful tool when it is stripped of its power. However, when it is larded with my personal details it is a weapon and a liability.

Think about it: any posts older than about a week are fodder for bots and bad actors. Posts from 2016? 2017? Why keep them? No one will read them, no one cares about them. Those “You and Joe have known each other for five years” auto-posts are fun but does anyone care?

Ultimately you’ve created the largest dossier on yourself and you’ve done it freely, even gleefully. This dossier reflects your likes, your dislikes, your feelings, and political leanings. It includes clear pictures of your face from all angles, images of your pets and family, and details your travels. You are giving the world unfettered access to your life.

It’s wonderful to imagine that this data will be used by a potential suitor who will fall in love with your street style. It’s wonderful to imagine you will scroll through Facebook at 80 and marvel at how you looked at the turn of the century. It’s wonderful to imagine that Facebook is a place to share ideas, dreams, and hopes, a human-to-human connection engine that gives more than it takes.

None of that will happen.

Facebook is a data collection service for those who want to sell you products. It is the definitive channel to target you based on age, sex, geographic location, political leanings, interests, and marital status. It’s an advertiser’s dream and it is wildly expensive in terms of privacy lost and cash spent to steal that privacy. It is the perfect tool for marketers, a user-generated paradise that is now run by devils.

Will you delete Facebook? Probably not. Will I? I’m working on it.

I’ve already been deleting old tweets after realizing that border police and potential employers may use what I write publicly against me. I’m clearing out old social media accounts and, as I mentioned before, deleting old Facebook posts, thus ensuring that I will no longer be a target for companies like Cambridge Analytica. But we love our social media, don’t we? The power it affords. The feeling of connection. In the absence of human interaction we cling to whatever dark simulacrum is available. In the absence of the Town Square we talk to ourselves. In the absence of love and understanding we join the slow riot of online indifference.

When Travis Kalanick led his ride-sharing company down the dark path to paranoia, bro culture, and classist rantings we reacted by deleting the app. We didn’t want to do business with that particular brand of company. Yet we sit idly by while Facebook sells us out and its management pummels and destroys all competition.


https://techcrunch.com/2018/03/19/deletefacebook/amp/
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#deletefacebook (Original Post) LovingA2andMI Mar 2018 OP
Pretty sure deleting your FB acct SoCalNative Mar 2018 #1
Probably Not.. LovingA2andMI Mar 2018 #3
I've been telling all of my family/friends since day 3 that fb (and others) are dangerous erronis Mar 2018 #2
America Needs A Federal Digital Watchdog Agency... LovingA2andMI Mar 2018 #7
And that presents another question: Should it be an "American" watchdog or broader? erronis Mar 2018 #16
Fine with either name here... LovingA2andMI Mar 2018 #18
Rare is the organization that doesn't gather and monetize your data. WhiskeyGrinder Mar 2018 #4
The Question Is What Is Done With The Data.. LovingA2andMI Mar 2018 #9
EVIL abounds Angry Dragon Mar 2018 #5
Not deleting an account HopeAgain Mar 2018 #6
Good For You... LovingA2andMI Mar 2018 #8
If you want people to call you, pick up the phone and call them dalton99a Mar 2018 #10
Google is the Same The River Mar 2018 #11
True with Google Search..... LovingA2andMI Mar 2018 #13
Yeah, stop searching for things on the internet. Cuthbert Allgood Mar 2018 #17
Didn't Say I Didn't The River Mar 2018 #19
Facebook betrayed their users. C_U_L8R Mar 2018 #12
EXACTLY THIS!!! LovingA2andMI Mar 2018 #14
if not fb, then what? i promote my small business there. mopinko Mar 2018 #15
You'll never get an answer Blue_Adept Mar 2018 #20
and ads are cheap. mopinko Mar 2018 #21
This is an emotional topic for people today Johnny2X2X Mar 2018 #22
"Will you delete Facebook? Probably not." klook Mar 2018 #23
It's Already #Deleted... LovingA2andMI Mar 2018 #24
To be even safer, delete your computer. StarryNite Mar 2018 #25
No... Mike Nelson Mar 2018 #26

SoCalNative

(4,613 posts)
1. Pretty sure deleting your FB acct
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 01:03 PM
Mar 2018

won't mean at think to TPTB. How much do you pay for the service? Yep..bottom line, they don't care.

LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
3. Probably Not..
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 01:07 PM
Mar 2018

But considering Facebook has lost 5 BILLION is its valuation today, surely Zuckerberg's Bottom Line (The All Mighty Dollar He Caves) Does Care and He or Sheryl Are Not Happy Campers. That Is A Start...

"Facebook (FB) was trading nearly 8% lower early Monday afternoon as the Trump/Russia scandal continues to hurt the stock, but the charts tell me not to buy the stock on this dip.

Action Alerts Plus holding Facebook has suspended U.K.-based Cambridge Analytica amid suggestions over the weekend that the British firm had lied about deleting user data that it had gained through the use of a psychology-test application posted on Facebook.com. Facebook has also suspended Cambridge Analytica parent Strategic Communications Laboratories.

Cambridge Analytica reportedly used the data while doing work in Donald Trump's 2016 presidential campaign, but denies that it misused or even held onto information that it gained from up to 50 million Facebook users.

However, both U.S. and U.K. lawmakers made noise about this over the weekend. Massachusetts Attorney General Maura Healey indicated through online posts that she would investigate. British Parliament member Damian Collins also expressed interest in having Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg testify about the possibility that social-media manipulation impacted the 2016 Brexit vote."

https://www.thestreet.com/story/14526731/1/do-not-buy-facebook.html

erronis

(15,237 posts)
2. I've been telling all of my family/friends since day 3 that fb (and others) are dangerous
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 01:05 PM
Mar 2018

LinkedIn (owned by Microsoft), twitter (sells to everybody), etc.

Some sites are very good at removing any information that can identify individuals but many are not (and they get paid more for PII.)

Of course, fb and everyone else, tries to put trackers on web pages that you bring up. Even if they don't get your personal ID they still can figure it out based on multiple site visits.

It's incredibly stupid that every person in the world needs to defend themselves against these vultures. That should be the role of a regulatory body - but not a censor!

LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
7. America Needs A Federal Digital Watchdog Agency...
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 01:09 PM
Mar 2018

Unlikely to happen while Drump is in office which presents another reason to dump him ASAP!!

erronis

(15,237 posts)
16. And that presents another question: Should it be an "American" watchdog or broader?
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 01:59 PM
Mar 2018

Of course I always wonder about using "American" instead of "US".

But in an ideal world wouldn't we be able to have some standards for communications that weren't dependent on current national politics and regimes? While the UN is imperfect, it seems much better than the USofDump or US-USSR.

LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
18. Fine with either name here...
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 02:07 PM
Mar 2018

As long as a Federal Watchdog Agency is enacted, ASAP -- as it relates to all Digital Mediums.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,325 posts)
4. Rare is the organization that doesn't gather and monetize your data.
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 01:07 PM
Mar 2018

It's just much, much easier to do so now.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
6. Not deleting an account
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 01:08 PM
Mar 2018

because I never had one. I'm a middle-aged practicing professional in a big city (to make clear it's not a technology issue) and have done just fine without FaceBook in my life.

LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
13. True with Google Search.....
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 01:40 PM
Mar 2018

However, how personal is a Google Search in comparison to Facebook having all the inside data on one's life, friends and family plus selling that to the highest bidder. That's another level.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,916 posts)
17. Yeah, stop searching for things on the internet.
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 02:04 PM
Mar 2018

You know that Google has to make money in order to provide all the services that they do for free, right?

It's like people that get pissed because Google uses your GPS information on Android phones but are the same people that use Google Maps for traffic information. I'm glad Google takes my GPS information so I can know what traffic is like basically real time on roads there is no reason for anyone to get information about without Google.

Sure, Google monetizes my search history. But I don't need to click on the ads they provide me.

The River

(2,615 posts)
19. Didn't Say I Didn't
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 03:21 PM
Mar 2018

use it. I also use an app that requests thousands of random searches so my real searches are just a small fraction of the data.
Hi-tech is a double edge sword and we're willingly being cut into fractious consumer segments.



C_U_L8R

(44,997 posts)
12. Facebook betrayed their users.
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 01:26 PM
Mar 2018

Once broken, it's nearly impossible to regain public trust.
They're idiots for screwing up their business and their brand so badly, in the service of Trump.
That stink does not wash off.

mopinko

(70,077 posts)
15. if not fb, then what? i promote my small business there.
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 01:54 PM
Mar 2018

i have 1600 followers. i have 5 years worth of pics.
how do i convert that to another platform? and what platform would that be?

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
20. You'll never get an answer
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 03:27 PM
Mar 2018

I do the same, have about 50,000 followers on my business page, and engage throughout the day with lots of updates that generate shares and views/visits.

Would love to hear from these folks as to where I can get the same kind of results.

mopinko

(70,077 posts)
21. and ads are cheap.
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 03:33 PM
Mar 2018

i usually spend $10-20 to promote events. i get many engaged responses. they dont always show up, but they usually follow the page.

Johnny2X2X

(19,038 posts)
22. This is an emotional topic for people today
Mon Mar 19, 2018, 03:36 PM
Mar 2018

Facebook needs to be completely transparent with its users, or I am deleting them. Which means I am deleting them because they know that almost no one would use the app if we knew what they were doing with our data.

klook

(12,154 posts)
23. "Will you delete Facebook? Probably not."
Wed Mar 21, 2018, 11:59 AM
Mar 2018

Personally I don't use it, but there are many millions of people (including most of my friends and family) who do.

I know several people who have outsourced or replicated much of their social lives to Facebook, and have no concerns about the issues Biggs brings up. Some even identify strongly with Facebook and have an emotional and defensive reaction to any criticism of the platform.

I hope the #deletefacebook campaign wins a lot of converts, but I'm not holding my breath.

StarryNite

(9,442 posts)
25. To be even safer, delete your computer.
Thu Mar 22, 2018, 01:54 AM
Mar 2018

Take a hammer to it and stay offline. Oh, and those smart phones, don't get anywhere near those things! This is the world we live in now, it's just not practical to think we can get away from this stuff. Sure, delete you FB account but your information is already out there. There's no getting away from it.

Mike Nelson

(9,951 posts)
26. No...
Thu Mar 22, 2018, 05:50 AM
Mar 2018

...my "liberal" or "progressive" voice will stay on Facebook. By the way, every word you say on a telephone and every word you type on a computer is collected and used as data. Facebook and Twitter do allow some control... your telephone company, bank cards and supermarket cards collect you without warning.

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