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RandySF

(58,511 posts)
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 02:46 AM Mar 2018

There's just something about Good Friday.

Born and raised in the Great Lakes region, I remember having Good Friday off at (public) school, college and everywhere I worked. So even now, in my "enlightened" years as agnostic Californian, it feels so strange, even offensive, to be working tomorrow I guess there are some things that never leave you.

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There's just something about Good Friday. (Original Post) RandySF Mar 2018 OP
back when Good Friday bdtrppr6 Mar 2018 #1
I just heard that this year, the pubs in Ireland are allowed... Ohiya Mar 2018 #2
Yes, the first time since 1927 ! You wouldn't believe the lengths people OnDoutside Mar 2018 #3
Thanks, that's interesting. Ohiya Mar 2018 #5
This is the longest holiday weekend in many former British countries malaise Mar 2018 #12
I remember the 70s and 80s where there was nothing open here. Today, almost everything is OnDoutside Mar 2018 #13
Very little opens here today or Monday malaise Mar 2018 #15
A holiday at home ! Myself and my son are off with his rugby club OnDoutside Mar 2018 #18
Enjoy malaise Mar 2018 #20
Over in Cayman... jberryhill Mar 2018 #21
This is the only weekend that our city parks allow camping and alcohol. LeftInTX Mar 2018 #24
Lol... same thing in Cayman jberryhill Mar 2018 #25
And some of the best camping areas anywhere! raven mad Mar 2018 #34
Hahahaha malaise Mar 2018 #29
That's as bad as Oklahoma was when you couldn't buy liquor by the drink EXCEPT Maeve Mar 2018 #17
That's pretty bad alright ! Bars in sports clubs were able to open for 4 hours, so clubs close to OnDoutside Mar 2018 #19
Thats nothing compared to the lengths religion will go to stopbush Mar 2018 #33
I still get the evil eye from my wife for wanting sausages and rashers on OnDoutside Mar 2018 #4
It's the aftermath. Lochloosa Mar 2018 #7
It's easier to seek forgiveness than permission ! OnDoutside Mar 2018 #11
My favorite childhood memory of Good Friday malaise Mar 2018 #14
Excellent. OnDoutside Mar 2018 #16
It's just another day. joshdawg Mar 2018 #6
Yep DiverDave Mar 2018 #10
When I moved to NC I was surprised they didn't observe Good Friday, but Easter Monday instead wishstar Mar 2018 #8
It was like that in Texas too. LeftInTX Mar 2018 #26
Moving to Georgia from Maryland as a child MaryMagdaline Mar 2018 #9
My annual Good Friday tradition jberryhill Mar 2018 #22
Pageantry still goes on in Pilsen Chicago every year @ Stations of the Cross( ( Via Crucis) Friday lunasun Mar 2018 #23
It is calendar relief for me BeyondGeography Mar 2018 #27
We get MLK and President's Day off, but then nothing until Memorial Day and even that is a long smirkymonkey Mar 2018 #28
It started with that jive floating holiday thing BeyondGeography Mar 2018 #30
I know! I am actually wfh today, which beats going in to the office, but I am smirkymonkey Mar 2018 #32
In NE Ohio Ohiogal Mar 2018 #31
 

bdtrppr6

(796 posts)
1. back when Good Friday
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 02:56 AM
Mar 2018

was a high Christian holiday. not so much anymore, gotta keep them peasants movin'! holidays be damned!

we celebrate Oester more than Hayzeus. much easier to believe in a chocolate-egg laying rabbit.

wait.



that's not chocolate!

Ohiya

(2,224 posts)
2. I just heard that this year, the pubs in Ireland are allowed...
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 03:25 AM
Mar 2018

to be open for the first time on Good Friday.

OnDoutside

(19,948 posts)
3. Yes, the first time since 1927 ! You wouldn't believe the lengths people
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 03:45 AM
Mar 2018

would go to, to get a drink on Good Friday .... I remember one Ireland to France ferry used to be free on a Friday, so they sold tickets for a day trip into international the waters where there were no restrictions ! Another was that you could get into the train station bar, if you had a ticket for a destination, so the bar would be packed with ticket holders for the next train station !

malaise

(268,713 posts)
12. This is the longest holiday weekend in many former British countries
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:34 AM
Mar 2018

We have a Public Holiday today and a Public Holiday on Monday. Back in the day nothing except religious services happened before 5.00pm on Good Friday. The amount of superstition associated with frolicking on the day was mind-blowing.

It's clearly changing because people are organizing events these days. Now there are beach parties, reggae and dancehall concerts and gatherings everywhere.

OnDoutside

(19,948 posts)
13. I remember the 70s and 80s where there was nothing open here. Today, almost everything is
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:37 AM
Mar 2018

open, which i much prefer !!!

malaise

(268,713 posts)
15. Very little opens here today or Monday
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:40 AM
Mar 2018

In fact many places shut down until Tuesday because folks love to head for the coast.

We never go to the coast on this weekend because everyone you really don't want to see is there.

OnDoutside

(19,948 posts)
18. A holiday at home ! Myself and my son are off with his rugby club
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:48 AM
Mar 2018

team next Friday to the South of France, but even though the temp will be 18c, the wind coming off the Pyrenees will mean the temp will be about 9c.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
21. Over in Cayman...
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 09:42 AM
Mar 2018

Easter weekend is the only time that camping is allowed, and many Cayman families take to the beaches through Monday. They just welcomed their new governor, and had to explain to him that the tent city on the beach next to the governor’s house is just once a year.

LeftInTX

(25,139 posts)
24. This is the only weekend that our city parks allow camping and alcohol.
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 10:06 AM
Mar 2018

I'm in San Antonio.

It is a tradition for locals to stake out and fight over camping spots. The parks get crowded with tents. There is drinking, loud music and bar b que.

I don't understand it.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
34. And some of the best camping areas anywhere!
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 11:19 PM
Mar 2018

Even kind to crazy-ass Alaskan bikers headed (eventually) to Florida. Yep, did the tourist and food thing (spouse still doesn't believe I ate all those hot peppers. ENJOY!

Maeve

(42,271 posts)
17. That's as bad as Oklahoma was when you couldn't buy liquor by the drink EXCEPT
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:47 AM
Mar 2018

if you had a hotel key, that meant you were traveling so couldn't be expected to have your own bottle--lots of bars rented you a hotel key in case they were raided! (The law forced you to buy a bottle and have the bar pour it for you, which was ok if you were at your 'usual' establishment, since you couldn't carry it away partially full--hence the work-around) They changed it back in the '80's.

OnDoutside

(19,948 posts)
19. That's pretty bad alright ! Bars in sports clubs were able to open for 4 hours, so clubs close to
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:51 AM
Mar 2018

each other used to stagger the opening, so you could drink for a lot of the day if you wished, but you had to become a temporary member !

stopbush

(24,392 posts)
33. Thats nothing compared to the lengths religion will go to
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 11:03 AM
Mar 2018

to impose their fantasies on secular society.

malaise

(268,713 posts)
14. My favorite childhood memory of Good Friday
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:38 AM
Mar 2018

Mom asked me to take some freshly baked hot cross buns to our neighbor. She was in her kitchen seasoning a chicken. I was a shocked pre-teen and asked her how they was going to eat chicken and not fish on the day. She laughed and said as seriously as a judge, 'Lord if you want us to eat fish today, change this fowl to fish'.
I still laugh and it stayed with me forever.

OnDoutside

(19,948 posts)
16. Excellent.
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 07:42 AM
Mar 2018


I still remember the dirty looks "wild" people would get for ordering meat on Good Friday....I even grilled fish fingers for breakfast this morning

wishstar

(5,268 posts)
8. When I moved to NC I was surprised they didn't observe Good Friday, but Easter Monday instead
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 06:12 AM
Mar 2018

After I moved south to NC, as a lapsed Catholic, I found it very strange and nonsensical that Easter Monday was the official state holiday unlike all the other states where Good Friday was observed. Apparently starting in 1935 (until ending in 1987), NC's Easter Monday commemoration originated with state employees wanting day off to attend the traditional baseball game between NC State and Wake Forest. So for 52 years NC observed a day for a spring sports rite taking precedence over commemorating Good Friday. In 1987 the official Easter holiday day was changed to Good Friday in NC.

LeftInTX

(25,139 posts)
26. It was like that in Texas too.
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 10:09 AM
Mar 2018

Now it's Good Friday.

I think in Texas it was for "travel time", since families would go out of town on Easter.

MaryMagdaline

(6,851 posts)
9. Moving to Georgia from Maryland as a child
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 06:36 AM
Mar 2018

No Good Friday holiday and no Easter vacation. Spring break was a random week. Felt sacrilegious to go to school on Good Friday. Still feels weird to work on Good Friday.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
22. My annual Good Friday tradition
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 09:48 AM
Mar 2018

I used to go to Caesars in Atlantic City to gamble in commemoration of the Roman guards rolling dice for Jesus’ clothes.

BeyondGeography

(39,351 posts)
27. It is calendar relief for me
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 10:12 AM
Mar 2018

This is the longest stretch of the year on the uber-dreary American work calendar without a national holiday. My company doesn't observe MLK or Presidents Day and neither do many others. So we basically go from the 1st of the Year to Memorial Day with no pause. Good Friday is a chance to cope, and it's getting more popular every year as far as I can tell.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
28. We get MLK and President's Day off, but then nothing until Memorial Day and even that is a long
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 10:22 AM
Mar 2018

stretch! I feel sorry for you that you have to deal with that extra two months without a break.

We used to get Patriot's Day off (Third Monday in April) which is also the same day the Boston Marathon is run. Patriot's Day is still an official holiday in Massachusetts, Connecticut and Maine, but our company just decided to give us an extra floating holiday and not make it an official day off for MA residents.

BeyondGeography

(39,351 posts)
30. It started with that jive floating holiday thing
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 10:32 AM
Mar 2018

"Oh, so YOU'RE taking Monday off? I'll be here." Then as technology evolved and more people worked from home (raises hand) they did away with the earlier holidays completely. People have all sorts of stealth strategies to even the score and protect their mental health, but nothing feels better than a full-on holiday where no one is pinging you.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
32. I know! I am actually wfh today, which beats going in to the office, but I am
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 11:01 AM
Mar 2018

still working. It's just nice to be able to sleep a little later and not have to deal w/ the whole showering/grooming/getting dressed thing. I have a very short commute, but it's still nice not to have to go anywhere and eat lunch at home. There are still some people that think they are heroes by showing up even when most people decide to wfh. Everyone has the office martyrs.

Ohiogal

(31,917 posts)
31. In NE Ohio
Fri Mar 30, 2018, 10:37 AM
Mar 2018

You will find every friggin restaurant packed to the gills ( no pun intended) to get their Good Friday fried fish dinner.

IMO ... If eating fried fish is considered a "sacrifice" and is okey dokey with the Catholic Church....

It sure ain't much of a sacrifice for me, 'cause I love it! I'd eat it every week out of the year, if I wasn't trying to eliminate fried food from my diet.

Although in my parents' generation, it WAS a huge sacrifice, when people routinely ate meat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

Sometimes my mom fixed us tuna casserole, and boy oh boy did my dad complain about it.

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