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Where is the press and media on the Melania story? (Original Post) Kingofalldems May 2018 OP
She sleeps with the fishes. gibraltar72 May 2018 #1
No, his mouth just looks like a fish's mouth. Besides, she probably doesn't sleep tblue37 May 2018 #55
LOL lunatica May 2018 #61
LOL. Honeycombe8 May 2018 #63
Maybe she got her tracking chip removed? uppityperson May 2018 #2
lol uponit7771 May 2018 #4
Duzy pamela May 2018 #24
Is there a story? We haven't seen her for awhile, but The Velveteen Ocelot May 2018 #3
Mysterious hospital visit, long stay. Kingofalldems May 2018 #7
Do we really need to know about it? The Velveteen Ocelot May 2018 #9
Yes we do. Kingofalldems May 2018 #10
How would we ever find out? The Velveteen Ocelot May 2018 #11
Makes sense if waiting for the swelling and black & blue marks to go away. InAbLuEsTaTe May 2018 #18
It would, but this is all just complete speculation with no evidence to back it up. bearsfootball516 May 2018 #28
So is "Spygate". n/t Mr.Bill May 2018 #52
Yes, it is. Not sure what the point of you saying that is, we all know Spygate is idiotic. bearsfootball516 May 2018 #57
Actually, there's plenty of evidence on "spygate"--evidence that it is a shameless lie. nt tblue37 May 2018 #58
Tweety Amin?? thucythucy May 2018 #39
Not mine, but I like it. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2018 #42
Tweety Amin. I'm so glad I swallowed my drink before I got to your post or I'd be in catbyte Jun 2018 #77
Yes, abuse and they are JoeOtterbein May 2018 #51
Bc we pay for it. Crutchez_CuiBono Jun 2018 #78
Imagine if Michelle Obama wasn't seen for two weeks when President Obama was in the White House. sarcasmo May 2018 #29
Fox would have said she was in the Middle East, conspiring with ISIS and rzemanfl May 2018 #31
Exactly and it would be an all day, every day story with a running clock. sarcasmo May 2018 #40
And that's why I don't watch Fox Snooze. LastLiberal in PalmSprings Jun 2018 #83
witness protection program? eShirl May 2018 #5
"Melanie" prolly wants to be left alone uponit7771 May 2018 #6
Did she take Barron with her? ProudMNDemocrat May 2018 #8
It's Trump baiting the media. Sneederbunk May 2018 #12
I think if she was sick trump would exploit her among the masses for sympathy and distraction lunasun May 2018 #13
I really dont care if I never see her again. CatMor May 2018 #14
Seriously. InAbLuEsTaTe May 2018 #19
Agreed Sherman A1 May 2018 #21
It would be nice to know if we taxpayers are, once again, subsidizing two households More_Cowbell May 2018 #15
Agree Rorey May 2018 #23
This is my main concern. smirkymonkey May 2018 #68
Let me put it this way: Unless she was battered by the potus, we really don't have a "right" to know Hekate May 2018 #16
I think you are correct; however, what if it had been Michelle? ProudLib72 May 2018 #70
Have thosew black eyes healed yet? KPN May 2018 #17
It's been obvious in their last appearances together that she doesn't want him to even touch her. Arkansas Granny May 2018 #20
What if he seriously hurt her and she is incapacitated kimbutgar May 2018 #22
Yes, I think his cult members would give him yet another pass Rorey May 2018 #26
This thread demonstrates how incredibly bad they are at presidentin'. nolabear May 2018 #25
As long as no crime is involved, I view this as a spooky3 May 2018 #27
As a New York City resident I would like to know if she has come back here dhol82 May 2018 #33
I agree, for NYers. spooky3 May 2018 #47
Totally Me. May 2018 #59
Then perhaps she shouldn't be in public life if everything is a private matter. nt Kirk Lover May 2018 #71
If shes been abused Clarity2 May 2018 #30
Didn't one of her "friends" get $28 million from the inauguration of the orange rzemanfl May 2018 #35
Aaaand Clarity2 May 2018 #66
I was responding to this-"doesn't have any real friends, keeps to herself and doesnt socialize...." rzemanfl May 2018 #67
Sorry I misunderstood Clarity2 Jun 2018 #73
Exactly. Thank you. Kingofalldems May 2018 #37
She's obviously trapped, has serious emotional problems living with a misogynistic tyrant. YOHABLO May 2018 #32
They are preparing an expose on her called "Was Worst" Generic Brad May 2018 #34
Should that not be 'Vas Vurst?' dhol82 May 2018 #50
HA! hexola May 2018 #64
Since she's not really present anyway it's only fitting that she actually disappears. Kirk Lover May 2018 #36
Kidney surgery is never minor TexasBushwhacker May 2018 #38
This particular procedure has been reported as one that's done as an outpatient. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2018 #46
She is a public figure... FLOTUS. Zoonart May 2018 #41
Who cares? It's nobody's business. Lil Missy May 2018 #43
As to invisibility, she Mr. Ected May 2018 #44
You know they'd be on it if it were Cha May 2018 #45
Remember... Mike Nelson May 2018 #48
yep she isnt saying - doing anything -so could be part of a personnal be best challenge to not bully lunasun May 2018 #54
Who does that? Mr.Bill May 2018 #60
Working on her cyber bullying project? ooky May 2018 #49
Trivia, elleng May 2018 #53
I think most of us on DU are good at being multi-concerned womanofthehills Jun 2018 #84
Oh Great Me. May 2018 #56
Maybe Donald has already moved Stormy's replacement into the Lincoln bedroom? keithbvadu2 May 2018 #62
Maybe the media can start a "Where in the world is Melania?" game. Honeycombe8 May 2018 #65
Suicide attempt? Needs time away from public eye. mainer May 2018 #69
The reason this is a BFD is because kacekwl May 2018 #72
Has she been seen since Barbara Bush's funeral? nini Jun 2018 #74
This message was self-deleted by its author Hekate Jun 2018 #75
Martha Mitchell? MontanaMama Jun 2018 #76
I've read that her mother was seen: k8conant Jun 2018 #81
Brian Williams had a little bit about it on MSNBC the other day shenmue Jun 2018 #79
Hawaiians threw her into the volcano as a sacrifice left-of-center2012 Jun 2018 #80
Mueller has her under protection. She's going to spill the beans Lint Head Jun 2018 #82

tblue37

(65,319 posts)
55. No, his mouth just looks like a fish's mouth. Besides, she probably doesn't sleep
Mon May 28, 2018, 05:55 PM
May 2018

with him any more.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,670 posts)
3. Is there a story? We haven't seen her for awhile, but
Mon May 28, 2018, 03:36 PM
May 2018

there might not be a story. Maybe she just wanted to get away from Spanky for a few days - though that could be the story.

Kingofalldems

(38,450 posts)
7. Mysterious hospital visit, long stay.
Mon May 28, 2018, 03:42 PM
May 2018

Then no sign of her at the WH. Trump when asked points out a window and claims she is looking at them right now. Now it is learned she is allegedly in NYC.

Something is going on that we need to know about.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,670 posts)
9. Do we really need to know about it?
Mon May 28, 2018, 03:46 PM
May 2018

She's just a First Lady, and a fairly useless one at that. If she wants to hide out in NYC to avoid her repulsive creep of a husband, or lay low until her plastic surgery bruises fade, why is that something we need to know?

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,670 posts)
11. How would we ever find out?
Mon May 28, 2018, 03:49 PM
May 2018

It wouldn't surprise me to learn that Tweety Amin is abusive, but the fact that Melanoma hasn't been seen in public lately isn't proof of that, or even evidence.

catbyte

(34,372 posts)
77. Tweety Amin. I'm so glad I swallowed my drink before I got to your post or I'd be in
Sat Jun 2, 2018, 11:23 PM
Jun 2018

trouble.

Thanks for the laugh.

Crutchez_CuiBono

(7,725 posts)
78. Bc we pay for it.
Sat Jun 2, 2018, 11:24 PM
Jun 2018

WE are bankrolling this lunacy while Americans worry about having healthcare at all....or a job.

rzemanfl

(29,556 posts)
31. Fox would have said she was in the Middle East, conspiring with ISIS and
Mon May 28, 2018, 05:00 PM
May 2018

showing her BARE ARMS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

83. And that's why I don't watch Fox Snooze.
Sun Jun 3, 2018, 02:26 AM
Jun 2018

Although it might be worth a look if Trump calls into "Fox and Friends" again and goes into one of his half hour monologues. The expressions on the hosts faces at the end were priceless.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
13. I think if she was sick trump would exploit her among the masses for sympathy and distraction
Mon May 28, 2018, 03:53 PM
May 2018

I play the game I admit so once hearing she is Waldo like I think plastic surgery and perhaps how unaware she may have been on how long healing from plastic surgery after a certain age can be

More_Cowbell

(2,191 posts)
15. It would be nice to know if we taxpayers are, once again, subsidizing two households
Mon May 28, 2018, 03:57 PM
May 2018

Other than that, I don't care what she does.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
23. Agree
Mon May 28, 2018, 04:41 PM
May 2018

When we have to pay for her security, it's our business. As far as her well-being goes, I have no concern.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
68. This is my main concern.
Mon May 28, 2018, 06:55 PM
May 2018

This family has already cost us enough money. I am tired of paying for their grifting and dysfunction.

Hekate

(90,643 posts)
16. Let me put it this way: Unless she was battered by the potus, we really don't have a "right" to know
Mon May 28, 2018, 03:59 PM
May 2018

...and she does have a right to privacy. Well, another exception would be poisoning.

As for "the media" -- perhaps they feel the same way I do. You could ask them.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
70. I think you are correct; however, what if it had been Michelle?
Mon May 28, 2018, 07:05 PM
May 2018

If she went in for surgery, was in for several days longer than she should have been, and then went missing for three weeks, what would your reaction be? You would be concerned, right? And that right there is the major difference between the tRumps and the Obamas. Barack would have been providing updates. We would be seeing pictures of Michelle recovering. But the Donald could not care less about his third wife. That should be our takeaway from this: confirmation of just how self-absorbed he is and how poorly he treats everyone else (even family).

Arkansas Granny

(31,514 posts)
20. It's been obvious in their last appearances together that she doesn't want him to even touch her.
Mon May 28, 2018, 04:11 PM
May 2018

Maybe she is using this opportunity to get away from him, at least for a while. It doesn't really matter. She's done very little as a FLOTUS anyway.

kimbutgar

(21,127 posts)
22. What if he seriously hurt her and she is incapacitated
Mon May 28, 2018, 04:34 PM
May 2018

Would his cult members stand by him abusing his wife?

He hurt Ivana I wouldn’t put it past him.

nolabear

(41,959 posts)
25. This thread demonstrates how incredibly bad they are at presidentin'.
Mon May 28, 2018, 04:42 PM
May 2018

Any administration worth anything at all would say something to thank people for their thoughts and prayers, or give an update, even a shady one, or understand that in the absence of any info rumors are going to take over. Either these guys just like the divisiveness (yet again) that comes from speculation or don’t give two shits about any of it.

I’ve seen everything from plastic surgery to suicide attempt to abuse to “SHE’S OUR WONDERFUL FIRST LADY HOW DARE YOU MENTION HER NAME YOU LOSERS.”

No matter what, it’s being handled poorly.

spooky3

(34,438 posts)
27. As long as no crime is involved, I view this as a
Mon May 28, 2018, 04:46 PM
May 2018

Private matter. She is unelected and is unpaid and apparently stays out of most public matters. She apparently still has a voice and means. So I’m much more concerned with the missing immigrant children than “missing” Melania.

dhol82

(9,352 posts)
33. As a New York City resident I would like to know if she has come back here
Mon May 28, 2018, 05:02 PM
May 2018

She might not be paid but she sure cost this city a bundle when she was here.
I think knowing her whereabouts is pertinent.

Clarity2

(1,009 posts)
30. If shes been abused
Mon May 28, 2018, 04:55 PM
May 2018

The public should know. Its a crime and he should be in jail and impeached just on that alone (ok for many more reasons than this obviously).

I do care...I have a soft spot for battered women. She fits the profile. Its been reported she doesnt have any real friends, keeps to herself and doesnt socialize. It fits the pattern of an abused woman. Stay hidden and hide the bruises. Isolating herself also makes her that much more a target by him.

This man is a lunatic in public, I can only imagine what hes like behind closed doors.

Clarity2

(1,009 posts)
66. Aaaand
Mon May 28, 2018, 06:38 PM
May 2018

that would make her deserve to be abused if she is?

If you came across her on the street being beaten by Trump, would you not intervene? Would you show some empathy? Its really perhaps the difference between you and me in that I try to put myself in someones shoes and picture if that is what is happening to her.

It is NOT a stretch in the least to imagine she is being assaulted by trump.

Its funny how some people on here are so ride or die, and any show of compassion towards someone not on our side is squashed. Compassion is a democratic trait. Or at least I thought it was.

rzemanfl

(29,556 posts)
67. I was responding to this-"doesn't have any real friends, keeps to herself and doesnt socialize...."
Mon May 28, 2018, 06:52 PM
May 2018

One of her friends got $28 million. So she has at least one friend. She may not be a "real friend" but she's real rich if I am correct about the money. My post doesn't say a damn thing about my thoughts on women who are abused or the level of my compassion.

If I came across Drumpf in the street, that alone would cause me to intervene on behalf of the country. We're about the same age, he has a lot of weight on me but I'm in better shape and my hands are bigger. Your example and mine both will never happen.

I don't know what you mean about "ride or die" but I am inclined to believe your horse is a lot higher than mine.

Clarity2

(1,009 posts)
73. Sorry I misunderstood
Sat Jun 2, 2018, 10:14 PM
Jun 2018

I thought you were implying because she gives the appearance of being greedy (throwing money towards a friend) therefore doesn't deserve any empathy.

Yes, so she has one friend, but no one knows if its casual or a true friendship. Or if thats a friend through her husband? Ive read that she doesnt socialize much.

 

Kirk Lover

(3,608 posts)
36. Since she's not really present anyway it's only fitting that she actually disappears.
Mon May 28, 2018, 05:07 PM
May 2018

But really...WTF, very odd and just raises speculation. Just lie good enough the first time and then there won't be questions but as we see they can't even do that right.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,173 posts)
38. Kidney surgery is never minor
Mon May 28, 2018, 05:08 PM
May 2018

If she had to spend 5 days in the hospital, I would imagine she has to rest quite a bit during her recovery.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,670 posts)
46. This particular procedure has been reported as one that's done as an outpatient.
Mon May 28, 2018, 05:15 PM
May 2018

You rest for a few hours and they send you home the same day. A FLOTUS might get the luxury of an overnight stay, but five days?

Zoonart

(11,849 posts)
41. She is a public figure... FLOTUS.
Mon May 28, 2018, 05:12 PM
May 2018

We the taxpayers foot the bills for her medical care and her safety. We have a right to know...especially if we are going to be paying for another security detail in NYC and renting another Secret Service office in Trump tower. Hell yes...we have the right to know.

Mike Nelson

(9,951 posts)
48. Remember...
Mon May 28, 2018, 05:24 PM
May 2018

… she also wanted the Obamas to go home to Africa. Like some of the "adults" in the Trump circle, she's probably a white supremacist, too. I'd lave her alone, but am okay with others speculating... She speculated on Obama's birth certificate, so she likes speculation.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
54. yep she isnt saying - doing anything -so could be part of a personnal be best challenge to not bully
Mon May 28, 2018, 05:53 PM
May 2018

people like the Obamas.
Besides being birther on TV, stealing First Lady Obama's speech was an asshole bully move too imo
Just who does shit like that in your face? Like you wont recognize it was your speech??

Mr.Bill

(24,280 posts)
60. Who does that?
Mon May 28, 2018, 06:12 PM
May 2018

A Trump speechwriter. I doubt Melania has a command of the English language that would allow her to write her own speeches. Her husband doesn't even have that.

womanofthehills

(8,697 posts)
84. I think most of us on DU are good at being multi-concerned
Sun Jun 3, 2018, 03:24 AM
Jun 2018

If Michelle Obama disappeared no one would ever say Obama had hurt her, but it's totally different with Trump. His first wife accused him of abuse and rape.

mainer

(12,022 posts)
69. Suicide attempt? Needs time away from public eye.
Mon May 28, 2018, 07:03 PM
May 2018

I don’t know of too many “minor”medical issues that would keep her hidden from public eye this long, except maybe plastic surgery or emotional issues.

kacekwl

(7,016 posts)
72. The reason this is a BFD is because
Tue May 29, 2018, 10:14 AM
May 2018

they lie about everything so you know the whole kidney story was B.S. to begin with. If it is nothing then why not say so. They will never tell us what is really going on so we'll just have to wait for the leak.

nini

(16,672 posts)
74. Has she been seen since Barbara Bush's funeral?
Sat Jun 2, 2018, 10:35 PM
Jun 2018

You know 45 must have been livid after her smiling with Obama.

Response to Kingofalldems (Original post)

MontanaMama

(23,307 posts)
76. Martha Mitchell?
Sat Jun 2, 2018, 11:22 PM
Jun 2018

Maybe even the kidney thing was a ruse. Huge speculation but it’s happened before. This is weird. And, why the hell is no member of the media following her parents or sister? Seems the obvious thing to do.

k8conant

(3,030 posts)
81. I've read that her mother was seen:
Sun Jun 3, 2018, 01:30 AM
Jun 2018

"Her mother, Amalija Knavs, was seen walking along the White House grounds around midday Friday."

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