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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThe love of my life fell ill last week and ended up in the hospital.
We planned on bringing our baby boy to the polls together today.
Over the weekend I made three trips back and forth from the hospital to the Supervisor of Elections office in order to get proper documentation, affidavits, signatures and ballot. She was hospitalized one day to late for the more simple process to be used. It was one of the most painful weekends of my life as all I wanted to do was hold my wife. All I wanted to do was hold my wife. All I wanted to do was hold my wife. All she wanted to do was vote. I gave up time with her, my job, and my son in order to fulfill her wish. I delivered it directly to the Supervisor of Elections office and they accepted the signature on the spot. Said it wasn't being sent "upstairs". I broke down in tears. Her ballot was straight D.
This morning I went with my son(21 months) to vote. We did so with heavy hearts. Truthfully, my son just misses his mom, he is not allowed where she is at, and only comprehends that she all of the sudden wasn't around. That is the burden of his pain. We have no clue as to her future but do know her wish has been fulfilled.
While the process took a considerable amount of time and was a pain, I can see the reason for each step they had. I want to thank the Supervisor of Elections office staff for how helpful they were. At every step. On the phone. In person. And to me as a human being. I never break-down. I fell to the floor in tears at their office. They held me. They comforted me. I just wanted to be with my wife.
Go Florida. GOTV
Have a good thought for my wife. She is young and strong.
Tom Rinaldo
(22,912 posts)She wanted you there to vote, you did, now I hope you can be by her side and that she has a full recovery
TEB
(12,841 posts)Docreed2003
(16,858 posts)And to you for voting and fighting for her vote! (Belated welcome to DU)
N_E_1 for Tennis
(9,715 posts)Now go hold your wife. Hope everything goes great with her health.
yardwork
(61,588 posts)Doreen
(11,686 posts)Mike Rows His Boat
(389 posts)Please keep us informed as to how things are going as your family goes thru this.
nolabear
(41,959 posts)Anybody can do whats easy. Your courage, and your wifes, in thinking about all of us when youre dealing with so much, is deeply inspiring.
May you all heal fast and your baby grow up in a better world because of what you did.
MiniMe
(21,714 posts)I'm sure this has been quite a stressful time for you. Good for you for voting today and taking your son with you. And great job getting your wife her write-in vote.
Demsrule86
(68,543 posts)tavernier
(12,377 posts)rurallib
(62,406 posts)makes you wonder why anyone would pass up the chance to vote.
Hopes for her recovery.
A few years ago a friend suddenly took ill. His wife called me to get an absentee ballot to him so he could vote. That was utmost in his mind. It was Obama's first run.
He voted and I took it to the auditor. He did die shortly after the election. His wife said he was so thankful he got his vote in.
LoisB
(7,201 posts)voting even though she's ill in hospital.
displacedtexan
(15,696 posts)I bet you could get help from your US Rep to start a hospital voting rights initiative, wherein sudden illnesses and accidents wouldn't hinder Election Day voting. People vote in churches, schools, and random warehouses (think Dodge City). Why not hospitals? Surely, if Medicare consultants can conduct sign ups and plan choices by visiting patients, poll workers could do the same.
Here's hoping your family is back home together very soon!
Dem_4_Life
(1,765 posts)Stay strong! You are a great Husband, Dad and person.
40RatRod
(532 posts)Cryptoad
(8,254 posts)grantcart
(53,061 posts)irisblue
(32,967 posts)LisaM
(27,801 posts)you lived up to your marriage vows. More so than many. May you be rewarded with a positive outcome in your elections.
sdfernando
(4,930 posts)How could she not with such a loving and kind person at her side?
Here is to speedy and complete recovery....and hold and live your son, he needs you now more than ever.
alwaysinasnit
(5,064 posts)wife and for you, the continuing strength to keep going despite your pain and worry.
BadgerMom
(2,770 posts)I hope you have a strong support network. You and your wife are both great examples of folks who know the importance of our votes. Go, Florida.
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)Hug her,hold her close.
While working at the Polls we actually had a man brought in a cot. The RescueSquad wheeled him right in.
We also had many on walkers from Nursing Homes. We helped them fill out a Provisional ballet because of the change of address.
Saw a woman in Texas this morning with a Beto signed shirt. On oxygen and in a wheelchair, told the Reporter,We have a chance to make our Country decent again! She was crying.
pnwmom
(108,976 posts)I hope you have family and friends nearby to help you with this. Please remember to take care of yourself, too, while you're caring for everyone else!
samnsara
(17,616 posts)BamaRefugee
(3,483 posts)democrank
(11,092 posts)Stay strong as you can.
Duppers
(28,118 posts)You don't happen to live in southeastern VA, do you?
Good luck to your wife, you, and your child.
KSNY
(315 posts)You both sound like exceptional people. Thank you for your determination and I wish you both (especially her right now) health and happiness.
KatyaR
(3,445 posts)I hope things get better for you all very soon. Stay strong. Your wife is a very lucky woman.
catbyte
(34,372 posts)I'm so sorry you are going through this. Your wife sounds like a fighter. You picked a good one. Take care.
Snotcicles
(9,089 posts)KT2000
(20,572 posts)to your wife and strength to you.
StarryNite
(9,442 posts)Hugs to you and your little boy.
murielm99
(30,733 posts)I hope your wife gets better soon.
This gave me chills, because I have a similar story. When Carter was up for reelection, my husband landed in the hospital with a nasty compound fracture to his leg. They were worried about infection. He was in a cast and he did not work for six months.
It was the day before the election.
I walked into the County Clerk's office with my baby and begged for an absentee ballot. They gave me one. I drove the the hospital. Then I drove back to the courthouse with his ballot. All those trips took about three hours and put about a hundred miles on my car.
They did let my fourteen month old daughter in to see her daddy. And he got to vote. Too bad we got stuck with Reagan for so long.
I hope your love has a speedy recovery. That is the important thing.
lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)and to you and baby boy. Hoping things will work out for all of you - she's young and strong, and that bodes well for recovery.
sprinkleeninow
(20,235 posts)Marthe48
(16,935 posts)she is better and you and your son are cheering up
madashelltoo
(1,696 posts)To You. Please place a healing touch on her and an encouraging one on her husband and child. When the world has no answer, You do. Please heal, restore and encourage. We ask in the name of Jesus. Amen.
gademocrat7
(10,654 posts)Your efforts in ensuring your wife's vote was counted are admirable. Take care.
malaise
(268,920 posts)deurbano
(2,894 posts)extreme commitment on behalf of us all. And THANK YOU, too, for your dedication and tenacity at such a difficult time!
Delphinus
(11,830 posts)to your wife - bless you all. Please keep us posted.
MontanaMama
(23,307 posts)You went over and above for Florida and the vote. Time to focus on your wife and son moving forward. My heart goes out to you. Peace to you and your family.
colorado_ufo
(5,733 posts)What a wonderful family! Prayers that your wife will recover very, very soon.
barbtries
(28,787 posts)i have tears in my eyes. wishing her a speedy recovery - a blue win today may turn her around. so sorry you're going through this!
coeur_de_lion
(3,676 posts)Another FL resident here, close by judging by your screen name.
Message me if I can help.
MLAA
(17,277 posts)flibbitygiblets
(7,220 posts)BlueInRedHell
(100 posts)skylucy
(3,739 posts)your wife. She sounds like a hero to me and so do you.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)FM123
(10,053 posts)Thank you for your sacrifice in order to make the vote count, you go take care of your wife and all of us here in FL will do our part to "bring it home".
kristndem
(408 posts)I hope you will be able to hold your wife in health for many years to come!
FailureToCommunicate
(14,012 posts)a Democratic win come true.
We are all sick at heart.
We all need healing.
We all need each other...
and we all need to GOTFV!
Not go be with your wife and son. You have clearly done your part.
Cha
(297,137 posts)EllieBC
(3,013 posts)May she have a full and speedy recovery.
voteearlyvoteoften
(1,716 posts)Fellow Floridian here whose fondest wish is to see Rick Scott lose. We really needed your vote. GWS 😘😽
cpamomfromtexas
(1,245 posts)True Blue American
(17,984 posts)Too. Healing thoughts.
cpamomfromtexas
(1,245 posts)True Blue American
(17,984 posts)No matter on the Internet makes me love Democratic Underground.
cpamomfromtexas
(1,245 posts)Who care.
joet67
(624 posts)CabalPowered
(12,690 posts)Bettie
(16,089 posts)rapidly.
renate
(13,776 posts)She and your family are all in our big DU family's thoughts tonight. She has my prayers if you want them, or good vibes if you prefer.
martigras
(151 posts)Love and good wishes to all of you! She is a strong
Woman! May she have a speedy recovery and return to you all.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)MrsCheaplaugh
(183 posts)BobTheSubgenius
(11,563 posts)I don't know what else I can say. I'm sorry.