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WeekiWater

(3,259 posts)
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:17 PM Nov 2018

The love of my life fell ill last week and ended up in the hospital.

We planned on bringing our baby boy to the polls together today.

Over the weekend I made three trips back and forth from the hospital to the Supervisor of Elections office in order to get proper documentation, affidavits, signatures and ballot. She was hospitalized one day to late for the more simple process to be used. It was one of the most painful weekends of my life as all I wanted to do was hold my wife. All I wanted to do was hold my wife. All I wanted to do was hold my wife. All she wanted to do was vote. I gave up time with her, my job, and my son in order to fulfill her wish. I delivered it directly to the Supervisor of Elections office and they accepted the signature on the spot. Said it wasn't being sent "upstairs". I broke down in tears. Her ballot was straight D.

This morning I went with my son(21 months) to vote. We did so with heavy hearts. Truthfully, my son just misses his mom, he is not allowed where she is at, and only comprehends that she all of the sudden wasn't around. That is the burden of his pain. We have no clue as to her future but do know her wish has been fulfilled.

While the process took a considerable amount of time and was a pain, I can see the reason for each step they had. I want to thank the Supervisor of Elections office staff for how helpful they were. At every step. On the phone. In person. And to me as a human being. I never break-down. I fell to the floor in tears at their office. They held me. They comforted me. I just wanted to be with my wife.

Go Florida. GOTV

Have a good thought for my wife. She is young and strong.

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The love of my life fell ill last week and ended up in the hospital. (Original Post) WeekiWater Nov 2018 OP
My heart breaks reading this, but you all are doing the right thing Tom Rinaldo Nov 2018 #1
Good thoughts to you and family TEB Nov 2018 #2
Best thoughts for your wife's recovery Docreed2003 Nov 2018 #3
You did good... N_E_1 for Tennis Nov 2018 #4
I am so sorry, and I admire your strength and courage. yardwork Nov 2018 #5
My heart goes to your wife, you, and your boy. Doreen Nov 2018 #6
Nothing but well wishes for your family. Mike Rows His Boat Nov 2018 #7
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. nolabear Nov 2018 #8
Hoping your wife fully recovers MiniMe Nov 2018 #9
So sorry for you and your wife...family. I pray for recovery and wish you all peace. Demsrule86 Nov 2018 #10
Stay strong tavernier Nov 2018 #11
That shows how precious that vote is to people rurallib Nov 2018 #12
I hope your wife fully recovers really soon. She must be amazing to be so adamant about LoisB Nov 2018 #13
When your beloved wife feels better, here's an idea... displacedtexan Nov 2018 #14
My heart goes out to you, your wife and your son and sending virtual hugs! Dem_4_Life Nov 2018 #15
Bless you and your family. 40RatRod Nov 2018 #16
Blessing and Comfort ur way! Cryptoad Nov 2018 #17
Best wishes on the struggles before you. grantcart Nov 2018 #18
I am in tears. I wish the best for your wife, your son and you. irisblue Nov 2018 #19
In sickness, and in health... LisaM Nov 2018 #20
She will get better!! sdfernando Nov 2018 #21
Thank you for sharing a bit of your beautiful family relationship. I wish a speedy recovery to your alwaysinasnit Nov 2018 #22
Sending good vibes to your wife as well as you and your son. BadgerMom Nov 2018 #23
Many Prayers for your wife. True Blue American Nov 2018 #24
I am so sorry, WeeklWater! Sending you three positive thoughts and hope! pnwmom Nov 2018 #25
Good wishes going out to your wife! samnsara Nov 2018 #26
BEST HEALING VIBES GOING OUT! BamaRefugee Nov 2018 #27
My best to you and your family. democrank Nov 2018 #28
Wish there were a way I could help. Duppers Nov 2018 #29
I hope that your wife gets better soon KSNY Nov 2018 #30
Bless you, your wife, and your little boy. KatyaR Nov 2018 #31
Good vibes from Michigan coming to all of you. catbyte Nov 2018 #32
My thoughts are with her your son and with you. nt Snotcicles Nov 2018 #33
Sending healing vibes KT2000 Nov 2018 #34
Healing thoughts headed to your wife from Arizona StarryNite Nov 2018 #35
OMG. murielm99 Nov 2018 #36
Good thoughts to your wife lillypaddle Nov 2018 #37
🕯'Determination'. 'Perserverance'. Godly virtues. sprinkleeninow Nov 2018 #38
Hope by now Marthe48 Nov 2018 #39
Father, I lift this wife and mother up madashelltoo Nov 2018 #40
Wishing your wife a speedy recovery. gademocrat7 Nov 2018 #41
Here's what you need malaise Nov 2018 #42
Best wishes for your wife and your family, and tell her THANK YOU from the rest of us for her deurbano Nov 2018 #43
Healing light Delphinus Nov 2018 #44
Thank you. MontanaMama Nov 2018 #45
May God give you strength. colorado_ufo Nov 2018 #46
that is so moving barbtries Nov 2018 #47
God bless you coeur_de_lion Nov 2018 #48
What a wonderful family you are. Sending healing thoughts. MLAA Nov 2018 #49
Bless you all flibbitygiblets Nov 2018 #50
Healing vibes to your wife BlueInRedHell Nov 2018 #51
Your story made me cry. Bless you, your wife and your child. Sending healing thoughts and wishes to skylucy Nov 2018 #52
Your wife is special. You are special. I hope she recovers soon. Hugs & wishes. nt Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #53
Sending you lots of love! FM123 Nov 2018 #54
Sending you comfort through this difficult time kristndem Nov 2018 #55
I truely hope things get better for your wife...and for all of us! May her overpowering wish for FailureToCommunicate Nov 2018 #56
Sending love and healing thoughts to your wife, WeekiWater.. Cha Nov 2018 #57
I'm keeping your wife and your son in my thoughts and will keep her in my prayers as well. EllieBC Nov 2018 #58
Thank your wife for me. voteearlyvoteoften Nov 2018 #59
Said a quick prayer for you. We are in similar situation cpamomfromtexas Nov 2018 #60
Prayers to you True Blue American Nov 2018 #69
Thank you. My best to you for quick healing cpamomfromtexas Nov 2018 #70
This feeling for each other True Blue American Nov 2018 #71
Yes. It is good to be part of a community of people cpamomfromtexas Nov 2018 #72
prayers joet67 Nov 2018 #61
You are in our thoughts this evening.. CabalPowered Nov 2018 #62
Hoping she recovers fully and Bettie Nov 2018 #63
how scary and stressful for you renate Nov 2018 #64
What a woman! martigras Nov 2018 #65
🙏🏾💙💪🏾 BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2018 #66
Best wishes MrsCheaplaugh Nov 2018 #67
I hope VERY much that you all get the happy ending you deserve!! BobTheSubgenius Nov 2018 #68

Tom Rinaldo

(22,912 posts)
1. My heart breaks reading this, but you all are doing the right thing
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:20 PM
Nov 2018

She wanted you there to vote, you did, now I hope you can be by her side and that she has a full recovery

Docreed2003

(16,858 posts)
3. Best thoughts for your wife's recovery
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:25 PM
Nov 2018

And to you for voting and fighting for her vote! (Belated welcome to DU)

 

Mike Rows His Boat

(389 posts)
7. Nothing but well wishes for your family.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:29 PM
Nov 2018

Please keep us informed as to how things are going as your family goes thru this.





nolabear

(41,959 posts)
8. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:29 PM
Nov 2018

Anybody can do what’s easy. Your courage, and your wife’s, in thinking about all of us when you’re dealing with so much, is deeply inspiring.

May you all heal fast and your baby grow up in a better world because of what you did.

MiniMe

(21,714 posts)
9. Hoping your wife fully recovers
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:30 PM
Nov 2018

I'm sure this has been quite a stressful time for you. Good for you for voting today and taking your son with you. And great job getting your wife her write-in vote.

rurallib

(62,406 posts)
12. That shows how precious that vote is to people
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:33 PM
Nov 2018

makes you wonder why anyone would pass up the chance to vote.

Hopes for her recovery.

A few years ago a friend suddenly took ill. His wife called me to get an absentee ballot to him so he could vote. That was utmost in his mind. It was Obama's first run.
He voted and I took it to the auditor. He did die shortly after the election. His wife said he was so thankful he got his vote in.

LoisB

(7,201 posts)
13. I hope your wife fully recovers really soon. She must be amazing to be so adamant about
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:39 PM
Nov 2018

voting even though she's ill in hospital.

displacedtexan

(15,696 posts)
14. When your beloved wife feels better, here's an idea...
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:40 PM
Nov 2018

I bet you could get help from your US Rep to start a hospital voting rights initiative, wherein sudden illnesses and accidents wouldn't hinder Election Day voting. People vote in churches, schools, and random warehouses (think Dodge City). Why not hospitals? Surely, if Medicare consultants can conduct sign ups and plan choices by visiting patients, poll workers could do the same.

Here's hoping your family is back home together very soon!

Dem_4_Life

(1,765 posts)
15. My heart goes out to you, your wife and your son and sending virtual hugs!
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:40 PM
Nov 2018

Stay strong! You are a great Husband, Dad and person.

LisaM

(27,801 posts)
20. In sickness, and in health...
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:48 PM
Nov 2018

you lived up to your marriage vows. More so than many. May you be rewarded with a positive outcome in your elections.

sdfernando

(4,930 posts)
21. She will get better!!
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 01:51 PM
Nov 2018

How could she not with such a loving and kind person at her side?

Here is to speedy and complete recovery....and hold and live your son, he needs you now more than ever.

alwaysinasnit

(5,064 posts)
22. Thank you for sharing a bit of your beautiful family relationship. I wish a speedy recovery to your
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 02:05 PM
Nov 2018

wife and for you, the continuing strength to keep going despite your pain and worry.

BadgerMom

(2,770 posts)
23. Sending good vibes to your wife as well as you and your son.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 02:05 PM
Nov 2018

I hope you have a strong support network. You and your wife are both great examples of folks who know the importance of our votes. Go, Florida.

True Blue American

(17,984 posts)
24. Many Prayers for your wife.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 02:09 PM
Nov 2018

Hug her,hold her close.

While working at the Polls we actually had a man brought in a cot. The RescueSquad wheeled him right in.

We also had many on walkers from Nursing Homes. We helped them fill out a Provisional ballet because of the change of address.

Saw a woman in Texas this morning with a Beto signed shirt. On oxygen and in a wheelchair, told the Reporter,”We have a chance to make our Country decent again!” She was crying.

pnwmom

(108,976 posts)
25. I am so sorry, WeeklWater! Sending you three positive thoughts and hope!
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 02:12 PM
Nov 2018

I hope you have family and friends nearby to help you with this. Please remember to take care of yourself, too, while you're caring for everyone else!



Duppers

(28,118 posts)
29. Wish there were a way I could help.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 02:42 PM
Nov 2018

You don't happen to live in southeastern VA, do you?

Good luck to your wife, you, and your child.

KSNY

(315 posts)
30. I hope that your wife gets better soon
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 02:48 PM
Nov 2018

You both sound like exceptional people. Thank you for your determination and I wish you both (especially her right now) health and happiness.

KatyaR

(3,445 posts)
31. Bless you, your wife, and your little boy.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 02:48 PM
Nov 2018

I hope things get better for you all very soon. Stay strong. Your wife is a very lucky woman.

catbyte

(34,372 posts)
32. Good vibes from Michigan coming to all of you.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 02:48 PM
Nov 2018

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Your wife sounds like a fighter. You picked a good one. Take care.

murielm99

(30,733 posts)
36. OMG.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 03:00 PM
Nov 2018

I hope your wife gets better soon.

This gave me chills, because I have a similar story. When Carter was up for reelection, my husband landed in the hospital with a nasty compound fracture to his leg. They were worried about infection. He was in a cast and he did not work for six months.

It was the day before the election.

I walked into the County Clerk's office with my baby and begged for an absentee ballot. They gave me one. I drove the the hospital. Then I drove back to the courthouse with his ballot. All those trips took about three hours and put about a hundred miles on my car.

They did let my fourteen month old daughter in to see her daddy. And he got to vote. Too bad we got stuck with Reagan for so long.

I hope your love has a speedy recovery. That is the important thing.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
37. Good thoughts to your wife
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 03:00 PM
Nov 2018

and to you and baby boy. Hoping things will work out for all of you - she's young and strong, and that bodes well for recovery.

madashelltoo

(1,696 posts)
40. Father, I lift this wife and mother up
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 03:08 PM
Nov 2018

To You. Please place a healing touch on her and an encouraging one on her husband and child. When the world has no answer, You do. Please heal, restore and encourage. We ask in the name of Jesus. Amen.

gademocrat7

(10,654 posts)
41. Wishing your wife a speedy recovery.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 03:21 PM
Nov 2018

Your efforts in ensuring your wife's vote was counted are admirable. Take care.

deurbano

(2,894 posts)
43. Best wishes for your wife and your family, and tell her THANK YOU from the rest of us for her
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 03:27 PM
Nov 2018

extreme commitment on behalf of us all. And THANK YOU, too, for your dedication and tenacity at such a difficult time!

MontanaMama

(23,307 posts)
45. Thank you.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 03:31 PM
Nov 2018

You went over and above for Florida and the vote. Time to focus on your wife and son moving forward. My heart goes out to you. Peace to you and your family.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
47. that is so moving
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 03:41 PM
Nov 2018

i have tears in my eyes. wishing her a speedy recovery - a blue win today may turn her around. so sorry you're going through this!

skylucy

(3,739 posts)
52. Your story made me cry. Bless you, your wife and your child. Sending healing thoughts and wishes to
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 04:15 PM
Nov 2018

your wife. She sounds like a hero to me and so do you.

FM123

(10,053 posts)
54. Sending you lots of love!
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 04:18 PM
Nov 2018

Thank you for your sacrifice in order to make the vote count, you go take care of your wife and all of us here in FL will do our part to "bring it home".

kristndem

(408 posts)
55. Sending you comfort through this difficult time
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 04:18 PM
Nov 2018

I hope you will be able to hold your wife in health for many years to come!

FailureToCommunicate

(14,012 posts)
56. I truely hope things get better for your wife...and for all of us! May her overpowering wish for
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 04:20 PM
Nov 2018

a Democratic win come true.
We are all sick at heart.
We all need healing.
We all need each other...
and we all need to GOTFV!


Not go be with your wife and son. You have clearly done your part.

EllieBC

(3,013 posts)
58. I'm keeping your wife and your son in my thoughts and will keep her in my prayers as well.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 04:32 PM
Nov 2018

May she have a full and speedy recovery.

voteearlyvoteoften

(1,716 posts)
59. Thank your wife for me.
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 04:44 PM
Nov 2018

Fellow Floridian here whose fondest wish is to see Rick Scott lose. We really needed your vote. GWS 😘😽

renate

(13,776 posts)
64. how scary and stressful for you
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 06:58 PM
Nov 2018

She and your family are all in our big DU family's thoughts tonight. She has my prayers if you want them, or good vibes if you prefer.

martigras

(151 posts)
65. What a woman!
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 07:12 PM
Nov 2018

Love and good wishes to all of you! She is a strong
Woman! May she have a speedy recovery and return to you all.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
68. I hope VERY much that you all get the happy ending you deserve!!
Tue Nov 6, 2018, 10:31 PM
Nov 2018

I don't know what else I can say. I'm sorry.

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