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LexVegas

(6,043 posts)
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 02:28 PM Nov 2018

Are white people that aren't racist, but not comfortable voting for a minority welcome in the party?

Are these people, perhaps, telling us that we need to nominate a, hypothetically, old white guy? In order to get their support, I mean. Asking for a friend.

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Are white people that aren't racist, but not comfortable voting for a minority welcome in the party? (Original Post) LexVegas Nov 2018 OP
when a Venn diagram is 100% overlapping, I think there is no one to consider remaining... hlthe2b Nov 2018 #1
What does "welcome in the party" even mean? Loki Liesmith Nov 2018 #2
Uhhhhh. If they'd reject someone as a leader simply because of the color of his or her skin... LincolnRossiter Nov 2018 #3
Civic duty is a real-life thing, as real as the children who Hortensis Nov 2018 #20
I'm not disagreeing with anything in your post, but I'm not sure how it's an appropriate response... LincolnRossiter Nov 2018 #22
Yep, "soft" racism is still racism. brush Nov 2018 #27
Obi-Wan Kenobi 2020! johnp3907 Nov 2018 #4
Jobi-Wan Kenobiden? bullwinkle428 Nov 2018 #7
Sorry, those hypothetical people ARE racist groundloop Nov 2018 #5
Just because some non-Democrat who presides over an all white state says that Squinch Nov 2018 #6
Bingo! nt Skidmore Nov 2018 #13
He kinda told on himself with that stupidity. brush Nov 2018 #28
So obvious, but NastyRiffraff Nov 2018 #40
I would think that white people who are "not comfortable" voting for a minority candidate cyclonefence Nov 2018 #8
Money & Media ? Just a guess Bfd Nov 2018 #9
Maybe because they agree with Democrats on health care, but not civil rights marylandblue Nov 2018 #29
If a person is not "comfortable" voting for a minority, they are a racist and have no place redstatebluegirl Nov 2018 #10
Tell your friend his concerns sound racist. GeorgeGist Nov 2018 #11
Isn't that pretty much the definition of "racist"? Crunchy Frog Nov 2018 #12
If you aren't "comfortable" with voting for somebody Voltaire2 Nov 2018 #14
No such thing gollygee Nov 2018 #15
a white person that isn't comfortable voting for a person of color (just b/c of their color) harumph Nov 2018 #16
Well I think they can join the party regardless fescuerescue Nov 2018 #17
Prisencolinensinainciuso! struggle4progress Nov 2018 #18
What is this? nt LAS14 Nov 2018 #23
It's a 1970s Italian song written in fake English nt marylandblue Nov 2018 #30
Meaningless noise that sounds like something if you're not paying attention struggle4progress Nov 2018 #36
This message was self-deleted by its author WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2018 #19
No such thing. (n/t) Iggo Nov 2018 #21
THIS !!!! ..... Is a great example of minimizing what racism is by redefining it uponit7771 Nov 2018 #24
Answer to 1st question: Yes. Answer to 2nd question: No aikoaiko Nov 2018 #25
When you see non-whites as "others" Horse with no Name Nov 2018 #26
I see what you did there Docreed2003 Nov 2018 #31
We do not say who is in the party and we vote in primaries for our wasupaloopa Nov 2018 #32
Tell your friend this: DFW Nov 2018 #33
I think not treestar Nov 2018 #34
That's not how anything works actually ismnotwasm Nov 2018 #35
It doesn't matter if they are comfortable...it matters what their actions are Fresh_Start Nov 2018 #37
We can't actually turn down voters Rizen Nov 2018 #38
I don't think people get the point you are making dansolo Nov 2018 #39

Loki Liesmith

(4,602 posts)
2. What does "welcome in the party" even mean?
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 02:32 PM
Nov 2018

There are tons of white people in the Democratic Party. Some are not racist at all. A few are a little racist. Even fewer are very racist.

No one is kicking them out. We don’t have a membership committee.

LincolnRossiter

(560 posts)
3. Uhhhhh. If they'd reject someone as a leader simply because of the color of his or her skin...
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 02:33 PM
Nov 2018

They’re racist. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

But if we happen to nominate someone white whom they approve of, I guess I’d take the vote.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
20. Civic duty is a real-life thing, as real as the children who
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 04:28 PM
Nov 2018

still have not been reunited with their parents. Right now, many thousands of family separations are being planned by the Republicans. And right now detention camps that will cumulatively hold hundreds of thousands of people are being built.

Now. The constraints on the white nationalists who control two branches of our federal government of the midterms are past.

Perhaps under these circumstances refusing to vote for the strongest possible candidate to stop it would be immoral? Not everything is black and white, even when everything is somehow involving issues of black and white.

And, btw, imo this whole thread is mean, small, tedious shit-stirring. Is this really the quarrel we need to be having and we the people we need to be having it with?

LincolnRossiter

(560 posts)
22. I'm not disagreeing with anything in your post, but I'm not sure how it's an appropriate response...
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 06:40 PM
Nov 2018

to mine.

brush

(53,759 posts)
27. Yep, "soft" racism is still racism.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 07:49 PM
Nov 2018

They don't use the "N" word but they don't vote for AAs either.

Not my kind of Democrat, stay with the repugs. We'll be all right without them.

groundloop

(11,517 posts)
5. Sorry, those hypothetical people ARE racist
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 02:38 PM
Nov 2018

IMO that's pretty much the definition of racism - negatively judging someone based on their skin tone.

As far as being 'welcome in the party', I'm not sure exactly what that's supposed to mean. Those folks are free to vote for whomever they want, beyond that I don't know what to say. It's not like we have to get a membership card or anything like that to vote for Democrats.

Squinch

(50,934 posts)
6. Just because some non-Democrat who presides over an all white state says that
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 02:40 PM
Nov 2018

some non-racists won't vote for a minority candidate, it doesn't mean it's true.

He's clearly got his head up his ass.

If they won't vote for a minority candidate because the candidate is a member of a minority, that is the definition of racist.

No one with half a brain should be saying anything different.

brush

(53,759 posts)
28. He kinda told on himself with that stupidity.
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 07:54 PM
Nov 2018

Explains maybe the non-showings the southern primaries in 2016.

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
40. So obvious, but
Sun Nov 11, 2018, 04:11 PM
Nov 2018

apparently not all agree. But of course we saw this coming. There have been dog whistles all along. Now comes the police whistle.

cyclonefence

(4,483 posts)
8. I would think that white people who are "not comfortable" voting for a minority candidate
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 02:50 PM
Nov 2018

would find a new party to join. Why on earth would they want to be Democrats?

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
29. Maybe because they agree with Democrats on health care, but not civil rights
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 08:12 PM
Nov 2018

No reason a racist can't believe in universal health care.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
15. No such thing
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 04:18 PM
Nov 2018

Someone who isn't comfortable voting for a person of color because they are a person of color is by definition racist.

harumph

(1,897 posts)
16. a white person that isn't comfortable voting for a person of color (just b/c of their color)
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 04:19 PM
Nov 2018

is racist by definition. That said - if a racist wants to vote for a Dem of any color for the "wrong" reasons (as I define them)...
I do not give a shit. I wouldn't socialize with such a person - but if they inadvertently help me - fine.|
The times are so dire, I don't think we have the luxury of ostracizing anyone. People will sink or rise to their
own level.

Response to LexVegas (Original post)

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
25. Answer to 1st question: Yes. Answer to 2nd question: No
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 07:41 PM
Nov 2018

You're welcome. And you're friends is welcome.
 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
32. We do not say who is in the party and we vote in primaries for our
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 08:24 PM
Nov 2018

favorite candidate. The one with the most votes is our nominee.

So your questions are moot

DFW

(54,329 posts)
33. Tell your friend this:
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 08:26 PM
Nov 2018

A. If he has a legitimate reason for not being comfortable voting for a candidate from a minority, he should enlighten us all with what that reason is. I would think his being welcome or not hinges on the coherency of such a reason.

B. If his reason for not being comfortable voting for a candidate from a minority is ridiculous, then he is probably better off keeping his mouth shut, as Democrats don't believe that there is any reason that is legitimate. The Republicans seem like their better alternative. What do we have to offer them?

C. This friend is only "uncomfortable," according to the OP, not emphatically opposed, to voting for a minority. Ergo, logically, they can handle a mild degree of discomfort. If the nominee is a from minority, then a majority of those who voted in the primary voted for that nominee. If THAT makes them uncomfortable, then they should move to Wyoming, or some such state where the likelihood of such an "uncomfortable" Democratic candidate is remote.

I don't think "these people" have any business telling the rest of us whom we "need to nominate." The majority nominates whoever it wants to nominate. If this friend is white and thinks they are a better candidate, they should by all means file to run.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
34. I think not
Sat Nov 10, 2018, 08:27 PM
Nov 2018

There were racists who voted for Obama. I recall a story where someone knocking on doors met a woman who said “ we are voting for the (N word).

To be uncomfortable voting for a minority is the definition of racist. Why be uncomfortable? If they are the best candidate?

Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
37. It doesn't matter if they are comfortable...it matters what their actions are
Sun Nov 11, 2018, 01:43 PM
Nov 2018

if they are uncomfortable but still vote for the minority candidate, then they should be welcome.
if they are uncomfortable but refuse to vote for the minority candidate, did they vote against the democratic candidate ?

Rizen

(708 posts)
38. We can't actually turn down voters
Sun Nov 11, 2018, 01:50 PM
Nov 2018

because they can vote for who ever they want. So we can't choose who's in the party or not :/

dansolo

(5,376 posts)
39. I don't think people get the point you are making
Sun Nov 11, 2018, 03:26 PM
Nov 2018

Bernie is insinuating that the Democrats shouldn't nominate a POC for president in 2020.

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