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Besides me, how many will *NOT* go shopping today? (Original Post) Archae Nov 2018 OP
Well, except for a trip to the grocery store... GoCubsGo Nov 2018 #1
Same here True Blue American Nov 2018 #85
Me three DiverDave Nov 2018 #137
Me four. I don't like crowds at all, at all. Food, on the other hand... Shrike47 Nov 2018 #142
Only to the coffee shop... PNW-Dem Nov 2018 #150
I went out for ice, found myself at a SAM's store to pick up a special cheese we like. Store empty. allgood33 Nov 2018 #155
I went to grocery store and a few others. Didn't go to mall Demovictory9 Nov 2018 #209
It was a great day for grocery shopping--all the drooling sheeple were at the malls today! flibbitygiblets Nov 2018 #215
Same for me, I don't even like to go to the grocery store during "rush hour" Rhiannon12866 Nov 2018 #225
Not a chance TEB Nov 2018 #2
Me hlthe2b Nov 2018 #3
The one on Colorado and Mexico? Just a Weirdo Nov 2018 #57
Yup... An experience I won't repeat, but the cold and darkness with scores of others in line... hlthe2b Nov 2018 #59
Yes because it had that one item in stock as in ONE Just a Weirdo Nov 2018 #62
You too... hlthe2b Nov 2018 #66
Us too. Just a Weirdo Nov 2018 #68
If you're still in Atlanta... Amsterdammer Nov 2018 #119
We got back yesterday Just a Weirdo Nov 2018 #127
I've gone out once for my own television TlalocW Nov 2018 #204
Not me! For the following reasons: Raven Nov 2018 #4
Cripes! Where are you? Archae Nov 2018 #6
SW NH and that's just the temperature not the wind chill. Raven Nov 2018 #11
Central NH. Minus 6. sarge43 Nov 2018 #16
I guess it's pretty balmy out here in SE NH...15 degrees now that the sun is up... teamster633 Nov 2018 #31
29 this morning,up to 50 by noon. True Blue American Nov 2018 #87
Keep warm, and my best wishes to you and your family Just a Weirdo Nov 2018 #58
-1 here mgardener Nov 2018 #13
Not me... Freedomofspeech Nov 2018 #5
Oh my goodness no SallyHemmings Nov 2018 #7
Curiously - you got two hubbies? marble falls Nov 2018 #19
Ah no SallyHemmings Nov 2018 #27
Good for both of you! marble falls Nov 2018 #33
Thanks SallyHemmings Nov 2018 #43
I got it right the third time. Polly Hennessey Nov 2018 #97
I'm only buying stamps at the post office mucifer Nov 2018 #8
In general I don't shop on Fridays and especially not this one. Yonnie3 Nov 2018 #9
I'm going to a working lunch today... louis c Nov 2018 #10
In our state d_r Nov 2018 #12
Me. sinkingfeeling Nov 2018 #14
Do groceries count? tanyev Nov 2018 #15
If you're a loner like me, the trick is to go groc shopping ON thanksgiving. Iggo Nov 2018 #92
I might try that next year. tanyev Nov 2018 #108
I flew from Albany, New York via Cha Nov 2018 #232
No way. sarge43 Nov 2018 #17
I confess. Went to Lowe's this morning. Lochloosa Nov 2018 #18
Not going out... N_E_1 for Tennis Nov 2018 #20
I'm having lunch with a friend, then home to ice my back some more. lark Nov 2018 #118
Your back too? shanti Nov 2018 #174
I empathize. silverweb Nov 2019 #233
My Friday shopping is over until safeinOhio Nov 2018 #21
Never have and never will PatSeg Nov 2018 #22
Not me! no_hypocrisy Nov 2018 #23
I'm going to the mall this afternoon. Croney Nov 2018 #24
Stopped at my local yarn store on my way to work zeusdogmom Nov 2018 #25
Never have, never will. luvs2sing Nov 2018 #26
Me, too. Never have and never will. Delmette2.0 Nov 2018 #56
I also went a couple decades ago. blueinredohio Nov 2018 #28
Just Tractor Supply. BaileyBill Nov 2018 #29
its 20 mile RT for me to go into town just for milk.....so, nope.... samnsara Nov 2018 #30
I just took advantage of a big price cut and got a new phone...from my sofa! NRaleighLiberal Nov 2018 #32
I'm shopping online Black Fri. deals DesertRat Nov 2018 #34
well i typically don't go - just shopping online onetexan Nov 2018 #35
Yuck! Are you kidding me? Mr. Ected Nov 2018 #36
Not to mention mall shootings. llmart Nov 2018 #94
Really? Paranoid much? nt USALiberal Nov 2018 #196
Not at any retail department or big box store for gifts of any kind. forgotmylogin Nov 2018 #37
Lol, not today because we went yesterday. (OMG!) Hortensis Nov 2018 #38
Me. kairos12 Nov 2018 #39
Can't. I have to work Wolf Frankula Nov 2018 #40
I wait until cyber Monday to shop online FloridaBlues Nov 2018 #41
I gave in this year. The local (small town) hardware, sporting goods store had bird seed on sale justhanginon Nov 2018 #42
Groceries irisblue Nov 2018 #44
I am a member of the "never again" group. pazzyanne Nov 2018 #45
15 degrees out watoos Nov 2018 #46
My wife manages a store in a major mall Jarqui Nov 2018 #47
Raking my pin oak leaves b4 the snow and freezing temps settle in. Wouldn't go anyway Thekaspervote Nov 2018 #48
Never have, never will. n/t phylny Nov 2018 #49
I won't. I do most of my shopping online nowadays. Glorfindel Nov 2018 #50
Not a chance. KatyaR Nov 2018 #51
I don't do Black Friday. I don't plan on going anywhere today. Arkansas Granny Nov 2018 #52
No thank you. Been there, done that. badhair77 Nov 2018 #53
taking the car for emissions testing... Baltimike Nov 2018 #54
I'm shopping Just a Weirdo Nov 2018 #55
I'm going to an equally insane activity - tailgating at a football game! Sancho Nov 2018 #60
Possibly to grocery, nothing beyond Maeve Nov 2018 #61
Not going near it The Genealogist Nov 2018 #63
Haven't been in ages. Delphinus Nov 2018 #64
I might go out for food, but wild horses couldn't get me to a retail outlet. n/t Liberal In Texas Nov 2018 #65
I LOVE Black Friday shopping...HOWEVER, I will not be going this year because helpisontheway Nov 2018 #67
Couldn't pay me to go shopping today. Boomer Nov 2018 #69
I am done shopping Freddie Nov 2018 #70
Moi. lastlib Nov 2018 #71
Nope. I hate crowds Bettie Nov 2018 #72
Never have, never will. marybourg Nov 2018 #73
Nope SweepPicker Nov 2018 #74
Here. Fuzzpope Nov 2018 #75
But consumerism is the State Religion HopeAgain Nov 2018 #76
Probably not. 47of74 Nov 2018 #77
Never have... Heartstrings Nov 2018 #78
Not me. No way. My 98 year old neighbor always gets my Sunday paper when I am done with it. dameatball Nov 2018 #79
Not a chance in the world. lisby Nov 2018 #80
Oh, my, no. I'm far too grumpy for that much crazy. Solly Mack Nov 2018 #81
Not me, duforsure Nov 2018 #82
Driving into the mountains on way home marlakay Nov 2018 #83
Isn't the rain wonderful? shanti Nov 2018 #176
Yes we were in Sacramento marlakay Nov 2018 #219
No! A thousand times no. old guy Nov 2018 #84
Not Me tberry65 Nov 2018 #86
Does an online purchase count? Martin Eden Nov 2018 #88
Good tip! I need to buy a hammock tarp for my son. CottonBear Nov 2018 #188
I highly recommend the Warbonnet Blackbird XLC Martin Eden Nov 2018 #197
Thank you for the info & links. CottonBear Nov 2018 #206
Im a Buddhist ghostsinthemachine Nov 2018 #89
HeY where do you shop for weed? yuiyoshida Nov 2018 #154
In Sacramento ghostsinthemachine Nov 2018 #173
You couldn't pay me enough to go shopping today. bitterross Nov 2018 #90
I never shop on Black Friday, but I like to support Small Business Saturday-- Mrs. Overall Nov 2018 #91
Me, for the most part... better Nov 2018 #93
I don't like crowds, so have never shopped on Black Friday. MoonRiver Nov 2018 #95
Volunteering at the clothing bank ChazII Nov 2018 #96
One stop. Have to pick up my juice cleanse. NoMoreRepugs Nov 2018 #98
First year working a seasonal temp mall retail job Freethinker65 Nov 2018 #99
Ooh, good luck. tanyev Nov 2018 #111
I am sitting in front of a roaring fire with no intention of moving. Pacifist Patriot Nov 2018 #100
Sounds perfect. SMC22307 Nov 2018 #106
No way. I'd rather pay full price than deal with that mess. SMC22307 Nov 2018 #101
Never have, never will. llmart Nov 2018 #102
I have to go to a big box store to get some supplies. Hassin Bin Sober Nov 2018 #103
Nope El Mimbreno Nov 2018 #104
Me. I mostly buy gift cards for my family, well after "Black Friday." muntrv Nov 2018 #105
I've been shopping at malls on the day after thanksgiving since I was a teenager. Iggo Nov 2018 #107
Nope nope nope nope nope. catbyte Nov 2018 #109
Raises hand Borchkins Nov 2018 #110
Me samplegirl Nov 2018 #112
Pajama day agenda: get up, drink coffee. Read for an hour. Get some leftover turkey. Squinch Nov 2018 #113
Yup! Ditto that! nt LAS14 Nov 2018 #126
Not even online. klook Nov 2018 #114
I'm going to get a pedicure. nt Chalco Nov 2018 #115
Not me csziggy Nov 2018 #116
I'm not doing it either MustLoveBeagles Nov 2018 #117
Just food shopping. sellitman Nov 2018 #120
Today Babette Nov 2018 #121
I'll probably do some tbh Loki Liesmith Nov 2018 #122
I never get into the wall street bankster created hysteria elmac Nov 2018 #123
Count me in on the boycott, out on the shopping. nt LAS14 Nov 2018 #124
The odds of me shopping today nevergiveup Nov 2018 #125
I'm not going this year. IrishEyes Nov 2018 #128
Stopped at one store last night Olafjoy Nov 2018 #129
I won't do any Black Friday shopping today Moebym Nov 2018 #130
What Black Friday Shows is How Poor American Consumers Have Become dlk Nov 2018 #131
Not me. I may go to the local grocery store for my mom. CottonBear Nov 2018 #132
I'm buying snow tires. Atman Nov 2018 #133
The last set of snow tires... Oldtimeralso Nov 2018 #228
I have to make a quick run to the grocery store, but The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2018 #134
Ugh, no. Never! smirkymonkey Nov 2018 #135
I'm not shopping today meow2u3 Nov 2018 #136
Never have in my life kimbutgar Nov 2018 #138
You couldn't drag me out of the house today... malthaussen Nov 2018 #139
Each Black Friday I avoid malls but visit small shops in our local mountains. Liberty Belle Nov 2018 #140
Our family stopped doing gifts years ago central scrutinizer Nov 2018 #141
Waiting till tomorrow Progressive dog Nov 2018 #143
Cleaning house after yesterday's family Thanksgiving dinner. Kaleva Nov 2018 #144
staying home kpete Nov 2018 #145
staying home; slept late, lounging around recuperating from Thanksgiving Day; eating leftovers! northoftheborder Nov 2018 #146
me gopiscrap Nov 2018 #147
I see you all started the War on Christmas without me. Tobin S. Nov 2018 #148
Not on a bet. My niece and SIL went out last night, f'godsake... Hekate Nov 2018 #149
Not leaving the house today wryter2000 Nov 2018 #151
NO THANK yoU... yuiyoshida Nov 2018 #152
Yo! nt Hotler Nov 2018 #153
same here. I avoid the plague of black friday like the plague. niyad Nov 2018 #156
Hell no. I worked retail for 13 years TexasBushwhacker Nov 2018 #157
We usually don't leave the house on Black Friday! Blue_playwright Nov 2018 #158
Not spending a dime on or off line. nt Laffy Kat Nov 2018 #159
I'm watching a college football game today {TV} RainCaster Nov 2018 #160
I'm out of milk Retrograde Nov 2018 #161
not i. AllaN01Bear Nov 2018 #162
Traveled home to CA from NYC family wedding yesterday pioche4 Nov 2018 #163
Staying in Nonhlanhla Nov 2018 #164
I'm out Generic Brad Nov 2018 #165
I'm teleworking today, only have a couple short breaks scheduled. haele Nov 2018 #166
Not me Marthe48 Nov 2018 #167
No way no how. MontanaMama Nov 2018 #168
I hate shopping on a normal day. Ohiogal Nov 2018 #169
Kick. Just food to cook at home. zentrum Nov 2018 #170
All online.... Adrahil Nov 2018 #171
It's been many, many years shanti Nov 2018 #172
Me. Not a shopper. Don't like crowds. MaryMagdaline Nov 2018 #175
we are reminded to be exceptionally gracious to service workers today. Grasswire2 Nov 2018 #177
I haven't shopped on Black Friday for 20 years. nt Nay Nov 2018 #178
HELL no. Never have, never will! 50 Shades Of Blue Nov 2018 #179
Never understood why its so imperitive to shop then when deals are on longer LiberalLovinLug Nov 2018 #180
Black Friday is like homegirl Nov 2018 #181
I shop from home, now. Online Black Friday. Then there's Cyber Monday...unless that's at Christmas.n Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #182
No way polmaven Nov 2018 #183
Never have and never will. flying_wahini Nov 2018 #184
I'm tempted to buy a mattress online but NO brick and mortar store shopping. BadGimp Nov 2018 #185
Me neither. Rizen Nov 2018 #186
I'm not going anywhere... TwistOneUp Nov 2018 #187
I won't willingly go anywhere near any retail establishment today. n/t TygrBright Nov 2018 #189
Never have and never will. nancy1942 Nov 2018 #190
Me treestar Nov 2018 #191
Still have nightmares of a Black Friday at Macy*s rocktivity Nov 2018 #192
The last time I went shopping on Black Friday... Different Drummer Nov 2018 #193
Almost went today, but the only thing I wanted to buy wasn't on sale, GoneOffShore Nov 2018 #194
Crossposting from the Lounge...only for Costco fans! shanti Nov 2018 #195
I went to Target this afternoon tammywammy Nov 2018 #198
HOPE !! hubby works p.t. for FRED MEYERS. they have a SUPER-Duper sock sale. he got me 3 pairs trueblue2007 Nov 2018 #199
I remember one year TlalocW Nov 2018 #200
not me pdsimdars Nov 2018 #201
No way in hell Raine Nov 2018 #202
Too many jerks crowding the stores today. DinahMoeHum Nov 2018 #203
Me. Home all day. NT Ilsa Nov 2018 #205
We did buy an Instant Pot online, but that's it. We never go out on Black Friday. Garrett78 Nov 2018 #207
i never liked regular consumerism. prefer used stuff or old stuff. pansypoo53219 Nov 2018 #208
I usually buy Nothing..... but I needed cheese.... alittlelark Nov 2018 #210
Me...n/t ewagner Nov 2018 #211
ME! Never have, never will. Dem2theMax Nov 2018 #212
Took a drive to Bosque del Apache fantase56 Nov 2018 #213
I'm so so so sick of it. It's on the news every freaking year and it's NOT NEWS. Boomerproud Nov 2018 #214
My first and last "Black Friday" shopping happened Niagara Nov 2018 #216
Having more fun in convalescent rehab after spinal fusion surgery last Tuesday. Totally Tunsie Nov 2018 #217
Done with this lunacy of buying and receiving sweaters and shit nobody needs... Hulk Nov 2018 #218
Nope! To much of a circus... oldlibdem Nov 2018 #220
i don't really consider the grocery store orleans Nov 2018 #221
I avoided it totally! jimlup Nov 2018 #222
Ha! Ms. Jack & I stayed in bed until noon watching old (1940's) movies. Jack-o-Lantern Nov 2018 #223
Hell, I didn't even wake up until 9:30! AwakeAtLast Nov 2018 #224
I never go out on Black Friday yellowdogintexas Nov 2018 #226
Not me friend of m and j Nov 2018 #227
I went down to Koeln, met a friend and bought two pair of shoes DFW Nov 2018 #229
Me. fierywoman Nov 2018 #230
OMG. I normally avoid black Friday like the plague. But I went to Kohls Kahuna7 Nov 2018 #231

GoCubsGo

(32,075 posts)
1. Well, except for a trip to the grocery store...
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:11 AM
Nov 2018

And, I would wait until Monday for that if I didn't need eggs, which are on sale, and my coupon is expiring. You couldn't pay me enough to get me into any other sort of store today. I generally hate shopping, and any I will do will likely be online.

True Blue American

(17,981 posts)
85. Same here
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:55 AM
Nov 2018

I had to pick up a Prescription so walked through Krogers. Not too busy , but was kind of surprised to see a couple of women filling their carts with appliances. Knowing full well those bargains will be cheaper before Christmas. It was the usual sale.

My kids suggested money so they coulld go shopping after Christmas sales. that is good if you wait until January as the week after has few sales except Christmas stuff.

 

allgood33

(1,584 posts)
155. I went out for ice, found myself at a SAM's store to pick up a special cheese we like. Store empty.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 01:39 PM
Nov 2018

Shocked the hell out of me because this store is usually very busy over any holiday. I walked right up to one of several, non busy cashiers. I was in and out in less than 6 minutes. There were very few cars on the road and the COSTCO parking lot across the street was only half full (usually can't find parking space except underground).

What is going on?

flibbitygiblets

(7,220 posts)
215. It was a great day for grocery shopping--all the drooling sheeple were at the malls today!
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:54 PM
Nov 2018

It's awesome to go food shopping when all the idiots are elsewhere.

Rhiannon12866

(204,786 posts)
225. Same for me, I don't even like to go to the grocery store during "rush hour"
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 02:10 AM
Nov 2018

Which is late afternoon/early evening around here. When the parking lot is full, I usually decide I don't need anything that desperately.

hlthe2b

(102,138 posts)
3. Me
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:13 AM
Nov 2018

Last edited Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:39 AM - Edit history (1)

to each his own, but the last time I did so was >five years ago in Denver at 5:00 AM Best Buy to get a printer. I still have that laser printer and the ONLY reason I did so then was my printer had literally just died on Thanksgiving Day.

Once was enough.

hlthe2b

(102,138 posts)
59. Yup... An experience I won't repeat, but the cold and darkness with scores of others in line...
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:17 AM
Nov 2018

was only the start... At least I knew what I wanted and could make a beeline to grab it. The people just "looking" amidst the chaos were pretty much sunk.

 

Just a Weirdo

(488 posts)
62. Yes because it had that one item in stock as in ONE
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:20 AM
Nov 2018

Thus the mad dash to get that one unique item to get you to miss and main each other. Last night I ordered from the DTC microcenter to be picked up. I still haven't received confirmation. So I'm in my comfy bed until I hear otherwise.

Hope your Thanksgiving was good! We had our usual Thanksgiving pizza

hlthe2b

(102,138 posts)
66. You too...
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:25 AM
Nov 2018

I eat so much turkey throughout the year that pizza sounds less like an alternative than an absolute treat instead...

 

Just a Weirdo

(488 posts)
68. Us too.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:27 AM
Nov 2018

We eat turkey a few times a year. Plus Thanksgiving isn't really our thing. We just use that week to travel and visit other cities.

This year was Atlanta.

Amsterdammer

(130 posts)
119. If you're still in Atlanta...
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:45 AM
Nov 2018

...and have a hankering for some good bbq, might I suggest Fatt Matt's Rib Shack on Piedmont Ave.

I was raised in K.C., and the ribs here are pretty damn good...high praise from a K.C. boy ;o)

On certain nights they have live blues bands, too.

Be safe, have fun!

TlalocW

(15,374 posts)
204. I've gone out once for my own television
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 07:19 PM
Nov 2018

This is literally the only television I've ever bought in my 46-years on Earth (still have it). For years, I had a really small screen television my mom gave me in high school, and then a friend gave me a large, heavy old-fashioned boxy TV that I gave back to her (she still has it). What I bought was relatively large screen and a good brand of TV that was just over $300 without deals. Got it for under $200. Fortunately, I was in a relatively small town that was just big enough to have a Walmart so even though it was packed, it wasn't sardines tight. They let us in, and you could choose a line to get in for whatever big ticket item you were going for, and they went through the line giving everyone a ticket for that item. When they ran out of tickets, tough luck, and people accepted it and either went to try another line or bought some smaller stuff. They wouldn't sell the big stuff to us before a certain time so we were still waiting an hour before they would take the shrink wrap off the pallets that were in the various aisles. I had a deck of cards on me as I'm a magician so I entertained my line a little bit, and then some of us sat down on the floor and played cards.

It was pretty laid back compared to what I've seen on television.

TlalocW

Raven

(13,879 posts)
4. Not me! For the following reasons:
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:13 AM
Nov 2018

Most my shopping is done and...

it's -3 degrees here this morning.

SallyHemmings

(1,819 posts)
7. Oh my goodness no
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:17 AM
Nov 2018

I picked up hating shopping from my Mum. If I wasn’t snapped like a pear, I would never walk into a store.

Hubby number 2 does the food shopping.

For my best friend, shopping is a sport. Bless her heart.

Yonnie3

(17,422 posts)
9. In general I don't shop on Fridays and especially not this one.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:19 AM
Nov 2018

I do want to fuel the car today, but can avoid the big box stores in doing so.

d_r

(6,907 posts)
12. In our state
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:22 AM
Nov 2018

every state park has a hike today. My son is leading one to a hollow with a cave that has native American cave art. He has been studying his facts (his school partners with the state parks) and I was just wasting time as he is finishing up getting ready. optoutside.

tanyev

(42,522 posts)
15. Do groceries count?
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:26 AM
Nov 2018

My theory is that most everyone else will be at all the other stores and the grocery store will be slow. If I get to the grocery store parking lot and it is packed, I will abandon the mission.

Iggo

(47,535 posts)
92. If you're a loner like me, the trick is to go groc shopping ON thanksgiving.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:06 AM
Nov 2018

The day before is hell. Thursday's a breeze.

tanyev

(42,522 posts)
108. I might try that next year.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:24 AM
Nov 2018

This year we took advantage of no road trip in many, many years to go see an Early Bird movie. Theater was practically empty. It was awesome.

Cha

(296,870 posts)
232. I flew from Albany, New York via
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 05:35 AM
Nov 2018

Dulles in D.C. to Portland, Ore Thanksgiving Day 2008. It was heavenly calm and peaceful.

sarge43

(28,940 posts)
17. No way.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:30 AM
Nov 2018

Scheduled for a hair cut and will stop at the local general store for a few this and thats.

Box stores: "I love humanity; it's people I can't stand."

Lochloosa

(16,061 posts)
18. I confess. Went to Lowe's this morning.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:31 AM
Nov 2018

They had saw blades I wanted 60% off.

Won 5 bucks off also for getting there early.

N_E_1 for Tennis

(9,664 posts)
20. Not going out...
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:32 AM
Nov 2018

Actually charting routes around the stores and malls to avoid the materialistic rush. Visiting family and friends so travel is unavoidable.

Big difference between *want* and *need*. My wife tells me that I’ve never went shopping, “you go buying” says she.

lark

(23,065 posts)
118. I'm having lunch with a friend, then home to ice my back some more.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:43 AM
Nov 2018

My crooked old back is complaining about all the house cleaning I did Wed. The house looked great, all the floors were spic and span, but I' paying the price today. It's ice and iburprofen, both before and after my lunch. Now that I'm retired, my shopping is cut in half and I can do it next week when hubby goes back to his part time job.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
174. Your back too?
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 02:54 PM
Nov 2018

Mine is also feeling the hurt today from all the last minute cleaning and cooking yesterday! Motrin is my friend (and the only thing that works).

silverweb

(16,402 posts)
233. I empathize.
Thu Nov 28, 2019, 03:22 AM
Nov 2019

Thanksgiving here will be a very nice, casual dinner with my son and some friends in our little apartment community. Fortunately, it's being held at a neighbor's apartment this year, not mine, because cleaning (especially floors) is painful due to scoliosis. "Black Friday" had previously been for stay at-home recuperation with ice/heat and ibuprofen. Now, I just relax.

safeinOhio

(32,641 posts)
21. My Friday shopping is over until
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:33 AM
Nov 2018

next spring and yard sales begin again. The deals blow away the Big Box Stores. Then it’ll be back to getting up early again to beat the crowds.

PatSeg

(47,282 posts)
22. Never have and never will
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:34 AM
Nov 2018

I worked in retail for years and busy stores with crazy crowds do not appeal to me.

Croney

(4,657 posts)
24. I'm going to the mall this afternoon.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:35 AM
Nov 2018

My granddaughters, 11 and 13, want to see what Black Friday is all about. There's a reason they call me World's Best Nana.

zeusdogmom

(987 posts)
25. Stopped at my local yarn store on my way to work
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:37 AM
Nov 2018

They were open early and having a good sale on yarn I love. I bought what I was looking for, enjoyed a cup of coffee and chatted with women who were there knitting. Very pleasant and saved a few bucks in the process. Good yarn isn’t cheap!!😃

Delmette2.0

(4,157 posts)
56. Me, too. Never have and never will.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:13 AM
Nov 2018

My only task today is to go to the local hardware store for a new supply line for my toilet. I can go in the side door and be back out in 5 minutes.

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
28. I also went a couple decades ago.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:41 AM
Nov 2018

I said never again. You don't save enough money to put up with all that hassle.

BaileyBill

(171 posts)
29. Just Tractor Supply.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:42 AM
Nov 2018

Great deal on a new air compressor and Elvis, my beagle-mix, is welcome to mingle with the other customers. Things aren't too crazy here in rural Texas. Rest of day dedicated to a long nap.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,007 posts)
32. I just took advantage of a big price cut and got a new phone...from my sofa!
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:44 AM
Nov 2018

replacing my Samsung Galaxy Edge S7 with the new Pixel 3 XL - 400.00 off....can't pass that up and my phone was getting slow and not holding as good a charge - and I need that great camera for my work.

Need OJ and milk - that is the only shopping I will leave the house for today!

onetexan

(13,023 posts)
35. well i typically don't go - just shopping online
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:45 AM
Nov 2018

but since we're @my sister's and to get some exercise with the hubby we're going to the big Nebraska Furniture store here in N. Texas to check it out. Haven't been there since it opened several years ago.

Mr. Ected

(9,670 posts)
36. Yuck! Are you kidding me?
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:45 AM
Nov 2018

Never have, never will. Black Friday brings out the worst in people; it's the jumpstart of a season that should bring peace and generosity but instead means pressure and competition.

forgotmylogin

(7,521 posts)
37. Not at any retail department or big box store for gifts of any kind.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:46 AM
Nov 2018

I might need to swing by the grocery store for water or snacks, but no Christmas shopping.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
38. Lol, not today because we went yesterday. (OMG!)
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:49 AM
Nov 2018

It's an after-turkey tradition with our DIL and some on her side of the family, so I go, help out by standing in long lines, but purchase little. It's a game and social event and generally fun because of that.

Since I tagged along with enthusiasts chasing mostly big items, I came home with only an $8 blouse 50% off its clearance price (the line obligingly stretched past women's clothing), a used book for our grandson because I had us swing by a great bookstore at 11 p.m., what may be terminal aversion therapy for Penney's -- incredible crowds (why?) with lines that literally stretched around the store, and genuine gratitude for on-line shopping.

LOVE shopping from my favorite easy chair.

justhanginon

(3,289 posts)
42. I gave in this year. The local (small town) hardware, sporting goods store had bird seed on sale
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:52 AM
Nov 2018

At 6.99 a bag for a forty pound bag couldn't pass it up. No crowds and they were out of the seed advertised so they gave me two 50 pound bags of their better quality seed for the same price. Yahoo! Damn birds will eat you out of house and home worse than a teenager.

irisblue

(32,932 posts)
44. Groceries
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:55 AM
Nov 2018

Refills on cream & coffee& cat food. Tomorrow is the Michigan-Ohio State game, so the obligatory snack foods.

 

watoos

(7,142 posts)
46. 15 degrees out
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:01 AM
Nov 2018

the birds are hungry, but shouldn't be many people at the feed store.

There was also an 8 point buck in my yard this morning, I thought about getting some corn but I don't want to bait him in for hunting season, here in central Pa. My wife wouldn't like it if I got him shot.

Jarqui

(10,122 posts)
47. My wife manages a store in a major mall
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:05 AM
Nov 2018

Dropped her off at 6:15am.
People were already shopping.
It was cold so I wanted to drop her close to the entrance
Had trouble due to the line of media vehicles there to cover the spending madness.

I do not like shopping except when I get to watch my wife shop (mainly groceries). She tries so hard to please her family - get a good deal and the favorite brand, etc. It's special to watch because you are watching her care for her family.

Otherwise, I don't understand the rest of it. How people can line up in the cold for hours to get some latest fashion thing ... it won't compute.

Glorfindel

(9,720 posts)
50. I won't. I do most of my shopping online nowadays.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:10 AM
Nov 2018

Today, I'm too pooped anyway. It looks to be a beautiful day coming up, so I'll probably take my nephew's dog for a long walk.

KatyaR

(3,445 posts)
51. Not a chance.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:10 AM
Nov 2018

I live 2 blocks from a major shopping mall, Walmart, and an expressway one way, and about a mile from Target, Best Buy, Barnes and Noble, Lowe's, Michael's, Office Depot, etc. the other way. I've learned long ago that if I need to get anywhere from Thanksgiving to New Year's, I need to take a different route. I live in a quiet area, but I have a couple of different ways I can get around the traffic. I may get out tomorrow to get a haircut and some milk, but that's pretty much it for me for the rest of the week.

Happy "Post-Thanksgiving!"

badhair77

(4,208 posts)
53. No thank you. Been there, done that.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:11 AM
Nov 2018

I might do some online shopping. I’ll wait till tomorrow for the small-list grocery run since today’s temps are too cold.

Baltimike

(4,138 posts)
54. taking the car for emissions testing...
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:12 AM
Nov 2018

were it not for procrastination, I wouldn't be spending one red cent this day

 

Just a Weirdo

(488 posts)
55. I'm shopping
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:13 AM
Nov 2018

Because I have work to do in getting a 90 year old client a refurbished all in one computer set up.

He may be old but hes still very active.

Sancho

(9,067 posts)
60. I'm going to an equally insane activity - tailgating at a football game!
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:17 AM
Nov 2018

Tomorrow, my wife wants me to get decorations out of the shed so she can get ready for the holidays.

There are plenty of crazy things to do without shopping on Black Friday!

The Genealogist

(4,723 posts)
63. Not going near it
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:21 AM
Nov 2018

I don't have money to spend on consumer goods, and I've seen how people act st these things, up to and including pepper spraying a crowd of people to get some silly piece of merchandise for a small discount, and trampling people to death to get a free video game or something. Considering too how hateful people have gotten since Trumpmcsme in, just no thanks.

helpisontheway

(5,005 posts)
67. I LOVE Black Friday shopping...HOWEVER, I will not be going this year because
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:26 AM
Nov 2018

I have already completed most of my shopping. A few stores offered me Black Friday prices early so I already purchased the major gifts. I might get a few stocking stuffers for my older "kids" but I already purchased stocking stuffers for my youngest son (during our recent trip and on Amazon). Also, if there was something that I REALLY wanted then I could avoid crowds and purchase online... I do LOVE going out to the stores while sipping on a Starbucks drink though. Oh the sound of Christmas music in the background while I find the perfect gift for a loved one.. Plus we would go eat at Chick Fil A afterwards. Fun times...

Boomer

(4,167 posts)
69. Couldn't pay me to go shopping today.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:28 AM
Nov 2018

I plan on staying at home as much of this weekend as possible, to avoid the shoppers.

Freddie

(9,257 posts)
70. I am done shopping
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:29 AM
Nov 2018

My tablet and Visa are done and I’m even mostly wrapped. Waiting for a couple small things. Today DH and I are making our annual trip upstate to chop down a tree. He usually has to work Black Friday so this is a treat.

Bettie

(16,076 posts)
72. Nope. I hate crowds
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:31 AM
Nov 2018

and I hate going to stores where I can't get to things. As I'm an at-home mom, I do my holiday shopping on, like Wednesday mornings when the stores are nearly empty.

 

Fuzzpope

(602 posts)
75. Here.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:37 AM
Nov 2018

Frak that nonsense, i’m not some windup toy mindlessly plowing into others, careening madly towards debt in the ugliest wealth harvesting scheme in the country.

Consumerism in its highest form, a pure madness like a financial rabies. People stampeding, shooting each other like witless beasts for a metallic red blender that’ll be busted in two months, nope.

Thank you, Bernays. Your pet monster lives on well after you lay forgotten.

 

47of74

(18,470 posts)
77. Probably not.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:42 AM
Nov 2018

When I worked in retail I had to work black Friday’s. So I’d really rather not go shopping then.

I’m working today but it’s a slow day since most of the team is off. I’m going to do some maintenance stuff today.

dameatball

(7,395 posts)
79. Not me. No way. My 98 year old neighbor always gets my Sunday paper when I am done with it.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:43 AM
Nov 2018

Yesterday her daughter came over and noticed the Thursday paper on the walkway. I told her to just take it to her mom. It had all the Black Friday ads in it. I have a feeling that the daughter will now have to make a shopping trip today. Good luck to her.

Solly Mack

(90,758 posts)
81. Oh, my, no. I'm far too grumpy for that much crazy.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:47 AM
Nov 2018

I find myself in the calmest of times wanting to body check people with my buggy. I hate it when people hog the aisle or block the shelves.



duforsure

(11,885 posts)
82. Not me,
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:47 AM
Nov 2018

Don't plan on spending on anything I can keep from spending on until trump's out of office, but especially this weekend. Even gasoline from not driving any more than I have too. I am retired so it makes that much easier for me to do. Stocked up and ready to set and wait.

marlakay

(11,428 posts)
83. Driving into the mountains on way home
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:49 AM
Nov 2018

Today. We were lucky to travel between storms yesterday and only got a bit of wind and fog instead of bad rain or snow.

Decided to take our time going back staying in Mt Shasta City tonight. Rain predicted but tips of mountains are filled with snow and pretty.

Much better than shopping.

Also lucky to get first clean air day in bay area boy did they need it after fire.

marlakay

(11,428 posts)
219. Yes we were in Sacramento
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:01 PM
Nov 2018

Visiting family and the fresh air was to be thankful for!

I ended up stopping in Redding at Cost Plus because we don’t have that store in Oregon and I like it.

Martin Eden

(12,847 posts)
88. Does an online purchase count?
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:58 AM
Nov 2018

Backpacking is a recreational activity I enjoy. I sleep in a hammock, and my favorite American cottage industry maker of this specialty gear has a sale once a year on Black Friday. I'm looking to upgrade the tarp that hangs over the hammock I bought from Warbonnet last year

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
188. Good tip! I need to buy a hammock tarp for my son.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 04:26 PM
Nov 2018

He’s started hammock comping with his Scout Pack. He needs a good rainfly. We’ve been using a plastic tarp. I need a hammock too!

I really enjoy camping with my son. It’s great to get outside and into nature.
⛰ 🌲 ⛺️ 🌲 🔥 🌲 ⛺️ 🌲 ⛰

Martin Eden

(12,847 posts)
197. I highly recommend the Warbonnet Blackbird XLC
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 06:34 PM
Nov 2018

It is cut so you sleep a slight angle to the hang, which means you're fairly flat instead of bent like a banana. It has an integrated net to keep bugs out, double layers (one of the options) on the bottom side for an insulating pad (though an underquilt is needed in colder temps), and a stash pocket off to the side for things you may need to reach. There a a variety of tarps to choose from. I bought the Mountainfly. Here's a link to the Warbonnet site. 25% off ends today, I think.

The best source of information for hammock camping is at the Hammock Forums community.

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
206. Thank you for the info & links.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 07:32 PM
Nov 2018

Hammock camping is a whole new adventure! There is a lot to learn.

Thanks again!

ghostsinthemachine

(3,569 posts)
89. Im a Buddhist
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:01 AM
Nov 2018

But I will go shopping today. Pet Food.

And a cannabis dispensary.

Then to Fleetwood Mac in Sacramento.
I do love the holiday decirations downtown. I really love San Francisco during the Holidays. So beautiful.

ghostsinthemachine

(3,569 posts)
173. In Sacramento
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 02:51 PM
Nov 2018

Only for extracts, vape cartridges. I grow my own flowers and make my own medicinal oils, but wont make waxes or vape oils so Ive gotta hit a store up for em.

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
90. You couldn't pay me enough to go shopping today.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:02 AM
Nov 2018

I actually volunteer to work on our tech support line on Black Friday so people with families can have the three-day weekend. So, I'd rather work than endure shopping!

Mrs. Overall

(6,839 posts)
91. I never shop on Black Friday, but I like to support Small Business Saturday--
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:03 AM
Nov 2018

by doing a little shopping at either online small businesses or brick and mortar businesses in my area.

better

(884 posts)
93. Me, for the most part...
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:07 AM
Nov 2018

I may have to bite the bullet and head down to the auto parts store and pick up a new gas cap to (hopefully) clear the evap emissions code on my van so I can pass inspection, but other than that, I'm staying home where it's nice and warm, or at least will be once we get our dead furnace replaced!

ChazII

(6,202 posts)
96. Volunteering at the clothing bank
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:10 AM
Nov 2018

that my church runs on MWF. Other than that I am staying a home and off the roads.

Freethinker65

(10,001 posts)
99. First year working a seasonal temp mall retail job
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:13 AM
Nov 2018

About to leave for my shift in a bit.

I never really shopped Black Friday sales though. I was usually on my way home from spending Thanksgiving with family. I guess I finally will get to see some of the frenzy in person.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
106. Sounds perfect.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:22 AM
Nov 2018

Enjoy! I'll be taking the dog for a long walk, raking some leaves, then plopping in front of a "roaring" firepit on the deck.


SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
101. No way. I'd rather pay full price than deal with that mess.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:15 AM
Nov 2018

And considering I'm not that big of a consumer to begin with, the hit wouldn't be much of hardship.

The Macy's Christmas Store turned me off years ago -- boxes and boxes of Cheap$hitFromChina had just been delivered and all I could see was excess, exploited workers, CEO greed, plastic, etc. Not very Christmas-y. Plus, fights breaking out at big-box stores over cheap electronics? Happy Birthday, Jesus!

llmart

(15,533 posts)
102. Never have, never will.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:17 AM
Nov 2018

Heck, I barely shop for much of anything any more. I have everything I need as do my grown children, who have more than they need. I purchased two small toys for my granddaughter online about three weeks ago.

I despise "recreational shopping". It's taken the entire holiday of Christmas and ruined it.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,315 posts)
103. I have to go to a big box store to get some supplies.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:17 AM
Nov 2018

I don’t want to sit around like a slug all weekend so we are installing some can lights and ceiling fans for my mother in law.

El Mimbreno

(777 posts)
104. Nope
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:21 AM
Nov 2018

No need to, big box stores are 100 miles away and I need to work in my woodshop getting stuff ready for the artisans holiday market next weekend.

muntrv

(14,505 posts)
105. Me. I mostly buy gift cards for my family, well after "Black Friday."
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:21 AM
Nov 2018

Besides, I am working today.

Iggo

(47,535 posts)
107. I've been shopping at malls on the day after thanksgiving since I was a teenager.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:23 AM
Nov 2018

I go alone. I take the bus. (I suppose uber would work, too, but I pay for a monthly bus pass, so why not use it...) Bus drops me off right at the front door of the mall. I'm in. I'm out. Back on the bus, and I'm gone.

Being alone in a crowd for me is...exhilirating, I guess. I like it. It's kinda like the same feeling I get when I'm at an outdoor metal show and I take off from the group to go to the head or the concession stand. I love moving through a sea of people toward my destination. Trying to keep up with others or waiting for others to catch up to me kinda sucks. But if I'm alone, I'm golden.

LOL. Pardon the therapy session there.

But yeah, I go every year.

Squinch

(50,918 posts)
113. Pajama day agenda: get up, drink coffee. Read for an hour. Get some leftover turkey.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:31 AM
Nov 2018

Wash a few dishes. Put a couple of things away. Repeat hourly throughout the day, alternating turkey, pie, turnips, lemon cake, very nice dinner rolls for the food part.

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
116. Not me
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:38 AM
Nov 2018

The only reason I might leave the house today is if the car I looked at on Tuesday has checked out with the mechanics. Then I might drive across town and close the deal for it.

Sometime next week my husband or I will go to a bookstore and buy a stack of gift cards for our great nephews. I used to pick books for our nieces and nephews but I don't know this generation as well and am out of touch with children's books. So we now send them gift cards and each child gets to go to the bookstore, pick out their own books, and learn how to spread their own funds around.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,583 posts)
117. I'm not doing it either
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:42 AM
Nov 2018

Even as a kid I never saw the appeal of it, but I've never liked crowds anyway. The dubious "deals" aren't worth trouble and aggravation.

sellitman

(11,605 posts)
120. Just food shopping.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:49 AM
Nov 2018

Nothing else.

Love a four day weekend though. Needed to re-charge the batteries.

Babette

(818 posts)
121. Today
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:51 AM
Nov 2018

I put together two boxes to donate to the Salvation Army this weekend (they're the only place around here that takes donations).

nevergiveup

(4,756 posts)
125. The odds of me shopping today
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 11:58 AM
Nov 2018

are the same as the odds of me voting Republican. Today I will be freezing my ass raking leaves. It took them forever to fall and temps are way below normal.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
128. I'm not going this year.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:06 PM
Nov 2018

I usually go Black Friday with my friend but she is out of town this year. I wouldn't do Black Friday by myself. We will do a shopping day some time in December instead.

Olafjoy

(937 posts)
129. Stopped at one store last night
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:07 PM
Nov 2018

It gave me a great excuse to bow out when the overdrinkers started LOUD TALKING about nonsense. Picked up a few gifts. Apologized to cashier for her having to work on Thanksgiving but she said she didn’t mind. Gave her an excuse to get out of her house as well 😂 Son went to visit friend who works at Best Buy. Said he was glad to get out of there alive. Today is for decorating.
Wishing everyone joy and comfort.

Moebym

(989 posts)
130. I won't do any Black Friday shopping today
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:10 PM
Nov 2018

But I did buy myself the gift of a Nintendo Switch right as doorbusters went online late Wednesday night on Best Buy's website.

No more waiting in a physical line for me, though; I tried it once many years back, and it was not worth it. Besides, with stores now opening on Thanksgiving Day, I feel awful for the employees forced to work long hours for inconsiderate shoppers.

dlk

(11,514 posts)
131. What Black Friday Shows is How Poor American Consumers Have Become
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:11 PM
Nov 2018

Wages have been depressed for decades. If the minimum wage from the 1990's was adjusted for inflation (and not increased), it would be around $22/hr. today. Many jobs today only pay half that, or less. It's a challenge for too many Americans just to live indoors. Shoppers look to Black Friday specials to afford Christmas gifts. What an oligarchy we have become!

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
132. Not me. I may go to the local grocery store for my mom.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:13 PM
Nov 2018

Can’t afford to shop. I Don’t need anything anyway.

I’m going to enjoy a day off with my family.

Oldtimeralso

(1,935 posts)
228. The last set of snow tires...
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 03:16 AM
Nov 2018

The last set of snow tires I bought, melted on the trip home🤗😋😉

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,610 posts)
134. I have to make a quick run to the grocery store, but
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:19 PM
Nov 2018

apart from that there's no way I'm doing any serious shopping today. I hate malls on a good day, and today would not be a good day.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
135. Ugh, no. Never!
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:23 PM
Nov 2018

Sounds like my biggest nightmare. I don't like shopping and I hate crowds so there's no way I would subject myself to that.

I'm not buying much this year anyway, but almost all my shopping will be done online.

meow2u3

(24,759 posts)
136. I'm not shopping today
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:24 PM
Nov 2018

I not only hate the unruly crowds, I also can't stomach the fact that you can't find a parking spot within human distance from the stores. Deep discounts are not worth the hassle of stampedes.

kimbutgar

(21,056 posts)
138. Never have in my life
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:36 PM
Nov 2018

I’ve always been a shopper of good deals if you’re look around on any day. Or buy it second hand.

Liberty Belle

(9,533 posts)
140. Each Black Friday I avoid malls but visit small shops in our local mountains.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:42 PM
Nov 2018

Sometimes I'll stop at one of the local wineries that now offer "purple Friday" deals and bring home a couple of bottles of wine. This year a mulled wine kit is on my list for my holiday party. I'll visit a mountain town and shop at their unique gift shops offering things like locally made jams and jellies, hand-knitted scarves, wood carvings, pottery, art, hand-crafted jewelry, a gems and mineral shop, local herb farm, camel dairy that makes soaps and lotions in aromas like myrhh and frankincense, a alpaca farm with soft, warm woolen goods, for my holiday shopping. I may stop in for lunch at a mom and pop restaurant and bring home a Julian apple pie for the family, too.

Shopping only online is forcing many businesses under, so while that may be fine if you're lookiing for a TV or other big box store type item since those stores also have an online presence, please remember to help the local stores, farms, artists and artisans that add to the character of communities.

central scrutinizer

(11,637 posts)
141. Our family stopped doing gifts years ago
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:47 PM
Nov 2018

Except for handmade stuff - lots of knitters in the family. We each put $25 in a hat along with the name of a non profit we want to support. A name is drawn and we bundle the money and mail it.

Kaleva

(36,259 posts)
144. Cleaning house after yesterday's family Thanksgiving dinner.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 12:57 PM
Nov 2018

It's in the low 40's today so I may hang up the icicle Christmas lights around the roof of the front veranda. Did the dishes, doing laundry, picked up the toys the grandchildren were playing with, bagged the garbage, fed the wild turkeys, fed the worms in the worm farm, topped of the two 5 gallon buckets of sauerkraut I made a few days ago with salt water,

Blue_playwright

(1,568 posts)
158. We usually don't leave the house on Black Friday!
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 01:44 PM
Nov 2018

But it’s my eldest daughters 18th so we are taking her out for lunch.

Then coming home to hide.

pioche4

(114 posts)
163. Traveled home to CA from NYC family wedding yesterday
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 02:04 PM
Nov 2018

Enjoying my family sleeping in and cuddling with our furries, and that our NorCal air is not smoky after the couple of blessed rainy days.

Other than groceries later, I’m putting money toward the animal rescue for the fire.

https://www.nvadg.org/

Please consider a very worth cause of helping reunify families with their pets, and the enormous effort to care for them until they are reunified.

Nonhlanhla

(2,074 posts)
164. Staying in
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 02:06 PM
Nov 2018

Bought groceries on Tuesday. Staying inside on this freezing day. I did buy some quilting fabric online.

haele

(12,640 posts)
166. I'm teleworking today, only have a couple short breaks scheduled.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 02:25 PM
Nov 2018

And my feet hurt too much from all the standing and cooking I did yesterday. Someone else can wade through the "bargain hunters".
We do Kickstarters and Etsy - or the occasional gift card = for Xmas and birthday gifts, anyway. For the "winter clothes" and grandkid's seasonal clothes requirements, we go to consignment and thrift stores, so we're already getting the bargains.

Haele

Marthe48

(16,905 posts)
167. Not me
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 02:33 PM
Nov 2018

If I shop for Christmas, I wait till closer to Dec. 25. I want the Christmas holiday to be as short as possible. tree and decorations up 12/15, baking 12/17, wrap presents 12/24 at 2 am. Get the tree down 1/1 and done until the next time.

I went shopping on black Friday once. I remember when it was called the day after Thanksgiving.

MontanaMama

(23,296 posts)
168. No way no how.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 02:38 PM
Nov 2018

Came into work to write paychecks for our employees - most of whom are off work today and when that's done I'm going right back home to hang out with my kiddo. I don't even have Thanksgiving with my sister any more because she and her family are out shopping by 6pm on Thanksgiving evening!! It's ridiculous.

Ohiogal

(31,921 posts)
169. I hate shopping on a normal day.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 02:43 PM
Nov 2018

Hubby and I went to buy dog food b/c we had a coupon almost ready to expire. Came straight home.

He is more of a shopper and browser than I am.

I have a friend whose in-laws shop like it's a favorite hobby.... They just love stores ...Ugh, not me.

I've been cooking and cleaning for two days. I plan to spend the afternoon on the couch with a book. And we're having takeout pizz a for dinner. 😁

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
171. All online....
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 02:48 PM
Nov 2018

though I do think I will shop for a sofa sometime this weekend... desperately need a new one.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
172. It's been many, many years
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 02:48 PM
Nov 2018

since I stepped foot in a store on Black Friday. It literally makes my blood pressure rise just thinking about it. And to think some people are energized by it!

Grasswire2

(13,565 posts)
177. we are reminded to be exceptionally gracious to service workers today.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 03:05 PM
Nov 2018

Our old friend Will Pitt has written a beautiful tribute to service workers facing hell today. Be kind. Smile. Say thanks. If you must go. (I won't copy Will's piece here, to avoid a fight.)

LiberalLovinLug

(14,165 posts)
180. Never understood why its so imperitive to shop then when deals are on longer
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 03:19 PM
Nov 2018

....past Black Friday all the way to Christmas, and to the new year.

Sure you may not get the door crasher 50% off deal, but you might get a 40% off deal somewhere else if you look around in the following weeks. Most retailers will be having sales to drive customers into their shops all way up to Christmas. And then they have sales to get rid of old and excessive stock before the new year.

Its a big scam.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
182. I shop from home, now. Online Black Friday. Then there's Cyber Monday...unless that's at Christmas.n
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 03:36 PM
Nov 2018

rocktivity

(44,572 posts)
192. Still have nightmares of a Black Friday at Macy*s
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 05:45 PM
Nov 2018

several DECADES ago.

I stock up and don't leave the house -- I don't even shop online.


rocktivity

Different Drummer

(7,606 posts)
193. The last time I went shopping on Black Friday...
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 06:16 PM
Nov 2018

it took over an hour for me to get from a big box store less than a mile from a local mall to the mall itself. This was maybe about ten years ago and I haven't left the house even briefly on subsequent Black Fridays.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
198. I went to Target this afternoon
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 06:46 PM
Nov 2018

I needed shampoo, conditioner and cat food. Store was a little busier than when I go after work normally, but I was in and out quickly.

Ulta has Not Your Mothers on BOGO and there's some of their shampoos I've been wanting to try. I ordered two shampoos and a Big Sexy Hair root volumnizer (also big discount) online. I also ordered a video game off Amazon last night that was a good deal.

Last night I also hit three stores looking for something specific, but I got to the stores an hour or two after they opened so they were sold out. The stores were busy but not crazy mobs.

trueblue2007

(17,194 posts)
199. HOPE !! hubby works p.t. for FRED MEYERS. they have a SUPER-Duper sock sale. he got me 3 pairs
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 06:52 PM
Nov 2018

3 pairs of Christmas socks. 2 pairs Santa socks and 1 pair Christmas cats.

We are having Chicken Curry sandwiches tonight with FRENCH FRIES !!!! Tomorrow i will do us a turkey dinner. we always to to my sisters and i do us a small turkey with all the goodies day or 2 after thanksgiving.

God bless you all. I hope you all had a marvelous thanksgiving.

TlalocW

(15,374 posts)
200. I remember one year
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 06:58 PM
Nov 2018

One of my nieces went out earl for Black Friday because her mom and dad wanted her to go get a flat screen television that they would pay her for. They were going to give it to her brother as an Xmas gift. Brother-in-law asked me later that day to go with him to help get it in the car. As it wasn't a huge TV, I went along with him just for funsies and to see his reaction when we picked up a 20 pound package together. He almost fell over putting too much effort into it.

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DinahMoeHum

(21,774 posts)
203. Too many jerks crowding the stores today.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 07:07 PM
Nov 2018

No online shopping bullshit for me either.

I do my holiday shopping locally, in leisurely time, shopping at local stores that have been around for decades.

Garrett78

(10,721 posts)
207. We did buy an Instant Pot online, but that's it. We never go out on Black Friday.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 07:45 PM
Nov 2018

Have you ever watched The Story of Stuff?

alittlelark

(18,890 posts)
210. I usually buy Nothing..... but I needed cheese....
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 08:00 PM
Nov 2018

...Which led to chocolate kisses and cranberry juice.

Dem2theMax

(9,641 posts)
212. ME! Never have, never will.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 08:36 PM
Nov 2018

I hate crowds. I don't care how much money I could save, I will never go to a Black Friday sale, or any other sale for that matter. In fact, I will avoid any store but the grocery store until about mid-January. I do this every year. Takes a lot of stress out of the holidays.

fantase56

(442 posts)
213. Took a drive to Bosque del Apache
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 08:39 PM
Nov 2018

Wildlife Refuge in New Mexico..... Beat the hell out of any alternative

Niagara

(7,565 posts)
216. My first and last "Black Friday" shopping happened
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:55 PM
Nov 2018

21 years ago.

Now all my shopping is done online.

Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
217. Having more fun in convalescent rehab after spinal fusion surgery last Tuesday.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:55 PM
Nov 2018

Lots of pain, but good drugs!

You couldn't pay me enough to be in the stores today!

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
218. Done with this lunacy of buying and receiving sweaters and shit nobody needs...
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:59 PM
Nov 2018

I give money. I’m done shopping. Bah, humbug. My days of throwing money out the window to say “I love you, and you matter to me” are over.

Black Friday...Boxer Day, or whatever the hell its called are dead and gone to this old boy. I give my wife flowers and cash, and I honestly don’t want anything! Bought a pair of $175 New Balance shoes for myself and my wife. I guess that’s my “Christmas” splurge.

This is all one seriously stupid event. I’m down in central Mexico now, and the thing I love the most is NONE of that superficial crap to deal with. Decorate if you want...go to church, if that’s your thing...but you don’t see people fighting over X-boxes, or some silly “made in China” shit. It’s heaven...especially for us “Bah Humbuggers”.

oldlibdem

(330 posts)
220. Nope! To much of a circus...
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:17 PM
Nov 2018

But, I did get a new watch for 40% off at the supermarket today. (Meijer's)

Jack-o-Lantern

(966 posts)
223. Ha! Ms. Jack & I stayed in bed until noon watching old (1940's) movies.
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 12:02 AM
Nov 2018

Who in God's name would go out into 20 degrees temperatures with snow on the ground (Michigan), and stand in line at 4 AM to get 20% off on a toaster??
If it came to that we would simply “exchange glances” on Christmas.

AwakeAtLast

(14,123 posts)
224. Hell, I didn't even wake up until 9:30!
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 12:40 AM
Nov 2018

We did go to dinner at a local restaurant. Steak was superb!

yellowdogintexas

(22,231 posts)
226. I never go out on Black Friday
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 02:29 AM
Nov 2018

I briefly considered getting a haircut and going to the bank and decided not to go even though those places would not be in the line of fire so to speak

friend of m and j

(220 posts)
227. Not me
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 03:00 AM
Nov 2018

I don't have to put up with all that craziness. I live in Mexico in a relative small town and when I get ready to buy gifts for Christmas I just go to the local market and buy some gifts that folks back home will think "look at these beautiful gifts that were make by some artisan in Mexico (probably made in China).

DFW

(54,302 posts)
229. I went down to Koeln, met a friend and bought two pair of shoes
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 03:22 AM
Nov 2018

My Friday appointment in Stuttgart was postponed late Thursday, and I don't know when I'll get another day off.

Kahuna7

(2,531 posts)
231. OMG. I normally avoid black Friday like the plague. But I went to Kohls
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 05:35 AM
Nov 2018

with and for my granddaughter who lives in another state, and I was ending my visit today. Oy! I went after noon, to avoid the crazies. The crazies were gone, but there were two lines that wrapped around the store. It took an hour to checkout. Never again.

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