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EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 05:30 PM Dec 2018

Let's be real: EVERY president and most senators and MOCs have done things in office we can condemn

Every single president in modern times has pursued, advanced and implemented policies that we find abhorent. All of them have knowingly taken actions that foreseeably resulted in the deaths of innocent people. All of them have given orders to kill people (for example, Obama's orders to kill bin Laden and the Somali pirates - and those are just ones we know about). All of them have made decisions that balanced the good of some against the good of others.

By the same token, virtually every senator and Member of Congress has voted for and supported actions and policies that were arguably immoral - war resolutions, arms sales, etc.

So, if we feel morally compelled to trash George H.W. Bush on the day he died because we believe he engaged in immoral behavior in public office, we should be prepared to condemn every single other public official for their immorality, including those we love and support, such as President Obama, Bernie Sanders, Maxine Waters, Joe Biden, etc. - and extend that condemnation to ourselves for endorsing and electing them.

Or, we can recognize that governing - like life itself - is extraordinarily complicated and doesn't always lend itself to cut-and-dried, black-and-white moral judgments.

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Let's be real: EVERY president and most senators and MOCs have done things in office we can condemn (Original Post) EffieBlack Dec 2018 OP
K & R sdfernando Dec 2018 #1
Yep. cwydro Dec 2018 #2
It's kind of a different thing when your kacekwl Dec 2018 #3
Where do you draw the line? EffieBlack Dec 2018 #7
Where do you draw it? melman Dec 2018 #16
Well, Michelle Obama says he's a swell guy, so probably, yes SammyWinstonJack Dec 2018 #40
How about NewJeffCT Dec 2018 #45
I can't agree with that melman Dec 2018 #49
I don't draw a line. One casualty caused kacekwl Dec 2018 #47
I completely agree. betsuni Dec 2018 #4
You're braver than me. DemocratSinceBirth Dec 2018 #5
Not brave. Just weary of the sanctimony EffieBlack Dec 2018 #10
Behaving exactly like them? Lordquinton Dec 2018 #36
you forgot the part where reagon with bush at his side questionseverything Dec 2018 #56
There's so much that went on Lordquinton Dec 2018 #59
Viet Nam was the Democrats' war . . . . that later got transferred to the GOP. Stinky The Clown Dec 2018 #13
No, I can't. I'll never gloss over anybody's racist actions, dead or alive. lilactime Dec 2018 #6
Very much wisdom here in your words GusBob Dec 2018 #8
Nor can a president's tenure be judged by a single policy decision ProudLib72 Dec 2018 #9
i'm sure the "news networks" will remind us all next week what a great president he was elmac Dec 2018 #11
Post removed Post removed Dec 2018 #12
Both sides XRubicon Dec 2018 #14
"Cash for Clunkers." What a dumb idea that was. mahatmakanejeeves Dec 2018 #35
LOL. XRubicon Dec 2018 #38
That was abhorrent? Maybe on breitbart, Fox News and Hannidate.com Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2018 #39
no one was forced to scrap old vehicles LSFL Dec 2018 #55
Yes. One standard for all. Hortensis Dec 2018 #15
Where did you find your Mueller quote? I've seen it a few times now, and I'm just curious as to politicaljunkie41910 Dec 2018 #25
Which one is it? Hortensis Dec 2018 #54
The one that always shows up as a quote at the end of your most recents posts. politicaljunkie41910 Dec 2018 #60
Oh, duh! :) It's from Mueller's historic indictment Hortensis Dec 2018 #61
politics is hard Hermit-The-Prog Dec 2018 #17
I agree EffieBlack Dec 2018 #19
Would You Be Interested In Purchasing A Bridge Hermit? PaulX2 Dec 2018 #26
how many terms as president did you give up? Hermit-The-Prog Dec 2018 #58
And everyone, not just presidents and MOC, have to make choices that are less than perfect erronis Dec 2018 #18
We are not "better" - everybody is a mix of good/bad. Death does not absolve bad-overall of badness. UTUSN Dec 2018 #20
No. No one is obliged to do anything EffieBlack Dec 2018 #21
As does setting judgment markers for what others do. UTUSN Dec 2018 #22
How ironic ... EffieBlack Dec 2018 #29
Thank you, Effie Stinky The Clown Dec 2018 #23
One other exception besides the current squatter in the White House wryter2000 Dec 2018 #31
I've got just one thing to say. watoos Dec 2018 #24
Historical revisionism is harmful. guillaumeb Dec 2018 #27
What a bunch of crap... curiouso Dec 2018 #28
Exactly. No "both sides do it" crap. sharedvalues Dec 2018 #62
Look at it this way... cos dem Dec 2018 #30
Or we can acknowledge that there are limits on what any society that calls itself civilized should Downtown Hound Dec 2018 #32
Let's be really real thegoose Dec 2018 #33
We can't whitewash the past ZeroSomeBrains Dec 2018 #34
Not, as such. Prof.Higgins Dec 2018 #37
I'm with you, EffieBlack. BadgerMom Dec 2018 #41
He was ok Ciaphas Cain Dec 2018 #42
Don't the right wingnuts do enough condemning of Democrats for all of us? Curmudgeoness Dec 2018 #43
KnR and good luck Hekate Dec 2018 #44
You mustn't be Latin American then. a la izquierda Dec 2018 #46
We should make a list of the decisions that each president made that has made our world worse. Baitball Blogger Dec 2018 #48
Yes Jake Stern Dec 2018 #50
The most obvious point missed in this OP is that presidential legacies differ widely. BlueWI Dec 2018 #51
No, not at all. Republicans used racist dogwhistles for years. MUCH more than Dems sharedvalues Dec 2018 #52
Right on! tymorial Dec 2018 #53
So now we can't criticize Republcans edhopper Dec 2018 #57
 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
2. Yep.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 05:50 PM
Dec 2018

Obama allowed the fucking oil company to use Corexit on the spill.

It’s still killing marine life and will for years,

I’ll never forget that.

kacekwl

(7,016 posts)
3. It's kind of a different thing when your
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 05:54 PM
Dec 2018

whole family has a pattern of policies that are abhorrent. Millions of dead and disfigured mentally and physically people can attest to.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
7. Where do you draw the line?
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:25 PM
Dec 2018

It's immoral to kill and disfigure millions but tens or thousands or hundreds of thousands is ok?

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
49. I can't agree with that
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 09:15 PM
Dec 2018

I never celebrate any person's death. I agree it's bad taste to do that.

But I don't believe you should have to pretend they weren't who they really were. There has to be something in between.

kacekwl

(7,016 posts)
47. I don't draw a line. One casualty caused
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 09:10 PM
Dec 2018

by lies and deception to start a war is criminal. My point is the Bush family has millions of U.S. and forgien victims to answer to but by no means the only guilty parties.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
5. You're braver than me.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:22 PM
Dec 2018

I see the Vietnam War and meddling in Latin America being hung on the heads of the Repubs when both parties were responsible.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
10. Not brave. Just weary of the sanctimony
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:29 PM
Dec 2018

Especially from folk who believe they're morally superior to the other side while behaving exactly like them.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
36. Behaving exactly like them?
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:52 PM
Dec 2018

Enacting racist policies, letting an entire generation get afflicted by a plague, setting the stage for trump, setting up your son to carry on your destruction legacy, meddling in other countries so they are effected decades later?

But pointing all that out is just as bad as having done it.

questionseverything

(9,646 posts)
56. you forgot the part where reagon with bush at his side
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 10:05 PM
Dec 2018

infected the inner cities with cocaine to pay for illegal wars as reagon/bush were promoting the war on drugs

btw that was after they had conspired with iran to steal the election from jimmy carter

but heaven knows that might offend someone

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
59. There's so much that went on
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 10:20 PM
Dec 2018

I can understand why some just want to view the years between WWII ending and now as one long vacation.

GusBob

(7,286 posts)
8. Very much wisdom here in your words
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:25 PM
Dec 2018

So turn it around.

If Hillary Clinton were President now there would be some scandal hey?

But nothing like this shit show

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
9. Nor can a president's tenure be judged by a single policy decision
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:28 PM
Dec 2018

But all of his policy decisions must be weighed together.

 

elmac

(4,642 posts)
11. i'm sure the "news networks" will remind us all next week what a great president he was
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:43 PM
Dec 2018

it will be non stop hand wringing, tear wiping, spectacular ceremonies befitting a king. In the mean time, tRump gets a bad press break.

Response to EffieBlack (Original post)

XRubicon

(2,212 posts)
14. Both sides
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:50 PM
Dec 2018

Last edited Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:32 PM - Edit history (1)



"Every single president in modern times has pursued, advanced and implemented policies that we find abhorent."

Speak for yourself.

ETA: Name something Obama did that was abhorent.

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,359 posts)
35. "Cash for Clunkers." What a dumb idea that was.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:52 PM
Dec 2018

It took inexpensive, running cars, the kind of cars that poor people could afford, and destroyed them. The cars might not have been up to your standards, but they would have worked to take someone who could not have afforded anything else to school, to work, to the grocery store -- whatever.

Instead, they were lectured by those who could afford to pay more: "let them eat cake."

That job you wanted, but it was ten miles away? Forget it. That school you might have attended? Better luck next time.

"Cash for Clunkers" was an awful idea from the word "go."

mahatmakanejeeves

LSFL

(1,109 posts)
55. no one was forced to scrap old vehicles
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 09:57 PM
Dec 2018

I did the math and kept my pubble jumpers. My jeep was 21 years old and i sold it to a coworker. He still drives it today. My grand vitara is 18 years old and I drive it to work.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
15. Yes. One standard for all.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:53 PM
Dec 2018

Republicans, Democrats, GHWS, Clinton, Hillary, Pelosi, every race, every religion. Etcetera.

And never forgetting that we must elect imperfect people who must work with many unknowns in a very imperfect world.

politicaljunkie41910

(3,335 posts)
25. Where did you find your Mueller quote? I've seen it a few times now, and I'm just curious as to
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:13 PM
Dec 2018

when it was said and the context in which it was said. Not try to be critical or anything, just curious.

politicaljunkie41910

(3,335 posts)
60. The one that always shows up as a quote at the end of your most recents posts.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 10:21 PM
Dec 2018

Here it is:

Mueller: "...the Russian conspirators want to promote discord in the United States and undermine public confidence in democracy." Beware of Right-Wing Provocateurs. Don't Be a Useful Idiot.

I just wanted to know when and in what context Mueller had written it.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
61. Oh, duh! :) It's from Mueller's historic indictment
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 08:09 AM
Dec 2018

last February that laid out in detail Russia's operation for subverting the 2016 election that began in 2013 or early 2014. The wording I used is actually from a Rosenstein quote from Mueller's indictment.

But here's a link to the transcript and a sample:

https://www.politico.com/story/2018/02/16/text-full-mueller-indictment-on-russian-election-case-415670

6. Defendant ORGANIZATION had a strategic goal to sow discord in the US. political system, including the 2016 US. presidential election.

It charges that their agitprop operations go decades farther back than that, but of course we've known that nearly as long. We see Russia's poisoning of minds in the sheer numbers of those who bemoan the loss, corruption, failure of, and lack of faith in our democracy -- even though they've received its blessings their entire lives. Courtesy of the weakness Russia and others exploited on the right, institutionalization of corruption of course is finally true, but only very partially.

"Russian conspirators want to promote discord in the United States and undermine public confidence in democracy. We must not allow them to succeed." Rob Rosenstein

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,309 posts)
17. politics is hard
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:57 PM
Dec 2018

I don't have any doubt that George H.W. Bush did what he thought was best for the country.

That evil parasite in our White House now never has and never will.

 

PaulX2

(2,032 posts)
26. Would You Be Interested In Purchasing A Bridge Hermit?
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:15 PM
Dec 2018

"I don't have any doubt that George H.W. Bush did what he thought was best for the country"


I don't have any doubt that George H.W. Bush did NOT DO what he thought was best for the country.

erronis

(15,216 posts)
18. And everyone, not just presidents and MOC, have to make choices that are less than perfect
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:58 PM
Dec 2018

We have to choose between paying our past-due bills or feeding our families. We sometimes have "Sophie's Choices" where a trying to save one person may cause another to suffer.

Sometimes our "choices" are only really one - Hobson's. Pragmatism is a dirty word but it is what we have to do if we want to survive. Evaluate the alternatives and try to choose the best.

I'll guess that is much harder for a person in power that has a lot of possible choices and a lot of competing voices/pressures. You can't please everyone, everytime.

Still, with the current piece-of-spresident, he's made his personal choices to the damnation of the country and world.

UTUSN

(70,671 posts)
20. We are not "better" - everybody is a mix of good/bad. Death does not absolve bad-overall of badness.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 06:59 PM
Dec 2018

Neither is anybody who is a member of a particular group absolved of bad/immoral/criminal behavior by virtue of being such a member. Nobody is obligated to praise or even not speak badly of somebody just because they died.






 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
21. No. No one is obliged to do anything
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:03 PM
Dec 2018

But what they choose to do at a time like this speaks to their character.

Stinky The Clown

(67,776 posts)
23. Thank you, Effie
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:08 PM
Dec 2018

Like you, I am up to here with the DU Hate machine.

With presidents, there is the man and the policies.

I never liked very much about GHWB's policies. I never really liked his wife very much; I found her arrogant and elitist. But the reality, as I see it, is he was a genuinely decent man who held the nation in the very highest regard and did his best to do the best for it as he saw the best to be.

As you say, they are all flawed. WE are all flawed.

Until now, every modern president was within a standard deviation from dead center perfection. To be sure there are degrees of good and degrees of bad, and even at that the degrees are measured by each of us based on our own standards. I believe it is only now we are seeing an outlier. We would be very much better off were a person like GHWB now our president.

You cite current politicians in your OP, but looking back on Democrats of the past two come immediately to mind. Both WJC and JFK were horndogs to similar degrees. One was impeached for it, one lived in a different time. Both were good presidents.

We need to be more charitable in our assessment of our leaders.

wryter2000

(46,025 posts)
31. One other exception besides the current squatter in the White House
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:37 PM
Dec 2018

W started a war for no good reason. (I would not fault him for invading Afghanistan, but Iraq was different. It was to make him a "war president" for the 2004 election.) He also instituted torture. That puts him outside one standard deviation of perfection. He will never approach good, in my estimation. The only thing I remember him doing that was genuinely good was to stand against hatred of Muslims.

There may be others before FDR I would also put in that category. I don't know enough about history to do that.

Short of W and the current abomination, I have to agree with Effie's and your point, though.

 

watoos

(7,142 posts)
24. I've got just one thing to say.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:09 PM
Dec 2018

I was in class in high school when they announced over the intercom that JFK had been shot. We all prayed for him. No one doesn't remember where they were when JFK was killed. Poppy Bush was in Dallas the night before and flew to a small city outside of Dallas. When asked by a reporter where he was, and this question was asked 20 years ago or more, he replied that he didn't remember.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
27. Historical revisionism is harmful.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:16 PM
Dec 2018

Reagan was given the same treatment by the US corporate media.

Perhaps DU posters are tired of the constant ignoring of what the GOP really is.

curiouso

(57 posts)
28. What a bunch of crap...
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:29 PM
Dec 2018

Thank god none of us ever has to make monumental decisions while a bunch of self-serving lobbyists and members of Congress are making unrealistic demands. To suggest that any president in modern history has committed sins against humanity that compare with those being committed day after day by the so-called PROTUS we have now is as beneath contempt as the imbecile in the White House and the goons who worship at his altar. Ours is a nation built on a foundation of genocide and slavery but until 2016 we seemed to be getting better. If you people want to blame those who made it better for not making it perfect, I offer the Old Testament blessing Woody Allen recalled sharing with a bully he encountered - "Be fruiltful and multiply ... but not in those words."

sharedvalues

(6,916 posts)
62. Exactly. No "both sides do it" crap.
Sun Dec 2, 2018, 10:45 AM
Dec 2018

The Republicans are the problem.

Democrats shouldn’t get sucked into “both sides do it”. That’s a GOP propaganda strategy.

Obama expanded health care and nominated good judges.



Bush and Trump didn’t, tried to cut healthcare, cut taxes on the rich, damaged the social safety net, and nominated judges that will hurt average Americans while helping billionaires.

There is no “both sides”. Republicans are the problem.

cos dem

(903 posts)
30. Look at it this way...
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:36 PM
Dec 2018

Say nice things about GHWB (and sure, give Shrub the same, or not), then when we piss on the graves of Orange Hitler, Cheney, and Bannon, the disrespect will mean so much more.

One can be gracious most of the time, even if the person is disagreeable, saving the "best" for the "worst". GHWB was a middling Republican, GWB was a partisan hack, but both of them obviously have some shred of human decency. Can't say the same for the rest of these guys.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
32. Or we can acknowledge that there are limits on what any society that calls itself civilized should
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:43 PM
Dec 2018

tolerate, and that some things just can't be justified in the name of politics, policies, or the greater good. The Bush family reached that point several generations ago.

 

thegoose

(3,115 posts)
33. Let's be really real
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:43 PM
Dec 2018

Child. Dump is America Mafioso thanks to Putin. That has never never happened before. Fuck all of them to hell.

ZeroSomeBrains

(638 posts)
34. We can't whitewash the past
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:49 PM
Dec 2018

Yes GHWB was a war hero during WW2 and did a lot of good. But he was the one who ran the Willy Horton ad and refused to apologize for the almost 300 innocent Iranian civilians that were killed when the US shot down an Iranian civilian aircraft. I get a little sick and tired of elevating people who didn't lift a finger for AIDS victims and those who helped continue an economic system that gives so much to so few and not enough to those on the bottom.

May his soul rest in peace. But may those Iranian civilians souls who he disregarded rest in peace and be remembered as well.

Prof.Higgins

(194 posts)
37. Not, as such.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 07:54 PM
Dec 2018

This has nothing to do with making moral judgements. It is necessary to undertake a rational assessment whether any president made our country more united, equitable, secure, just, compassionate, fair, respected, prosperous, peace-seeking etc.. Both Bushes were arch-conservative warmongers pushing the destructive Reaganisms of trickledown economics and divisiveness. Neither Bush was a positive, effective, sagacious president. Accordingly, it is irrelevant whether either is a “good” person or, say, a Donald Trump sort of personality.

Ciaphas Cain

(124 posts)
42. He was ok
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 08:15 PM
Dec 2018

Trump himself is going to spend enough time trashing the man over the next few days. Just let him say what you feel. Most importantly don't embarrass yourselves by getting caught bashing a dead President.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
43. Don't the right wingnuts do enough condemning of Democrats for all of us?
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 08:20 PM
Dec 2018

We don't have to like everything that they did, but there is no reason for us to trash them just so that we can feel good about ourselves and how we point out flaws in GHW Bush.

Is anyone ready to add Hillary to the list of Democrats we should condemn?

a la izquierda

(11,791 posts)
46. You mustn't be Latin American then.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 08:35 PM
Dec 2018

And most certainly not Guatemalan.
Sorry, but I won’t say anything bad, but you should pardon my “sanctimony” on behalf of the more than 100K dead Guatemalans.

Baitball Blogger

(46,697 posts)
48. We should make a list of the decisions that each president made that has made our world worse.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 09:13 PM
Dec 2018

And then we'll find remedies to those mistakes. That's how we'll find the Democrat's platform.

Jake Stern

(3,145 posts)
50. Yes
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 09:16 PM
Dec 2018

How we forget the imprimatur that congressional Dems put on the Iraq War, including the 2016 popular vote winner.

How we forget that 44 got us mixed up in Libya or how he escalated the drone war in Yemen which has led to the deaths of scores of innocent Yemenis.

How we forget that Bill Clinton stood by and did nothing while Rwandans were being slaughtered en masse.

How we forget it was Dem president who knowingly went along with a lie and massively escalated the Vietnam War despite being elected on a promise that "We are not about to send American boys 9 or 10 thousand miles away from home to do what Asian boys ought to be doing for themselves."

How we forget that it was Jimmy Cater and his National Security Adviser, Zbigniew Brzezinski, that began pouring cash into the Mujahadeen in Afghanistan, including a young Saudi named Osama Bin Laden.

In fact, Brzezinski gloated about helping "give the Soviets their Vietnam War".

BlueWI

(1,736 posts)
51. The most obvious point missed in this OP is that presidential legacies differ widely.
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 09:24 PM
Dec 2018

Last edited Sat Dec 1, 2018, 11:44 PM - Edit history (2)

Most certainly, I don't recall the Obama, Sanders, or Biden campaigns using a race-baiting Willie Horton style ad. I don't see how it's a moral failing to mention this, given that it's part of the legacy being discussed this week. And I do think it's a black and white issue when an already powerful person seeks greater power by purposefully stigmatizing a vulnerable population. If it's me, you, or a president, that kind of behavior deserves public censure.

I also don't recall GHWB supporting health care for all or opposing the general drift of American foreign policy towards full-on imperialism, though to be fair, all of the public figures mentioned supported some forms of multilateralism. The wars of choice (Panama, Kuwait) may well have been resolved differently by Obama, Sanders, or Biden, though in his Senate role Biden didn't ask enough hard questions in the run up to the second gulf war. To me, this is a reminder that putting political differences aside at the wrong moment can have unfortunate, long-lasting consequences.

A respectful tone is important to maintain in these conversations when possible, but given the gravity of the issues being discussed, it's fine for some to choose tribute and others to go with critique of policy.

On a good day, Democrats are a big tent party, and it seems unsurprising to me that people grieve (or do not grieve) differently.

sharedvalues

(6,916 posts)
52. No, not at all. Republicans used racist dogwhistles for years. MUCH more than Dems
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 09:28 PM
Dec 2018

None of this bothsideism, both sides the same, both sides do it stuff. Please!


Here's the bottom line:
Modern Republicans are an alliance between billionaires and racist, hateful, and/or evangelical white people. The billionaires provide the money. The racists provide the votes. And the GOP establishment has thus been fanning the flames of racism for decades.

Reagan's assistant campaign manager, and Bush's campaign manager, was Lee Atwater. Who said this, about Republican electoral strategy:



To repeat: George H. W. Bush hired Lee Atwater as his CAMPAIGN MANAGER. After Atwater said the above.

edhopper

(33,543 posts)
57. So now we can't criticize Republcans
Sat Dec 1, 2018, 10:07 PM
Dec 2018

Both Gingrich and Kennedy cheated so no difference.

I won't celebrate Bush's death, but neither will I gloss over what he did.

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