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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsChicago woman who accused Neil deGrasse Tyson of sexual assault shares her story
One of the accusers is from Chicago and shared her story with WGNs Gaynor Hall.
Tchiya Amet El Maat said it was 1984. She was 23 and wanted to become an astronaut. She and Tyson were grad students in astrophysics at the University of Texas at Austin. One day after class, she says she went to his apartment.
He asked me if I wanted a glass of water and I was like sure. And then I woke up naked on his bed, she said, I didn't know what had happened, what was happening and I couldn't move.
She said he raped her.
https://wgntv.com/2018/12/06/chicago-woman-who-accused-neil-degrasse-tyson-of-sexual-assault-shares-her-story/
Video included at link with interview excerpts from the woman in question.
Cartoonist
(7,316 posts)Suppose someone accused you of the same thing. How would you defend yourself?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Cartoonist
(7,316 posts)It speaks to that feeling of finding yourself helpless against an accusation.
I had dinner at a friend's house. After saying good night to him and his wife, I walked down his driveway and noticed a shiny object on the lawn. It was a knife. I picked it up and put it on a light fixture.
The next morning the police were knocking on my door. I was accused of murdering my friend's wife. My fingerprints were on the murder weapon, and his neighbor positively identified me as seeing me walking down the driveway.
Fortunately, I woke up, but ever since I get queasy remembering how hopeless I felt at my predicament.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Being falsely accused of murdering someone would be awful - especially under the circumstances you describe in your dream, where there would potentially be some evidence connecting you to the crime (even though you didn't do it).
Also awful would be committing murder and getting away with it because people think you are a great guy and would never do anything like that due to being famous and well-liked in your field and there not being any credible-seeming witnesses or conclusive proof.
Ferrets are Cool
(21,106 posts)I am not sure I could defend myself if accused of rape from 1984. I barely remember what I did last week, although I know it wasn't raping someone.
nolabear
(41,959 posts)Ive read several accounts of this and she may have told herself a story about something that happened differently, or...I dont know. And I am very much in favor of carefully listening to people who make these claims. But her accounts are odd and she seems very troubled. Its possible a trauma caused her to dissemble the way she has over the course of her life but its also possible the dissembly began before whatever encounter/relationship they did have. I wont say shes lying but I do think theres something more here.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)She definitely does seem very troubled.
secondwind
(16,903 posts)nolabear
(41,959 posts)MineralMan
(146,286 posts)he did any of those things. If he did, then he deserves whatever comes to him from his actions. If he did not, then I hope he is able to defend himself. But, why are their two threads today about this?
Why is this news of particular interest to you? I mean, I know who he is, but I'm not sure why it's particularly important news, except to him and those claiming to be his victims.
Can you explain?
RhodeIslandOne
(5,042 posts)MineralMan
(146,286 posts)He makes shreds of things like creationism in public, so he's not liked by some folks. These accusations, whether true or not, give some people ammunition against the man. By association, I guess they think it will also defeat the information he presents. It won't, of course, but bringing him down will slow down its presentation, I suppose.
I just find it interesting that someone who is completely unknown to over 90% of the population is getting so much attention here on DU.
Judi Lynn
(160,516 posts)MineralMan
(146,286 posts)Well, there's a fertile combination, I suppose. A black atheist man. The perfect target for some. Triple whammy.
Boring.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)Interesting.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)The Metoo Movement has showed us the extent of the problem. It is a societal problem.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)Please read more carefully. Thanks.
melman
(7,681 posts)MineralMan
(146,286 posts)wish him ill. My comments are not about the accusers. Do you know who is correct?
melman
(7,681 posts)But you are absolutely being dismissive of the accusers.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)I await more information.
melman
(7,681 posts)Your words are here for anyone to see.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)She initially told this story to reporters several years ago but has only gotten attention now because other white people have brought forward accusations of inappropriate behavior against NDT.
I think racism often plays a role in these circumstances.
Unfortunately, women of color seem to have a harder time being believed for some reason.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)Your tranparency is showing.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)The fourth accuser says that Tyson approached her while drunk at a holiday party in January 2010 at the American Museum of Natural History and began making sexual comments and jokes, according to Buzzfeed. Tyson eventually tried to get her to go with him into his office, she claimed.
We take his word at face value, the unidentified accuser said. I think hes exploiting that relationship to get people to believe him.
The woman shared her experience with two friends shortly after it happened. Those friends confirmed that the woman shared the story with them. The woman also wrote about the incident to her employer in 2014, when her employer was considering tapping Tyson for a speaking engagement.
https://www.essence.com/news/4th-woman-accuses-neil-degrasse-tyson-of-sexual-misconduct/
Are you familiar with Essence Magazine?
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)Are those accusations true. Do they constitute sexual assault?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Only one of the accusations would constitute sexual assault, if true.
The notion that covering this story could somehow be viewed as racist is unfounded in my view. It seemed like that's what you were implying, but I may have misunderstood.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)That should be part of the question.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)BannonsLiver
(16,369 posts)When its a con theres not a peep.
Kingofalldems
(38,451 posts)Except yesterday for some odd reason.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)It is dispiriting to see some of these responses.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)I appreciate that comment.
whathehell
(29,067 posts):and the apparent push for a "double standard" here IS very disappointing.
TheBlackAdder
(28,183 posts)MineralMan
(146,286 posts)Now, I think those accusations should be investigated, as best they can be. If he did what he's accused of, then I condemn his behavior. But, right now, they're just accusations.
It's interesting enough, I suppose, if you follow Tyson's activities. But, I'm not sure it requires two threads in GD at this point.
Maybe there's a political angle to it, though. I don't really know the man's politics.
TheBlackAdder
(28,183 posts).
The allegations should be investigated.
There are just certain posters who don't seem to lean very Democratic and enjoy stirring the pot, relishing in the adversities faced by liberal supporters. There is never just one OP, but a slew of them over the span of hours or days. There will probably be more.
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MineralMan
(146,286 posts)a black, liberal, male scientist who is either an agnostic or atheist. I'm never sure on the last one. Now, his name is recognizable to some people, but not to most. So, I wonder why he deserves two breathless threads in one day about some unsubstantiated accusations.
"Whose posts those are I think I know," to misquote a famous poet.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)But apparently I'm not the only one who sees right through my boo.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)Hav
(5,969 posts)and that pattern was reaffirmed countless times since. That's all I'm gonna say.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)I think it is important for liberals to hold those on the left to the same standard.
TheBlackAdder
(28,183 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)It is important to stand up for the things you believe in, as I think most DUers would agree. What makes this board so special is how engaged we are in the issues that are important to us.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)for Progressives, another for Conservatives.
That would be a betrayal all of our principles, making us look like huge hypocrites. I do wonder sometimes, how thoroughly people here things through.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)That should be the question.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)whathehell
(29,067 posts)here when it would have been the only question.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)Only conservatives should be held accountable?
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)Jake Stern
(3,145 posts)DUers would have immediately pronounced the accusers credible and the claims to be the gospel truth. But because he's a left leaning celeb the claims are all bogus and the women are troubled/mistaken/lying.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)Objectivity seems to be taking a hit here.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)This is a very serious accusation.
The other accusation, which was much much less serious, seemed credible.
In the current era, I think it is especially important to amplify the voices of those who accuse powerful men. In the past, they have tended to get silenced.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)So you're only interested in the truth...
I see...
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Thank you for that.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)MineralMan
(146,286 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)Where did you hear that?
John Fante
(3,479 posts)left. Whether the allegations have merit is irrelevant.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)With respect to accusations like these, I think it is important to apply consistent standards to everyone, regardless of what their political views are. That does not always seem to be the case, regrettably.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)In one day? Really..
BannonsLiver
(16,369 posts)There will be a third later about how were all a bunch of hypocritical troglodytes for not taking everything she said at face value.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)Perhaps the blowback will generate some caution.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)I would encourage everyone who is interested to read it in its entirety, including NDT's statement which is included there.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)uppityperson
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ucrdem
(15,512 posts)Even if true he can't be prosecuted. So why are all these stories coming out now?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)The more recent accusations have been much much less serious but they seem to have encouraged a re-examination of this older accusation.
ucrdem
(15,512 posts)which supposedly led an assistant to quit her job without notice days before it wrapped up and complain loudly after receiving an apology? Something doesn't smell right and to be honest the recycled Cosby claim makes me wonder about that glorious take-down which this is starting to resemble.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Calling it "the handshake" seems pretty dismissive of the totality of the complaint by the woman who identified the incident as sexual harassment (and more than just a handshake).
You're saying this makes you doubt Cosby's accusers? How does that work?
pintobean
(18,101 posts)I wish I could remember who.
ucrdem
(15,512 posts)Very big wheel too as I recall. But who, but who??
pintobean
(18,101 posts)rickford66
(5,523 posts)I heard that was a good defense.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)BannonsLiver
(16,369 posts)Wine and cheese.
lindysalsagal
(20,670 posts)I'd say in this instance, I'd need a whole lot more than her story to believe it.