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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsOh what difference one serious illness makes.
An in law on my husband's side, a real blowhard who thinks he earned everything he has with no help from anyone, the police aren't harder on brown people, and homeless people all choose to sleep outside in 5 degree weather. Jesus is an NRA member, loves only white Republican men, and would nuke the whole middle east.
He don't need no gubmint help. Until his wife got cancer and their individual policy healthcare rates nearly doubled. Suddenly, there ought to be a law.....
Now he's hopping on the Medicare for All bandwagon with the idea we should all share the burden of his wife's medical care costs after 50 years of why should he have to help pay for medical care of poor people...
Funny how fast a person changes their mind when the sewer backs up into their house.....
Paula Sims
(877 posts)I know many younger people that feel they are healthy and don't need insurance. Then one day one of them got hit by a drunk driver. Over a year in rehab.
Kittycow
(2,396 posts)olegramps
(8,200 posts)My brother who has worked his entire life, he is 82, He has lung cancer. No, he doesn't smoke. Maybe it was fertilizer. He has always been a Democrat and has worked with me campaigns. The drug that can possibly help him cost $16,000 per month and this does not include his co-pay of $2000 a month for treatment plus additional charges for diagnostic work ups. If he lived in Canada this would be totally taken care of by their health system. Here you are facing a choice of bankruptcy or death. Hell of a choice. Forgive me God, but I hate Republicans. I can't say what I wish for these nincompoops in my worse moments that comes to my mind.
Kajun Gal
(1,907 posts)AJT
(5,240 posts)badhair77
(4,205 posts)BobTheSubgenius
(11,557 posts)"It's different" in t heir case.
knightmaar
(748 posts)But those "thugs" and lazy people don't.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Children have that mentality, which every parent and elementary teacher and child psychologist knows. But at some point most people become empathetic enough to get over it. The ones that dont are developmentally arrested in early childhood. Trump is the perfect example of an emotionally stunted five year old. He doesnt think. He emotes.
kag
(4,078 posts)sixteen-year-old daughter gets pregnant. "Oh but this is different. We're not really 'like' this. It's a one-off."
These are the people for whom I save my greatest contempt.
CTyankee
(63,880 posts)signs one day and in our office for their abortions on another when they discovered they had an unplanned, unwanted pregnancy. Their answer as to why? A shrug and "My case is different."
It drove our staff crazy. Those effin hypocrites. We just hope they learned from PP's excellent, caring staff that PP is a wonderful organizations that helps women in "bad" situations.
BobTheSubgenius
(11,557 posts)Or at least, the one that comes the closest to covering all the bases. There are other words one could use, but they are just modifiers.
I hate hypocrisy more than almost anything. Certainly more than, say, straight-up thievery. At least a thief is clear about his motives and objectives.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)those irresponsible moochers and lazy people. But they darn sure expected help when they or a family member became sick.
Wellstone ruled
(34,661 posts)Use to Volunteer at a Social Service Group in the twin cities. Yupper,those thightee Whitiees were the loudest bitchers in the world. Especially when the shit storm hit their house or family. I want mine right now!
erronis
(15,155 posts)This makes me think about all those anti-vaxxers that are putting whole communities at risk by this same attitude.
packman
(16,296 posts)Not a problem to them until it becomes a problem to them
Roland99
(53,342 posts)KentuckyWoman
(6,679 posts)UpInArms
(51,278 posts)Thank you
llmart
(15,524 posts)I know a married couple who have been retired since their early 50's. They are both retired auto plant workers who were union all their working careers and live a very comfortable life thanks to being retired union. However, they vote Republican and now criticize the unions.
Same thing. It's the "I've got mine, the hell with the rest of you."
Algernon Moncrieff
(5,781 posts)For the past 20 years or so, it's becoming "A Liberal is a Conservative who lost health care coverage."
raccoon
(31,105 posts)About paying for other peoples health care have grandchildren who are on Medicaid.
Great analogy!
Javaman
(62,490 posts)"it's only a problem when it happens to me, everyone else can go screw"
treestar
(82,383 posts)for having had that experience. Maybe.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)It only matters when it happens to them. And theyll tell you they got better because it was Jesuss doing.
I've known too many of these right wing idiots who believe they got what they have by "working" for it and by the "Grace of God" when the truth is that they were born white and rich with "connections" that get passed down through the generations.
NNadir
(33,449 posts)CaptYossarian
(6,448 posts)from conservative blowhard to liberal champion because his mother got a serious illness and he discovered that Repubs didn't give a damn. Luckily, he was smart enough to switch teams.
SWBTATTReg
(22,044 posts)something actually happens to them. I found this out about an old but constantly recurring back injury which I have literally had to crawl multiple times on my hands and knees to the restroom and no one in my family believed me when I described how bad it was. Then it happened to them (a back injury)...now they know how I feel.
It's sad for they ask us to believe in things like Jesus, miracles, etc. on blind faith, but they can't believe or trust you when you state something about yourself.
erronis
(15,155 posts)True Blue American
(17,981 posts)After the best health care in the world saved him,loudly proclaiming that God spared him.
The next time I saw him he was celebrating in front of the WH taking health care away from millions.
I wanted to ask, Steve, what would Jesus do?
erronis
(15,155 posts)And Jesus can't be indicted or subpoenaed since he's been dead for a few years. Yet He (and his older dad) still is invoked by a bunch of power-hungry politicians.
True Blue American
(17,981 posts)And, you can bet he will fight health care for all.
The worst part is they do not see the irony of their non Christian actions.
Bernardo de La Paz
(48,925 posts)KentuckyWoman
(6,679 posts)Wifey has had fairly healthy habits all her life. She could afford to eat good and pay for personal trainers etc. This was either luck of the draw or genetic. Basically a total kick in the hind end to someone like the blowhard.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,808 posts)And he should be told that, over and over.
I've simply had it with people like him.
PatSeg
(47,168 posts)When hardship hits the conservative, all of sudden they view government programs differently. The only thing is they believe that THEY earned them, but that guy over there is not deserving. They can only see the world through a subjective lens.
In fairness, there are some who do change their world view, but most are still self-centered and maddeningly entitled.
duforsure
(11,884 posts)When they realized they were lied to by trump about the tax scam bill, and have close relatives that lost their health care because of him , and are running away from trump and the gop now, and even more pissed than most others now at them.
Ginger42
(59 posts)A coworker of my husbands is a die-hard Republican. Shes also on every government program imaginable. She carries around a big black binder to keep them all straight and shes always Googling for more. Shes married when that helps her (mostly for car loans and insurance, mortgage) and single when that helps her, which is most government programs. Shes always complaining about all the freeloaders out there on all the same programs shes on. My husband once asked her why she votes Republican since they oppose all the programs shes on. Oh, theyd never kick me off. Theyll just kick the freeloaders off.
kag
(4,078 posts)The family get all of their food from food pantries, they're on medicaid, food stamps, all their clothes come from a "Good Will" type place, etc. But when talking politics, the dad claims to be an "anarchist" and won't vote, bitches about freeloaders, and doesn't pay attention to elections. The only smart one is their daughter who got a great scholarship from a government agency, and her family mooches a lot of the money off of her for their own use. Makes me want to scream.
Moostache
(9,895 posts)There is no other framing or explanation necessary.
If someone disagrees, ask them to define who gets the privilege.
Government? Lottery? Grift? Trade/Barter?
KentuckyWoman
(6,679 posts)It is a commodity to be purchased. But it should be considered a necessary utility for living in a first world country, just like electric and clean water and we should be pooling our resources and efforts just the same.
We subsidize the infrastructure with our taxes, and charge user fees based on usage. We support the poor with assistance to help with the user fees. Medical care purchasing should be the same.
I disagree that medical care services and good should ever be a RIGHT on the level of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. On that level we have doctors getting sued because they refuse to prescribe whatever medicine or procedure some hypochondriac sees on the TeeVee and thinks they have a right to have regardless of the consequences - or a 99 yr old smoker who demands a heart transplant. Where do you draw the lines?
I also disagree medical care goods and services are a privilege. Poor people should have the same access to medical care as the rich. Period. And it is why I look at medical care as a utility, rather than a right or a privilege.
Bucky
(53,926 posts)help our competitive edge in world markets. Really, no one else in the world does this with their people; only America, wand we're weaker for it.
erronis
(15,155 posts)Then who can afford it? Just the well-to-do (the privileged.) Not those that may have been born into a lower-earning family.
It's also ridiculous to tie insurance to employment. That is an artificial construct to get around benefit payments in WW-II.
Bluepinky
(2,265 posts)gopiscrap
(23,724 posts)the shit bag asshole was a selfish fucker his whole life poetic justice
dlk
(11,496 posts)Experience is a great teacher.
VOX
(22,976 posts)Because, in their microscopic dinosaur brains, Medicare, Social Security, SSDI and the ACA exist solely for THEM.
Not for POC, not for women, but strictly for patriot-Liberty-white-makes-right folks.
FakeNoose
(32,527 posts)Why is good health care so ridiculously expensive in the US? It's not expensive in other countries such as Canada and most of the European countries. We took a sharp turn right in the late 1970's and suddenly insurance is not affordable any more like it used to be. Hillary & Bill Clinton tried to change that but the entrenched, entitled conservatives shut them down before it could happen.
There's too much waste and too much profit in the medical services and medical insurance industries - and they want to KEEP it that way.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)The ins. cos. don't take prior claims into account. All policies fr each plan are the same amount for the whole area and for your age group and whether you smoke.
It's possible she or he crossed an age threshold. The ins. cos. are allowed to TRIPLE premiums once a person reaches a certain age. It's the only discrimination built into the ACA. I know. I was in that triple premium group.
Or it's possible he chose a better policy, when it was time to renew. The price goes up a lot, if you get a policy with a low or moderate deductible.
It's also possible they just got one of those short term policies that recently we're allowed to buy. But probably not. They would probably just not renew your policy, if you turned in too many claims.
But whatever the reason, if there are enough like him, maybe we can get Medicare for all passed. If there was ever a time, this may be it. If we don't have a recession.
trev
(1,480 posts)They're against all public assistance until they need it themselves.
still_one
(92,055 posts)whittle away at the ACA rules. Even if they are covered outside of the market place, they, they had to follow the minimum requirements of the ACA, and no one can be penalized for a pre-existing conditions under the ACA. However, that may not last long if the republicans have there ways since they are trying to invalidate the pre-existing condition protections under the ACA.
The most significant factor in ACA or insurance premiums going up is because the republicans effectively removed the individual mandate, and that directly increases the premium rates.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)samnsara
(17,599 posts)...t party sis who lives off the grid in N Idaho. Needed a liver transplant due to childhood medical condition. she had to be rushed to a seattle hospital for the transplant. (both she and hubby are collecting SSI for physical issues))...total cost of her transplant..less than 1000$
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