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Baby boomers are aging alone more than any generation in U.S. history, and the resulting loneliness is a looming public health threat. About one in 11 Americans age 50 and older lacks a spouse, partner or living child, census figures and other research show. That amounts to about eight million people in the U.S. without close kin, the main source of companionship in old age, and their share of the population is projected to grow.Policy makers are concerned this will strain the federal budget and undermine baby boomers health. Researchers have found that loneliness takes a physical toll, and is as closely linked to early mortality as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day or consuming more than six alcoholic drinks a day. Loneliness is even worse for longevity than being obese or physically inactive.
Along with financial issues including high debt and declining pensions, social factors such as loneliness are another reason boomers are experiencing more difficult retirement years than previous generations.
The effect of isolation is extraordinarily powerful, says Donald Berwick, former administrator of the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services. If we want to achieve health for our population, especially vulnerable people, we have to address loneliness.
The Trump administration is looking at expanding faith-based partnerships to combat isolation among seniors, says U.S. Assistant Secretary for Aging Lance Robertson. Earlier this year, the British government appointed its first minister of loneliness to tackle the issue.
The baby boomers prized individuality and generally had fewer children and ended marriages in greater numbers than previous generations. More than one in four boomers is divorced or never married, census figures show. About one in six lives alone.
The University of Chicagos General Social Survey, which has tracked American attitudes since 1972, asked respondents four years ago how often they lacked companionship, felt left out and felt isolated from others. Baby boomers said they experienced these feelings with greater frequency than any other generation, including the older silent generation.
https://www.wsj.com/articles/the-loneliest-generation-americans-more-than-ever-are-aging-alone-11544541134
llmart
(15,536 posts)I have no ready statistics, but from what I see in my group of cohorts is that many of them aren't church goers and believers. The decline from our parents' generation to ours in people who say they are religious has been documented.
Also, living alone doesn't equate to loneliness. One thing they failed to mention is that because of instability of jobs, our children oftentimes have to move away just to have a job. We can't follow our children around the country just for companionship and they can't stay near us if they need to go somewhere else to have a job.
How about looking at the financial situation of boomers and how that leads to loneliness? Most of the time you can't go anywhere or do anything if you don't even have enough money to pay your monthly bills. I guess what the Trump administration wants you to do is to solve all your problems by just going to church! That's free. You can meet people there.
treestar
(82,383 posts)ChicagoRonin
(630 posts)First off, full-disclosure, I'm Asian American. My mom is a first-generation immigrant from South Korea, my dad is a third-generation Japanese American who grew up in rural Hawaii.
I'm now middle-aged and raising my own family, and now more than ever I'm noticing some stark difference between those with strong ethnic/immigrant identification and my friends who are, let's just say, "generic" white Americans.
For myself and many friends and relatives, immediate and extended family is a major resource. My mother and mother-in-law live in the area and are our default childcare for emergencies and special occasions (and they do it willingly). We pool money for weddings, sending kids to college, funerals, etc. I'm also actively involved with the local Japanese American community at a Buddhist Temple, practice aikido (a martial art) at a local dojo, and volunteer for different activities. All of these provide friends and a sense of belonging.
There's some drawbacks. Everyone being tight-knit does mean that family and community sometimes feels intrusive or even stifling. Sometimes I butt heads with those who are more conservative socially, religiously or politically. I and others occasionally get roped into obligations that feel like a burden.
But overall, I have never felt alone or without someone or somewhere to go to.
On the flipside, a lot of my white American friends seem more prone to loneliness, or even if they are married, don't get nearly as much help from their extended family (or even their parents in some cases). At the same time, they are the ones who seem to complain the most whenever they have to do something for someone else (even their own kids).
Anyway, it feels like something is out of joint in this country. I'd like to believe in an America where everyone might come together to help even a single person like George Bailey in "It's A Wonderful Life," but that seems unlikely these days.
chia
(2,244 posts)And doing it very articulately.
I was going to write something out but here's a link to a handy but brief comparison between the two:
http://psychology.wikia.com/wiki/Collectivist_and_individualist_cultures
ChicagoRonin
(630 posts)Seeing it described and classified that way is quite eye-opening for me.
shanti
(21,675 posts)Really wanted to read this story too.