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guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
1. And in real life, there was the example of Emmitt Till.
Wed Feb 6, 2019, 07:58 PM
Feb 2019

But, as the MeToo movement has shown, the problem persists.

Polly Hennessey

(6,793 posts)
13. So is my dog.
Wed Feb 6, 2019, 08:41 PM
Feb 2019

She is mixed. She is seven months old. Named her Scout because she is smart, sassy, and a survivor. She originally came from someplace on Craig’s List. A young couple adopted her, she became sick, they took her to my Vet. She was diagnosed with Parvovirus. The young couple could not afford her treatment and they told the Vet to euthanize her. My Vet did not, and one of his Techs nursed her back to health. It took three weeks of isolation. Tracy, the Tech, found someone who would take her. They returned her after three months (don’t know why). Apparently, she was caged while the lady was at work. I wonder if that was a factor. We just lost our Corgi and you can guess the rest. She is now with us and our three cats and our Golden Retriever. She is incredibly beautiful and incredibly intelligent. Learns fast. Think I will have a DNA test done to find out her mix.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
5. The writing is especially fine. Anyone who hasn't
Wed Feb 6, 2019, 08:07 PM
Feb 2019

I envy for getting to read it for the first time.

Spoiler for some: Anyone hoping for a good fix of self-loathing will have to generate it from within.
The book illuminates a lot of goodness in people, not just evil.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
11. You do understand that Fairfax's accuser is a black college professor, right?
Wed Feb 6, 2019, 08:38 PM
Feb 2019

It would be kinda weird for her to destroy a black man on the order of right wing bigots.

pnwmom

(108,973 posts)
17. She might just be mistaken -- not lying. Suppressed memories are among the least reliable.
Wed Feb 6, 2019, 09:59 PM
Feb 2019

Last edited Wed Feb 6, 2019, 11:29 PM - Edit history (6)

And she said she had suppressed the memory till she saw the photo of him in 2017.

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/06/us/politics/vanessa-tyson-full-statement-justin-fairfax.html

After the assault, I suffered from both deep humiliation and shame. I did not speak about it for years, and I (like most survivors) suppressed those memories and emotions as a necessary means to continue my studies, and to pursue my goal of building a successful career as an academic. At the time, I found this horrific incident especially degrading given my regular volunteer work at a local rape crisis center. Over the next decade or so, I would go on to earn my PhD from the University of Chicago and become a tenured professor at Scripps College, a prestigious women’s college in Claremont, California.

Years later, in October of 2017, I saw a picture of Mr. Fairfax accompanying an article in The Root about his campaign for Lt. Governor in Virginia. The image hit me like a ton of bricks, triggering buried traumatic memories and the feelings of humiliation I’d felt so intensely back in 2004.


We know that she was sexually assaulted by her own father for years, and he went to prison for that when she was 8. That causes lifelong trauma.

We also know that what happened to her as a child caused her to become involved with victims as a volunteer. So she has been hearing these stories for decades, while suppressing her memories of what she now believes Fairfax did to her.

So maybe it actually happened. Or maybe her childhood trauma, combined with everything in her life since then, including her talks with other victims, has gotten tangled up in her mind with what happened with Fairfax.

Unless more information comes forward, other victims or corroborators, I don't know how we would decide.


https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-happens-in-the-brain-when-we-misremember/

What Happens in the Brain When We Misremember

Most people think of memory as a faithful, if incomplete, recording of the past—a kind of multimedia storehouse of experiences. But psychologists, neuroscientists and lawyers know better. Eyewitness testimony, for instance, is now known to be notoriously unreliable. This is because memory is not just about retrieving stored information. Our minds normally construct memories using a blend of remembered experiences and knowledge about the world. Our memories can be frazzled, though, by new experiences that end up tangling the past and the present.

SNIP

https://www.spring.org.uk/2013/02/reconstructing-the-past-how-recalling-memories-alters-them.php

In the study they found that participants’ memories were both enhanced and distorted by the process of recall. People found it easier to remember those exhibits which they were subsequently shown photographs of. This shows that merely recalling a memory is enough to strengthen it.

This is one aspect of the fact that memory is an active, reconstructive process; recalling something is not a neutral act, it strengthens that memory in comparison to the others.

But the study also demonstrated that false memories were also strengthened. In other words when participants falsely recalled seeing a particular exhibit in the second session, this made it more likely to be flagged up as a ‘real’ memory in the third session.

What this is showing is how false memories can grow in the mind. Of course, in real life things don’t happen as cleanly as they do in the psych lab. Our memories and fantasies are intertwined, crossing over and interfering with one another. Thinking about the past continues this process of interweaving.

https://staff.washington.edu/eloftus/Articles/lof93.htm

As a first step, it is worth recognizing that we do not yet have the tools for reliably distinguishing the signal of true repressed memories from the noise of false ones.

akraven

(1,975 posts)
19. Haven't seen the movie - I'm a book person, but damn what a story!
Wed Feb 6, 2019, 10:10 PM
Feb 2019

My daughter was born not far from her home, and I toured it years ago.

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