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ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:20 AM Feb 2019

Can the Democratic Party disapprove of something/someone and also not give up power?


Handing the leadership of a state over the GOP does a lot more harm to the cause of oppressed people in that state than acknowledging some flaw in the human(s) that represent the party. We aren't likely to find a lot of people without mistakes or flaws.

Could we, for example, officially rebuke or sanction them? Pledge not to support them in the next primary? Have them really meet and talk with representatives of the groups they have wronged? Demand a full investigation? Demand that the person involved step down but retain the power of the successful election, so as not to shaft all of the voters who came out for Democrats?

I'll say it again - Democrats would rather be beyond reproach than in power. And Republicans would _much_ rather be in power than be beyond reproach.

Giving up power doesn't always mean that we value the people harmed - especially if it leads to more harm. Blackface and KKK costumes definitely cross _way_ over lines. But is the result that we have to empower the VA GOP?

The position seems to be "well, you got us. Our politician is a flawed human being. Therefore we are going to throw away all of the work, money, and time spent getting them elected. And be sure to vote for Democrats next time, it's totally worth it."

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Can the Democratic Party disapprove of something/someone and also not give up power? (Original Post) ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 OP
Exactly LongtimeAZDem Feb 2019 #1
Right? ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #3
Hell, professor, it was last week! Texin Feb 2019 #41
good point, sadly ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #52
+1 EveHammond13 Feb 2019 #76
I'm just not a fan of hypocrisy HopeAgain Feb 2019 #2
Neither am I. When you find a political system that allows for the drafting of perfect candidates LongtimeAZDem Feb 2019 #6
So that goes for Republicans too? HopeAgain Feb 2019 #13
Actually, yes. But, again, this is not about candidates for cannonization. LongtimeAZDem Feb 2019 #20
Rs are much more savvy about strategy, while "good guys finish last" Dems keep getting trampled on EveHammond13 Feb 2019 #78
Asking that our candidates have no history of overt racism or misogyny is not asking for perfection. LanternWaste Feb 2019 #123
i agree, for the most part ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #129
Did the OP suggest that we should be hypocrites? There have been times... LAS14 Feb 2019 #7
Funny, I never saw a post like that HopeAgain Feb 2019 #15
I refrain from posting anything to suggest that Republicans... LAS14 Feb 2019 #21
THIS! LongtimeAZDem Feb 2019 #53
Thanks! Glad to hear from you!! LAS14 Feb 2019 #65
if the alternative is to richly reward a group of ultra-hypocritical ratfuckers ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #8
Ratfuckers who specialize in whataboutism HopeAgain Feb 2019 #16
Hypocrisy isn't taking a sledge hammer to fruit flies. There's wisdom in moderation uponit7771 Feb 2019 #9
Moderation or HopeAgain Feb 2019 #17
Moderation here would be an investigation by the DNC like Ellison. White privilege wouldn't exist uponit7771 Feb 2019 #19
Investigation by the Party? HopeAgain Feb 2019 #24
all of the minorities in VA you would hand into the tender mercies of the GOP ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #27
That's crap HopeAgain Feb 2019 #28
"we are going to become just as bad" - evidence for that? ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #31
Not to 100% perfection treestar Feb 2019 #92
Balcony. idahoblue Feb 2019 #127
These are arguments for political expediency HopeAgain Feb 2019 #132
We're handing over the minorities to the GOP? theboss Feb 2019 #45
I know, right? HopeAgain Feb 2019 #133
Of course it's harder to be principled but principled doesn't mean taking a sledge hammer to fruit uponit7771 Feb 2019 #32
+1 EveHammond13 Feb 2019 #80
Nancy has no business meddling in a state government issue. nt MadDAsHell Feb 2019 #138
that's an interesting way to frame it ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #25
White male privilege HopeAgain Feb 2019 #37
Again, all of the black people in VA who would get hosed because of this ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #38
Like I said HopeAgain Feb 2019 #39
And by the time we accomplish that change, my daughter will be facing a world in which LongtimeAZDem Feb 2019 #56
Hopefully HopeAgain Feb 2019 #58
You don't get it; McCarthyist purity witch-hunts never stop with the bad cases LongtimeAZDem Feb 2019 #62
Why does the consequence always have to be lose the office? treestar Feb 2019 #94
You've hit it. Lesser consequences. That's what I'm saying ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #96
It is a matter of how it is handled..... doompatrol39 Feb 2019 #4
I agree, the governor really handled it badly. ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #10
His press conference was the very definition of cringeworthy rpannier Feb 2019 #44
Byrd is a perfect example ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #12
Absolutely!!! Very well stated. And we'd better start doing it! Loss of job for any ... LAS14 Feb 2019 #5
+1. Why must the penalty be death for every offense? dalton99a Feb 2019 #11
"zero tolerance"? ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #33
Proportional to the "crime"? Nt spooky3 Feb 2019 #98
This message was self-deleted by its author NCChomskyan Feb 2019 #14
No we can't. Social media has conditioned us otherwise jberryhill Feb 2019 #18
Excellent useful term, "outrage amplification." Did you come up with it? nt LAS14 Feb 2019 #22
I dunno jberryhill Feb 2019 #49
I believe the Fairfax accuser Johnny2X2X Feb 2019 #23
For me, it's the opposite, I believe him, not her CTAtheist Feb 2019 #137
It looks to me like that might be exactly what is happening. Skinner Feb 2019 #26
I'm actually surprised he has held out this long. ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #29
It's not as if it requires any effort jberryhill Feb 2019 #50
I agree awesomerwb1 Feb 2019 #30
I've been avoiding having any opinion of the Virginia situation In It to Win It Feb 2019 #34
A slight hypocrisy compared to the treestar Feb 2019 #99
Agreed. However, I don't think their hypocrisy justifies our hypocrisy. In It to Win It Feb 2019 #107
It's got to be weighed treestar Feb 2019 #112
A big difference that I think has been overlooked spooky3 Feb 2019 #101
I think it has been proven that students chose the pictures for their page ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #108
Where is this proof? I have not seen any re:Northam. Thx. spooky3 Feb 2019 #110
I'll dig it up - supposedly the editor of the yearbook described the process ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #113
here's one story on it ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #114
Thank you; I had not seen the comments spooky3 Feb 2019 #118
sure, republicans do that regularly to hold power bigtree Feb 2019 #35
your attitude takes a huge dump on the will of the voters ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #36
your 'attitude' immediately disregards that constituency bigtree Feb 2019 #42
I'm fine with having a better/perfect person inhabit a Democratic governorship in VA ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #51
that would be a consequence of the pols behavior bigtree Feb 2019 #57
imagine you are a VA voter, and you have to vote between two white guys ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #67
all I see is a whitewash bigtree Feb 2019 #73
What breeds true cynicism in politics DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #46
keeping bad people in our party in power won't change the republican party bigtree Feb 2019 #47
Neither will defenestrating every Democratic politician who has ever made a bad decision ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #54
we seem to have held up so far to the values people are demanding in Va. out of the elected Dems bigtree Feb 2019 #61
Have we? ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #64
either you think our party is morally compromised or not bigtree Feb 2019 #68
uh, no. I'm saying you don't know how flawed they are or not ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #79
If he is currently voting as a non-racist treestar Feb 2019 #102
'voting as a non-racist' bigtree Feb 2019 #109
What has he done in the past year? treestar Feb 2019 #111
lol bigtree Feb 2019 #115
what? treestar Feb 2019 #116
I'm not interested in discussing this with you bigtree Feb 2019 #117
Handing power over to the TRULY evil pubicans DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #59
that would be a consequence of these pols' behaviors bigtree Feb 2019 #63
It's not "cold"! ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #66
This is exactly how pootin and trump stole the last election DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #69
nonsense bigtree Feb 2019 #71
It had to do with divide and conquer DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #93
you have to make your own determination about what's important to you bigtree Feb 2019 #106
Thanks for the advice DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #120
you jumped into the middle of this discussion bigtree Feb 2019 #121
So did everyone else DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #122
'my capitalist underpants?' bigtree Feb 2019 #124
yeah, thanks again DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #126
cause and effect bigtree Feb 2019 #70
Ok then, find me some non-flawed politicians and I'll get right on it ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #75
amazing how concerns are reduced to political calculations bigtree Feb 2019 #81
uh. Duh. Political calculations are rather important ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #86
and you must wonder why those policies don't get implemented bigtree Feb 2019 #91
Was Northam implementing the New Jim Crow in VA or something? ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #95
Northam has an issue with truthfulness bigtree Feb 2019 #105
+1 DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #97
There's always a balance treestar Feb 2019 #103
What are their current positions on the issues? treestar Feb 2019 #100
I do believe it is time DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #40
I agree ZeroSomeBrains Feb 2019 #43
It's up to Virginia and the voters there. Honeycombe8 Feb 2019 #48
Which politicians did more than "express an opinion"? brooklynite Feb 2019 #55
You can thank the advent of social media for that. defacto7 Feb 2019 #77
Thank you. One of the things that bothered me about the spooky3 Feb 2019 #119
medicaid expansion was huge and it took northham to do it questionseverything Feb 2019 #128
this. nt Baltimike Feb 2019 #60
Nailed it. "Democrats would rather be beyond reproach than in power." EveHammond13 Feb 2019 #72
What needs to happen? Tom Perez needs to declare an approach - a fighting approach? I say yes. EveHammond13 Feb 2019 #74
Well said. yeah, I worry that that kind of waste in pursuit of purity ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #83
I fully agree. EveHammond13 Feb 2019 #85
Walk AND chew gum? Are you mad? jberryhill Feb 2019 #82
lol ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #89
LOL! nt Honeycombe8 Feb 2019 #136
Yes! There has to be some other way to punish them! treestar Feb 2019 #84
Yes it can, or should. shanny Feb 2019 #87
well said. ProfessorPlum Feb 2019 #90
+1 LongtimeAZDem Feb 2019 #104
I would not be surprised if the Dems just let the GOP have the state even with Gerrymandering discus lancelyons Feb 2019 #88
IMO this can be pretty much boiled down to DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #125
I trust the Democrats are digging into Kirk Cox's past dflprincess Feb 2019 #130
There's ratfucking, hard core racism, then there's Duppers Feb 2019 #131
Bill Clinton was a flawed person too TheRealNorth Feb 2019 #134
+1. nt Honeycombe8 Feb 2019 #135

Texin

(2,594 posts)
41. Hell, professor, it was last week!
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:50 AM
Feb 2019

I don't know whether someone can be forced to resign a seat that was legitimately won unless there is a legislative move to impeach and remove him/them. These men were duly elected by the voters. The people of Virginia - or any other state in which something like this happens - can usually have a recall election if there is enough popular consensus to make that happen, and the process is defined by state statute in most instances. Wisconsin went through that back in, what was it, 2008 or so. They successfully initiated a recall election, but Walker won that round too. If the people of Virginia feel strongly enough about it, they can make that happen. And it might be a way that the rethugs could retake both political offices (i.e., governor and lt. governor - or whatever office Fairfax holds), but it should be up to the constituents of Virginia. I think those that have been urging/demanding Northam resign have done all they should do. At the end of the day, it's as likely that any replacement of Northam would be as racist as he must have been. It's ingrained in the population there. I know that sounds like a sweeping indictment of the entire state's population, but the South is steeped in it. And the average Caucasian person running for high office (governor, senate, etc.), is usually an attorney (unless they're a rethug, who are typically former business execs these days), are going to have come from middle to affluent families and gone to more "elite" universities, i.e., the southern equivalent of the Ivy League.

LongtimeAZDem

(4,494 posts)
6. Neither am I. When you find a political system that allows for the drafting of perfect candidates
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:34 AM
Feb 2019

I'm on board.

Until then, the planet is heating up, and the oil is running out.

LongtimeAZDem

(4,494 posts)
20. Actually, yes. But, again, this is not about candidates for cannonization.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:52 AM
Feb 2019

This is about making laws, and setting policy, and directing the future of the country.

Because the planet is heating up, and the oil is running out.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
123. Asking that our candidates have no history of overt racism or misogyny is not asking for perfection.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 04:58 PM
Feb 2019

Asking that our candidates have no history of overt racism or misogyny is not asking for perfection. It's simply requiring them to be, and to have been good people who make, and have consistently made good decisions in favor of idiot decisions.

It's not asking for unicorns. Just for good people.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
129. i agree, for the most part
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 05:28 PM
Feb 2019

this is a particularly bad case. And also handled poorly. How do we deal with it while also not helping the Republicans?

LAS14

(13,777 posts)
7. Did the OP suggest that we should be hypocrites? There have been times...
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:37 AM
Feb 2019

... when Republicans have faced similar challenges and I didn't blame them for taking consequences into account. I doubt the OP would say, "but just for Democrats."

LAS14

(13,777 posts)
21. I refrain from posting anything to suggest that Republicans...
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:53 AM
Feb 2019

.... deserve the same standards in matters like these as Dems, since I'll almost certainly get alerted for posting a right-wing talking point. (Sorry, can't find the exact wording for that rule.) So I didn't say I'd posted about it. I said that's my opinion.

LongtimeAZDem

(4,494 posts)
53. THIS!
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:26 PM
Feb 2019

Posts that point out that we might be treating the other side unfairly have a lifespan of about four minutes.

LAS14

(13,777 posts)
65. Thanks! Glad to hear from you!!
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:47 PM
Feb 2019

I've always felt that refraining from prejudice (pre-judging) is a strength of the left.... But it is often under attack.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
8. if the alternative is to richly reward a group of ultra-hypocritical ratfuckers
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:37 AM
Feb 2019

who hate minorities and women, then perhaps we had better weight hypocrisy against harm.

We have a coalition of flawed people who really are working to make things better for everyone. And we should hold them to account for their actions as elected Democrats. It beats the alternatives.

uponit7771

(90,323 posts)
19. Moderation here would be an investigation by the DNC like Ellison. White privilege wouldn't exist
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:51 AM
Feb 2019

... if there was a standard process for these kinds of things politically.

I'm thinking Nancy should speak up here

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
24. Investigation by the Party?
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:08 AM
Feb 2019

Couple thoughts:

This is about a Governor, and the Party isn't in charge of that.

If the Party did an investigation and some Dems disagreed with the outcome, they shouldn't speak their mind?

I'm afraid that it is just harder sometimes to be principled. If it gives the other side some sdvsntage, I am willing to accept that.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
27. all of the minorities in VA you would hand into the tender mercies of the GOP
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:14 AM
Feb 2019

thank you for your principles.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
28. That's crap
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:17 AM
Feb 2019

If we don't follow principles we are going to become just as bad. It's also the definition of rationalization.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
31. "we are going to become just as bad" - evidence for that?
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:20 AM
Feb 2019

It seems like a slippery slope fallacy.

I didn't say we shouldn't follow principles and accept without consequence what our politicians do and say. Or did and said.

And yeah, I am rationalizing by trying to think what is better for the society of VA? That Democrats exercise the power they were granted in the election, or that the Democratic Party as a whole is "pure"?

I think it is worth thinking about.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
92. Not to 100% perfection
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:25 PM
Feb 2019

If we demand that, we just lose. Not all things are harshly black and white or either/or.

idahoblue

(377 posts)
127. Balcony.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 05:27 PM
Feb 2019

If we purge every democrat with a past, the cons will rule forever. They never purge, they never punish. They let them have their come to Jesus moment and move on with complete support.

Judge what they are doing now, allow forgiveness for past mistakes. We cannot allow a right wing coup so we can claim purity.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
132. These are arguments for political expediency
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 06:35 PM
Feb 2019

There is no other characterization.

Everyone on here goes crazy about people who see no difference between the parties, but how far do we go with "forgiveness" before that starts to look true? I do think there is a slippery slope in these arguments, and I do believe white privilege plays a part.

I find the word "purity" offensive since racism, sexual predation and misogyny are not little things and are not tolerable to a huge portion of our constituency.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
45. We're handing over the minorities to the GOP?
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:56 AM
Feb 2019

Good god. It sounds like you should be wearing Colonel Sanders' suit while you say that.

uponit7771

(90,323 posts)
32. Of course it's harder to be principled but principled doesn't mean taking a sledge hammer to fruit
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:25 AM
Feb 2019

... flies to enforce those principles

Zero tolerance doesn't mean political homicide, that sounds like a path to FUD in a political context.

If the Party did an investigation and some Dems disagreed with the outcome, they shouldn't speak their mind?


Of course

I don't see anyone asking decent to be muted

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
25. that's an interesting way to frame it
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:12 AM
Feb 2019

especially if you are getting ready to reward the party of white male privilege.

How about "acceptance of the will of VA voters, who want Democrats to be in charge"

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
37. White male privilege
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:37 AM
Feb 2019

exists because actions by white males get tisk, tisked rather than suffer the consequences of racism and misogyny. Both sides are capable of it because it is so common, we don't even realize we are engaging in it. Rationalizations have to stop, and yes, we are going to see some pretty uncomfortable things if it is to be vanquished.

Nobody ever said getting rid of white male privilege would be easy.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
39. Like I said
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:47 AM
Feb 2019

change is hard, but someone has to take the lead. Maybe we can avoid just watering down these systemic issues. Nobody but offenders themselves caused this.

LongtimeAZDem

(4,494 posts)
56. And by the time we accomplish that change, my daughter will be facing a world in which
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:29 PM
Feb 2019

her children are starving.

Because the planet is heating up, and the oil is running out.

LongtimeAZDem

(4,494 posts)
62. You don't get it; McCarthyist purity witch-hunts never stop with the bad cases
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:39 PM
Feb 2019

they always expand to the mainstream until somebody says "enough".

Look what happened to Franken, then look at what's already happening to Warren.

Enough.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
94. Why does the consequence always have to be lose the office?
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:26 PM
Feb 2019

Surely there are consequences less than that.

It is up to VA voters anyway.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
96. You've hit it. Lesser consequences. That's what I'm saying
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:29 PM
Feb 2019

Is there a way to punish this guy and not punish all of the rest of us by empowering the GOP?

 

doompatrol39

(428 posts)
4. It is a matter of how it is handled.....
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:33 AM
Feb 2019

For years Robert Byrd was a leading Democrat, despite having literally been in the KKK. But he was open about it, talked about it honestly when asked, and spent the rest of his life actively making up for it.

Northham has earned no such respect or benefit of the doubt.

So yes, to answer your question it is absolutely possible if and when it is handled correctly and addressed honestly. Which is why if somehow the Virginia Democratic AG gained power I would have no problem with him. He admitted it, spoke what I thought was fairly eloquently on why it was wrong and he felt bad about it and there's no other evidence that he's being anything less than honest.

In short, the exact opposite of how the Governor has handled this.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
10. I agree, the governor really handled it badly.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:39 AM
Feb 2019

especially suggesting that he wasn't in the picture after apologizing for being in the picture.

that was moronic.

The Democratic Party needs to consider what to do about that - without necessarily going to defenestration as the first move.

rpannier

(24,329 posts)
44. His press conference was the very definition of cringeworthy
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:53 AM
Feb 2019

If it were up to me, the AG would be governor
Fairfax is denying it and I was uncertain. But given that Rep Bobby Scott knows her and knew about it a year ago, I give her more credibility


https://www.democraticunderground.com/10142260857

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
12. Byrd is a perfect example
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:42 AM
Feb 2019

God, the GOP never shut up about him, as if they weren't the party of the modern KKK. But as a party, we decided it was better to have Byrd in place, even with his regrets, because power can mean the power to make things better.

LAS14

(13,777 posts)
5. Absolutely!!! Very well stated. And we'd better start doing it! Loss of job for any ...
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:34 AM
Feb 2019

... misconduct, no matter... how old and no matter what the consequences to the public is not rational. There's a word for what it is, but, of course, I can't think of it. Can someone help me so I can call out "Let's stay away from xxxxxxxxxxxxxx?"

As the OP stated, there are other ways of registering our negative opinion than calling for resignation.

Response to ProfessorPlum (Original post)

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
18. No we can't. Social media has conditioned us otherwise
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:49 AM
Feb 2019

We are cortisol junkies.

I don't think most people are going to wrap their head around what is the actual point of outrage amplification carried out on social media.

It's not about getting you to agree or disagree with any particular proposition, candidate, agenda, or anything else. People don't understand why, for example, during the 2016 elections there was foreign influence pushing completely different and opposing sides of issues.

Because it's not about having people come to rational, measured or proportional conclusions about anything.

The outrage is, itself, the point.
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
49. I dunno
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:21 PM
Feb 2019

Maybe I read it elsewhere, but don't know that I've seen it anywhere in particular. Seemed appropriate.

Johnny2X2X

(19,001 posts)
23. I believe the Fairfax accuser
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:03 AM
Feb 2019

But he should not give up power, the people of Virginia want Democrats in charge. If all 3 of these Dems resign the GOP takes over.

15 years ago a disputed event happened, the woman's version seems more believable to me. But the event is not clear enough to me to hand over the state to fascists.

 

CTAtheist

(88 posts)
137. For me, it's the opposite, I believe him, not her
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:16 PM
Feb 2019

Her account (specifically, the details) does not sound credible at all. I would go so far as to say it's "impossible", but I think it would lead to a detailed, gross discussion no one here would really want to have.

Skinner

(63,645 posts)
26. It looks to me like that might be exactly what is happening.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:13 AM
Feb 2019

Every prominent Democrat has condemned Ralph Northam, and called on him to resign. And rightly so.

And yet, so far Ralph Northam has not given up power.

For better or worse, I think there is a good chance that this is how things are going to stay. Especially because the Lieutenant Governor and Attorney General are also compromised.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
29. I'm actually surprised he has held out this long.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:17 AM
Feb 2019

I hope they are actually thinking about this strategically, with both the interests of their constituents and the consequences of his actions both taken into account.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
50. It's not as if it requires any effort
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:22 PM
Feb 2019

Actually resigning would require affirmative steps on his part.

Simply remaining the governor doesn't require any particular action.

It's also not as if there is any way to force him to quit.

awesomerwb1

(4,267 posts)
30. I agree
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:19 AM
Feb 2019

There aren't any perfect politicians. You can't be in order to become one.

I'd rather have a Dem who made a mistake many years ago than one of the current russiapublicans. Any day.

Anyone who thinks the KGOP guy will be an improvement over Northan or the next two in line is not being realistic.

Bite the bullet and move on.

In It to Win It

(8,228 posts)
34. I've been avoiding having any opinion of the Virginia situation
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:28 AM
Feb 2019

Because it’s conflicting (and I also don’t live in Virginia and it’s Virginians’ opinions that really matter).

I believe that in the current political climate, you can’t disapprove of something and remain in power without appearing hypocritical.

If Northam was a Republican, I’d have no problem calling for his resignation... but we need all the governorships we can get.

I’m not familiar with Virginia’s laws and their lines of succession after Lt. Governor. If Northam and Fairfax could resign and Virginia’s governorship still goes to a Democrat, do it.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
99. A slight hypocrisy compared to the
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:35 PM
Feb 2019

outlandish hypocrisy of Repubs. They have no problem with it. That's why the Orange Menace is in office.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
112. It's got to be weighed
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 02:02 PM
Feb 2019

with some practicality. If he were a current KKK member, it would weigh a lot more against him.

spooky3

(34,425 posts)
101. A big difference that I think has been overlooked
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:38 PM
Feb 2019

Is that Democrats’ policy positions, initiatives, voting records, etc., have been much more favorable toward women, people of color, disabled persons, the poor and lower income Americans, etc., than have Republicans’. Northam is no exception since he has been in office.

These good acts can not justify wrongdoing, obviously. But there is a world of difference between a politician who recently and without remorse engaged in wrongdoing, and who has worked to benefit the privileged, etc., vs. someone who recognized a past bad act, has not done it recently, and has worked consistently for good. And in this case, we do not even know for certain whether Northam was in the photo or was aware it had been placed on his page.

As a VA voter, I want us to slow down, investigate, then address what we find.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
108. I think it has been proven that students chose the pictures for their page
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:57 PM
Feb 2019

Again, not a good move on his part, and I don't like the way he has handled this.

But making good policy and fighting the GOP go a long way. We can punish this guy without rewarding the GOP.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
113. I'll dig it up - supposedly the editor of the yearbook described the process
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 02:03 PM
Feb 2019

about each of the students submitting their pictures in an envelope with their name on it.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
114. here's one story on it
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 02:05 PM
Feb 2019
https://wtvr.com/2019/02/05/yearbook-staffer-racist-photo/


Again, I want to emphasize that the smart thing is to have the guy make it up to us- for not revealing this earlier, for not fessing up, for not telling the truth about it and his bungled handling. But without rewarding the GOP

spooky3

(34,425 posts)
118. Thank you; I had not seen the comments
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 02:17 PM
Feb 2019

from the editor. Strange that the editor did not know whether there were any faculty oversight of the process. But this should be investigated.

I agree with your other comments.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
35. sure, republicans do that regularly to hold power
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:30 AM
Feb 2019

...it perpetuates problems in our democratic institutions like racism, sexism, homophobia, and creates space for cretins in that party to operate with impunity.

But hey, we can do that, right? We can compromise on core values in an effort to maintain power ,and still hold true to the Democratic principles we espouse, still remain true to the people who elect our leaders?

In what universe? This is what breeds cynicism in politics, compromising on basic values, rationalizing them into little more than fine words.

Is there going to be some sort of overt effort on issues of race from these political leaders, in return for our comity and forgiveness? What's the real value in these flawed public officials?

What else are we prepared to compromise on?

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
36. your attitude takes a huge dump on the will of the voters
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:33 AM
Feb 2019

especially if the results involve handing power over to the GOP. And especially if it makes situations much worse for the people we care about.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
42. your 'attitude' immediately disregards that constituency
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:52 AM
Feb 2019

...and assumes that flawed leadership is sufficient and inviolable by virtue of their Democratic affiliation alone.

It's not even a Hobsen's choice you're offering, it's an ultimatum. Where's the line? What else are you willing to compromise to hold power?

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
51. I'm fine with having a better/perfect person inhabit a Democratic governorship in VA
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:24 PM
Feb 2019

if that person can be found. Having the GOP end up with more power because of this would be to disregard the constituency.

Especially ironic, since the GOP would actually _approve_ of the yearbook picture.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
57. that would be a consequence of the pols behavior
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:31 PM
Feb 2019

...assume I'm a Va. voter in this discussion, because I'm not personally affecting anything there, despite your characterization of my 'attitude.'

The pols' behavior either matters to me or it doesn't. Compromising/rationalizing objections based on political calculations about the power balance in Virginia isn't some noble stance. It's the essence of political expediency, no matter how you dress it up.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
67. imagine you are a VA voter, and you have to vote between two white guys
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:50 PM
Feb 2019

who probably have some racism in their past, based on them being white guys in VA. One is a Democrat, the other a Republican.

It's not a great choice, but the people in VA made (what I think is ) the best choice available.

Let's press our politicians on their policies.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
73. all I see is a whitewash
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:10 PM
Feb 2019

...dress it up any way that makes you feel better about it.

This is how racism, sexism, etc. are institutionalized in our democratic system. Consider that as you make your compromises.

 

DirtEdonE

(1,220 posts)
46. What breeds true cynicism in politics
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:00 PM
Feb 2019

Is when one party capitulates continually to traitors that run the other party.

Like the man said, "The position seems to be "well, you got us. Our politician is a flawed human being. Therefore we are going to throw away all of the work, money, and time spent getting them elected. And be sure to vote for Democrats next time, it's totally worth it."

Why bother if we're going to purge our own winners after every election based on pubican ratfcking?

No human is perfect. Staying true to our values doesn't mean creating the perfect human being because if it does, we might as well hand over control to the gop right now. They're concerned with winning not values or perfection. And I'm sure you can see the results of allowing them to cheat their way to power. Those results from pubican policies put in place after they cheated their way to power are far more offensive to women and minorities than the allegations against our own.

What outcome are you looking for? Where is the righteous outrage against gop politicians? We're losing seats we've already won!
They're cheating their way to more power. This will not end well but hey, you'll still have your values.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
47. keeping bad people in our party in power won't change the republican party
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:07 PM
Feb 2019

...it will just ensure racist, misogynistic, homophobic, xenophobic government.

But hey, you'll still have your party.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
54. Neither will defenestrating every Democratic politician who has ever made a bad decision
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:27 PM
Feb 2019

but you'll still have your (extremely small) party.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
61. we seem to have held up so far to the values people are demanding in Va. out of the elected Dems
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:37 PM
Feb 2019

...unless you view our party as already institutionally compromised, you'd have to admit we've held closely to these standards I describe in the people we elect and allow to serve.

Where we haven't, we are justifiably chastised and challenged.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
64. Have we?
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:46 PM
Feb 2019

i can't honestly say i know exactly how many of our current Democratic leaders ever did or said something racist in their past.

Can you? Or are you reacting to this one because it is the only one we are hearing about.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
68. either you think our party is morally compromised or not
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:57 PM
Feb 2019

...your argument is that Democrats we elect are similarly flawed?

The lengths. Just amazing.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
79. uh, no. I'm saying you don't know how flawed they are or not
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:15 PM
Feb 2019

unless you have personally done all the vetting of all of our elected officials. To assume that they are all as pure as the driven snow may lead to similar surprises as what is coming out of VA.

I'll vote for better candidates! Hell, I support better candidates in the primaries (IMHO). I vote for the better candidate in the general. I'm not averse to the argument for better candidates.

I'm also not wild about voluntarily giving the GOP more power. Let's try to balance those things, is all I'm saying.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
102. If he is currently voting as a non-racist
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:39 PM
Feb 2019

why does he have to be kicked out for the past? No one should ever change their minds to become more progressive, since you still can't be in the party.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
111. What has he done in the past year?
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 02:01 PM
Feb 2019

or two? I don't get your sneering here. You seem to be alleging he is still a racist today and would vote accordingly? Proof please.

 

DirtEdonE

(1,220 posts)
59. Handing power over to the TRULY evil pubicans
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:35 PM
Feb 2019

Will only serve to totally destroy whatever chance we have of effecting true change. But hey, you'll still have trump and the rest of his traitors.

Totalitarian government doesn't allow protest so you'd better enjoy this while you can.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
63. that would be a consequence of these pols' behaviors
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:46 PM
Feb 2019

...voters shouldn't be expected to automatically dismiss those out of some cold political calculation about keeping Democrats in power.

Who knows, maybe most Va. voters will agree with you. That doesn't erase the ugliness behind all of the political expediency. Expecting that not to permeate the democratic process and decision-making is wish and a prayer. Where will the compromising on basic values of decency and humanity stop? Where does our party draw the line after deciding power is more important than values?

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
66. It's not "cold"!
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:47 PM
Feb 2019

It's a very hot reflection on the harm to actual people's lives that happens when Republicans are in power.

As flawed as Democratic politicians may be /have been in their personal lives, at least we can try to push them on actual policy.

 

DirtEdonE

(1,220 posts)
69. This is exactly how pootin and trump stole the last election
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:59 PM
Feb 2019

And it's going to be exactly how they're going to steal the next one if we don't wake up soon.

DIVIDE AND CONQUER.

pootin and trump had bots sewing discord among Democrats for the entire 2016 campaign. Playing one faction against the other until Democrats were so divided many didn't even bother to vote, many wasted votes on third party shills like Jill Stein who it is now known was DIRECTLY involved with pootin. Some didn't bother to vote for president!

Listen, all of you who are demanding so much more of the Democratic Party while you allow the pubicans to serially abuse democracy, if you don't want four more years (and quite possibly the last four years of any presidency) you'd better wake up to the fact that YOU'RE BEING PLAYED AGAIN.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
71. nonsense
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:05 PM
Feb 2019

...Putin and Trump stole the election. Period.

It had nothing to do with Democrats supporting objectionable politicians to maintain power.

 

DirtEdonE

(1,220 posts)
93. It had to do with divide and conquer
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:26 PM
Feb 2019

And this is nothing more than divide and conquer. This is NO different. They use any issue they can find and this one is no different.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
106. you have to make your own determination about what's important to you
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:55 PM
Feb 2019

...it's wrong to suggest people should stifle their objections because Putin might like the squabbling.

It's absurd, but you go with that.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
121. you jumped into the middle of this discussion
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 04:37 PM
Feb 2019

...lecturing me about 'capitulating' to republicans.

Lol, indeed.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
124. 'my capitalist underpants?'
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 05:00 PM
Feb 2019

...enjoy your stay.

I'm going to respectfully decline to view your posts anymore.

 

DirtEdonE

(1,220 posts)
126. yeah, thanks again
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 05:02 PM
Feb 2019

I knew you'd never get the joke. But I had a feeling I'd get threats.

Enjoy your stay indeed. What are you doing now? Reporting me like a good citizen?

Good citizen. LOFL

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
70. cause and effect
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:03 PM
Feb 2019

...it's escaping you why we'd need to 'push' these folks on policy.

Once you begin compromising on basic values to maintain power, where does it end? What else are you prepared to compromise on to maintain power?

It's a cold calculation, if your values include supporting 'flawed' politicians. Wrapping it up in political expediency doesn't make it any less cold.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
81. amazing how concerns are reduced to political calculations
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:16 PM
Feb 2019

...and we wonder why these problems persist without redress by our government, by the people we elect.

Our government is a reflection of everything we choose to neglect, and also every cynical impulse we project.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
86. uh. Duh. Political calculations are rather important
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:21 PM
Feb 2019

Politics is a fight over resources, and I want my policies implemented sometimes, whether it is done by the "right" people or not.

Lyndon Johnson wouldn't have survived this scrutiny. And he did more for the cause of equality than nearly any president before or since.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
91. and you must wonder why those policies don't get implemented
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:24 PM
Feb 2019

...why the problems persist, even with Democratic representation at many levels.

Duh.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
95. Was Northam implementing the New Jim Crow in VA or something?
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:27 PM
Feb 2019

As far as I can tell, his official actions and policies were fine, including supporting medically necessary abortions.

I'm _talking_ about judging policies. you are the one who wants to know the contents of their hearts.

bigtree

(85,984 posts)
105. Northam has an issue with truthfulness
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:52 PM
Feb 2019

...not a 'fine' characteristic in our elected officials.

You know well I've said nothing about 'judging the contents of their hearts.'

treestar

(82,383 posts)
100. What are their current positions on the issues?
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:36 PM
Feb 2019

Like Byrd, if Northam is voting the right way, where is the hypocrisy. We're only talking about punishing him for a past act.

 

DirtEdonE

(1,220 posts)
40. I do believe it is time
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:49 AM
Feb 2019

for what has been termed in more normal times "proportional response" - a political death sentence seems a bit harsh particularly when the pubicans are taking exactly ZERO casualties in the entire process.

ZeroSomeBrains

(638 posts)
43. I agree
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:53 AM
Feb 2019

I would also like it to apply to Elizabeth Warren who has already apologized to the Native American community. This purity test that one must never be allowed to make a mistake is foolish. I got arrested once for a weed sale and it is now expunged off my record. Does that make me not pure enough by the current standard. I guess my question is where is the line and maybe we should be a little more forgiving at times.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
48. It's up to Virginia and the voters there.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 12:09 PM
Feb 2019

It's unconscionable that politicians seeking attention immediately climbed on the bandwagon to interfere in a state's elected officials. No matter who it is. They could express an opinion but make it clear it's up to Virginia.

They have opened a can of worms, making it the rule that party members and politicians all over the country can come down to oust any state elected official. That's outrageous, to me. What hte person did is not the issue. The state is responsible for handling its own elections and elected officials. Virginia is quite capable of doing just that.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
77. You can thank the advent of social media for that.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:12 PM
Feb 2019

It's the present society we have now, and also because of it the politics of VA as well as every state affects all of us to one degree or another. Whether that's good or not is still out for debate. VA will still decide it's fate and affect our's in the end.

spooky3

(34,425 posts)
119. Thank you. One of the things that bothered me about the
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 02:24 PM
Feb 2019

immediate outcry was that some people with little knowledge of the state, of Northam’s actions as an elected official (eg pro choice, expand Medicaid, pro jobs), or even of his very firmly anti-Trump campaign at a time when other politicians were tiptoeing, were calling him a DINO, etc.

questionseverything

(9,646 posts)
128. medicaid expansion was huge and it took northham to do it
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 05:28 PM
Feb 2019

yes he bumbled his apology but his record shows him to be a very progressive politician

if I was someone that now had healthcare (because of Medicaid expansion) I could easily forgive him for a mistake over 30 years ago

I seem to be in the minority @ du but I think the sexual assault accusations are many times worse than the old pictures

 

EveHammond13

(2,855 posts)
74. What needs to happen? Tom Perez needs to declare an approach - a fighting approach? I say yes.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:10 PM
Feb 2019

He needs to provide guidance for how we handle the tanker truck of ratf*cking that is coming our way.

And it can't be "collapse at every turn."

Because of exactly what you said -- people gave up their time, their family time, their soccer game time, to canvass for our people. They gave up $30 they needed for shoes for their kids so our candidates could run ads and pay for staff. We CANNOT just throw their hard work in the trash.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
83. Well said. yeah, I worry that that kind of waste in pursuit of purity
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:18 PM
Feb 2019

also breeds cynicism in the electorate. What's the point of working for/supporting the Democratic candidate? We might find out he had bad judgement in his 20s, after all.

That point was driven home to me when the Democratic party allowed Franken to be thrown overboard. The voters from MN who had worked so hard to get him there were PISSED. And rightfully so.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
84. Yes! There has to be some other way to punish them!
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:19 PM
Feb 2019

And their voters!

Then be more careful next time. Vet, vet, vet and use it against them in the primary.

 

shanny

(6,709 posts)
87. Yes it can, or should.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:21 PM
Feb 2019

If someone like Northam has transgressed in the past I think we ought to give him a chance to MAKE IT UP TO US--bigly--instead of throwing him under the bus and running over him with a repuke. Were his actions out of bounds? Then take responsibility and ATONE for them. That goes for Herring also. Fairfax? I dunno how to resolve that...but I really don't want to see a rush to judgment a la Franken.

ProfessorPlum

(11,254 posts)
90. well said.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:23 PM
Feb 2019

this is similar to other thoughts I was having but you articulated it really well. Make it up to us. We can do that without helping the GOP.

 

lancelyons

(988 posts)
88. I would not be surprised if the Dems just let the GOP have the state even with Gerrymandering discus
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:21 PM
Feb 2019

I would not be surprised if the Dems just let the GOP have the state even with Gerrymandering discussions coming up.

This is how the DEMS destroy themselves from within.

Just give the keys to the VA government to the Republican speaker and call it a lost so you can walk on the high road.

Walking the high road is I guess worth having the GOP gerry mander in VA and prevent African American voting.


Dems can be so STUPID some times... only to keep the high road.

 

DirtEdonE

(1,220 posts)
125. IMO this can be pretty much boiled down to
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 05:01 PM
Feb 2019

Win first. Clean house later.

Zero tolerance is great when you're in a position to apply it equally. Otherwise, you always lose.

Then, we'll all have to face a permanent pubican majority. Think about that before you insist the next imperfect (and we're ALL imperfect) Democrat is ratfcked into resigning while they seat another justice on the Supreme Court like kavanaugh, the blackout drunk serial sex abuser whom no one seems to be insisting he resign. Or trump the serial sex abuser in the White House.

Where's the hue and cry for them?

I'm sick and tired of losing. And it's worse when we do it to ourselves.

Win first. Then clean house.

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
131. There's ratfucking, hard core racism, then there's
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 05:40 PM
Feb 2019

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a Greater Good.



It's like fighting a defensive war; you may vehemently disapprove of taking a life but you're fighting to save more lives (WWI and WWII were defensive wars; there have been none since that I know of).

TheRealNorth

(9,474 posts)
134. Bill Clinton was a flawed person too
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 06:40 PM
Feb 2019

But we (Democrats) didn't all capitulate to the Republicans and impeach Bill for lying about cheating on his wife while in office.

Or were we wrong back then for not impeaching/convicting Bill Clinton?

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