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By James Hohmann
February 20 at 10:06 AM
THE BIG IDEA: Barack Obama pleaded with a crowd of teenagers on Tuesday night to defy stereotypes about what it means to be a man of color.
We live in a culture where our worth is measured by how much money we have and how famous we are, the former president lamented in Oakland, Calif. I will tell you, at the end of the day, the thing that will give you confidence is not that. I know a lot of rich people that are all messed up!
Joined onstage by Golden State Warriors basketball star Steph Curry, Obama decried bullying and selfishness while imploring young people who are involved in his My Brothers Keeper initiative to pursue causes greater than themselves. He explained the concept of self-worth and touted the virtues of being sensitive to other peoples feelings. He criticized materialism and encouraged monogamy.
If you are really confident about your financial situation, you probably are not going to be wearing an eight-pound chain around your neck because you know, I got bank. I dont have to show you how much Ive got because I feel good, Obama said. If you are very confident about your sexuality, you don't have to have eight women around you twerking
because [you know], Ive got one woman, who I am very happy with. And shes a strong woman.
Obama blamed pop culture for amplifying toxic messages about modern masculinity. Lets face it: A lot of hip-hop and rap music is built around me showing how I got more money than you, I can disrespect you and you cant do nothing about it, Im going to talk about you and punk you, he said. Ironically, that actually shows the vulnerability that you feel!
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SunSeeker
(51,550 posts)PTWB
(4,131 posts)I miss his leadership dearly. Knowing he was at the helm was always able to give me peace of mind.
PBC_Democrat
(401 posts)We need to teach all young men what it really means to be a man.
To raise and provide for a family, to respect yourself and others, to contribute to society- thats the true measure of a man
When I say it I come across as a racist or an old crazy man.