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left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
Fri Feb 22, 2019, 12:37 PM Feb 2019

The President Of The Time's Up Movement Resigned Over Allegations Of Sexual Assault Against Her Son

The president of Time's Up, the legal defense fund created more than a year ago to fight systemic sexual harassment in workplaces across the country, has resigned after her son was accused of sexual assault.

Lisa Borders announced she was leaving her post on Monday after four months on the job "to address family concerns that require my singular focus."

Last week a California woman accused Borders' son, Garry "Dijon" Bowden Jr., of touching her, kissing her neck, and brushing his erect penis against her body during a "healing session." The allegations were first reported in the Los Angeles Times.

According to his lawyer, Bowden maintains he was giving the woman a healing massage as she had requested. The lawyer, Alan Jackson, showed the Times text messages in which the woman reportedly thanked Bowden for the massage calling it "gentle and authentic and loving."

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/maryanngeorgantopoulos/the-president-of-the-times-up-movement-resigned-over

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The President Of The Time's Up Movement Resigned Over Allegations Of Sexual Assault Against Her Son (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Feb 2019 OP
Ah, the irony! Red Raider 85 Feb 2019 #1
This title makes it sound like she sexually assaulted her son. Squinch Feb 2019 #2
I thought the same thing. Poorly written. NurseJackie Feb 2019 #5
Here... fixed it. (I'm only an amateur, and I did better than the "professionals") NurseJackie Feb 2019 #6
If I were giving massages of this nature, I'd have a damn checklist spelling out exactly what sorts mr_lebowski Feb 2019 #3
Yeah ismnotwasm Feb 2019 #4
I love to get massages but stopped because the constant babbling was interfering with the in2herbs Feb 2019 #7

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
6. Here... fixed it. (I'm only an amateur, and I did better than the "professionals")
Fri Feb 22, 2019, 01:11 PM
Feb 2019
OLD: The President Of The Time's Up Movement Resigned Over Allegations Of Sexual Assault Against Her Son

NEW: In Response To Son Being Charged With Sexual Assault, President Of The Time's Up Movement Resigns
 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
3. If I were giving massages of this nature, I'd have a damn checklist spelling out exactly what sorts
Fri Feb 22, 2019, 12:55 PM
Feb 2019

of semi-intimate contact the person receiving the massage was desiring, and they have to initial each one (or not, of course, in which case it doesn't happen), and sign at the bottom.

1) Closed-mouth kissing and/or nuzzling for the upper back/neck region
2) Incidental contact with clothed groin area of massage therapist

etc, etc, etc.

You're pretty damn dumb to not cover yer rear in that way if you're going to be giving massages of that kind, I gotta say. As a man, I mean.

ismnotwasm

(41,966 posts)
4. Yeah
Fri Feb 22, 2019, 01:05 PM
Feb 2019

I occasionally go to a standard massage therapist who overshares—I’m a good listener— and so comes across as just a tad creepy, he’s really a good guy, and a great masseuse, but conversationally a bit strange. Can’t imagine what he’d do in a more intimate setting.

in2herbs

(2,944 posts)
7. I love to get massages but stopped because the constant babbling was interfering with the
Fri Feb 22, 2019, 01:49 PM
Feb 2019

tranquility I was trying to achieve. Now I stick to acupuncture.

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