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Ohiogal

(31,929 posts)
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 05:35 PM Mar 2019

Utah teacher forces Catholic student to wipe ashes off his forehead

A Utah elementary school teacher apologized to one of her Catholic students Wednesday - and may still face disciplinary action - after she forced him to wash off the Ash Wednesday cross on his forehead, the boy’s family said.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/utah-teacher-forced-student-to-wash-off-ash-wednesday-cross-on-forehead-family-says/ar-BBUv3Yi?li=BBnb7Kz#page=2

How did this woman ever become a teacher if she never read the First Amendmen?

(Sorry about the source of the article... I couldn’t find it on another more reputable site)

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Utah teacher forces Catholic student to wipe ashes off his forehead (Original Post) Ohiogal Mar 2019 OP
Oh crap, did student's forehead lose it's magical powers? NightWatcher Mar 2019 #1
First post in. theboss Mar 2019 #2
Just as valid and realistic to realize nations, economies and politics are just as imaginary. LanternWaste Mar 2019 #4
Hopefully, the same rules that protect "mythology" also protect atheists. hunter Mar 2019 #10
May I inquire sarisataka Mar 2019 #11
You know the answer to that Jake Stern Mar 2019 #19
Absolutely. MicaelS Mar 2019 #24
Yeah the contrast is jarring workinclasszero Mar 2019 #34
It's not about "magical power" it's about humility and accepting one's mortality. harumph Mar 2019 #13
Good post, harumph. Thanks! n/t pnwmom Mar 2019 #16
+1 Chin music Mar 2019 #26
+1 n/t area51 Mar 2019 #41
Yeah that could work in other ways too workinclasszero Mar 2019 #31
Is she anti-catholic or just managed to reach at least Panich52 Mar 2019 #3
I actually attended this elementary school some forty-odd years ago. BeeBee Mar 2019 #14
Maybe the teacher thought the student was just trying to get attention. LanternWaste Mar 2019 #5
Well, she's apologized. As long as it was an overdue learning experience Hortensis Mar 2019 #6
What that teacher did is outrageous .... CatMor Mar 2019 #7
Never saw Ash Wed Ashes before? Ever? Good Lord. Chin music Mar 2019 #27
Easy - you ever been to Utah FreeState Mar 2019 #33
" How did this woman ever become a teacher if she never read the First Amendment? " jcmaine72 Mar 2019 #8
It is afterall Utah. Wellstone ruled Mar 2019 #9
Woot there it is. Chin music Mar 2019 #28
There are Communties in Utah were Wellstone ruled Mar 2019 #38
Is there some deep-seated Mormon grudge for Catholics? Blue_Tires Mar 2019 #12
Yes, there is dalton99a Mar 2019 #30
I never get why people willingly smear toner dust on their forehead. madinmaryland Mar 2019 #15
Tradition, bearing witness, pride in their Faith. OnDoutside Mar 2019 #17
It's also a show of who is more pious, to put pressure on those who do not attend service. TheBlackAdder Mar 2019 #25
Meh, sure there are some like that, but in general, that's tosh. When I was young, I used to get up OnDoutside Mar 2019 #32
It's not that some were like that, it that was one of the church objectives that fed the tradition. TheBlackAdder Mar 2019 #36
I'm able to give the Church a kicking as well as the next person, but that just isn't true. OnDoutside Mar 2019 #39
Do you really think that's what was the reason a 10 or 11 year old kid wore his ashes? WillowTree Mar 2019 #40
No, it's because he's slowly being indoctrinated into the church. TheBlackAdder Mar 2019 #42
The ashes come from burning the palms used on previous Palm Sunday, pnwmom Mar 2019 #18
And I've been telling people they're from burning last year's Paczkis. JustABozoOnThisBus Mar 2019 #37
People are weird. Dr. Strange Mar 2019 #20
Wow, I bet you also wonder why people wear yarmulke and hijabs. MicaelS Mar 2019 #35
Not everyone is used to being around practising Catholics csziggy Mar 2019 #21
CNN is now carrying this story on their website. n/t musicblind Mar 2019 #22
The teacher was suspended Dorian Gray Mar 2019 #23
teacher just sounds kina clueless to me imavoter Mar 2019 #29

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
1. Oh crap, did student's forehead lose it's magical powers?
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 05:41 PM
Mar 2019

I don't care what the teacher did, I just wish we could get passed the "mythology phase" of the human experience.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
4. Just as valid and realistic to realize nations, economies and politics are just as imaginary.
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 05:54 PM
Mar 2019

Just as valid and realistic to realize nations, politics, economies and philosophy are just as imaginary, and that we should "get over it"

But I get it... some imaginary constructs are more real than others, or something.

hunter

(38,304 posts)
10. Hopefully, the same rules that protect "mythology" also protect atheists.
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 06:08 PM
Mar 2019

Imagine a classroom where the teacher singled out the kid who didn't have ashes...

I grew up Jehovah's Witness and then Quaker after the Witnesses became intolerant of my mom's politics. I never participated in the flag salute and believe me, it was uncomfortable at times. But I'll bet a kid who refused the flag salute for non-religious reasons would have faced even more difficulties in most of the U.S.A..

The same authoritarians who would wipe ashes off a Catholic child's forehead might also force an atheist's child to say prayers in school.




Jake Stern

(3,145 posts)
19. You know the answer to that
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 06:50 PM
Mar 2019

Apparently, it's okay to mock and belittle a Christian student who was compelled to remove a religious symbol but the shit would hit the fan if a DUer mocked and belittled a Muslim student who was forced to remove her hijab.






harumph

(1,894 posts)
13. It's not about "magical power" it's about humility and accepting one's mortality.
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 06:20 PM
Mar 2019

I would think that sentiment would also be valued by agnostics and atheists. It's about
being mindful and repentance.

I'm a mostly lapsed - "Chreaster" Catholic... but the anti-Catholic bias at DU is hard to take at times.
But hey - the Klan were (and are) anti-Catholic too - if that's any consolation.

 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
31. Yeah that could work in other ways too
Sat Mar 9, 2019, 02:03 PM
Mar 2019

Like punishing atheist kids in school for what they don't believe.

If we aren't all free, none of us are.

Panich52

(5,829 posts)
3. Is she anti-catholic or just managed to reach at least
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 05:46 PM
Mar 2019

her mid-20s without ever hearing of the importance to them of Ash Wednesday?

I'm a confirmed atheist, but I just can't think of how a teacher could be so disrespectfully ignorant.

BeeBee

(1,074 posts)
14. I actually attended this elementary school some forty-odd years ago.
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 06:31 PM
Mar 2019

My old hometown of Bountiful, UT is about 80% Mormon. I would be willing to bet that she probably didn't have any idea what it was. Unfortunately, a lot of people there live in a Mormon bubble.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
5. Maybe the teacher thought the student was just trying to get attention.
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 05:55 PM
Mar 2019

That seems the trendy bumper sticker week, so maybe she could co-opt it.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
6. Well, she's apologized. As long as it was an overdue learning experience
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 05:57 PM
Mar 2019

and attitude is what it should be...oh, well? The latter is in question, of course, but time and feedback can be big factors in developing awareness.

We used to live in a neighborhood with a lot of Mormons, if that's part of what happened here. Same as any other people -- some by nature (assuming liberals and some conservatives) could be open to and respect others, while many others took pride in not. Their church didn't exactly encourage ecumenicalism, and I'm very sure it just didn't occur to some to wonder if they should know something about, and respect, other religions anyway.

CatMor

(6,212 posts)
7. What that teacher did is outrageous ....
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 05:57 PM
Mar 2019

I question her ability to be a teacher. What could she have been thinking to treat a child in that manner. How could you be an adult teacher and not know of Ash Wednesday.

FreeState

(10,570 posts)
33. Easy - you ever been to Utah
Sat Mar 9, 2019, 02:13 PM
Mar 2019

I never once saw Ashes on foreheads there - I lived there for 8 years. I worked with people that had never ventured outside their town.

jcmaine72

(1,773 posts)
8. " How did this woman ever become a teacher if she never read the First Amendment? "
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 06:01 PM
Mar 2019

Sadly, a person doesn't have to be smart or well-read to become a teacher. Before switching my major to history, I was an education major. While I generally found the majority of my fellow education majors to be intelligent, intellectually curious, highly dedicated and motivated people, there were more than a few dim bulbs in the group who were passing their classes that caused me to think to myself: "Man, I feel sorry for any future kid who gets saddled with that dope as a teacher".

So, yeah, unfortunately, it happens.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
9. It is afterall Utah.
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 06:07 PM
Mar 2019

The predominant Religion in Bountiful runs the show in every School in the County as well as the local Government.


This Teacher just scored points at her Ward House.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
38. There are Communties in Utah were
Sat Mar 9, 2019, 02:56 PM
Mar 2019

you conform to their norms and Religious beliefs,or they drive you and yours out. Been there and lived to tell about it.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
12. Is there some deep-seated Mormon grudge for Catholics?
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 06:16 PM
Mar 2019

Or is it just some garden variety weaksauce douchebaggery?

FWIW, sometimes I used to tag along to my ex-girlfriend's church (Seventh Day Adventist) and the anti-Catholic invective in the sermons made me feel so embarrassed and I'm not even Catholic... So I stopped going.

dalton99a

(81,410 posts)
30. Yes, there is
Sat Mar 9, 2019, 01:58 PM
Mar 2019
The root of the conflict is doctrinal. The premise of the Book of Mormon is that the Bible is a corrupt and incomplete account of God’s revelation—an implicit criticism of Catholic doctrine. The Book of Mormon also makes reference to an evil “church which is most abominable above all other churches,” described more colorfully as “the mother of harlots.” Though the Book of Mormon does not identify this evil institution as the Catholic Church, many Mormons have believed the two to be one and the same since the publication of the Book of Mormon in 1830.

Mormon mistrust of the Roman Catholic Church came to a head with the 1958 publication of Bruce R. McConkie’s encyclopedia-like Mormon Doctrine, which was not an official LDS publication, though McConkie was a low-ranking church leader. McConkie’s entry for Catholicism simply referred readers to another entry called “Church of the Devil,” which explicitly identified the Roman Catholic Church as being “most abominable above all other churches.” McConkie’s book so upset the Catholic bishop of Salt Lake City that he visited the LDS church president in tears, which convinced the LDS leader to rein in anti-Catholic sentiment. Derogatory references to the Catholic Church were removed from later editions of Mormon Doctrine (which is now out of print), and Mormon-Catholic relations in Utah became much friendlier in the 1960s and thereafter.

https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2012/08/mormon-catholic-relations-the-two-churches-havent-always-gotten-along-as-well-as-mitt-romney-and-paul-ryan-do.html

TheBlackAdder

(28,169 posts)
25. It's also a show of who is more pious, to put pressure on those who do not attend service.
Sat Mar 9, 2019, 01:44 PM
Mar 2019

.

Besides being a tribal bonding ritual.

The more who go to church, the more the collection plate fills.

.

OnDoutside

(19,948 posts)
32. Meh, sure there are some like that, but in general, that's tosh. When I was young, I used to get up
Sat Mar 9, 2019, 02:10 PM
Mar 2019

for the early mass on Ash Wednesday because it was tradition, and it was a nice thing to do, just as it was a tradition to get our throats blessed on the feast day of St Blaise. In my years of doing so, I never once heard someone say they were doing so to browbeat anyone else to do so.

pnwmom

(108,960 posts)
18. The ashes come from burning the palms used on previous Palm Sunday,
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 06:41 PM
Mar 2019

which commemorates the Christian story about Jesus's welcome into Jerusalem shortly before he was imprisoned and crucified.

Now, on Ash Wednesday, some Christians wear them in a ritual of repentance for their sins -- so it's similar to Yom Kippur for Jewish people.

Dr. Strange

(25,917 posts)
20. People are weird.
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 07:14 PM
Mar 2019

I've seen people wearing a yarmulke. I've seen people wear a hijab. And believe it or not, once, while driving through the south, I saw a dude wearing a Dallas Cowboys jersey. How do you explain behavior like that? It's inexplicable, if you ask me!

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
21. Not everyone is used to being around practising Catholics
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 07:39 PM
Mar 2019
What are those black spots on peoples forheads on msnbc?
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=11894177

I grew up in the south and never saw anyone with that mark until people started showing up on TV with them. Fortunately, at some point it was explained in a public discussion and I never had to ask the question in my ignorance.

Dorian Gray

(13,479 posts)
23. The teacher was suspended
Sat Mar 9, 2019, 07:44 AM
Mar 2019

(which I believe was right.)

The teacher apologized to the boy. (Which I believe was right.)

She said she made a mistake in doing this. (I don't know if she knew what it meant, but she refused to listen to the boy when he explained.)

When asked, the boy said he felt sorry for her and what she is going through. (Which shows a big heart.)

I think she should be reprimanded, and this can be chalked up to a BIG GIANT learning experience for everyone involved.

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