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BSdetect

(8,998 posts)
Wed May 15, 2019, 09:25 PM May 2019

So I met an actual trumpster today working at the local hardware store.

I was dumbfounded by his adherence to pure bullshit.

At one point in our somewhat amicable exchange he claimed that income tax was a bad idea and the country could be funded by "tariffs".

He was a guy working at (I am guessing) would be about $14 an hour. I forgot to ask if he would like to be ripped off if he worked for drumph.

He just ignored points such as drumph's 10,000 plus documented lies.

I conclude that they cannot be moved from their cognitive dissonance positions.

I left him with the thought that millions of people are bankrupted by health care costs.

He was the first trumpster I have encountered here in Northern CA. I've met many many others who are enraged by drumph.

Still, it is rather scary.



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So I met an actual trumpster today working at the local hardware store. (Original Post) BSdetect May 2019 OP
Hes not out of the ordinary... HopeAgain May 2019 #1
We have a Trump Humper GP6971 May 2019 #2
I am surrounded by them prudence54 May 2019 #3
You have my sympathies... that and 5 bux buys you a cup of Starbucks!! InAbLuEsTaTe May 2019 #7
I have found that certain phrases, certain subjects louis-t May 2019 #29
My former best friend Boxerfan May 2019 #4
That's true: brainwashing sharedvalues May 2019 #18
If you could reason with tRump supporters, they wouldn't be tRump supporters... lastlib May 2019 #20
Yes. Instead of stating facts that can be easily shut out. Have them justify their rationale. TheBlackAdder May 2019 #33
IMHO,... MarianJack May 2019 #5
Yep, as George Will said, the GOP party has become trump cult onetexan Jun 2019 #47
I gave up long ago engaging with those deplorable tRUMPeledforeskins!! InAbLuEsTaTe May 2019 #6
WELL DONE!!!! ChubbyStar May 2019 #11
I try not to talk to ignorant people. demosincebirth May 2019 #8
I saw my first MAGA hat in Minnesota riverwalker May 2019 #9
Trump's government is assassinating Trump supporters? rsdsharp May 2019 #24
No, no ,no. It's the "deep state" that's assassinating louis-t May 2019 #30
Just say they already scanned his license plate and face, and now have his voice print-after mailing TheBlackAdder May 2019 #34
Had a very close friend who came out of a stint in the Army as a hardcore Trumper Jake Stern May 2019 #10
that's so sad renate May 2019 #14
My husband's brother called today to wish him happy birthday mountain grammy May 2019 #12
Health care is something they don't agree with red Don on ... uponit7771 May 2019 #13
Better luck talking to a wall. djacq May 2019 #15
True. Blue_true May 2019 #16
Well, at least we know well here in America, is how it happened in Germany. rusty quoin May 2019 #17
This is why I don't buy that "Fox viewers will change by watching Democrats in Town Halls" More_Cowbell May 2019 #19
It is guaranteed big ratings for FOX. Plus webhits on every platform because of "controversy". Midnight Writer May 2019 #21
And lots of potential gotcha moments durablend May 2019 #39
But... czarjak May 2019 #22
Interesting stories and comments. We can have some success with some of them. BSdetect May 2019 #23
FOX has done a good job of brainwashing RussBLib May 2019 #25
For some it's just a brain-rinse...... lastlib May 2019 #46
He is only one guy treestar May 2019 #26
They are all around me. murielm99 May 2019 #27
"Look at all he's done!!!!1" louis-t May 2019 #32
I know a few Woodwizard May 2019 #28
Given the choice between Trumper half-wits and scrambled eggs... LanternWaste May 2019 #31
That's interesting. I don't think, in all the times I've been to a hardware store, MineralMan May 2019 #35
I could not find what I wanted and expressed regret that I would have to try Home Depot BSdetect May 2019 #40
I don't discuss politics or religion with strangers or even with family members Kaleva May 2019 #36
If hard headed entrenched stubbornness was a measure of high lunatica May 2019 #37
I had one trying to defend higher prices due to leftyladyfrommo May 2019 #38
Why bother with them? All you'll get is an elevated blood pressure and a headache The Genealogist May 2019 #41
I work at a hardware store. About a 1/3rd of my co-workers are vocal supporters. briv1016 May 2019 #42
Northern cali seems to have a blue to red scale depending how far north lambchopp59 May 2019 #43
My husband works at a major airline in SF in a good paying union job kimbutgar May 2019 #44
this sounds bad or like I'm being elitist Dyedinthewoolliberal May 2019 #45

GP6971

(31,141 posts)
2. We have a Trump Humper
Wed May 15, 2019, 09:35 PM
May 2019

up the street. I've talked to him a couple of times and there is no remorse...full on Trump. And he still flies is Trump flag every day.

prudence54

(22 posts)
3. I am surrounded by them
Wed May 15, 2019, 09:36 PM
May 2019

I live and work in North Central Oregon and it's unbelievable how ignorant people can be of how the world outside of their little fishbowl works.

I said something, excitedly.. at work the other day about the Portland Trailblazers winning and moving on to the Western Conference Finals, and one of my Trumpster coworkers pipes up with "Yeah I like it when everyone says they can't win and then they do.. people count them out, and polls and stuff. you know, like Trump!" I just stared at him for a long silence, turned and walked away. Total disconnect.

I just can't with these people.

Bless you for trying though.

InAbLuEsTaTe

(24,122 posts)
7. You have my sympathies... that and 5 bux buys you a cup of Starbucks!!
Wed May 15, 2019, 09:47 PM
May 2019

Bernie & Elizabeth 2020!!!
Welcome to the revolution!!!

louis-t

(23,292 posts)
29. I have found that certain phrases, certain subjects
Thu May 16, 2019, 01:01 PM
May 2019

are a trigger mechanism that set them off. They are programmed by talk radio to react when certain subjects come up. Sort of a 'Tourette's for ignorant people'. I had a client who was unreachable during certain hours of the day. I finally figured out those were the hours he listened to Rush and Hannity. At least 5 hours a day, he was being programmed. Something set him off one day and he went on a rant about the FBI. "Every one of them should be fired! " I said "For what?" He went on about how the FBI was all a bunch of libruls and how they had the Boston Marathon bomber in their office before the bombing and let him go, and how they knew about a school shooter in advance and didn't do anything. I asked if he thought we should just put people in jail because we think they might do something. I also mentioned that the FBI is traditionally very conservative and agents are usually law and order types who love their job and are dedicated to law enforcement. He went nuts. Told me I was a "radical". His voice was shaking. He ended up calling my broker (a staunch Republican) and complaining about me. She came into my office and made a statement like "I hope he doesn't call the authorities and report you". I said "For what?"

Boxerfan

(2,533 posts)
4. My former best friend
Wed May 15, 2019, 09:36 PM
May 2019

At least we had one last talk.

I spent about an hour-patiently winning every argument he made one at a time. And at the end his response was why not just give him a chance. I can't believe a person I respected could turn into such a malignant tool.

He used to respect my opinion. Would call & ask for it even.

After the talk I realized no amount of facts or common sense will change a magat. They are true victims of a long term brainwashing campaign.

sharedvalues

(6,916 posts)
18. That's true: brainwashing
Thu May 16, 2019, 12:02 AM
May 2019

Our only hope to reach people like this isn’t to argue on logic.

It’s to tell them how and why Fox lies to them — to get them to vote for Rupert Murdoch’s tax cuts.

lastlib

(23,213 posts)
20. If you could reason with tRump supporters, they wouldn't be tRump supporters...
Thu May 16, 2019, 12:09 AM
May 2019

Last edited Thu May 16, 2019, 11:07 PM - Edit history (1)

Their minds are like mortared-in bricks. They are impervious to logic. I've found that the most effective approach is to ask them questions, rather than beat them over the head with facts. Like "Why doesn't taking children away from their parents bother you?" "Why doesn't 10,000 lies bother you?" etc.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
5. IMHO,...
Wed May 15, 2019, 09:40 PM
May 2019

...Trump doesn't have supporters, he has worshipers. He has a very Moonie-ish cult. Sick!

RESIST!

InAbLuEsTaTe

(24,122 posts)
6. I gave up long ago engaging with those deplorable tRUMPeledforeskins!!
Wed May 15, 2019, 09:43 PM
May 2019

Bernie & Elizabeth 2020!!!
Welcome to the revolution!!!

riverwalker

(8,694 posts)
9. I saw my first MAGA hat in Minnesota
Wed May 15, 2019, 10:19 PM
May 2019

In my semi rural post office. He was at the counter with a stack of postcards he was mailing to politicians. He was asking if it’s ok to mail them without a forwarding address, “because the government is assassinating Trump supporters”. Nuts.

rsdsharp

(9,165 posts)
24. Trump's government is assassinating Trump supporters?
Thu May 16, 2019, 11:09 AM
May 2019

Genius, just genius. Do they even listen to what they say, or does it spew out uncontrollably?

It just occurred to me that I have never seen a MAGA hat in person, and I live in Iowa which handily voted for him.

TheBlackAdder

(28,183 posts)
34. Just say they already scanned his license plate and face, and now have his voice print-after mailing
Thu May 16, 2019, 01:25 PM
May 2019

.

Freak the fucker out.

.

Jake Stern

(3,145 posts)
10. Had a very close friend who came out of a stint in the Army as a hardcore Trumper
Wed May 15, 2019, 10:34 PM
May 2019

She used to be sweet, compassionate and funny. A bit of a wild child but in a zany sort of way. Now she's paranoid and hateful. The Trumper garbage she posted makes me cringe. Couldn't take it anymore and walked away. This beautiful soul thoroughly fucked up by the military and multiple deployments to Afghanistan and Trumpian bile.

renate

(13,776 posts)
14. that's so sad
Wed May 15, 2019, 11:16 PM
May 2019

So many lives and souls have been rotted by Fox News and all the forces that made Trump possible.

mountain grammy

(26,619 posts)
12. My husband's brother called today to wish him happy birthday
Wed May 15, 2019, 11:07 PM
May 2019

and to tell him we're in the end times.. My husband laughed, but the brother in law is a true believer. Husband told him to stop watching fox news and listening to his preacher and that he loved him.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
16. True.
Wed May 15, 2019, 11:31 PM
May 2019

The only difference is that a wall does not blink in the face of a fact and immediately start repeating the same old bullshit the fact demolished.

 

rusty quoin

(6,133 posts)
17. Well, at least we know well here in America, is how it happened in Germany.
Wed May 15, 2019, 11:50 PM
May 2019

We understand it in our guts, like the post war German people. Maybe it’s not too late.

More_Cowbell

(2,191 posts)
19. This is why I don't buy that "Fox viewers will change by watching Democrats in Town Halls"
Thu May 16, 2019, 12:02 AM
May 2019

And I don't believe that Fox is worried about that, either.

How can you counteract years of Fox indoctrination with an hour-long Town Hall?

czarjak

(11,266 posts)
22. But...
Thu May 16, 2019, 12:18 AM
May 2019

He’ll be a rich republican someday, just ask him. He’s going to work hard and play by the rules like Sean Hannity.

BSdetect

(8,998 posts)
23. Interesting stories and comments. We can have some success with some of them.
Thu May 16, 2019, 07:42 AM
May 2019

I did manage to stop one sprouting garbage when I pointed out that her knee and hip operations were paid for largely because of the ACA.

She did change her views somewhat after that. She realized that she would have lost her job and become bankrupt without the ACA.

She was a hard core right wing radio listener who knew very little about anything other than the talking points from Limbaugh etc

Its a long hard grind to change them but we try where we can.

Meanwhile the entire system is in greater peril every day.

RussBLib

(9,006 posts)
25. FOX has done a good job of brainwashing
Thu May 16, 2019, 11:40 AM
May 2019

and the targets don't seem to have that much brainpower in the first place, so it's not that hard for a vulture like Trump to swoop in and scoop up the detritus.


lastlib

(23,213 posts)
46. For some it's just a brain-rinse......
Thu May 16, 2019, 11:15 PM
May 2019

They are so "low-information" that they just don't have the intellectual construct to see how idiotic the "tRump-aganda"* is. It takes very little to convince them that the "eevul libruls" are out to get them, and that only the "conservatives" (ie, the neo-Nazis and limbaughites) can save them.




(*a word I just made up to describe the putrid falsehoods peddled by the troglodyte wing of the GOP--which is all of it.)

treestar

(82,383 posts)
26. He is only one guy
Thu May 16, 2019, 11:49 AM
May 2019

Some of them could be just apathetic and since things are ok for them, they think the Dotard is doing fine. How old was he?

murielm99

(30,733 posts)
27. They are all around me.
Thu May 16, 2019, 12:21 PM
May 2019

Most of them are less bold these days, but we still encounter them.

My husband and I were in Rockford, waiting for him to see a doctor. We were reading the local paper together and laughing at 45's latest idiocies. We were not loud at all. Some fool of a woman came and sat next to us. She started reading over our shoulders and announcing loudly that he was doing an excellent job.

She was called in right away, or I might have tripped her while she was walking away. IF I could have gotten away with it, that is. I am done with nice.

louis-t

(23,292 posts)
32. "Look at all he's done!!!!1"
Thu May 16, 2019, 01:20 PM
May 2019

Seems to be a common theme. If you ask them to name something, they can't. Even if you give them hints.

Woodwizard

(842 posts)
28. I know a few
Thu May 16, 2019, 12:37 PM
May 2019

They are not changing their minds period. I don't waste my time, the voting public greatly outnumbers them, just got to get them to the polls.

I have as much of a chance changing a 45 supporters mind as they would getting me to believe he is a great president.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
31. Given the choice between Trumper half-wits and scrambled eggs...
Thu May 16, 2019, 01:11 PM
May 2019

Given the choice between Trumper half-wits and scrambled eggs, seems the scrambled eggs have a better grasp on science, math, history and aren't as easily triggered.

Then again, I live in TX where the only thing more patriotic than drinking beer on the fourth is flying a confederate flag from the back of a primer gray truck. I'm surrounded by these dull-witted simpleton who can't think beyond the depth of a t-short slogan.

MineralMan

(146,286 posts)
35. That's interesting. I don't think, in all the times I've been to a hardware store,
Thu May 16, 2019, 01:29 PM
May 2019

I've ever had a political discussion with an employee there. Mostly, I ask about something I need for a particular project, if I am having trouble finding it myself. For example, when the cable on my garage door broke and it wouldn't open or close, I went to my local ACE hardware store. I described the problem, and an employee guided me back to the area where garage door parts were and suggested what I should buy. Then, he gave me some very useful tips on how to install them and how to avoid a safety hazard from the spring that offsets the weight of the door. I thanked him, paid for my stuff and left. Politics never entered the conversation.

That's typical of conversations I've had with hardware store employees. I realize that they're on the job and can't spend their time chatting about world affairs and the like. Besides, I went there to get something to do something with, and was eager to get the work done and get my garage door working again.

Maybe your hardware store guy wasn't busy, and his employer didn't mind him sharing his political views with customers. Odd situation, if that's the case. As my father told me when I worked with him at his auto repair shop, "Stay off the subject of politics and religion with customers. It wastes time and you're likely to annoy half of the customers."

He was right. That's standard business practice, I think.

BSdetect

(8,998 posts)
40. I could not find what I wanted and expressed regret that I would have to try Home Depot
Thu May 16, 2019, 02:08 PM
May 2019

and I mentioned because the owner is a trump supporter.

The employee said "So am I"

I thought I misheard him but said "you like trump"?

And so it went .....

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
37. If hard headed entrenched stubbornness was a measure of high
Thu May 16, 2019, 01:35 PM
May 2019

intelligence, Trump’s party would be the smartest people on earth!



leftyladyfrommo

(18,868 posts)
38. I had one trying to defend higher prices due to
Thu May 16, 2019, 01:45 PM
May 2019

tariffs. I am on a lot if wreath making sites and a whole lot of their supplies come from China. Practically everything from Joann's and Michael's and Hobby Lobby is made in China.

She said we just need to give it time. We have China right where we want them. Once things are made in the US things will be great.

Did you know the average factory worker in China makes $3.60 an hour? I looked it up. The average factory worker in Missouri makes about $11. Then you have to add in the cost of the millions of dollars building new factories here would cost. And the years it would take to build those factories. We wouldn't be able to afford a pair of shoes.

She is going waiting quite a while. People don't realize just what buying American really means.

The Genealogist

(4,723 posts)
41. Why bother with them? All you'll get is an elevated blood pressure and a headache
Thu May 16, 2019, 03:50 PM
May 2019

One conversation isn't going to undo decades of right wing brainwashing, anyway.

briv1016

(1,570 posts)
42. I work at a hardware store. About a 1/3rd of my co-workers are vocal supporters.
Thu May 16, 2019, 03:58 PM
May 2019

About another 1/3rd almost certainly voted for him. And I live in NY.

lambchopp59

(2,809 posts)
43. Northern cali seems to have a blue to red scale depending how far north
Thu May 16, 2019, 04:08 PM
May 2019

I'm in the "north bay" for work, probably until retirement. Mendo/Lake. I don't see many MAGA hats here, but when I find one I avoid any conversation because it quickly turns acerbic, on their part, even trying to mention inconvenient little things like...
um... facts.
Once they've earned their tenure in reality denial Fox TeeVee idiocy, there's no de-programming possible, apparently.

kimbutgar

(21,130 posts)
44. My husband works at a major airline in SF in a good paying union job
Thu May 16, 2019, 04:40 PM
May 2019

He is surrounded by major fat Donnie fans who thinks he is the greatest president In their lifetimes. They have Limbaugh, Hannity And Savage on the radio all the time. These guys drive 1-2 hours daily into the city from the outer suburbs. They have been indoctrinated steadily since 9-11 against Democrats. The longer the commute the bigger the cult members. They are here in The SF Bay Area. About more than half of them work in my husband’s shop.

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,566 posts)
45. this sounds bad or like I'm being elitist
Thu May 16, 2019, 08:08 PM
May 2019

and I don't mean it that way, the truth is, some of our fellow citizens just are not very bright..........

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