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kozar

(2,109 posts)
Sat May 25, 2019, 10:37 PM May 2019

I kinda like Saturday nights here..

normally I am asleep and do not read until morning. But tonight is different. My handicapped daughter turned 31 yesterday,,Dr's said she may not see 20 when she was born. I am cooking way too many pounds of pork butt in my smoker,, for a huge celebration tomorrow in honor of the "lil girl" Tonight,, I guess I feel liberated,,I know every birthday she has is a big deal. Maybe I need a release valve to make this birthday bigger. Having said that,, I am not reading or replying to political things tonight,, I am having fun in off topics , such as cooking,,photography, and such,,I have made some bitchy repiles in past.. My Tess' Bday ,,in life,,and in DU life,,has taught me to step back and enjoy life first... there are pics of lil bit in photog under same name,,

Thanks for listening, Koz or simply

Tess' Dad

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I kinda like Saturday nights here.. (Original Post) kozar May 2019 OP
Happy Birthday Tess! MontanaMama May 2019 #1
You have wonderful reasons to celebrate now. Have a great celebration, birthday, holiday. n/t Judi Lynn May 2019 #2
Go Tess! Poiuyt May 2019 #3
Happiest of Birthdays to Tess. applegrove May 2019 #4
may you both dweller May 2019 #5
sounds like a good night dustyscamp May 2019 #6
happy birthday to tess! orleans May 2019 #7
Have a wonderful celebration. Much L-O-V-E & happiness to Tess. appalachiablue May 2019 #8
Celebrate malaise May 2019 #9
Happy, happy birthday to Tess! Dem2theMax May 2019 #10
Happy Birthday, Tess! catbyte May 2019 #11
Perfect! MLAA May 2019 #14
Happy Birthday to your Tess snacker May 2019 #12
Happy birthday! sharedvalues May 2019 #13
Wonderful news and ChazII May 2019 #15
🎉🌷🌷🎈🎈🍰🎂🍰🍦👨‍👧🥰 MLAA May 2019 #16
Happy Tess' Birthday, Papa! nolabear May 2019 #17
Hope you all have a good time celebrating tomorrow Yes - another year older & more time together lunasun May 2019 #18
Happy Birthday to Tess! backtoblue May 2019 #19
Happy birthday, Tess! littlemissmartypants May 2019 #20
Saturday nights . . . people May 2019 #21
Tess is lucky to have a great Dad grantcart May 2019 #22
Happy Birthday Tess & bless both of you! CaptainTruth May 2019 #23
You guys have a good time. ChazInAz May 2019 #24
Happy Birthday, cilla4progress May 2019 #25
K & R, and hugs Maru Kitteh May 2019 #26
K&R DarthDem May 2019 #27
Thanks, Pop Achilleaze May 2019 #28
Happy Birthday to your Tess! smirkymonkey May 2019 #29
Bless you and her shenmue May 2019 #30
Wishing all of you joy and good food on this special day. TNNurse May 2019 #31
Happy birthday, Tess and congratulations to you Koz for.... KY_EnviroGuy May 2019 #32
Great news. Scarsdale May 2019 #33
I have a handicapped child too. Drs said she would not live long, I wouldn't even demigoddess May 2019 #34
I agree,,this play does do well, until. kozar May 2019 #37
Happy Birthday, Tess! demmiblue May 2019 #35
Happy Birthday Tess! Lady Freedom Returns May 2019 #36
I reply to All, in this way kozar May 2019 #38
"Tess' dad" sounds really good to me !! Dem_in_Nebr. May 2019 #39

orleans

(34,051 posts)
7. happy birthday to tess!
Sat May 25, 2019, 11:04 PM
May 2019


have a nice, relaxing night and a fun / happy day tomorrow (...hope you have a great weekend. sounds like it's off to a wonderful start)

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
10. Happy, happy birthday to Tess!
Sat May 25, 2019, 11:25 PM
May 2019

And you are so right that there are times you have to take a break and fill yourself full of happy things. I am glad you are doing that, for both yourself and for Tess.

ChazII

(6,204 posts)
15. Wonderful news and
Sat May 25, 2019, 11:37 PM
May 2019

thank you for sharing. My son was diagnosed in March with the same type of brain cancer that Senator Kennedy and Senator McCain had. His surgeon was able to remove more than 80% of the tumor. Reading stories like yours where the doctors were incorrect in life expectancy is like a salve. Wishing your daughter many more birthdays.

people

(624 posts)
21. Saturday nights . . .
Sun May 26, 2019, 12:14 AM
May 2019

What a wonderful birthday to celebrate. You are very lucky and so is Tess. Hope it is a beautiful night and a beautiful year for both of you.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,490 posts)
32. Happy birthday, Tess and congratulations to you Koz for....
Sun May 26, 2019, 12:17 PM
May 2019

your patience, love, and support through the years.......

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
33. Great news.
Sun May 26, 2019, 01:18 PM
May 2019

Love really can perform miracles. I am sure the love you have for Tess is what has supported her all these years. Congratulations, and tell Tess "Happy Birthday" from everyone at DU. Enjoy the feast.

demigoddess

(6,640 posts)
34. I have a handicapped child too. Drs said she would not live long, I wouldn't even
Sun May 26, 2019, 03:29 PM
May 2019

have to worry about drs visits. She is 47 and going strong. thought about doing parties for her at restaurant. Nobody believes she is more than a child. They sometimes take her for our grandchild!!

kozar

(2,109 posts)
37. I agree,,this play does do well, until.
Sun May 26, 2019, 07:03 PM
May 2019

We took Tess to the casino,, went the buffet first so Tess could eat.. we pulled Tess through at 7years old... was all great!! until then,, we went to the casino and had to prove Tess was over 21,,, that damn security guard already knew the Tess
got away with a 7 yo price! So Dad went back to buffet,,apologized, paid difference, and Tess spent rest of day in the casino!!!


Careful the game will always bite the player



Koz

kozar

(2,109 posts)
38. I reply to All, in this way
Sun May 26, 2019, 07:19 PM
May 2019

Firstly,, OMG we appreciate the love shown here.
to All who thanked,tipped a hat, or just gave any kind of thanks to me,, I say this;


While I read and smile and it makes me feel warm... I need or deserve nothing. Tess was the greatest thing that happened in my life!

But I am nothing more than a Dad.

Humbly,

Koz

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