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What do you think about the woman who shot/killed intruder with 911's permission? (Original Post) apples and oranges Jan 2012 OP
i hope if someone is coming at me with a knife, i too can shoot to kill. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #1
I think she did an awesome job Autumn Jan 2012 #2
and she deserves a medal to boot CatWoman Jan 2012 #18
My thought exactly. That was one brave girl. RebelOne Jan 2012 #60
She needs support Scairp Jan 2012 #85
She had no choice imho. Little Star Jan 2012 #3
I think she did the right thing. William769 Jan 2012 #4
Perhaps someone should interview her? Zalatix Jan 2012 #5
she looks terrible, sad, drained and a child. I feel terrible for her. roguevalley Jan 2012 #29
She is very courageous in my opinion. iscooterliberally Jan 2012 #6
Me too...and they said for 20 minutes those thugs went from door to door trying to break in. raccoon Jan 2012 #17
And where were the police for 20 minutes? <eom> catrose Jan 2012 #24
Probably using their SWAT toys to do a marijuana bust. They have priorities you know. n/t iscooterliberally Jan 2012 #42
She lives in a rural area. Swede Jan 2012 #44
Ah, the libertarian part of the state. MedicalAdmin Jan 2012 #67
Rural != Libertarian X_Digger Jan 2012 #71
If libertarians get their way.... MedicalAdmin Jan 2012 #88
I am in DeFazio's district and our rural areas are far from law enforcement, our resouces Bluenorthwest Jan 2012 #91
I agree. MedicalAdmin Jan 2012 #106
A very good question Yo_Mama Jan 2012 #75
Yep! n/t FourScore Jan 2012 #80
Good for her! is what I think about it n/t LadyHawkAZ Jan 2012 #7
I feel your title is misleading Angry Dragon Jan 2012 #8
Exactly. pamela Jan 2012 #27
I agree. The dispatcher has no authority to grant 'permission' what they did was Bluenorthwest Jan 2012 #92
With the details I have, she did the right thing itsrobert Jan 2012 #9
Mine would too, and I have no doubt they would be shot or knifed. Lance_Boyle Jan 2012 #37
Her dogs were poisoned earlier. X_Digger Jan 2012 #70
I agree with the right to defend oneself using any means available when under attack. gvstn Jan 2012 #10
Well, to be fair, she is going through a lot, apparently deutsey Jan 2012 #13
The minute they attempted forceful entry into the house she had the right to use deadly force. Lance_Boyle Jan 2012 #39
Me too. I wouldn't blame her at all if she had. nt raccoon Jan 2012 #99
Good for her. I would've done the same thing n/t OhioChick Jan 2012 #11
appears to be justifiable homocide. Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2012 #12
Sounds more like self-defense to me. Arkansas Granny Jan 2012 #45
Legally, I understand it to be basically the same thing Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2012 #51
Good for her! They ought to give her a medal. Ganja Ninja Jan 2012 #14
LOL CatWoman Jan 2012 #19
Seems fine to me RZM Jan 2012 #15
Of course you are within your rights. Yo_Mama Jan 2012 #76
I scared off an intruder once EFerrari Jan 2012 #16
This is why I support limited gun rights. RandySF Jan 2012 #20
Classic self-defense MFrohike Jan 2012 #21
I'd say it is an occupational hazard that the intruder should have considered WI_DEM Jan 2012 #22
Subject line is misleading. The 911 operator specifically said she could NOT give permission. slackmaster Jan 2012 #23
Ooops! apples and oranges Jan 2012 #28
Sort of a large ooops really. Bluenorthwest Jan 2012 #95
I would do anything to defend my family bigwillq Jan 2012 #25
She did what she had to do to protect herself and her child. Liberal In Texas Jan 2012 #26
Having lost a family member due to another, violent family member I agree with you. CTyankee Jan 2012 #40
more guns are used on their owners and families than intruders. Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2012 #56
I think it's great she and her baby are still alive and well.. MicaelS Jan 2012 #30
I think she has seen enough terror in her life. LiberalAndProud Jan 2012 #31
I think being only 18 probably helped! That, and a strong sense of protecting herself and her child. CTyankee Jan 2012 #46
I'd say let it be a warning to people who like to break into other people's houses. ixion Jan 2012 #32
What's with her German Shepherd? He growled, but didn't defend? mainer Jan 2012 #33
Just because GSDs are regarded as being good guard dogs, it doesn't mean that all of them are. Arkansas Granny Jan 2012 #52
she seemed very sad about it LanternWaste Jan 2012 #34
Taking a human life is an awesome act... MicaelS Jan 2012 #35
KILL! KILL! KILL! Iggo Jan 2012 #36
Her choice was quite possibly Kill or be Killed. (n/t) spin Jan 2012 #58
I agree. Iggo Jan 2012 #81
That's a great song, and The Groovy Guru (Larry Storch) was one of the best villains EVAR! slackmaster Jan 2012 #64
What should she have done? nobodyspecial Jan 2012 #73
Just what she did. Iggo Jan 2012 #82
Mothers protect their babies get the red out Jan 2012 #38
Poor thing. I wish her and her baby well. nt msanthrope Jan 2012 #41
I feel very sorry for her. ieoeja Jan 2012 #43
And to top it off, the second guy, who's been arrested on first-degree murder charges, is now free KatyaR Jan 2012 #69
On the contrary, I suspect Mr. Stewart will stay as far away from that woman as he can. n/t Laelth Jan 2012 #90
I think she would have done it with or without permission anyway n/t Sheepshank Jan 2012 #47
Well her choices were limited and her child's life was at stake... spin Jan 2012 #59
Don't go in to other peoples' homes without their permission. LeftinOH Jan 2012 #48
I heard on CNN that she waited 15 minutes for the police to arrive. RandySF Jan 2012 #49
If you live in a rural area you can't expect the cops to show up in five minutes. spin Jan 2012 #61
If the San Diego PD ever got to my suburban house in less than 20 minutes, I'd be shocked slackmaster Jan 2012 #65
She should be reimbursed for the cost of the ammo Nye Bevan Jan 2012 #50
Good for her... one_voice Jan 2012 #53
The intruder deserved to be shot...He presented and clear danger to her & her family. Ecumenist Jan 2012 #54
This message was self-deleted by its author Obamanaut Jan 2012 #55
permission plcdude Jan 2012 #57
That she may have thought she needed permission Puzzledtraveller Jan 2012 #94
"When seconds count, the police are just minutes away." n/t moriah Jan 2012 #62
justified frylock Jan 2012 #63
Echoing what others have said ChazII Jan 2012 #66
* ronnie624 Jan 2012 #68
I think she behaved exactly as she should have The Genealogist Jan 2012 #72
The guy who got shot is the only one not supporting her maximusveritas Jan 2012 #74
She was doing the only thing she could. Swede Jan 2012 #77
She wasn't "given" permission. The 911 operator was very specific about that. cherokeeprogressive Jan 2012 #78
I think she acted reasonably to defend herself and her baby from grave harm. aikoaiko Jan 2012 #79
Why did she even ASK for permission?> Survivoreesta Jan 2012 #83
She did the right thing. Lil Missy Jan 2012 #84
No question she did the right thing. AtomicKitten Jan 2012 #86
I think there needs to be a non lethal Shankapotomus Jan 2012 #87
The use of force was justified. quaker bill Jan 2012 #89
Means never miss to kill the first shot. lonestarnot Jan 2012 #93
Makes no difference what the 911 operator told her distantearlywarning Jan 2012 #96
You do what you have to do pipi_k Jan 2012 #97
She did what she had to guitar man Jan 2012 #98
Sadly she had to shoot...and she will never be the same. great white snark Jan 2012 #100
Aim center of mass. Period. If you bought a gun to "scare", then go get your money back. lumberjack_jeff Jan 2012 #101
Someone told me for defense, get a shotgun and get two kinds of shells Taverner Jan 2012 #105
she didn't have a choice...the guy kicked in her door, and he had a knife and an partner in crime noiretextatique Jan 2012 #102
Castle defense, right? Taverner Jan 2012 #103
Fine. But that doesn't take away from the 20,000+ people killed Zoeisright Jan 2012 #104
The woman who defended herself obviously DID have a security system slackmaster Jan 2012 #107
Good for her! flvegan Jan 2012 #108
She was 15, when they started living together her husband was 58... HipChick Jan 2012 #109

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
60. My thought exactly. That was one brave girl.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 05:57 PM
Jan 2012

I would have done the same as her if I was threatened and had a small baby.

Scairp

(2,749 posts)
85. She needs support
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 04:57 AM
Jan 2012

I'm sick to death of reading about women getting raped and killed inside their own homes and I'm glad this little girl got the upper hand and is around to tell the story. Goddamned thug got what he deserved. But the girl seems so alone. Where is her family in this? If she has no family I hope she has some friends at least. She must be at the end of her tether by now. New baby, husband dies and now this trauma. She really needs someone to lean on. I hope she gets it.

William769

(55,144 posts)
4. I think she did the right thing.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:04 PM
Jan 2012

According to the article I read she barricaded the door called 911 & was in fear for her & her babies life.

She did more than I would have done.

 

Zalatix

(8,994 posts)
5. Perhaps someone should interview her?
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:05 PM
Jan 2012

Seeing as she's still ALIVE to talk about it.

The fact that such an interview could happen is a testament to the fact that she and the 911 operator did the right thing.

The 2nd Amendment is a beautiful thing...

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
29. she looks terrible, sad, drained and a child. I feel terrible for her.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:36 PM
Jan 2012

a dead husband, a tiny baby, 18 and a man's death on her back. Poor little girl.

raccoon

(31,110 posts)
17. Me too...and they said for 20 minutes those thugs went from door to door trying to break in.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:25 PM
Jan 2012

How terrifying that must have been for her.




X_Digger

(18,585 posts)
71. Rural != Libertarian
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 10:23 PM
Jan 2012

Rural means low tax base, little money to cover a large county.

But hey, nice bigotry there.

MedicalAdmin

(4,143 posts)
88. If libertarians get their way....
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 08:33 AM
Jan 2012

The entire country will have public services like that. I should have made that point clearer. Sorry bout that.

I'm a proud bigot against bigots and Birchers and a card carrying member of the Ron Paul for dog catcher committee.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
91. I am in DeFazio's district and our rural areas are far from law enforcement, our resouces
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 10:22 AM
Jan 2012

are getting slimmer each year, and so the time it might take for a car to get to a person in need could amount to a long wait. Democratic, not libertarian. Just rural and guess what, money is tight.
If action is not taken to fund our rural areas, expect more of this and without the good resolution.

MedicalAdmin

(4,143 posts)
106. I agree.
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 03:03 PM
Jan 2012

Anyone voting libertardian should expect incidents like this to get worse, not better.

My post wasn't clear, was it? Sorry about that.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
75. A very good question
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 12:07 AM
Jan 2012

Even 10 minutes is a long time in most areas (not in some rural areas).

I don't think she had any choice but to shoot, but what a horrible thing to have to do, and imagine how this feels with everything else that has happened to her.

Will she sleep in the future? This is not the sort of thing that you get over lightly - I knew a young man who had to shoot in defense of himself and others, and he never really got over it. It's not that he folded up or led an irresponsible life, but it always weighed on him.

Police officers are given leave and counseling when they have to shoot someone - this kid won't get anything like that, I imagine.

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
8. I feel your title is misleading
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:06 PM
Jan 2012

911 told her to do what she thought was necessary to protect the baby and herself
she did not shoot until they broke her bedroom door down and came after her with a knife

pamela

(3,469 posts)
27. Exactly.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:33 PM
Jan 2012

Plus, they found the dead intruder sprawled across the couch she had used to barricade the door.

I have mixed feelings about these laws. A few years ago, a young man entered my home and scared the shit out of me. I live in a condo community and he was visiting a neighbor, went out to his car for something and just got confused. I could have legally shot him in many states but I'm sure glad I didn't. This young woman seems to have taken extraordinary measures to avoid this outcome so I have no problem with what she did.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
92. I agree. The dispatcher has no authority to grant 'permission' what they did was
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 10:26 AM
Jan 2012

support her taking necessary action, supported her making a hard decision. She defended herself while they said 'defend yourself as you must'.
That is a far cry from 'shot with permission'.

itsrobert

(14,157 posts)
9. With the details I have, she did the right thing
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:08 PM
Jan 2012

But where was that German Shepherd at? My dog would go berserk on any intruder like that.

 

Lance_Boyle

(5,559 posts)
37. Mine would too, and I have no doubt they would be shot or knifed.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:52 PM
Jan 2012

Dogs are like an alarm system. They'll let you know something is wrong, but 99% of the time they're not going to eliminate the threat on their own.

gvstn

(2,805 posts)
10. I agree with the right to defend oneself using any means available when under attack.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:10 PM
Jan 2012

If there were actively coming at her, she had the right to shoot them to protect herself. A woman with a baby and 20 minutes on 911 to build anxiety it is understandable.

That said, she seems awfully nonchalant about the whole thing. I'd be a bit more upset if I killed someone.

deutsey

(20,166 posts)
13. Well, to be fair, she is going through a lot, apparently
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:15 PM
Jan 2012

Her baby's father just died of cancer, she's on her own in an isolated area, two jackasses tried to attack her, and she killed one of them in self-defense.

I could imagine she'd be numbed out after all that. The real emotional trauma of all this may not hit her for a while. If I'm right, I hope she'll have a support system of some kind to help her through it.

 

Lance_Boyle

(5,559 posts)
39. The minute they attempted forceful entry into the house she had the right to use deadly force.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:54 PM
Jan 2012

At least that's the law in NC. Home invasion constitutes imminent fear of death and invokes castle law. I admire this woman's restraint in not shooting through the windows and doors during the 20 minutes they attempted entry.

Ganja Ninja

(15,953 posts)
14. Good for her! They ought to give her a medal.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:17 PM
Jan 2012

It sounds like these guys were real scumbags trying to prey on a grieving widow. The world is better off without them.

 

RZM

(8,556 posts)
15. Seems fine to me
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:17 PM
Jan 2012

Baby or no baby, if someone kicks down your door without permission and comes at you with a knife, I'd say you are well within your rights to shoot to kill.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
76. Of course you are within your rights.
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 12:11 AM
Jan 2012

The right to life of the criminal cannot be held higher than the right to life of the intended victim, and anyone who wants to designate self-defense as a crime has an ethical confusion, IMO.

Still, it's a terrible thing to have to do - and it may also expose her to vengeance. Not to mention trauma.

EFerrari

(163,986 posts)
16. I scared off an intruder once
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:20 PM
Jan 2012

with my son on the other side of the wall, asleep. If I had had a gun, I would have used it in a heartbeat. There was no way I was going to let him hurt my child.

RandySF

(58,728 posts)
20. This is why I support limited gun rights.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:28 PM
Jan 2012

People should be able to protect their live and the lies of family members. By the way, I think it is more important to own a gun in small towns like this than a big city like SF. When everyone knows each other\'s business, it\'s more likely that word will get out to the wrong people that you live alone in a house or trailer full of a deceased loved one\'s pain killers.

MFrohike

(1,980 posts)
21. Classic self-defense
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:29 PM
Jan 2012

Hell, she even took an extra step in calling the police. She's pretty much a model of a responsible person in terms of self-defense.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
23. Subject line is misleading. The 911 operator specifically said she could NOT give permission.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:30 PM
Jan 2012

Permission was given by the people when Oklahoma's Castle Doctrine law was enacted.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
95. Sort of a large ooops really.
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 10:31 AM
Jan 2012

A dispatcher simply does not hold authority to 'grant permission to shoot' and it is a tad extreme to claim that they do, and that they said that, when they said the opposite, they can NOT grant permission.
The OP seems designed to focus on the incorrect theory that 911 dispatchers grant permission to kill.
The article says they said the exact opposite of what you claim in the title. Oooops indeed. They said 'day' you said 'night'. Ooops?

Liberal In Texas

(13,542 posts)
26. She did what she had to do to protect herself and her child.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:33 PM
Jan 2012

The only thing about these stories is that it give the gun rights people cannon fodder (pun intended) when in fact more guns are used on their owners and families than intruders.

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
40. Having lost a family member due to another, violent family member I agree with you.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:56 PM
Jan 2012

This will be used cynically for political advantage.

However, the right to self defense is unquestioned here. He was a violent criminal intent on harming her and her child. It really doesn't matter what weapon she used to stop him.

I do wonder where the police were...

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
30. I think it's great she and her baby are still alive and well..
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:36 PM
Jan 2012

And I think that she absolutely committed the correct AND moral act. Criminals don't want to get shot and killed they shouldn't break into people's homes.

I'm also glad his accomplice will probably get tried under the Felony Murder statute.

LiberalAndProud

(12,799 posts)
31. I think she has seen enough terror in her life.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:38 PM
Jan 2012

Widowed with a baby on Christmas Day at the age of 18 -- if you have no compassion already, even before she was terrorized in her own home, then you are a psychopath by definition. She was justified. I hope her nightmares will subside quickly, because I know that her terror did not end with the shooting.

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
46. I think being only 18 probably helped! That, and a strong sense of protecting herself and her child.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 05:03 PM
Jan 2012

It paid off that she didn't think it through any more than she did. And she sounds like she knows her way around guns. Having guns in the home is a heavy responsibility. She did have time to get them from wherever they were (hopefully locked away). Unfortunately, if they had surprised her she might not have had enough time to get the guns and load them before these guys came crashing in. Not every victim who has a gun has it "at the ready" when an attack takes place, esp. if they have taken care to store the gun safely...

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
34. she seemed very sad about it
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:40 PM
Jan 2012

Watching her on the new last night, she seemed very sad about it.

Nor did she seem to take any righteous moral stances nor glee regarding her actions as others appear to.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
35. Taking a human life is an awesome act...
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:48 PM
Jan 2012

That is why cops who commit an on-duty shooting often have to attend mandatory counseling. Cops get PTSD, too.

get the red out

(13,461 posts)
38. Mothers protect their babies
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:53 PM
Jan 2012

That's nature, I see no problem here.

There are many reasons that breaking and entering is a bad thing to engage in.

 

ieoeja

(9,748 posts)
43. I feel very sorry for her.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 04:59 PM
Jan 2012

Husband dies on Christmas Day. Then she has to endure the horror of killing another human being ten days later.

Now she has to deal with are the memories and the effort of being an 18 year old single mother with little prospect for a prosperous future in a country that will celebrate her killing of these two men one minute then deny assistance to single mother's the next without ever recognizing the irony.


KatyaR

(3,445 posts)
69. And to top it off, the second guy, who's been arrested on first-degree murder charges, is now free
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 09:22 PM
Jan 2012

on $50,000 bail.

CHICKASHA (AP) — A judge has set bond at $50,000 for a Blanchard man charged with first-degree murder after prosecutors allege his accomplice was shot dead during an attempted home invasion.

Grady County Special Judge Timothy Brauer issued the ruling following a bond hearing Thursday for 29-year-old Dustin Louis Stewart.

Prosecutors allege Stewart was with 24-year-old Justin Shane Martin, who was shot dead by an 18-year-old woman as he attempted to break into her Blanchard mobile home.

Oklahoma's felony murder law permits prosecutors to seek a murder conviction if an accomplice dies during the commission of another felony crime.

Read more: http://newsok.com/bond-set-for-oklahoma-man-charged-in-home-invasion/article/3637786#ixzz1idXwVXFI

He's due back for a preliminary hearing on January 20.

I can't possibly imagine how she must feel right now. I'd be terrified for my life and my child's. I hope she has family or friends that she can stay with for a while.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
90. On the contrary, I suspect Mr. Stewart will stay as far away from that woman as he can. n/t
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 10:16 AM
Jan 2012

-Laelth

spin

(17,493 posts)
59. Well her choices were limited and her child's life was at stake...
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 05:50 PM
Jan 2012

I doubt if any jury would have convicted her even in a state without Castle Doctrine and if one did she would have received a light sentence.

LeftinOH

(5,353 posts)
48. Don't go in to other peoples' homes without their permission.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 05:03 PM
Jan 2012

Even if they have stuff you want. Do so, and you may not live to tell about it.

RandySF

(58,728 posts)
49. I heard on CNN that she waited 15 minutes for the police to arrive.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 05:05 PM
Jan 2012

Of course, it may have only felt like 15 minutes.

spin

(17,493 posts)
61. If you live in a rural area you can't expect the cops to show up in five minutes.
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 06:07 PM
Jan 2012

That's why it's a good idea to own firearms in such a situation. Of course it's not a bad idea to own firearms for self defense in more urban areas where it is legal.

Unfortunately just owning a firearm is not enough. You should also have training in gun safety and be proficient with your weapon.

But firearms are not for everyone. First many people would be unable to shoot another person even if their life or the lives of their family were in danger. For those people their own firearm may end up being used against them. Also you have to know yourself before you decide to own a firearm. If you have anger management problems, tend to use alcohol or some drugs to excess or suffer from a serious mental issue then it would be wise to avoid owning such weapons.

If you live in a volatile relationship with a significant other owning a firearm may lead to a tragedy. Of course, if you have young children you have a responsibility to properly secure your firearms.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
65. If the San Diego PD ever got to my suburban house in less than 20 minutes, I'd be shocked
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 06:17 PM
Jan 2012

The last two times I've called it took them 20 minutes or more.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
53. Good for her...
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 05:08 PM
Jan 2012

having said that...my heart goes out to her. She's been through far too much for her young age. I want to put my arms around her and take some of her burden.

Response to apples and oranges (Original post)

plcdude

(5,309 posts)
57. permission
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 05:27 PM
Jan 2012

is not correct. The 911 operator told her that she could not tell her to shoot but she should protect herself and her baby. She is remarkably strong individual given everything that has occured in her life this past month.

Puzzledtraveller

(5,937 posts)
94. That she may have thought she needed permission
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 10:30 AM
Jan 2012

is troubling. As an overall impression on how people believe they can defend themselves in our society. Kudos to her for choosing to do so.

ChazII

(6,204 posts)
66. Echoing what others have said
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 06:19 PM
Jan 2012

she was completely justified in her actions. The intruders were scum and deserved what they received. She is a courageous young woman.

The Genealogist

(4,723 posts)
72. I think she behaved exactly as she should have
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 10:40 PM
Jan 2012

She protected herself and her baby. Whatever the person at the dispatch office said seems a moot point. I do not know what I would have done, had I been in her shoes, but what she did took guts and bravery.

maximusveritas

(2,915 posts)
74. The guy who got shot is the only one not supporting her
Thu Jan 5, 2012, 11:42 PM
Jan 2012

It's kind of a no brainer. There are some supposedly self-defense claims that are bogus, but this seems open and shut.

Swede

(33,233 posts)
77. She was doing the only thing she could.
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 12:13 AM
Jan 2012

Protecting her baby. Help had not arrived,what else could she have done?

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
78. She wasn't "given" permission. The 911 operator was very specific about that.
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 12:16 AM
Jan 2012

Misleading.

That guy fucked with the bull, and got the horns.

Good for her. She defended her child, and her space.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
87. I think there needs to be a non lethal
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 06:52 AM
Jan 2012

but effective alternative to guns. I mean, we can't invent something that will stop an intruder every time and not kill them?

quaker bill

(8,224 posts)
89. The use of force was justified.
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 08:34 AM
Jan 2012

Personally, I would like to think I would have fired the gun once, through the floor, to clearly demonstrate to the invaders that I had one. However what I would like to think I would do in theory might be quite different than what I would actually do if faced with the real situation. It is a shame that the woman was left with no choice, but she did what apparently needed to be done.

distantearlywarning

(4,475 posts)
96. Makes no difference what the 911 operator told her
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 10:35 AM
Jan 2012

A man was coming at her with a knife and she shot him in self-defense. She did the right thing and I feel sorry for her that she had to go through it at all. The burglar/rapist/attempted-murderer who had apparently been casing the place for days if not weeks received his just reward.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
97. You do what you have to do
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 10:41 AM
Jan 2012

A young woman with a baby is no match for a guy (or two) with a knife.

If someone is trying to get into my house, I yell at them that I have a gun (which I would) and that if they don't stop I'll shoot.

Then I do it.

I don't know if I would consciously be able to shoot to kill, though. I can't even imagine what the rest of my life would be like knowing that I killed another human being, no matter what the person was trying to do. I would probably be torn between feeling guilty and being VERY angry at the person who didn't take heed of my warning, thereby forcing me to shoot him.

Well, at least she wasn't punished, and she and her baby are (physically) unharmed.

guitar man

(15,996 posts)
98. She did what she had to
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 10:57 AM
Jan 2012

I just hope there are people down there to help that poor girl, she's been through a hell of a lot.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
101. Aim center of mass. Period. If you bought a gun to "scare", then go get your money back.
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 02:09 PM
Jan 2012

THAT SAID...

The conditions leading up to the shooting were unique. Normally, an intruder won't give you 21 minutes prior warning to find your secured guns, load them, call 911, retreat to your bedroom and wait.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
105. Someone told me for defense, get a shotgun and get two kinds of shells
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 02:26 PM
Jan 2012

First round, birdshot. Most likely won't kill but will stop an intruder.

Second round, hard pellets (or whatever they call them) which WILL kill the intruder

Is this right?

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
102. she didn't have a choice...the guy kicked in her door, and he had a knife and an partner in crime
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 02:23 PM
Jan 2012

who knows what those men would have done to her and her child? i certainly hope i never have to make that choice, but i would do the same thing.

Zoeisright

(8,339 posts)
104. Fine. But that doesn't take away from the 20,000+ people killed
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 02:26 PM
Jan 2012

by guns in this country every year.

I think celebrating her action is pretty sick, and just obfuscates the real facts, that we have too many guns and this culture is crazy.

And it's much easier to have a security system than it is to kill someone. Unless you're a bloodthirsty repuke.

flvegan

(64,407 posts)
108. Good for her!
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 10:06 PM
Jan 2012

Lots of folks buy the firearm, many take classes/training, few can actually pull the trigger and dispatch scum from this planet.

Congrats on being one of those few, young lady.

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