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Demovictory9

(32,419 posts)
Mon Sep 30, 2019, 11:11 PM Sep 2019

Teen's Messages With Other Boy Were Posted. Hours Later, He Was Dead

Teen's Messages With Other Boy Were Posted. Hours Later, He Was Dead
Channing Smith, 16, killed himself in his Tennessee home

On the night of Sunday, Sept. 22, Channing Smith, 16, saw that private, sexually explicit messages between himself and a male classmate had been posted to Instagram and Snapchat. Within hours, Channing was dead, having taken his own life. His family says the cyberbullying is to blame; the Tennessee high school junior hadn't come out as bisexual or publicly identified as a member of the LGBTQ community. The messages that were posted "were graphic ... and there was no room for Channing to be able to claim it was a misunderstanding," his older brother, Joshua Smith, tells BuzzFeed News. Channing called a few friends around 10pm in a panic. At 4am, his father got up and noticed his light was still on; he walked into the bedroom and found his son's body. More on the tragedy:

Final Instagram post: "I'm gonna get off social media for awhile. I really hate how I can't trust anyone because those I did were so fake. Bye," Channing posted on Instagram Sunday, according to the Washington Post; it was his last post on the social media site before his death.

Cause of death: In a Facebook post about the tragedy, Joshua Smith says his brother fatally shot himself. In a subsequent post titled "Being gay shouldn't be a death sentence," he added, "Parents... please have difficult conversations with your kids. I know I did. My wife and I told my son that if he turns out to be gay we would love him no matter what. Kids need to know that there’s nothing on this earth that separate them from the love of the Father or from their earthly parents. We are called to love and support."


https://www.newser.com/story/281088/boy-was-outed-as-bi-hours-later-he-was-dead.html?utm_source=part&utm_medium=uol&utm_campaign=rss_top

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Teen's Messages With Other Boy Were Posted. Hours Later, He Was Dead (Original Post) Demovictory9 Sep 2019 OP
... Pachamama Sep 2019 #1
how awful, my heart breaks for the family and the teen who felt he had no other option. FirstLight Sep 2019 #2
Sad KnR...nt GReedDiamond Sep 2019 #3
My kid didn't hesitate to let us know Codeine Sep 2019 #4
not all kids have parents like you Skittles Sep 2019 #7
What the parents are suffering is beyond words. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2019 #5
I am watching ID right now....and the tragedy virgogal Sep 2019 #6
Homophobia kills again. Behind the Aegis Oct 2019 #8
... Demovictory9 Oct 2019 #10
So sad. The poor boy. smirkymonkey Oct 2019 #9
😿 Meowmee Oct 2019 #11
Where did he get the gun? Mosby Oct 2019 #12
 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
4. My kid didn't hesitate to let us know
Mon Sep 30, 2019, 11:16 PM
Sep 2019

when she realized she liked girls. It’s important to let kids know it’s okay before it comes up, so they can be comfortable coming out if it becomes an issue.

That poor boy.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,811 posts)
5. What the parents are suffering is beyond words.
Mon Sep 30, 2019, 11:18 PM
Sep 2019

And all too often social media winds up at the heart of these tragedies.

 

virgogal

(10,178 posts)
6. I am watching ID right now....and the tragedy
Mon Sep 30, 2019, 11:29 PM
Sep 2019

of a girl in Nova Scotia due to social media shaming. very frightening.

Behind the Aegis

(53,915 posts)
8. Homophobia kills again.
Tue Oct 1, 2019, 12:18 AM
Oct 2019

Sadly, I feel too many think homophobia is relegated to screams of "faggot" and "dyke", or physical attacks, including murder, but homophobia is so much more; tie in heterosexism, and a deadly cocktail is created.

It is 2019 and there are at least 15 states where homophobia is LEGAL; denial of housing or employment. It is 2019 and there states feverishly trying to pass laws limiting the rights of GLBT people. It is 2019 and there hate crimes against the GLBT community almost daily, but hardly seemed to be noticed. It is 2019 and there are those who think using homophobia (and transphobia) against one's opponents is acceptable (Ain't that right, Ms. Lindsey Graham? Not sure, ask Ann "The Man" Coulter!). It is 2019 and GLBT people are still under/misrepresented in the media. It is 2019 and GLBT lives are still being lost. It is 2019 and another gay/bi child has killed himself because GLBT aren't seen as real people, as worthy people, as human, we are seen as a joke, a put-down, a "cause", but not as an individual.

It is 2019 and homophobia, transphobia, and heterosexism are as virulent and prevalent as ever.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
9. So sad. The poor boy.
Tue Oct 1, 2019, 01:15 AM
Oct 2019

I wish he could have known that he could have had a good life regardless of his sexuality. It's so tragic that he felt so much shame over who he was. May he rest in peace.

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