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lol. Schumer noticed.
dalton99a
(81,406 posts)SWBTATTReg
(22,077 posts)his traitorous actions...there is no other way to describe his efforts to derail the election security bills, etc. other than to continue to allow foreign and/or other nefarious entities to sidetrack our elections...
Va Lefty
(6,252 posts)cynatnite
(31,011 posts)It feels like it goes against who he is and I wouldn't want to disrespect that. Just me, though. Everyone's welcome to feel differently.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)I agree.
stopdiggin
(11,254 posts)Time and place. Honor, respect, joint sorrow, healing.
But like the above .. not gonna' judge either.
yaesu
(8,020 posts)and it would be difficult for me to do that under any circumstance to be honest. I consider it one of my character flaws.
csziggy
(34,131 posts)I did similar to my sister at both our parents' funeral. She had been a total asshole to our mother while our father was dying and made the whole situation much harder on Mom. She literally turned her back on Mom because Mom asked her to leave Dad alone (she and her daughter forced Mom away from his bed and were 'petting' him and disturbing him as he was dying).
I have not spoken to that sister since and never will again. Life is too short to waste respect on someone who has none for others.
Blaukraut
(5,693 posts)FoxNewsSucks
(10,427 posts)instructed to stay away. If he had any decency, he would not have attended. I think he and all of them should be shunned any time they are in public, but I do see your point about Cummings funeral. It is a tough choice either way.
Arazi
(6,829 posts)And if snubbing obvious traitors like McConnell gets him thru today then he gets to do that today.
Sorry but nobody gets to "tut tut" grieving family members
cynatnite
(31,011 posts)Blue_true
(31,261 posts)Caliman73
(11,726 posts)I totally understand your rationale for your position and normally, I would agree.
I believe that the man who snubbed McConnell is being reported as Cummings' brother. So the way I see it, and will preface as you did by saying, Just me though. McConnell had very little right to be there other than his position as the Senate Leader grants him the option. He most certainly should not have been in the honor line shaking hands with people.
McConnell is a man who espouses EVERYTHING that Cummings and likely his family has fought against. He is racist, corrupt, and cares nothing about the people who Cummings championed, people of color and the poor. I think that if the man is who he is reported to be (Cummings' brother) then he might have a very strong motivation to not shake the hand of a man who really is an enemy of every cause his brother held dear just for the sake of decorum.
cynatnite
(31,011 posts)and anyone else's, too.
I don't fault anyone for refusing to shake his hand.
There were so many hard feelings between us and my Dad's family that trying to have some decorum was difficult, but we smiled and got through it. That family tried to stop us from burying my Dad where he bought his plot. So, it was bad.
I understand the feelings.
Caliman73
(11,726 posts)Grief often intensifies emotion.
What irritates me the most is that McConnell seemed to think that he deserved to be there and that it would be an honor to shake his hand.
We have had bad presidents and good ones, bad senators & representatives and good ones. Since Bush Jr. and especially with Trump, I feel that he office of the president has lost the honor bestowed upon it. President Obama restored that honor after Bush, but it really showed that the honor depends on how the people in the position comport themselves. I used to say when Bush was in office that if I ever got a chance to be in front of the president, that I would not be "star struck" or nervous about meeting the President, because I knew that I was smarter and a better person than Bush Jr. If there was any flack for my "lack or respect" I would simply say that when you drag the dignity of the office through the mud by your stupidity incompetence and malfeasance then you deserve no respect.
Conservatives went after President Obama for shooting hoops or taking a selfie, saying that he somehow degraded the office. Yet, Trump, who is a corrupt scumbag and McConnell who sold the country out to Russia and whose wife is selling it out to China for their own enrichment are "honorable"?
I know McConnell is Senate leader and that office comes with access to respectability. He should have done the honorable thing and stood in the second row in place of Maxine Waters and allowed a true colleague of Cummings be in the line of honor.
cynatnite
(31,011 posts)No matter our feelings, republicans were welcomed by the family.
It's horrible right now. I know that. tRump is wrecking our institutions, shitting on the constitution and doing his level best to turn people against one another with his hate-mongering.
Elijah Cummings funeral just isn't the place.
The fight belongs in DC in the halls of congress.
Phentex
(16,330 posts)It's not just you.
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smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Agree completely. In fact ignoring him was the most polite thing he could have done considering the fact that he probably wanted to strangle him instead. The fact that McConnell even showed up was disrespectful considering who he is and what he stands for.
LiberalFighter
(50,795 posts)obamanut2012
(26,047 posts)Righteous!
C_U_L8R
(44,992 posts)dewsgirl
(14,961 posts)Volaris
(10,269 posts)hvn_nbr_2
(6,486 posts)Schumer just grinned bigger, almost laughed in his face.
Demovictory9
(32,423 posts)LiberalFighter
(50,795 posts)moondust
(19,963 posts)somebody didn't spit on him.
Fritz Walter
(4,291 posts)But, soon I hope.
Perhaps by an eastern KY coalminer with black lung disease.
And that moment must be captured on video, so it can live forever.
stopbush
(24,393 posts)👏
TheBlackAdder
(28,169 posts)NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)Demovictory9
(32,423 posts)Eliot Rosewater
(31,106 posts)finally it is starting and as usual, it takes a POC...
keithbvadu2
(36,678 posts)Moscow Mitch and supporters will take it as a source for pride.
Caliman73
(11,726 posts)Maybe he will try to justify it somehow, but it is clear that (if it is Cummings' brother) that it was intentional because McConnell is a scumbag to Cummings' family.
Elijah Cummings is remembered as a civil rights hero and a man who lived his ENTIRE life in service to others. McConnell will not have such a consistently positive legacy.
Pepsidog
(6,254 posts)kytngirl
(99 posts)I believe that was his brother. I'm sure the congressman shared a lot of things with his brother about the happenings on the Hill. He probably even mentioned names. I think the brother acted with class myself. He didn't make a big deal out of it, he just kept walking. Knowing what he knew and the pain and grief McConnell and his ilk has caused, not just Congressman Cummings, but the United States, I would have passed on by as well. They are traitors to this country and do not deserve the courtesy they so blatantly think they deserve.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)Va Lefty
(6,252 posts)Remember seeing a movie about Roger Ailes career. He worked with the turtle on his 1st Senate campaign. Thought they had to "humanize" him. They put him in a fishing boat with a rod and reel. They even put a fish on the hook for him. When they got ready to film commercial, mitch said " what do I do?" Ailes said " You reel in the fucking fish mitch!"
Faux pas
(14,645 posts)bitch slapped the peckerwood asshole. I LOVE IT SO MUCH. and
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)But the pallbearer did the wrong thing. He should have shaken his hand and finished as fast as possible. To ignore him as was done plays into republicans' image game.
UniteFightBack
(8,231 posts)Phentex
(16,330 posts)that he thinks they weren't worthy to even be there.
ecstatic
(32,653 posts)MoscowMitch covers for a white nationalist president who called Baltimore a shithole city. I applaud those who can turn the other cheek, but I don't blame those who can't and won't.
Cuthbert Allgood
(4,907 posts)EndlessWire
(6,463 posts)McConnell is enabling a dictator. There is no reason for McConnell to be stunned when someone doesn't want to shake his hand. Since I can't punch McConnell in the mouth, at least I have the snub to be happy about.
Condolences to Cummings's family.
Xolodno
(6,384 posts)...he liked it when liberals were angry and protesting against him?
So what's the problem?
The pallbearer did shake hands with another Republican, McCarthy. So this wasn't partisan, he found Mitch personally reprehensible.
UniteFightBack
(8,231 posts)'C'mon man, you're better that that'.
Dagstead Bumwood
(3,599 posts)Please feel free to punch his head until it turns to dust. It's what I would have wanted.
ecstatic
(32,653 posts)There won't be any fake handshakes from me.
MoscowMitch and his cronies are thugs. Period!
LeftInTX
(25,151 posts)LeftInTX
(25,151 posts)His opponent should use it in their campaign.
KentuckyWoman
(6,679 posts)He has had so much work done that he always looks like that. A cross between shocked and constipated.
SKKY
(11,797 posts)...But since its Moscow Mitch its spot on perfect.
Bayard
(22,011 posts)I understand his brother's feelings, but I would imagine Congressman Cummings would not have done the same.
I certainly like seeing MM discomfited.
PlanetBev
(4,104 posts)Tough shit, you Supreme Court seat stealing bastard. Tell your grievances to Merrick Garland, you miserable maggot.