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MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 10:52 AM Nov 2019

I just joined a new Facebook Group

It's a group of people who own older Ford Ranger pickups. I had a question about the one I recently bought, so I joined that group and asked my question. Within minutes, I had several answers.

It's a closed group that doesn't allow any posts about politics or anything that doesn't relate to Ford Rangers. Facebook is full of groups like that one, all populated by helpful people who have something in common.

I'm also in a group of people who were stationed at a small USAF base in Samsun, Turkey. The base only existed for 12 years, and never had more than 5-600 people stationed there, each of whom was there for just 15 months. The group has over 100 members, all of whom were there. It's a friendly group of people with something in common. No politics are allowed in posts there, either.

I belong to a few other Facebook groups about subjects of interest to me. One is just about crystal radios. It has a few hundred members who would never have met one another if it weren't for that Facebook group.

Facebook is about a lot of things to different people. It has many uses. I don't use Facebook for politics. That's what DU is for.

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I just joined a new Facebook Group (Original Post) MineralMan Nov 2019 OP
I really enjoy the Eric Clapton group I'm a part of ismnotwasm Nov 2019 #1
Yup. The Facebook platform makes it easy for groups that share interests MineralMan Nov 2019 #4
I know what you mean about websites versus Facebook! LeftInTX Nov 2019 #47
Yes, I have maintained a Precinct website now for about 8 years. MineralMan Nov 2019 #52
Stay , enjoy, Monitor it for us. California_Republic Nov 2019 #2
I don't really monitor Facebook. MineralMan Nov 2019 #6
I'm in a few fun political groups on Facebook Dr Hobbitstein Nov 2019 #3
I'm not on any political groups on Facebook, other than the MineralMan Nov 2019 #5
Yeah, the groups I'm in are leftist groups. Dr Hobbitstein Nov 2019 #19
I'm in a couple of hobby groups that are great, myself. bluedigger Nov 2019 #7
Thanks for your post. MineralMan Nov 2019 #8
I don't use it for politics either. femmocrat Nov 2019 #9
My wife is in a group for owners of rescued lab beagles. MineralMan Nov 2019 #13
It an be great Johnny2X2X Nov 2019 #10
I use it for local activities NewJeffCT Nov 2019 #11
Everything is Free, and Buy Nothing Project, have FB groups Croney Nov 2019 #12
Yes. Those sound great. MineralMan Nov 2019 #14
I own an old 95 F-150 Jeffersons Ghost Nov 2019 #15
Sounds great! I went many years without having a pickup. MineralMan Nov 2019 #16
Big-time Ford Ranger fan here! JaneQPublic Nov 2019 #25
I"m glad they brought back the Ranger. MineralMan Nov 2019 #28
I'm a member of a Facebook group that consists of the teachers at an English school in Tokyo, Japan. Nitram Nov 2019 #17
Wonderful! By providing a space for groups like those to MineralMan Nov 2019 #18
if i join the group dweller Nov 2019 #20
Yeah...probably not... MineralMan Nov 2019 #21
i thought not dweller Nov 2019 #23
Oh, I hate pulling transmissions in a driveway! MineralMan Nov 2019 #51
Nowadays a lot of groups that used to have dedicated websites/forums have now moved to Facebook. Hoyt Nov 2019 #22
Yes. Maintaining a separate website is a pain, and you typically MineralMan Nov 2019 #29
i enjoy fb. sorry haters. mopinko Nov 2019 #24
THANK.............. YOU. I am tired of hearing people tell me how stupid I am to do FB ! pangaia Nov 2019 #26
If they could just make the trains run on time. ret5hd Nov 2019 #27
Facebook has trains? Who knew? MineralMan Nov 2019 #30
hihowdi. wasnt in the military, 4f4. dont have a ford ranger . but do have a couple and a great int AllaN01Bear Nov 2019 #31
I am not a moderator here or anywhere else. MineralMan Nov 2019 #32
I do politics on Facebook on a local television station. gordianot Nov 2019 #33
I had a '97 Ford Ranger 4wd... LuckyCharms Nov 2019 #34
Thanks, MinMan, for this thread. It's nice to get some balanced perspectives... Hekate Nov 2019 #35
I lived at Vandenburg AFB from 1967-69 LeftInTX Nov 2019 #53
I think it's great for family and interests catchnrelease Nov 2019 #36
I couldnt list all the groups/pages to which I belong GusBob Nov 2019 #37
Bought my first Ranger in 1986. Had it till 1997 when it was totalled in an accident. Only had in2herbs Nov 2019 #38
I enjoy FB Dr Vegas Nov 2019 #39
Facebook is a un-American pos company. The starter of that company should be in jail rockfordfile Nov 2019 #40
Lol, good luck with that. cwydro Nov 2019 #45
I had a similar experience radical noodle Nov 2019 #41
Yes. There are private, safe groups for almost anything you can imagine. MineralMan Nov 2019 #42
Indeed! radical noodle Nov 2019 #43
Thank you for contributing to the thread! MineralMan Nov 2019 #46
I've got an old Ford Ranger! How'd you find the group? cwydro Nov 2019 #44
Mental health tip?! :) I have a 1994 Ford Ranger, extended-cab, Hortensis Nov 2019 #48
Well, fortunately the engine and transmission in my Ranger MineralMan Nov 2019 #50
It'll be great for that. My F150 has always been my Hortensis Nov 2019 #54
Here in the Twin Cities, Ford Rangers are by far the most popular MineralMan Nov 2019 #58
:) Nice altogether. I'm glad the seller felt happy selling to you. Hortensis Nov 2019 #67
I only belong to one group on Facebook... Archae Nov 2019 #49
I have been trying to stay away from it, not for any "noble" reasoning Kali Nov 2019 #55
Damn You! Now, I have to sign up for that group. MineralMan Nov 2019 #56
... Kali Nov 2019 #57
What a fun group! MineralMan Nov 2019 #59
makes thrift shopping even more fun Kali Nov 2019 #60
Holy crap that's awesome ismnotwasm Nov 2019 #62
I'm a little ashamed to admit I don't remember who it was Kali Nov 2019 #65
Bears. RichardRay Nov 2019 #61
I belong to a cat rescue group LeftInTX Nov 2019 #68
This message was self-deleted by its author Baked Potato Nov 2019 #63
I was at TUSLOG Det. 3-2 in Samsun. MineralMan Nov 2019 #64
DU isn't that great for politics JonLP24 Nov 2019 #66

ismnotwasm

(41,974 posts)
1. I really enjoy the Eric Clapton group I'm a part of
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 10:55 AM
Nov 2019

There’s another group of former street kids, some from the movie “street smart” I’m a part of as well. We were all street kids in the 70’s and early 80’s. Until I found that group I thought everyone was dead.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
4. Yup. The Facebook platform makes it easy for groups that share interests
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:02 AM
Nov 2019

to create a private space to talk about those interests. There's no cost to set such a group up, and a wide range of tools are available to help people share photos, videos, and other information.

It's popular to malign Facebook, and there are reasons to do that. However, it's more than just a political website or a venue for advertising. Millions of people use it to make and maintain contact with people who share something in common. For those people, Facebook is a very useful, free tool.

I mentioned that group about the USAF base in Turkey. Before it existed, I had a website to do the same thing. While it had quite a few members, it was difficult to do all the things a Facebook group can do, and a helluva lot of work to maintain. Once the Facebook group formed, I moved most of the images from that website and then shut the website down. Facebook was a much better venue for it.

A lot of the people who trash Facebook here and other places are not actually active Facebook users, nor do they take advantage of the many tools available on that platform. The people who use Facebook as a means of communication with others who share common history or interests don't trash Facebook. They just use it and enjoy it.

LeftInTX

(25,205 posts)
47. I know what you mean about websites versus Facebook!
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:47 PM
Nov 2019

I have a Google website for my precinct and it is alot of work to keep it updated with elections/dates etc. (I don't even bother putting the website on my business card)


I have a Facebook page and it's easy peasy......

12 years ago, Google sites and blogs were free and easy...now they've changed. You have to put in special code so your Google site will show up on Google searches now. Also Google is pushing the paid platform. They've also changed all their templates and the templates are about as exciting as a MS Word document.....

ETA: My Precinct Facebook page can be viewed and bookmarked by non-Facebook members. Just like a website, it can be bookmarked. It can be found via Google search by putting in key words from the page. I would link my page here, but I'm reluctant to put my full name and picture on DU.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
52. Yes, I have maintained a Precinct website now for about 8 years.
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:07 PM
Nov 2019

I'm going to hand it over to whomever becomes the chair in 2020. It's on Google's Blogger platform, and I set it up with a new Google account, so I can just pass it along to the next chair. Really, it's the only DFL Party precinct website I know of in Minnesota. It gets some traffic around election time, but that's all. It has links to a lot of stuff, and a few brief posts that are about current topics having to do with elections.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
6. I don't really monitor Facebook.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:06 AM
Nov 2019

I use it as a tool that helps me keep in touch with various communities. It's not a place where I deal with politics. Instead, it is an enabler of personal connections.

You can use Facebook in your own way and ignore the rest.

 

Dr Hobbitstein

(6,568 posts)
3. I'm in a few fun political groups on Facebook
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 10:58 AM
Nov 2019

"so this is the right's fabled memeing ability"
"So this is the right's fabled understanding of history"
"Conservatives forgetting Trump is 300+ lbs and doesn't exercise"
"Right wingers hate thirsting over AOC"

Lots of fun to be had there.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
5. I'm not on any political groups on Facebook, other than the
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:04 AM
Nov 2019

Democratic Underground group, which I rarely visit, unless DU is down.

However, there are many, many politically oriented groups on the platform. Some of them are noxious as hell. Others are more useful.

Facebook is what each user makes it, it seems to me.

bluedigger

(17,086 posts)
7. I'm in a couple of hobby groups that are great, myself.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:14 AM
Nov 2019

I returned last year to my childhood love, scale modeling. Found a bunch of youtube videos and got interested again, after a forty year layoff. Eventually found some groups on FB. They, too, are nonpolitical, but we have some issues - Swastikas on military models mostly. It's an international community, so there is an interesting exchange of opinion on historical accuracy v. censorship before the mods shut them down, as they inevitably do. The really hilarious (to me) censorship occurs whenever anyone posts about the Meng (a Chinese company, I believe) tank kits featuring Putin or Trump (in a Santa hat?!!) figures. I gotta get me those.

To your point, FB has a lot of positive value, from closed groups of like minded people, to animal rescue, community orgs, etc... We get too caught up in focusing on the negative, and feeding our confirmation biases. Hold FB accountable, don't try to kill it.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
8. Thanks for your post.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:17 AM
Nov 2019

I think most Facebook users are more interested in its relationship-fostering tools than in politics and other divisive things. I know that's true for me.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
9. I don't use it for politics either.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:20 AM
Nov 2019

I am in two groups. One has to do with genealogy and the other is just for corgi families (all from the same breeder.)

I agree, FB has its good aspects too. I use it to keep in touch with a couple of long-time DUers, too.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
13. My wife is in a group for owners of rescued lab beagles.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:27 AM
Nov 2019

We have one. That group used to be an open group, but people who had no real connection kept coming in and creating conflicts. So, it was closed and membership restricted to people who were truly part of the group.

Facebook's closed (now "private&quot groups are valuable, particularly to groups whose members are vulnerable in some way.

The company doesn't have to make such groups available, but it does. There are thousands of them, on almost any topic you can imagine. That is one of the most powerful things Facebook has enabled. I do not want to see that go away, just because some people see Facebook as only a political entity. It is far, far more than that.

The ability to quickly create a private group on Facebook, complete with messaging, photo sharing, and much more is amazing. That such groups are possible to create at no cost whatsoever is even more remarkable. It's a powerful gift to many communities which otherwise could not have such a space.

Johnny2X2X

(19,010 posts)
10. It an be great
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:22 AM
Nov 2019

I would love for Facebook to ban all political content. Would really get them back to their core mission of connecting people.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
11. I use it for local activities
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:22 AM
Nov 2019

My town has a couple of pretty active Facebook pages that are great for things like "hey, I need a plumber (electrician, baby sitter, guitar lessons, etc), can somebody recommend a person?" or to promote local fundraisers or other events in town.

Twitter isn't nearly as easy to use that way, I've found, even though I use Twitter far more now.

Croney

(4,657 posts)
12. Everything is Free, and Buy Nothing Project, have FB groups
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:22 AM
Nov 2019

for many towns. I give away clothes, books, household items to people in two communities. I also belong to a niche group for collecting a specific vintage item.

I only have 40 friends and most are relatives. The RWNJ's know better than to pester me with their shit. My 96-year-old mother loves looking at my FB pictures.

My privacy settings are tight. I do understand how FB can be a minefield, but it works for me.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
14. Yes. Those sound great.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:31 AM
Nov 2019

As Facebook users, we have tools we can use to customize our experience there. You do have to learn to use them, but help is available for that, as well. If, as some have suggested, Facebook were eliminated, it would be an enormous loss to many communities who have made it a home.

In my case, my question about my 1996 Ford Ranger was answered in a way that will save me a few hundred dollars. That answer came within 5 minutes of my posting the question. Someone explained how I could do a repair job myself, rather than taking the truck to a shop. That person even linked to a video that showed the work being done, step-by-step.

Facebook is a useful tool in many ways.

Jeffersons Ghost

(15,235 posts)
15. I own an old 95 F-150
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:37 AM
Nov 2019

It's got plenty of dents, because I inherited it from my younger brother, who died in his sleep. He was a Navy Seabee and a Union electrician, who learned his trade in the Navy. It needs painting and has several dents. He must have driven it in the woods, creating a big dent in the front bumper, which I repaired, by buying a very affordable slightly dented bumper at a junk yard. I spent days sanding and repainting it before I installed it. Since I live in Albuquerque, where people and the wind, tend to make new dents in the large truck, I do not intend to repair the minor dents or repaint it. I also want to preserve his IBEW sticker on the tailgate. It has a straight six engine, which I keep well-oiled and in good running condition.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
16. Sounds great! I went many years without having a pickup.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:43 AM
Nov 2019

I always used to have one. They're very, very useful. But, for some reason, I stopped owning one. This year, though, we had some serious yard clean-up and junk clearing that needed to be done. We had traded in our 7-year-old car for a brand new one. A surprise check came in that we weren't expecting, so I said to my wife, "I'm going to find a pickup I can buy for less than that check." She agreed with me that we could use it.

So, I found one, bought it, and now I remember why I always used to have a pickup. We were using just one car, but now we have a second vehicle again. I've already hauled multiple loads of junk, brush and other things away with it. It's old, has some dents and some rust, but who cares. It's an old pickup, after all.

Anyhow, it sometimes stalled while idling at stop lights, etc. No big deal, because it started right back up, but it was annoying. So, I joined that group, described the issue in detail, and someone chimed in with the solution. I bought a new Idle Air Control unit online, installed it, and the problem was solved. Facebook saved me some money. It's hard to diagnose today's vehicles, since everything is computer-controlled. But, my description of the problem let someone tell me what the problem probably was, and it's fixed now, for $37.05, instead of $300.

Thanks, Facebook!

JaneQPublic

(7,113 posts)
25. Big-time Ford Ranger fan here!
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 12:39 PM
Nov 2019

Congrats on your truck, MineralMan!

I bought a 2001 Ranger new and drove it for 18 years, not having a bit of trouble with until it was over 16 years old.

Then the last couple of years sometimes it wouldn't start. I had to have it towed in once because of it, but the technician said it started 50 times in a row for him and diagnostics showed nothing wrong. But after it developed a few other problems rendering it unreliable, including failing brakes, I decided to trade it in when Ford brought back the Ranger this year.

The new ones are bigger than the old ones were, just as with the Toyota Tacoma and Chevy Colorado. I would have bought another small truck like the 2001 if they still made them, but they don't. That said, I am having so much fun with the 2019 Ranger! It's speedy, nimble, and fuel-efficient (for a truck). Compared to the old one, it's like a space ship, what with all the new technology. I do miss my cassette deck though.

While I agree that FB does have some very useful groups (I belong to one for residents of my neighborhood for all the VERY local news), the place to go for owners of NEW Rangers is not on FB. It's a website where members are equally helpful with any problems or other questions. It's at:
https://www.ranger5g.com/

Happy trucking, MM!


MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
28. I"m glad they brought back the Ranger.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:03 PM
Nov 2019

I had a 1986 one, years ago, and now the 1996. It's just a beater truck, but it's still a decent vehicle. Mine has the 4-cylinder engine and manual transmission. Those seem to last forever.

Nitram

(22,776 posts)
17. I'm a member of a Facebook group that consists of the teachers at an English school in Tokyo, Japan.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:43 AM
Nov 2019

And another group that consists of high school classmates who graduated from a school in Bogota, Colombia in the late 1960's. I use FB to stay on touch with people I've known all over the world when I was growing up, and while I was working abroad as an adult.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
18. Wonderful! By providing a space for groups like those to
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:48 AM
Nov 2019

form and find each other, Facebook has enabled you to maintain relationships with people you might never have been able to find. That's pretty remarkable, isn't it?

Facebook serves some very useful purposes and offers its capabilities at no charge to such groups. I like that.

dweller

(23,621 posts)
20. if i join the group
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:56 AM
Nov 2019

think i can find someone to fix my 97 Ranger ? 😀
i mean literally come over and fix it?
i'm getting to old to crawl under it anymore 😑

✌🏼

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
21. Yeah...probably not...
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 11:57 AM
Nov 2019

I hear you, though.

On the other hand, on a KIA Soul group on FB, a woman was trying to figure out how to change a headlight bulb on her 2013. She said she couldn't afford to have it done. Someone in the group who lived not far from her went over and did it, after exchanging addresses in Messenger.

dweller

(23,621 posts)
23. i thought not
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 12:01 PM
Nov 2019

needs a clutch, if it's the master, it's doable... but if it's the slave, dropping the trans is too much for me to handle ... eventually i'll get to it
got my plate full at the mo..

✌🏼

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
51. Oh, I hate pulling transmissions in a driveway!
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:04 PM
Nov 2019

I've done it a few times in the past 50 years, but would rather not. Actually, at age 75, I wouldn't do it again. Such a job would probably result in my selling the Ranger and replacing it with another one that had a good clutch. But, the clutch on mine seems fine at this point.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
22. Nowadays a lot of groups that used to have dedicated websites/forums have now moved to Facebook.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 12:01 PM
Nov 2019

I like musical instruments, musicians, hiking, local politics, colleges or high schools, etc.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
29. Yes. Maintaining a separate website is a pain, and you typically
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:05 PM
Nov 2019

can't offer the same variety of tools to your users that are on the Facebook platform.

mopinko

(70,069 posts)
24. i enjoy fb. sorry haters.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 12:32 PM
Nov 2019

i have gotten in touch w so many people from my younger years, a couple of whom i didnt even remember knowing, particularly, but def enjoy having as a friend now.

i also have a nice little following for my farm page, and enjoy quite a few farm/plant/animal focused groups.
so much info out there. there is a mushroom id group that is practically instantaneous sometimes. i have gone from zero knowledge to a solid grasp on common prize edibles as well as identifying most all the many, many fungi on my property.

i am a freeloader. i almost never click on an ad, unless it is for some small local event or cause. i never ever buy anything through them.
i brook no bullshit on my page, and i dont seem to even see most of the dreck that others get swamped in.

when they revealed the fb stuff that the trolls had pushed, it turns out i saw exactly zero of it.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
26. THANK.............. YOU. I am tired of hearing people tell me how stupid I am to do FB !
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 12:53 PM
Nov 2019

I probably belong to about 10-12 groups-- a lot like yours, in my case mostly professionally oriented- stuff for sale, how to fix, musical interpretations---(have a look at the Gustav Mahler group, if you like. these are extraordinarily knowledgeable people!)

And speaking of Mahler...
In another group, there has been yet ANOTHER long discussion of how manner hammer blows to play in his 6th symphony..


I get absolutely ZERO right wing posts in my feed, and while still too many ads, no sick ones-- recently a lot about socks and round eye glasses...


MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
30. Facebook has trains? Who knew?
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:08 PM
Nov 2019

I'll bet there are a few train groups on it, though. Steam trains, specific railroad lines, model trains. Yup, there's a group for just about everyone on Facebook, if you're interested in trains.

AllaN01Bear

(18,110 posts)
31. hihowdi. wasnt in the military, 4f4. dont have a ford ranger . but do have a couple and a great int
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:12 PM
Nov 2019

rest in xtal sets . de kf6uxj / ex kae4466 . been on du since 2000. i like your screen nick. ive seen lots of ur posts on here . : ps du is my goto place for politics and sensible news . arnt u one of the moderators if i may ask?

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
32. I am not a moderator here or anywhere else.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:16 PM
Nov 2019

If you want to find the Crystal Radio group on Facebook, just search for "Crystal Radio."

gordianot

(15,237 posts)
33. I do politics on Facebook on a local television station.
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:19 PM
Nov 2019

You get constant memes that sound to me like Russian propaganda and some of the participant Facebook accounts seem questionable. Not that I think anything will convince Trumpers I try to counterbalance their lies. It is interesting to see who are tempted to join in.

LuckyCharms

(17,425 posts)
34. I had a '97 Ford Ranger 4wd...
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:21 PM
Nov 2019

I loved that truck. I bought it new and ran it until the head gasket blew. I loved that truck so much that I decided to have it repaired, and then ran it for awhile longer until I switched to a larger truck.

Hekate

(90,617 posts)
35. Thanks, MinMan, for this thread. It's nice to get some balanced perspectives...
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:29 PM
Nov 2019

I recently logged back on to check for news of the Maria Fire, to see if a certain local man and his followers were posting updates. They were. He's a photographer/artist, and his site was invaluable the Thomas Fire and subsequent Montecito Mudflow.

You see, Ventura doesn't have a TV station of its own, so anything to do with my new town is an afterthought to Santa Barbara and Los Angeles. Are you aware that major regional fires stop at the County line? Yep, and KEYT aired the maps that "prove" it. Ventura was all over their news until the Thomas Fire crossed the County line into SB, at which point their map (on-air and online) showed a sharp line, with red on the SB side and a big blank to the south, where things were still burning like hell.

I was very grateful when my SIL steered me to the local guy.

Still despise Zuck, though.

LeftInTX

(25,205 posts)
53. I lived at Vandenburg AFB from 1967-69
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:08 PM
Nov 2019

I know what you mean....We had cable from LA...Local TV was lacking....I think Santa Barbara and San Luis Opisbo each had one station back then.

catchnrelease

(1,945 posts)
36. I think it's great for family and interests
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:40 PM
Nov 2019

I use FB for staying in touch with family that is spread all over the country. I created a closed group just for us and it really has kept the lines of communication open during things like hurricanes, fires etc. Just to touch base and say 'we're ok'. Saying happy birthday etc.

I'm also in several special interest groups--Calif native plants, geology, pet lost/found, artistic interests etc. My husband has reconnected with tons of his high school friends and a bunch of them get together for lunch and reminiscing on a fairly regular basis, he loves it.

I know there is tracking going on, but I think I have my security tightened down as much as it's possible. No ads, no apps, nothing open to the public that I'm able to control. No politics, not even DU! And I'd say I have learned a lot by being part of some of the groups I'm in, as you say MM. I would also say I'm probably addicted as the thought of just closing it down and not being on it just is a no-go to me.

GusBob

(7,286 posts)
37. I couldnt list all the groups/pages to which I belong
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:41 PM
Nov 2019

it would take all day

some are political and they are great too

There's no way I could keep so much interesting stuff organized otherwise

And as I indicated earlier, there is no way I can pick up the phone and call someone say, in Auckland NZ

I don't have voice service in these mountains for one thing

Do your boycott go hard!

I'll do whatever I want too

in2herbs

(2,944 posts)
38. Bought my first Ranger in 1986. Had it till 1997 when it was totalled in an accident. Only had
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 01:57 PM
Nov 2019

68,000 miles. Bought my second Ranger to replace the one that was totalled, had it till 2018. It only had 84,000 miles. I now own a Subaru but I miss my Rangers. My second Ranger was bought by my friend's son.

Dr Vegas

(456 posts)
39. I enjoy FB
Tue Nov 5, 2019, 02:55 PM
Nov 2019

I post what I like and I let my FB friends know they are always free to delete any of my posts they disagree with and/or even unfriend me.

I do delete anything that shows up on my feed that I disagree with. I flag fake/scam ads and I notify administrators when a off subject or spam shows up in a feed that is in a group I belong in. I wasn't always so careful.

A few years ago I got into a flame war with some TRump-pets in a Classic Rock FB page. They were pissed about a song Todd Rundgren wrote with Don Fagen, "Tin Foil Hats". They tried to argue with me that Todd Rundgren could not be considered "Classic Rock".

I foolishly pointed out Todd's work as a solo artist and his production work and even his touring with Ringo Stars "All'Star" Band.
I stated you can't ignore what he has done just because you dislike one song. There was no point arguing with Trump supporters.
The exchange left a bad taste in my mouth and I left the group and found another to join. Now I am wiser and avoid interacting emotionally with posts I disagree with. Life too short for that crap,

radical noodle

(8,000 posts)
41. I had a similar experience
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:48 AM
Nov 2019

when I had an African Violet that was drooping and limp. I found a great group of African Violet growers who gave me terrific advice and now my plant is thriving. It too is private and allows no politics. I belong to several similar groups.

I also had Fuch's Dystrophy (I'm cured thanks to transplants), and I belong to a group on Facebook that reassures those who are newly diagnosed with the disease so they will have support.

There is much good about Facebook.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
42. Yes. There are private, safe groups for almost anything you can imagine.
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 10:34 AM
Nov 2019

Many of those who are insisting that everyone boycott Facebook are not really Facebook users in the first place. So, they're unlikely to be aware of the features of FB that make it valuable to so many. Focusing only on the political side is a mistake, I think. Most Facebook users, I suspect pay little attention at all to the political goings on.

Again and again, I see people who are trying to get people to boycott the site saying things like, "I quit Facebook in 2016," or "I never use Facebook." So, it's clear where they stand and that they aren't aware of how so many people use the site.

radical noodle

(8,000 posts)
43. Indeed!
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:29 PM
Nov 2019

Yes, Facebook does have issues, but I've always found more good than bad there. The call for the boycott is exactly why I decided to share a couple of my experiences. Thanks for starting the thread.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
48. Mental health tip?! :) I have a 1994 Ford Ranger, extended-cab,
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:47 PM
Nov 2019

wonderfully smooth and comfy ride for a small pickup. I'm extremely fond of it and would love to keep it forever, but serenity does not lie in talking about my suspicions that the transmission is on the way out again.

I participate in gardening and cooking groups (not FB) and just brought home some poblanos and crema to try a recommended recipe.

Happy chatting.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
50. Well, fortunately the engine and transmission in my Ranger
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:00 PM
Nov 2019

exhibit no alarming symptoms. I doubt it will be driven more than about 750 miles per year. Aside from being a second vehicle that can run errands when our primary vehicle is doing something else, it will get filled with brush, junk, etc. for disposal, mostly. Or, if something like the snowblower has a problem I can't fix, it will haul that to the repair shop.

We got along just fine for seven years with just one vehicle. This year, though, we had some major decluttering and clean-up chores that needed doing. Instead of paying someone else to do those chores, we bought the Ranger for $1100. Add $300 to that for a set of new tires, and it's still a cheap truck. It has already earned its keep this year. It will get driven at least once a week, far enough to thoroughly warm the operating parts up. I'll give it an oil change once a year. We'll find out if its battery is OK this winter. If not, I'll put a new one in it. Given its current healthy state, it should serve us well for several years in its assigned role.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
54. It'll be great for that. My F150 has always been my
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:13 PM
Nov 2019

gardening buddy and was "my car" (as opposed to "ours" ) for years.

The one thing it can't do that matters is get back up our neighbor's adventurous driveway from the lake. If it would, I maybe could get my husband to agree to new paint, transmission, etc, but at the expense of having him leave it down at the dock too often.

Pickups are very valued here in the south, though, and I expect this little one will become a happy project for someone who'd like your FB group when I finally face up to letting it go.

MineralMan

(146,282 posts)
58. Here in the Twin Cities, Ford Rangers are by far the most popular
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:48 PM
Nov 2019

small pickups. Why? Because they used to be built right here in St. Paul. In fact, it's sort of difficult here to find anything but Ford Rangers if you're searching for a small pickup. Once I decided to buy a truck, Craigslist displayed at least 30 Rangers, the first time I searched. Even better, because there are so many of them, the prices are relatively low, compared to some other areas.

When I told my brother-in-law about my new truck, its price, and its condition, he said, and I quote: "Damn! That thing would cost almost three times as much here in Southern California." Then, when he found out that the check engine light wasn't on, he added $500 to the expected price where he is. We don't have smog checks in Minnesota at all.

I bought it from a woman whose husband had recently died. Her son had advertised it and set the price. It had literally been sitting in the woman's driveway for 9 months without even being driven during that time. She finally decided to sell it. It was her husband's project truck. He had been working on it for about four years, the son told me. Replacing parts, etc.

The trouble was that it hadn't been used for 9 months. That meant that the gas in it was old, and the clutch had gotten rusty. So, many people had looked at it, because it was priced at just $1100. But nobody bought it. I got there, got into it, started it up and drove it around the block. The clutch was grabby, and the engine was running rough. I almost passed on it, but drove it some more, about 15 miles. The clutch started working normally and the engine sort of cleaned itself out and was running pretty OK when I got back. It needed a set of tires, though.

I decided to buy it. So, the nice woman and I went to the DMV office and sat there for an hour until we could transfer it. We had some time to chat, and she told me about her husband, who had died about six months before. I handed over the money, got my paperwork, and we left the DMV. She said, "You know what I"m going to do with this $1100? I"m going to use it to pay for my husband's headstone." Then, she gave me a big hug and drove off, and I drove off in the Ranger. A very nice transaction.

Anyhow, I put a tank of fresh gas in it with some fuel system cleaner added. I checked everything over. It had new brakes, the timing belt and water pump had recently been replaced, and the exhaust system looked brand new. I went the next day to the tire shop and put four new tires on it for $300. Since then, the engine is running perfectly and it drives like, well, a Ford Ranger. The 4-cylinder engine and standard transmission are the old reliable Mazda-engineered units, which have a great reputation.

Nice.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
67. :) Nice altogether. I'm glad the seller felt happy selling to you.
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:57 PM
Nov 2019

Fun hearing about the truck's history up there. Prices here are more like California's.

Mine's a 6-cylinder, great on the road, but that driveway reminds me increasingly of places they liked to position cameras on the Baja 1000. Strictly 4-wheel these days, but our neighbor says it keeps trespassers out.

Your eye's like my husband's. At 79 he went out with instructions from me and both his children to spend some money on a nice little bass boat he could depend on but instead came home with one that hadn't run in years and looked like the wrath of god had finished with it a decade before. But under the leaves and mold it's a classic top-brand aluminum that was waiting for someone who couldn't pass it up because he knew why it wouldn't run and where to get the parts.



Enjoy.

Archae

(46,312 posts)
49. I only belong to one group on Facebook...
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:56 PM
Nov 2019

It's devoted to one topic, *NO* politics.

Spyro the Dragon.

(Videogame character)

We love finding art at FurAffinity and DeviantArt, and even fan-made animations.

Kali

(55,006 posts)
55. I have been trying to stay away from it, not for any "noble" reasoning
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:18 PM
Nov 2019

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but just because it is such a time suck. best group there? https://www.facebook.com/groups/WeirdSecondhandFinds/

Kali

(55,006 posts)
60. makes thrift shopping even more fun
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:55 PM
Nov 2019

looking for something to post. I posted a few of my treasures when I was on FB more. recently got to check out a goodwill in another part of the state so that was kind of a blast. didn't come home with too much more crap.

I love how they have "trade names" for certain kinds of things, like vomit clocks.

ismnotwasm

(41,974 posts)
62. Holy crap that's awesome
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:59 PM
Nov 2019

I have a hand carved “devil mask” from Sri Lanka that would fit right in...got it at a yard sale years ago

Kali

(55,006 posts)
65. I'm a little ashamed to admit I don't remember who it was
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:17 PM
Nov 2019

but it was definitely somebody from DU who turned me on to that site.

RichardRay

(2,611 posts)
61. Bears.
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:57 PM
Nov 2019

I’m on four pages with grizzly and black bear rehabbers. Wouldn’t guess the rehabbers would know how to put up their own sites. The admins are sudden death in s]anything not having to do with bear rehabilitation. The sites are very polite and civil.

LeftInTX

(25,205 posts)
68. I belong to a cat rescue group
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 03:00 PM
Nov 2019

I don't rescue cats. I don't even own a cat, but it's a feel-good time pass for me. (Hubby is allergic and pets are too much work for us) I enjoy reading about the work they do.

Unlike bears, most of the group members own cats, so the topic is somewhat more diverse with cat owners sharing pet pics etc.

Everything must stay on topic. The group is closed.

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JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
66. DU isn't that great for politics
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:17 PM
Nov 2019

We lack a lot of perspectives here but Facebook is awful for politics as well. I use Twitter I can follow Jeremy Corbyn supporters in the UK. I get a lot of perspectives that I just can't get at DU.

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