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jmowreader

(50,522 posts)
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 01:47 PM Nov 2019

How to stop scammers from calling you

This is a script. It must be followed to the letter to have any effect.

A few days ago, I started getting phone calls from the “suspended Social Security Account” scammers. I know these guys just use a robodialer to dial at random until they find a mark.

I pick up the phone the first time. “This is a call from Social Security. We are calling to notify you that your Social Security account has been suspended due to several fraudulent transactions...” I hung up.

The second time: “This is a call from Law Enforcement Agency. We are calling to notify you that a warrant has been issued for your arrest in conjunction with fraudulent Social Security transactions.” Yeah, right mother fucker. I hung up.

The third time was a repeat of the first call. I let it play until a human operator came on the line, and then I yelled at the top of my lungs, “I KNOW THIS IS A FUCKING SCAM, YOU WORTHLESS PIECE OF SHIT. DO NOT EVER FUCKING CALL ME AGAIN.”

There have been no further calls from them.

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How to stop scammers from calling you (Original Post) jmowreader Nov 2019 OP
I've been hammered with those same calls this week. MontanaMama Nov 2019 #1
And I would add a whistle question everything Nov 2019 #2
i just let You Mail handle them CatWoman Nov 2019 #3
Interesting grantcart Nov 2019 #25
My answering machine enjoys fielding these calls. marybourg Nov 2019 #4
My recent calls have been from the "Chinese Consulate." MineralMan Nov 2019 #5
Thaaaaaaaaaaaaat's what she's saying !!!!! KentuckyWoman Nov 2019 #43
What I say when I want to have fun. safeinOhio Nov 2019 #6
I use a police whistle WhiteTara Nov 2019 #7
if this is a legit call : one they must send you a leter and day date and time of phone AllaN01Bear Nov 2019 #8
Yeah, basic fact: They don't cold call people... Wounded Bear Nov 2019 #20
I have a free google phone number shanti Nov 2019 #9
I was getting them 2 months ago. Ilsa Nov 2019 #10
This is a fun one to do and it also stops them. MuseRider Nov 2019 #11
Great movie Beringia Nov 2019 #33
I got an identical call. Butterflylady Nov 2019 #12
Just don't ever answer the phone, ever! It works for us and we don't get literally any calls... SWBTATTReg Nov 2019 #13
I wait until someone speaks, walk to the bathroom, hold the phone up to the toilet and flush. chowder66 Nov 2019 #14
try this lapfog_1 Nov 2019 #15
I use them HDSam Nov 2019 #16
I answer the phone, say hello and then park the phone on mute, while they say, Hello? Hello? Hello? TheBlackAdder Nov 2019 #17
Don't answer the phone. drray23 Nov 2019 #18
I got a series of calls from "Apple Product Support",,, lastlib Nov 2019 #19
I get the "Microsoft" virus ones all the time jmowreader Nov 2019 #23
The car extended warranty people can never tell me which car they are calling about csziggy Nov 2019 #32
My great-aunt used to keep an old police whistle by the phone, tell them softly that she had a cold Tarc Nov 2019 #21
It's more fun to drag them along for several minutes Roland99 Nov 2019 #22
Another great trick dickthegrouch Nov 2019 #24
My phone warns me it is a scam call, yortsed snacilbuper Nov 2019 #26
Ok, I'm the bad "guy" Rorey Nov 2019 #27
I miss the phone slam...got the message across N_E_1 for Tennis Nov 2019 #28
When you have spare time to kill.... keithbvadu2 Nov 2019 #29
Hear's a good fake out... 2naSalit Nov 2019 #30
A friend of mine bluecollar2 Nov 2019 #31
I never seem to have this problem, but... VarryOn Nov 2019 #34
I'm embarrassed to have to ask, but how do you do that? renate Nov 2019 #35
No need to be embarassed... VarryOn Nov 2019 #37
You've just improved life for a lot of people! renate Nov 2019 #38
I'm glad! Nt VarryOn Nov 2019 #39
Back when I was still answering them rurallib Nov 2019 #36
My daughter's response is similar only... StarryNite Nov 2019 #40
I would just say" can you hold for a second?" mitch96 Nov 2019 #41
It doesn't work. KentuckyWoman Nov 2019 #42
I turned off my answering machine mercuryblues Nov 2019 #44
For some reason my robo-dialed scam/spam calls have all but stopped FakeNoose Nov 2019 #45
Post removed Post removed Apr 2020 #46

MontanaMama

(23,292 posts)
1. I've been hammered with those same calls this week.
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 01:52 PM
Nov 2019

Sometimes they’re calling my cell phone and the same # is ringing through on my work phone. Bastards.

MineralMan

(146,242 posts)
5. My recent calls have been from the "Chinese Consulate."
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 01:58 PM
Nov 2019

I just speak Russian to the caller, who hangs up right away.

KentuckyWoman

(6,679 posts)
43. Thaaaaaaaaaaaaat's what she's saying !!!!!
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 05:15 PM
Nov 2019

I could tell she's talking Chinese after a few words in heavily accented English. I never could catch what she says.

The caller ID keeps changing of course but my fav is the time they told me I was calling myself.

safeinOhio

(32,629 posts)
6. What I say when I want to have fun.
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 01:58 PM
Nov 2019

First I sound like I’m going to take the bait. Always make sure I catch name. Then when it’s time to pay or give my info I ask John for a phone number I can call to talkto him. They always say they aren’t allowed to give it out. So say give me your cell or home number. They won’t for some reason and then I tell them that if can’t have their number there is a possible scam by tech friend of mine. They hang up on me.

WhiteTara

(29,692 posts)
7. I use a police whistle
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 02:02 PM
Nov 2019

and I tell them this is a small sample and if they call again, I will blow their eardrums out. That usually stops them.

AllaN01Bear

(17,906 posts)
8. if this is a legit call : one they must send you a leter and day date and time of phone
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 02:04 PM
Nov 2019

appointment . then they must ask you your security questions and go from there . i got the solar panels one and i live in an apartment and i took the same approach as this poster , no more calls also someone said answering machines have a field day too.

shanti

(21,674 posts)
9. I have a free google phone number
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 02:04 PM
Nov 2019

that I never pick up. It's just for the scammers. But they've caught on to people not picking up and have been TEXTING me on my cellphone instead!

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
10. I was getting them 2 months ago.
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 02:05 PM
Nov 2019

I considered acting distressed and innocent and trying to play them for as long as possible, then telling them, "it's been fun wasting your time, MFer.&quot

Beringia

(4,316 posts)
33. Great movie
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 02:21 PM
Nov 2019


I loved the scene where Griffin sees a woman, but pretends he doesn't notice it's a woman.

SWBTATTReg

(22,046 posts)
13. Just don't ever answer the phone, ever! It works for us and we don't get literally any calls...
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 02:14 PM
Nov 2019

anymore. I think that if you answer it, you get placed onto a list somewhere that (1) you actually answered the phone, etc. (2) based upon you answering the phone vs. an answering svc, the sales calls will change but still continue. I (from my experience), being that we never, ever answer the phone, the number of calls to our number has dropped to literally 1 call a week. Wonderful.

chowder66

(9,045 posts)
14. I wait until someone speaks, walk to the bathroom, hold the phone up to the toilet and flush.
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 02:16 PM
Nov 2019

I should probably mention that I hold it pretty high up but my toilet is in a enclosed area so the sound carries.

HDSam

(251 posts)
16. I use them
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 02:29 PM
Nov 2019

as a source of entertainment, stringing them along as long as I can or until I get bored to waste their time. The ones that I enjoy the most are those that call when I’m stuck in traffic during my commute. I’m already irritated and they give me something else to think about.

I kept a scammer (‘your Windows computer has a virus’ type) on the line for ten or fifteen minutes acting dumb then told him I have a Mac. That was time he wasn’t able to use to scam someone else.

drray23

(7,615 posts)
18. Don't answer the phone.
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 03:08 PM
Nov 2019

If you do, the computer system robocallers use will mark your number as active and you will get even more calls.

lastlib

(23,120 posts)
19. I got a series of calls from "Apple Product Support",,,
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 04:44 PM
Nov 2019

claiming they were going to lock my account unless I paid $400 to them. First time, I told them I didn't have any Apple products (true), stop calling me. They called back repeatedly. Caller had a distinctly "Eastern" accent (Pakistan, India? IDK). About the fourth time, I threatened to report them to the FBI and everyone else under the sun. They hung up.

Next time they called, I got mad and personal. Told them, "Your momma is a pig, your daddy's a feral hog, and your babies are bacon." They hung up and never called again. Hated to play dirty like that, but I was getting fed up.

jmowreader

(50,522 posts)
23. I get the "Microsoft" virus ones all the time
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 05:05 PM
Nov 2019

However, I think the ones I hate the very worst are the Extended Warranty assholes. "This is a courtesy call to remind you that your car's extended warranty is about to expire." I told one of those people my only car was an Edsel.

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
32. The car extended warranty people can never tell me which car they are calling about
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 02:07 PM
Nov 2019

I keep asking them which of our various vehicles they want to sell me a warranty for, and they never know. If I feel like it, I can keep them going for a while, wasting their time and reducing the calls they can make to other people.

Tarc

(10,472 posts)
21. My great-aunt used to keep an old police whistle by the phone, tell them softly that she had a cold
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 04:51 PM
Nov 2019

and that they would have to listen closely because her voice was going, and then...

...I think you can fill in the rest.

dickthegrouch

(3,168 posts)
24. Another great trick
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 01:25 PM
Nov 2019

String them along long enough to hear sirens in the background. Then say, I've known all along that you're committing a federal crime, Those sirens are coming for you!.
I've actually got a squeal out of one caller before he hung up

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
27. Ok, I'm the bad "guy"
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 01:42 PM
Nov 2019

The human who talks after the call is made by a computer is just a person working a job. Maybe it's the only job they can get. I'm sure most telemarketers don't actually enjoy their jobs. I get annoyed by these calls too, but I generally allow it to either get to a human and ask to be removed from their call list, or I push the appropriate number to get removed when prompted.

Usually I don't have the option of simply not answering. I get a lot of important calls involving business that I don't recognize. I just try to not allow the scam ones to get under my skin.



N_E_1 for Tennis

(9,654 posts)
28. I miss the phone slam...got the message across
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 01:49 PM
Nov 2019

I just don’t answer if it’s an unknown number from a state that isn’t in my life. If it’s a legitimate call they leave a message.

keithbvadu2

(36,626 posts)
29. When you have spare time to kill....
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 01:53 PM
Nov 2019

When you have spare time to kill....

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How to answer spam phone calls...

Keep asking: What is your name?
... until you get an answer.

What is your company/org name?
... until you get an answer.

What is your company/org address?
... until you get an answer.

What is your company/org phone number?
... until you get an answer.

What number can I get in contact with you?
... until you get an answer.

So what if they lie?
You're just going to hang up on them anyway.
Even better if you say 'sorry, not interested'.
.
Their time is also important to them.

2naSalit

(86,293 posts)
30. Hear's a good fake out...
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 01:54 PM
Nov 2019

String them on a little then hold the phone back and say, as if to someone else right there with you, "Okay, did you get that location? and whatever else to make them think their call has been traced and their location revealed.


Although I really liked that video I saw posted here, on DU, about a years or more ago where scammers called a programmer who set them up for continued denial of service every time they made a call out. I forget all the details but the program ran for a long time, essentially spamming them back where they got really frustrated and it sounded like it was driving them crazy after a few days. That was the best, if only we could all do that.

 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
34. I never seem to have this problem, but...
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 02:21 PM
Nov 2019

My elderly parents (late 70s) deal with it every day. Why? They answer every DAMN call, no matter if they recognize the number or not. There’s a setting I iPhone to stop your phone from ringing if the number isn’t in your contacts. I love it! Sure, I’ve missed a couple calls I wished I had gotten. But, if I’m expecting an important call, I either add the number to my contacts or I temporarily turn off the unknown call feature.

Of course, this all means I don’t get included in poll calls. Just as well, I usually don’t give true answers anyway!

renate

(13,776 posts)
35. I'm embarrassed to have to ask, but how do you do that?
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 02:36 PM
Nov 2019

I can figure out how to block people on my contact list, but not how to block people who aren’t on my contact list. Maybe it’s because my phone is a few years old?

 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
37. No need to be embarassed...
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 02:56 PM
Nov 2019

First of all, I'm on an XS under iOS 13.2.2. I'm not sure what version this feature appeared in, but you'll want to be updated. As long as your phone is newer than 6S, you should be ok hardware-wise.

Go to Settings then Phone then turn on "Silence Unknown Callers."

Good luvk!

rurallib

(62,373 posts)
36. Back when I was still answering them
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 02:50 PM
Nov 2019

I would say "Lucky you. My friend's a policeman and he is here and he would like to talk to you."

StarryNite

(9,431 posts)
40. My daughter's response is similar only...
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 03:46 PM
Nov 2019

she goes on and on until they wind up hanging up on her! They don't call back after that.

mitch96

(13,869 posts)
41. I would just say" can you hold for a second?"
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 05:08 PM
Nov 2019

I would put the phone down and go about my business. When I hear the tone that they hung up, I would hang up too..
They waste my time? I waste theirs.... a quid pro quo I would say....

Now if I don't recognise the number I don't answer it. If it's that important, they can leave a message and I'll call them back...
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KentuckyWoman

(6,679 posts)
42. It doesn't work.
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 05:12 PM
Nov 2019

They just wait a few days and hit me again with 6-10 calls in a day.

My feeling is the phone carriers know the servers originating the calls. Just keep blocking them until they are effectively shut down.

mercuryblues

(14,519 posts)
44. I turned off my answering machine
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 05:20 PM
Nov 2019

Most spam callers hang up after the 3rd ring. I don't answer until the middle of the 4th ring. Since I have been doing this, spam calls have dropped way down.

FakeNoose

(32,535 posts)
45. For some reason my robo-dialed scam/spam calls have all but stopped
Sun Nov 17, 2019, 05:31 PM
Nov 2019

I don't get it, but since the first of November there have been almost no spam calls. I was getting at least 10 per day and now - nothing!

I'm not complaining, but I think Verizon has done something to finally put these useless scammers out of business. We always knew they had the power to do it.

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