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Garion_55

(1,915 posts)
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 09:09 AM Mar 2020

My mom is getting cataract surgery on tuesday.

One eye this time. The other eye is next.


Then she needs surgery on her hands to straighten her fingers.

Then she needs a 2nd new knee.


Hopefully she wont need anything else after all that for awhile.

She just turned 79


All of that is scary enough but to do it during this virus scare, knowing Im gonna be there with her all those times kinda makes me nervous for myself as well as her.



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My mom is getting cataract surgery on tuesday. (Original Post) Garion_55 Mar 2020 OP
Best of luck. kag Mar 2020 #1
Sending love to you and you're mom TEB Mar 2020 #2
She'll be fine snowybirdie Mar 2020 #3
Yes, the eye drops are really expensive. Scarsdale Mar 2020 #12
It'll be okay...❤ Karadeniz Mar 2020 #4
Best wishes and good vibes, from my family to yours... SKKY Mar 2020 #5
Sending your mom good wishes. FM123 Mar 2020 #6
Cataract surgery today best ever. Throck Mar 2020 #7
Cataract surgery is simple. LiberalBrooke Mar 2020 #8
Wishing your dear Mom the best. CousinIT Mar 2020 #9
Cataract surgery takes 20 minutes..... ProudMNDemocrat Mar 2020 #10
She'll be fine... Princess Turandot Mar 2020 #11
Two of my friends had cataract surgery and were very happy with the results. spanone Mar 2020 #13
I was in the opthamologist office last week and a guy scheduling Patterson Mar 2020 #14
You'll make it. EndlessWire Mar 2020 #15
Been there, done that Chainfire Mar 2020 #16
Good to get major medical done now while virus is just starting to spread wishstar Mar 2020 #17

kag

(4,079 posts)
1. Best of luck.
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 09:14 AM
Mar 2020

My husband just had both of his eyes done a few months ago--right after a couple of gum surgeries. Of course, we didn't have the virus scare to worry about.

Will send good vibes your way.

snowybirdie

(5,223 posts)
3. She'll be fine
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 09:16 AM
Mar 2020

Cataract surgery is painless and quick. Just be sure we used the eye drops needed afterwards. Good luck. Been there, done that, and wash those hands!

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
12. Yes, the eye drops are really expensive.
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 10:18 AM
Mar 2020

My son just had his cataracts removed, the surgery is a breeze. The drops are expensive, but absolutely necessary. He just received the bill, $58,000. Fortunately he has insurance, so most will be paid for. The surgery is straight forward now, unlike what it was several years ago.

SKKY

(11,804 posts)
5. Best wishes and good vibes, from my family to yours...
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 09:27 AM
Mar 2020

...we also pray, and will pray for your family. I hope that doesn’t offend.

LiberalBrooke

(527 posts)
8. Cataract surgery is simple.
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 09:54 AM
Mar 2020

It only takes 10 minutes or so and is not painful. Do assure that she does all follow up with drops and covering her eye when sleeping. Recovery was easy, I even drove myself to the next day appointment.

Healing vibes being sent to her.

CousinIT

(9,239 posts)
9. Wishing your dear Mom the best.
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 09:58 AM
Mar 2020

Love, a few pain meds carefully managed and lots of moral support will get her through.

ProudMNDemocrat

(16,783 posts)
10. Cataract surgery takes 20 minutes.....
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 10:00 AM
Mar 2020

The prep takes longer. Hubby getting a 2nd one in April.

I have had 3 eye surgeries. 2 in one eye to replace a lens that slipped out of place after 7 years because it was not suture in place.

Princess Turandot

(4,787 posts)
11. She'll be fine...
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 10:06 AM
Mar 2020

And she'll likely be seeing the colors around her as she hasn't in years!

Best wishes to both of you.

spanone

(135,823 posts)
13. Two of my friends had cataract surgery and were very happy with the results.
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 10:37 AM
Mar 2020

Hope your mom has the same experience!!!

Patterson

(1,529 posts)
14. I was in the opthamologist office last week and a guy scheduling
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 01:58 PM
Mar 2020

his second eye surgery mentioned how easy his first one was. My mom had hers done and she has 20/20 vision now and uses reading glasses. She reads like a fiend now.

EndlessWire

(6,513 posts)
15. You'll make it.
Mon Mar 2, 2020, 03:29 AM
Mar 2020

It's hard to be a caretaker. Your Mom is so lucky to have you watching her back.

Take care of yourself, too.

I am curious about her fingers, but I didn't want to really ask. I have a family inherited situation where the cords in my fingers can thicken and draw the fingers down. It's called Dupuytren's disease. My brother had it and he did have an operation to straighten them up. It only affects the last two fingers. I don't have it, but my fingers are a bit stiff. Could just be arthritis, but that's what my family has. I never met anyone else who has that. Just curious.

Chainfire

(17,530 posts)
16. Been there, done that
Mon Mar 2, 2020, 09:52 AM
Mar 2020

My wife and I have both had both eyes done in the recent past. The procedure is quick and painless, the recovery is swift and the results were wonderful. The worst part is the eye drop schedule. Usually done in an outpatient surgery center, the place is likely to be safer and cleaner that most places where you come in contact with people.

Your mom will come out with a new appreciation of the colors that have been dimming over the years.

wishstar

(5,268 posts)
17. Good to get major medical done now while virus is just starting to spread
Mon Mar 2, 2020, 10:19 AM
Mar 2020

I was relieved last week as spouse and I got our new crown and bridge work finished with dentist.

Hope your mom will have as good results from cataract surgery as I had and everyone else I know. I had both eyes done 10 years ago and continue enjoying nearly 20/20 for driving and TV and all but close up reading and computer work. Couple of my friends (including one who does not drive) preferred the lenses that provide better closeup vision and are happy as well.

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