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tulipsandroses

(5,122 posts)
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 02:57 PM Mar 2020

Imagine having to give birth without your partner present, This is where we are

So sad. I had a very difficult labor, my partner and mom were with me. So sad that these women will not be able to have their support.

A New York hospital system is barring visitors, including partners, during childbirth
A New York hospital system is barring visitors, including partners, during childbirth
From CNN Health’s Michael Nedelman
A health care system in New York is no longer allowing visitors, including partners, for its patients about to give birth, citing coronavirus risk.

"For the time being, we really do need to exclude all visitors, including partners, for women admitted in labor," Dr. Dena Goffman, chief of obstetrics at Columbia University Medical Center, said Sunday during a daily leadership briefing for the NewYork-Presbyterian health care system.
Goffman described the move as a "very difficult decision and not one taken lightly."

NewYork-Presbyterian has also made the decision to test all women in labor who are admitted to labor and delivery units for Covid-19, regardless of symptoms.

Goffman said there had been a number of patients with little to no symptoms upon admission, and others with atypical symptoms, who were later found to test positive for the novel coronavirus. Moreover, "many symptoms of labor and of pregnant women really mimic some of the symptoms of Covid-19," including fatigue and shortness of breath, she added.

"As a result, these women were not identified by our usual screening, infection prevention and control, or testing processes, and therefore our practices for protection for Covid-19 were not implemented. In this case, many staff members were exposed," Goffman said.

Testing women in labor, she added, would allow doctors to isolate newborns who may have been exposed to the virus, thus preventing outbreaks in neonatal ICUs and well-baby nurseries.

Absent in-person visitors for these patients, Goffman said the hospital system was looking into ways to allow families to participate virtually in childbirth, perhaps through tablet computers.

[link:https://www.cnn.com/world/live-news/coronavirus-outbreak-03-22-20/index.html|"We recognize that we will need to provide additional support for moms, as well as mom and baby pairs, as they're in the hospital through the duration of their stay," she said.


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Imagine having to give birth without your partner present, This is where we are (Original Post) tulipsandroses Mar 2020 OP
Sorry, but this pales compared to the older COVID-19 patients sent to isolation to die while hlthe2b Mar 2020 #1
Nowhere in this post is it suggesting that anyone deserves to die alone tulipsandroses Mar 2020 #4
and I acknowledged the unfortunate ramifications. hlthe2b Mar 2020 #5
Where in that post, were things being equated? That was not said or implied tulipsandroses Mar 2020 #6
Welcome to the 50's my dad wasn't marlakay Mar 2020 #2
That used to be exactly how we did it jmowreader Mar 2020 #3

hlthe2b

(102,141 posts)
1. Sorry, but this pales compared to the older COVID-19 patients sent to isolation to die while
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 03:41 PM
Mar 2020

their spouse/partner of 4 decades or more is not allowed to be with them. And this is playing out in hospitals throughout the country RIGHT now. Yes. And it will increase.

I don't mean to be harsh. Giving birth should not be an isolating experience. But, surely no one deserves to die alone. And the grief that HCWs experience having to enforce these unfortunate, but necessary precautions/policies is PROFOUNDLY affecting them as well.

tulipsandroses

(5,122 posts)
4. Nowhere in this post is it suggesting that anyone deserves to die alone
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 03:59 PM
Mar 2020

This virus is wreaking havoc in so many ways. This post was about ONE of those ways. Two things can be true at the same time. Having one important issue, does not negate the importance of another. This post was to show how much this virus is wreaking havoc in OTHER ways. It was not to diminish other issues or put things in hierarchy. It was to show that this is where we are, sacred things such as having support while giving birth is no longer possible. And yes I do recognize things will continue to get worse.

I work in healthcare so yes I am aware of the difficulties the health care community is dealing with.

hlthe2b

(102,141 posts)
5. and I acknowledged the unfortunate ramifications.
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 04:16 PM
Mar 2020

But, what my colleagues are seeing play out daily for those whose consequences are final, unchangeable, and life-changing and for which they will suffer nightmares for some time, I can not allow the situations to be equated.

tulipsandroses

(5,122 posts)
6. Where in that post, were things being equated? That was not said or implied
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 04:25 PM
Mar 2020

You are interpreting and reading something that is not there. I said it was sad that these women do not have their support. I have made numerous other posts about the devastation of victims of the coronavirus.
This post, this thread is about others feeling the impact in other ways. Nowhere is there an implication that their issues are equal.

marlakay

(11,432 posts)
2. Welcome to the 50's my dad wasn't
Sun Mar 22, 2020, 03:43 PM
Mar 2020

Allowed in to see me born.

I am more afraid of the new parents catching something going to hospital.

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