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VWolf

(3,944 posts)
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 08:31 AM Mar 2020

I don't start many threads here

I also don't write all that much. I'm an engineer by trade, and I think in numbers mostly. But these are unique times, so here ya go:

I am sitting on my balcony, enjoying the last few moments of sunlight before the sun takes its daily nap. The air is calm and clear. The sky, once azure and vivid, is slowly turning gray and murky. It has been a day like any other.

There are new blooms on the trees outside my apartment. Brilliant red blooms. The forsythia bushes have brought forth their bright yellow leaves as well. I can hear many birds returning to their summer homes, although I have no ability to identify them. Perhaps a robin here, maybe a chickadee there. An occasional dog barks in the distance, and an occasional car "hisses" by on the road near me. Every so often, a family walks by, sometimes with a child in tow, sometimes without.

There is nothing one could see from my balcony that would suggest we are living in the middle of a pandemic. The pulse of life continues unabated. The web of life remains tightly wound. The abundance of life is clear to see.

But there is more, much more going on than what I see from here. The bonds of human love and friendship also remain. The human spirit, filled with characteristics like perseverance, optimism and dedication, lives on. Inside all the apartments that are visible from my balcony, there are people chatting with others. There are brothers and sisters fighting as they always do. There are people playing cards and telling their favorite jokes to each other. There are lovers being intimate.

It is easy to get depressed over what is happening right now. The anxiety is real and palpable. But the view from my balcony gives me hope. Hope that, despite all that has changed, and despite all that will change, life will go on as before. And perhaps, this event will convince many to appreciate the simple things in life, as I have today. The birds, the blooms, the sky, the sun, and all that is wonderful on this good earth.

I think I will watch less news and spend more time on my balcony from now on.

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I don't start many threads here (Original Post) VWolf Mar 2020 OP
beautifully written. thanks for sharing Hope. NRaleighLiberal Mar 2020 #1
Thanks! VWolf Mar 2020 #4
Good idea MFM008 Mar 2020 #2
Thank you. And yesterday AM I went out, fairly early, and the sound of birds was deafening. CurtEastPoint Mar 2020 #3
What an absolutely beautiful post malaise Mar 2020 #5
You're welcome :) VWolf Mar 2020 #6
For an engineer, you write poetically PJMcK Mar 2020 #7
Thank you VWolf Mar 2020 #11
Reminds me of a story I saw. Guy ran an entire marathon on his balcony Laura PourMeADrink Mar 2020 #16
LOL I saw the same story last night VWolf Mar 2020 #25
Guess you'd have to get into some kind of hypnotic zone. My Laura PourMeADrink Mar 2020 #46
I'm thinking he did a figure-8 to avoid dizziness n/t VWolf Mar 2020 #55
K&R. I'm in a similar line of work as you, so I wouldn't be surprised if we tend bullwinkle428 Mar 2020 #8
I certainly hope this pandemic changes a few minds about what matters in life n/t VWolf Mar 2020 #12
You may not write often, but you should. Very nicely done. nt Atticus Mar 2020 #9
Thank you VWolf Mar 2020 #13
What Atticus said! More please. panader0 Mar 2020 #50
that was beautiful and touching steve2470 Mar 2020 #10
Same to you :) VWolf Mar 2020 #14
I so enjoyed reading your post. You are a hopeful and inspiring writer, many thanks. n/t monmouth4 Mar 2020 #15
Beautiful post. Thanks for the perspective. n/t livetohike Mar 2020 #17
And while the pandemic is horrible... Trueblue Texan Mar 2020 #18
working from home? n/t Locrian Mar 2020 #19
Trying my best, yes n/t VWolf Mar 2020 #26
Thank you mgardener Mar 2020 #20
As a fellow engineer genxlib Mar 2020 #21
Thank you! VWolf Mar 2020 #27
Beautiful. MarianJack Mar 2020 #22
Life has a way of doing that mercuryblues Mar 2020 #23
LOL I love your perspective (and your humor) n/t VWolf Mar 2020 #28
Thank you, in more ways than 1 mercuryblues Mar 2020 #38
Just lovely!! Alliepoo Mar 2020 #24
Love your sig line! n/t VWolf Mar 2020 #30
I think this nation would benefit from a 4 day work and school week. blm Mar 2020 #29
Thank you, great post duforsure Mar 2020 #31
I watched "Almost Famous" the other day VWolf Mar 2020 #32
You are a talented writer. Beautiful account OhNo-Really Mar 2020 #33
Same to you VWolf Mar 2020 #34
⭐️K&R⭐️ spanone Mar 2020 #35
Thank you for that inspirational post. FM123 Mar 2020 #36
For a numbers guy True Blue American Mar 2020 #37
Captures the essence of what I feel. llmart Mar 2020 #39
The three years I spent news-free Harker Mar 2020 #40
You can grow some of those flowers on your balcony! BumRushDaShow Mar 2020 #41
Never tried that VWolf Mar 2020 #42
You can use a little flower pot holder and/or windowbox holder that hangs off the rail BumRushDaShow Mar 2020 #43
Thanks for the info VWolf Mar 2020 #54
Yeah Home Depot and other hardware stores are still open and would have them BumRushDaShow Mar 2020 #58
I ordered clover seeds from amazon. I intend to plant some pots on my deck demigoddess Mar 2020 #73
It's satisfying to go out and pick your own "home grown" fresh produce! BumRushDaShow Mar 2020 #90
less than a block away, a guy has several hives on his roof. So I demigoddess Mar 2020 #91
Oh no... lol BumRushDaShow Mar 2020 #92
Poetic Newcanuck Mar 2020 #44
Lovely I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2020 #45
Mr./Ms Engineer: next time you get the urge to write something, planetc Mar 2020 #47
I really should do that - actually listen to their songs, and identify them VWolf Mar 2020 #53
Heartfelt writing! Yes... more "balcony time" ! FailureToCommunicate Mar 2020 #48
BTW, you mention you are a numbers person. Me too Laura PourMeADrink Mar 2020 #49
I once tutored a kid in non-linear differential equations VWolf Mar 2020 #56
K&R stonecutter357 Mar 2020 #51
That's a lovely reflection on wendyb-NC Mar 2020 #52
That's just brilliant! So heartfelt. The_jackalope Mar 2020 #57
Wow, thank you! VWolf Mar 2020 #59
It is very quiet, homegirl Mar 2020 #60
You can see lovers being intimate from your balcony 😊 grantcart Mar 2020 #61
In a perfect world, yes :) VWolf Mar 2020 #62
Reminds me of a poem I read not long ago... US4u2 Mar 2020 #63
Love this thank you. redstatebluegirl Mar 2020 #64
Beautifully crafted piece. JudyM Mar 2020 #65
Lovely. Thank you. Joinfortmill Mar 2020 #66
I decided to get a jump on my tomato plants.... Heartstrings Mar 2020 #67
Beautiful helpmenow Mar 2020 #68
Forsythia blossoms are yellow. CountMyVote4Reality Mar 2020 #69
And...? helpmenow Mar 2020 #70
I stand corrected :) VWolf Mar 2020 #72
Here, here! MichaelSoE Mar 2020 #71
I was going to suggest you watch less news and sit on your balcony Warpy Mar 2020 #74
Kicketty Kickin' Faux pas Mar 2020 #75
Thank you VWolf! redstateblues Mar 2020 #76
Thank you. A most welcome reminder. calimary Mar 2020 #77
Wow. Beautiful. tazkcmo Mar 2020 #78
You may be an Engineer, but you . . . Sir . . . are no Vogon!!! n/t Strelnikov_ Mar 2020 #79
Are you a structural engineer? Hotler Mar 2020 #80
LOL No, aerospace n/t VWolf Mar 2020 #81
Wow, I never expected so many replies! VWolf Mar 2020 #82
For a numbers guy, your writing is remarkable. TomSlick Mar 2020 #83
Damn. That's beautiful!!! C Moon Mar 2020 #84
Kick Demovictory9 Mar 2020 #85
Engineering WiffenPoof Mar 2020 #86
Glad you started this thread canetoad Mar 2020 #87
Beautifully said, thank you! summer_in_TX Mar 2020 #88
Daily balcony time should be mandatory imblue Mar 2020 #89

MFM008

(19,804 posts)
2. Good idea
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 08:38 AM
Mar 2020

Im starting to feel like in stuck in a snow storm.
Like when you cant get out of your driveway....
Makes me very panic attacky..
Plus were due for a week of rain.
😷😢

CurtEastPoint

(18,638 posts)
3. Thank you. And yesterday AM I went out, fairly early, and the sound of birds was deafening.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 08:38 AM
Mar 2020

Life continues on around us. Let us join in.

PJMcK

(22,029 posts)
7. For an engineer, you write poetically
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 08:43 AM
Mar 2020

I share your ideals, VWolf.

My wife and I have decamped to our mountain house for several weeks, at least, to try to ride out the storm. It's lovely in the Catskills and we're surrounded by a forrest and the Delaware River with an abundance of wildlife and flora. If we have to spend the Spring here, we're lucky to have a gilded cage.

We got rid of the cable service several years ago but we still have high-speed internet. Even that service brings us too much sturm und drang.

I think we'll watch less news and read less internet and spend more time walking in the woods from now on.

VWolf

(3,944 posts)
11. Thank you
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 08:46 AM
Mar 2020

Here in Jersey, the weather is gradually improving, so I'll have more "balcony time" in the coming weeks

VWolf

(3,944 posts)
25. LOL I saw the same story last night
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:44 AM
Mar 2020

I think the balcony was 22 feet long, and it took him about 7 hours, from what I can rememeber

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
46. Guess you'd have to get into some kind of hypnotic zone. My
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 10:58 AM
Mar 2020

luck, I'd get dizzy and fall off the side.

bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
8. K&R. I'm in a similar line of work as you, so I wouldn't be surprised if we tend
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 08:43 AM
Mar 2020

to think in similar ways. I make the effort to spend a couple of hours each day outside walking, hiking, or even riding the bike, and it seems to be an incredibly therapeutic daily ritual, in terms of maintaining emotional balance in this incredibly unique situation.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
10. that was beautiful and touching
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 08:45 AM
Mar 2020

Excellent idea, less news and more time on the balcony. All the best to you, sir

Trueblue Texan

(2,425 posts)
18. And while the pandemic is horrible...
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:09 AM
Mar 2020

...we are staying home and savoring the springtime. A rare treat, despite the horrific cause.

mgardener

(1,816 posts)
20. Thank you
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:20 AM
Mar 2020

We woke up to a winter wonderland today.
I am watching Cardinals and Blue Jays at the feeders.

It will be warmer so we will not have to shovel, just enjoy.

Peace everyone.
Stay safe.

genxlib

(5,524 posts)
21. As a fellow engineer
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:29 AM
Mar 2020

I have to say that is unlike any Engineer that I know (and that is likely counting in the thousands).

For one thing, the vast majority of them can’t communicate that well. Finding one with optimism and a grounding in nature is rare indeed. Hell, most of them are pretty conservative by nature.

Well done and thanks for representing.

Do you mind if I ask what kind of Engineer. (Civil and structural here)

VWolf

(3,944 posts)
27. Thank you!
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:47 AM
Mar 2020

I'm an aerospace engineer (avionics)

I was more typical when I was younger. I think finding DU back in 2004 has changed me for the better. I started to actually THINK about what was going on around me, besides all the tech stuff.

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
23. Life has a way of doing that
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:36 AM
Mar 2020

The birds still chirp, whether we listen or not. The trees and flowers will continue to blossom. My favorite place to sit is on my front porch. After the worst of allergy season is over, that's where you'll find me, until it gets too cold sit and watch. Every year a bird will build a nest somewhere on the porch lay its eggs, flutter back and forth from the nest. One year I had the honor of watching the Mama bird teach her babies to fly. To me that was like a drug. I have been fixating on being able to see that again, chasing that high.

Me and the spiders have an understanding. They don't come in my space and I don't swat at them. Most listen. Lizards don't care and freak me out. Sneaky little buggers. But they too have learned over the years to not sneak up on me, if they don't want to go flying through the air when I jump and scream at the sudden sensation of something running on my foot and up my leg. They now make themselves known. I've seen Mama lizards with their babies following her on their daily strolls looking for spiders and flies, Oh my.

Snakes are another story, those MFers will get me off the porch screaming for someone to get rid of it.

I went out to check the mail the years ago and saw a doe give birth in a patch of trees on my front yard. Well. as best as I could see from a distance. I saw the baby take its 1st steps and watched the 2 take off into the woods across the street.

The funniest thing I got to see was when I was watching 2 squirrels playing, jumping from tree limb to tree limb. One squirrel jumped on a limb that must have been hit by lightning or just rotted. When she or he landed the limb came down. I can attest to the fact that squirrels do scream.

All of this would of happened whether I was there to witness it or not. Life doesn't care if you slow down to notice it or whiz by it without a thought.

Now if you excuse me, my neighbor's dog is barking at my back door, for his daily treat. I'm dreading having to tell him dinner was so good last night, my men ate it all. How do I know it was great? My 18 year old licked his plate. Yes he still does that.

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
38. Thank you, in more ways than 1
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 10:07 AM
Mar 2020

Your post inspired me to write mine. As I said, life goes on. If I hadn't stopped to read your post, it still would exist, only mine wouldn't.

blm

(113,041 posts)
29. I think this nation would benefit from a 4 day work and school week.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:49 AM
Mar 2020

Thank you for the post, VWolf.

duforsure

(11,885 posts)
31. Thank you, great post
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:50 AM
Mar 2020

We just had a new 8ft privacy cedar fence put up, and relaxing on the back patio a lot more now. Very peaceful, and a great way to just relax from what's happening now. Also going outdoors on you tube hiking and camping places we've enjoyed. Hope people find their own diversions helping them through this now, and to prevent it from getting them down . Going to find a good comedy to watch sometime today.

VWolf

(3,944 posts)
32. I watched "Almost Famous" the other day
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:52 AM
Mar 2020

One of my all-time favorites - I'll probably watch it again tonight

True Blue American

(17,982 posts)
37. For a numbers guy
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 10:02 AM
Mar 2020

That was a great post.

Engineers are usually the first to enjoy Nature. They love to be outdoors, take great pride in their houses or apartments. Perfectionists, nothing is finished until it is as nearly perfect as humans can make it..
I have a few in my family, another budding in College, now online from home.

The birds are loud, cheerful, joyous, the grass is greening, Daffodils and Crocus making you smile.

This too, shall pass, including our clueless Leaders who are showing more of their grift and greed every day.

llmart

(15,536 posts)
39. Captures the essence of what I feel.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 10:11 AM
Mar 2020

I live within a mile of a 5,000 acre metropark and go there almost every day year round. This morning even though it was only 32o out, I decided to go early. I'm a bit of an introvert and retired so I can now choose when and where to walk in this park, and I do prefer it when it's not so busy. I saw almost no one else within my four-mile walk, but the birds are back and the chorus frogs and wood frogs are calling. I came within 10 feet of several deer browsing. They are used to people and because it was quiet they didn't bolt when they saw me coming - just raised their heads and looked at me when I quietly said, "hello there doe eyes". Hawks were swirling above me as the sun came up. A group of about ten wild turkeys were out and about and I chuckled to myself when I saw they were spread apart. I thought, "even the turkeys are social distancing this morning". There were dozens of swans on the lake.

I decided that when I got home I would check headlines on DU and then no other news for the rest of the day. Today I will cook a healthy pot of soup, read and listen to music.

Let us not forget that our emotional and mental health is just as important as our physical health.

Thank you for the beautiful essay.

Harker

(14,012 posts)
40. The three years I spent news-free
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 10:17 AM
Mar 2020

were three truly wonderful years.

Then, we had a real President...

BumRushDaShow

(128,821 posts)
43. You can use a little flower pot holder and/or windowbox holder that hangs off the rail
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 10:31 AM
Mar 2020

(towards the inside so no issue with falling to the ground) and then get a small pot or plastic windowbox where you can plant some annual flower 4- or 6-packs (like pansies or marigolds, etc) and get an idea of how much sun you get. Then you can eventually get carried away and grow food and all sorts of other things!

(don't ask why I know this )

VWolf

(3,944 posts)
54. Thanks for the info
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:46 AM
Mar 2020

Home improvement stores are still open here in NJ, but I hesitate to go there for something non-essential right now. Perhaps when this is all over.

BumRushDaShow

(128,821 posts)
58. Yeah Home Depot and other hardware stores are still open and would have them
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:55 AM
Mar 2020

I am in Philly and am also on stay-at-home. The weather is still iffy too so about the only plants that might be do-able this time of year are pansies, violas/violets, and maybe sweet alyssum (some supermarkets have them - I bought some pansies last week at a nearby Acme) and if you have a little table or stool that you can stick outside, you could put a pot of pansies out there (many supermarkets that sell plants outside the entrance will sell them in more "decorative" pots or something other than the 4-packs and you can just stick that out there.

I go to the Philly Flower Show every year (took the risk and went this year and have been counting days since ) and they usually have displays showing balcony flower/vine arrangements - even for the tiniest balconies. If you do get hooked, you can try herbs too and have a little "kitchen garden".

demigoddess

(6,640 posts)
73. I ordered clover seeds from amazon. I intend to plant some pots on my deck
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 07:08 PM
Mar 2020

with that and some salad greens.

BumRushDaShow

(128,821 posts)
90. It's satisfying to go out and pick your own "home grown" fresh produce!
Wed Mar 25, 2020, 07:55 AM
Mar 2020

Whether it's in the ground or in a pot. And at least you know where it came from!

And when the clover blooms, you'll get some happy honey bees too.

demigoddess

(6,640 posts)
91. less than a block away, a guy has several hives on his roof. So I
Wed Mar 25, 2020, 01:25 PM
Mar 2020

always try to keep something for his bees. But my husband keeps digging them up, or cutting them down. So pots it is.

BumRushDaShow

(128,821 posts)
92. Oh no... lol
Wed Mar 25, 2020, 01:39 PM
Mar 2020

At least if you have something needing pollination, you have a ready source!!!! I used to have to rely on carpenter bees and bumble bees to pollinate my blueberries. They managed to do it though.

Newcanuck

(47 posts)
44. Poetic
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 10:38 AM
Mar 2020

VWolf, I also don't post much at all, although I've been a DUer for a long time. You may think you think in numbers mostly, but that was a beautifully eloquent post and wonderfully uplifting in this time of grave concern and uncertainty. Thank you.

planetc

(7,805 posts)
47. Mr./Ms Engineer: next time you get the urge to write something,
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:04 AM
Mar 2020

give in to it immediately.

(signed) your local English teacher

Also, it may be possible to find a site online which will help you distinguish birds by their songs. You deserve to know what a chickadee looks like.

VWolf

(3,944 posts)
53. I really should do that - actually listen to their songs, and identify them
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:45 AM
Mar 2020

Thank you for your feedback!

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
49. BTW, you mention you are a numbers person. Me too
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:31 AM
Mar 2020

You probably didn't see the Dr speak yesterday during daily briefing.

I thought it was very interesting. She said that there was a rise and peak of the virus for each state. And that virus spreading 3 weeks before first case.

While I totally agree that we need to enjoy nature now, think it
would be very interesting to me to do some analysis with numbers and dates per state.

A long time ago I read a story about how to be happy. They talked about filling your life with "flow" moments. This can be anything that you do that you completely lose yourself in. For me it's taking data and figuring out trends.

VWolf

(3,944 posts)
56. I once tutored a kid in non-linear differential equations
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:52 AM
Mar 2020

Many examples were from the world of epidemiology. It was interesting stuff back then - now it's too damn close to home.

The_jackalope

(1,660 posts)
57. That's just brilliant! So heartfelt.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:53 AM
Mar 2020

As an engineer myself, I tend to get caught in the numbers, making exponential graphs of cases and deaths shooting up into the stratosphere. I can only do that so many times before I start thinking that life just isn't worth living. My partner finally got through to me with your message, by posting a reply on one of my gloomier FB threads. She said the same things you're saying, and pleading with me to come back. I read her your post and we both got huge smiles. Now I'm looking out the window, and despite the fact that it's still winter in Ottawa I can see joy and hope - even the snow looks more cheerful after reading your post.

VWolf

(3,944 posts)
59. Wow, thank you!
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:55 AM
Mar 2020

Feels good to have brightened someone's day in all this.

Now if I could only make a few respirators ....

homegirl

(1,428 posts)
60. It is very quiet,
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:59 AM
Mar 2020

no traffic noise. By telephone friends have been sharing observations on new growth, birds and the wonders of nature. One friend whose home was almost lost to one of the Northern California fires announced the other day that "the jack rabbits are back." May we all find peace and comfort in experiencing the beauty and balance of nature and our capacity for mutual support. Peace and good health to all.


 

US4u2

(91 posts)
63. Reminds me of a poem I read not long ago...
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 12:43 PM
Mar 2020

The Earth I Know

When I walk with thee,
I blend into your nature
As if the grass before me
Takes root in my flaming heart;
As if the autumn trees,
Roiling in the breeze,
Dance brightly within every fiber of my being;
As if even the firmament above,
Clouds white upon a cerulean blue,
Take on a human hue
And unwraps its lavish arms
To hug my very soul…

Such is the earth I know.

When I look at thee,
I dissolve within
The essence of your beauty
That sets my spirit quivering;
For in your hallowed majesty
Displayed so eloquently
I find myself overcome with awe;
An emotional turbulence far beyond
My ability to respond
To such splendor and magnificence
These humble eyes you show…

Such is the world I am thrilled to know.

When I live in thee
Each day is full of meaning.
Experiences follow me
Whatever path I roam;
Experiences devoted to eliciting
The complexities of my soul;
Whether I can let go
Of the burdens of this life
And find a way to reunite
With the love
That surrounds my every pore;
Your kiss, whichever way the wind may blow…

Such is the planet that helps me grow.

And when I come to sleep with thee
As at last my journey’s done,
I’ll make my bed so easily
Amongst the ancient mud,
Ashes to ashes and dust to dust,
A part of your stoic history,
So happily
To have joined with you as one,
For all time… immortal…
As deep within your fair caress
Shall I finally find my rest
And surrender to your precious flow…

Such is the Earth I will forever know.

Heartstrings

(7,349 posts)
67. I decided to get a jump on my tomato plants....
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 04:12 PM
Mar 2020


I love your attitude and it is contagious....thank you

helpmenow

(16 posts)
68. Beautiful
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 04:49 PM
Mar 2020

This made me cry. It’s so beautiful and poetic. Thank you.

Can we get a daily post for you to counteract the daily turd talks from he who shall not be named?

Wishful thinking.

Warpy

(111,241 posts)
74. I was going to suggest you watch less news and sit on your balcony
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 08:33 PM
Mar 2020

because you've got a pretty tree to look at and the air might be approaching freshness with fewer people driving around. Sunlight has a direct effect on your mood, so if you can manage to soak some up on your balcony, good for you.

People who are urban cliff dwellers without balcony space can use open windows.

It's moving slowly here in NM, but it's moving, looks like we finally got more tests because there are now 100 confirmed cases, 43 in town, 7 in Santa Fe, and most of the others along the Rio Grande Valley.

I'm an introvert, I'll be fine as long as the Sriracha holds out and I got a new jar 2 weeks ago.

calimary

(81,209 posts)
77. Thank you. A most welcome reminder.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 08:53 PM
Mar 2020

Take a moment to smell the roses - no matter how fleeting. And feel the gratitude.

And as Jonathan Winters once told me during an interview, "it sure beats the ol' dirt nap."

Hotler

(11,415 posts)
80. Are you a structural engineer?
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:09 PM
Mar 2020

I'm a steel detailing checker and I have a bitch about your contract drawings........

TomSlick

(11,096 posts)
83. For a numbers guy, your writing is remarkable.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:27 PM
Mar 2020

I'm a cynical old lawyer and found your post moving.

WiffenPoof

(2,404 posts)
86. Engineering
Wed Mar 25, 2020, 01:08 AM
Mar 2020

My son is an engineer. We were just talking last night about the fact that he thinks with his head while I think with heart. He’s more like his mom in that regard.

For an engineer, you wrote beautifully.

Might I suggest that you do a weekly post from your balcony. I think it would be a welcomed addition to the DU.

canetoad

(17,149 posts)
87. Glad you started this thread
Wed Mar 25, 2020, 01:08 AM
Mar 2020

I don't like travelling. Destinations would be good if you could teleport but I hate the anxiety, the waiting and the discomfort.

Instead I prefer to stay in my own area, learn its secrets, its hidden gems and history; become knowledgeable about my own environment.

I'm lucky to have kilometers of deserted beaches, reefs and dunes nearby. From the tracks of tiny marsupial mice in the sand, to the breeding seasons of limpets and onchidellas, to the petrified wood and ancient coal and iron beds.... There's more than enough to occupy every waking moment until the end of my life.

Peace and contentment is where you find it.


summer_in_TX

(2,731 posts)
88. Beautifully said, thank you!
Wed Mar 25, 2020, 01:17 AM
Mar 2020

You reminded me of the chapter (Ch. 21) I'm reading in David Brook's book, The Second Mountain. He tells of suddenly recognizing that living web of souls in the mass of humanity around him.

Your words are similarly evocative and numinous.

imblue

(23 posts)
89. Daily balcony time should be mandatory
Wed Mar 25, 2020, 06:30 AM
Mar 2020

Even if it is only a virtual balcony. We would all be happier and less stressed.

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