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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI don't start many threads here
I also don't write all that much. I'm an engineer by trade, and I think in numbers mostly. But these are unique times, so here ya go:
I am sitting on my balcony, enjoying the last few moments of sunlight before the sun takes its daily nap. The air is calm and clear. The sky, once azure and vivid, is slowly turning gray and murky. It has been a day like any other.
There are new blooms on the trees outside my apartment. Brilliant red blooms. The forsythia bushes have brought forth their bright yellow leaves as well. I can hear many birds returning to their summer homes, although I have no ability to identify them. Perhaps a robin here, maybe a chickadee there. An occasional dog barks in the distance, and an occasional car "hisses" by on the road near me. Every so often, a family walks by, sometimes with a child in tow, sometimes without.
There is nothing one could see from my balcony that would suggest we are living in the middle of a pandemic. The pulse of life continues unabated. The web of life remains tightly wound. The abundance of life is clear to see.
But there is more, much more going on than what I see from here. The bonds of human love and friendship also remain. The human spirit, filled with characteristics like perseverance, optimism and dedication, lives on. Inside all the apartments that are visible from my balcony, there are people chatting with others. There are brothers and sisters fighting as they always do. There are people playing cards and telling their favorite jokes to each other. There are lovers being intimate.
It is easy to get depressed over what is happening right now. The anxiety is real and palpable. But the view from my balcony gives me hope. Hope that, despite all that has changed, and despite all that will change, life will go on as before. And perhaps, this event will convince many to appreciate the simple things in life, as I have today. The birds, the blooms, the sky, the sun, and all that is wonderful on this good earth.
I think I will watch less news and spend more time on my balcony from now on.
NRaleighLiberal
(60,014 posts)VWolf
(3,944 posts)MFM008
(19,804 posts)Im starting to feel like in stuck in a snow storm.
Like when you cant get out of your driveway....
Makes me very panic attacky..
Plus were due for a week of rain.
😷😢
CurtEastPoint
(18,638 posts)Life continues on around us. Let us join in.
malaise
(268,910 posts)Thank you
VWolf
(3,944 posts)PJMcK
(22,029 posts)I share your ideals, VWolf.
My wife and I have decamped to our mountain house for several weeks, at least, to try to ride out the storm. It's lovely in the Catskills and we're surrounded by a forrest and the Delaware River with an abundance of wildlife and flora. If we have to spend the Spring here, we're lucky to have a gilded cage.
We got rid of the cable service several years ago but we still have high-speed internet. Even that service brings us too much sturm und drang.
I think we'll watch less news and read less internet and spend more time walking in the woods from now on.
Here in Jersey, the weather is gradually improving, so I'll have more "balcony time" in the coming weeks
Laura PourMeADrink
(42,770 posts)VWolf
(3,944 posts)I think the balcony was 22 feet long, and it took him about 7 hours, from what I can rememeber
Laura PourMeADrink
(42,770 posts)luck, I'd get dizzy and fall off the side.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)bullwinkle428
(20,629 posts)to think in similar ways. I make the effort to spend a couple of hours each day outside walking, hiking, or even riding the bike, and it seems to be an incredibly therapeutic daily ritual, in terms of maintaining emotional balance in this incredibly unique situation.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)Atticus
(15,124 posts)panader0
(25,816 posts)steve2470
(37,457 posts)Excellent idea, less news and more time on the balcony. All the best to you, sir
VWolf
(3,944 posts)monmouth4
(9,694 posts)livetohike
(22,138 posts)Trueblue Texan
(2,425 posts)...we are staying home and savoring the springtime. A rare treat, despite the horrific cause.
Locrian
(4,522 posts)VWolf
(3,944 posts)mgardener
(1,816 posts)We woke up to a winter wonderland today.
I am watching Cardinals and Blue Jays at the feeders.
It will be warmer so we will not have to shovel, just enjoy.
Peace everyone.
Stay safe.
genxlib
(5,524 posts)I have to say that is unlike any Engineer that I know (and that is likely counting in the thousands).
For one thing, the vast majority of them cant communicate that well. Finding one with optimism and a grounding in nature is rare indeed. Hell, most of them are pretty conservative by nature.
Well done and thanks for representing.
Do you mind if I ask what kind of Engineer. (Civil and structural here)
I'm an aerospace engineer (avionics)
I was more typical when I was younger. I think finding DU back in 2004 has changed me for the better. I started to actually THINK about what was going on around me, besides all the tech stuff.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)As always, Donald Trump is an idiot and an ass hat.
RESIST
mercuryblues
(14,530 posts)The birds still chirp, whether we listen or not. The trees and flowers will continue to blossom. My favorite place to sit is on my front porch. After the worst of allergy season is over, that's where you'll find me, until it gets too cold sit and watch. Every year a bird will build a nest somewhere on the porch lay its eggs, flutter back and forth from the nest. One year I had the honor of watching the Mama bird teach her babies to fly. To me that was like a drug. I have been fixating on being able to see that again, chasing that high.
Me and the spiders have an understanding. They don't come in my space and I don't swat at them. Most listen. Lizards don't care and freak me out. Sneaky little buggers. But they too have learned over the years to not sneak up on me, if they don't want to go flying through the air when I jump and scream at the sudden sensation of something running on my foot and up my leg. They now make themselves known. I've seen Mama lizards with their babies following her on their daily strolls looking for spiders and flies, Oh my.
Snakes are another story, those MFers will get me off the porch screaming for someone to get rid of it.
I went out to check the mail the years ago and saw a doe give birth in a patch of trees on my front yard. Well. as best as I could see from a distance. I saw the baby take its 1st steps and watched the 2 take off into the woods across the street.
The funniest thing I got to see was when I was watching 2 squirrels playing, jumping from tree limb to tree limb. One squirrel jumped on a limb that must have been hit by lightning or just rotted. When she or he landed the limb came down. I can attest to the fact that squirrels do scream.
All of this would of happened whether I was there to witness it or not. Life doesn't care if you slow down to notice it or whiz by it without a thought.
Now if you excuse me, my neighbor's dog is barking at my back door, for his daily treat. I'm dreading having to tell him dinner was so good last night, my men ate it all. How do I know it was great? My 18 year old licked his plate. Yes he still does that.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)mercuryblues
(14,530 posts)Your post inspired me to write mine. As I said, life goes on. If I hadn't stopped to read your post, it still would exist, only mine wouldn't.
Alliepoo
(2,215 posts)Thank you! I needed that.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)blm
(113,041 posts)Thank you for the post, VWolf.
duforsure
(11,885 posts)We just had a new 8ft privacy cedar fence put up, and relaxing on the back patio a lot more now. Very peaceful, and a great way to just relax from what's happening now. Also going outdoors on you tube hiking and camping places we've enjoyed. Hope people find their own diversions helping them through this now, and to prevent it from getting them down . Going to find a good comedy to watch sometime today.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)One of my all-time favorites - I'll probably watch it again tonight
OhNo-Really
(3,985 posts)You invited us to your balcony
Have a bright day
VWolf
(3,944 posts)spanone
(135,816 posts)FM123
(10,053 posts)We need more of that!
True Blue American
(17,982 posts)That was a great post.
Engineers are usually the first to enjoy Nature. They love to be outdoors, take great pride in their houses or apartments. Perfectionists, nothing is finished until it is as nearly perfect as humans can make it..
I have a few in my family, another budding in College, now online from home.
The birds are loud, cheerful, joyous, the grass is greening, Daffodils and Crocus making you smile.
This too, shall pass, including our clueless Leaders who are showing more of their grift and greed every day.
llmart
(15,536 posts)I live within a mile of a 5,000 acre metropark and go there almost every day year round. This morning even though it was only 32o out, I decided to go early. I'm a bit of an introvert and retired so I can now choose when and where to walk in this park, and I do prefer it when it's not so busy. I saw almost no one else within my four-mile walk, but the birds are back and the chorus frogs and wood frogs are calling. I came within 10 feet of several deer browsing. They are used to people and because it was quiet they didn't bolt when they saw me coming - just raised their heads and looked at me when I quietly said, "hello there doe eyes". Hawks were swirling above me as the sun came up. A group of about ten wild turkeys were out and about and I chuckled to myself when I saw they were spread apart. I thought, "even the turkeys are social distancing this morning". There were dozens of swans on the lake.
I decided that when I got home I would check headlines on DU and then no other news for the rest of the day. Today I will cook a healthy pot of soup, read and listen to music.
Let us not forget that our emotional and mental health is just as important as our physical health.
Thank you for the beautiful essay.
Harker
(14,012 posts)were three truly wonderful years.
Then, we had a real President...
BumRushDaShow
(128,821 posts)And then enjoy them up close and personal.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)But there's a first time for everything
BumRushDaShow
(128,821 posts)(towards the inside so no issue with falling to the ground) and then get a small pot or plastic windowbox where you can plant some annual flower 4- or 6-packs (like pansies or marigolds, etc) and get an idea of how much sun you get. Then you can eventually get carried away and grow food and all sorts of other things!
(don't ask why I know this )
VWolf
(3,944 posts)Home improvement stores are still open here in NJ, but I hesitate to go there for something non-essential right now. Perhaps when this is all over.
BumRushDaShow
(128,821 posts)I am in Philly and am also on stay-at-home. The weather is still iffy too so about the only plants that might be do-able this time of year are pansies, violas/violets, and maybe sweet alyssum (some supermarkets have them - I bought some pansies last week at a nearby Acme) and if you have a little table or stool that you can stick outside, you could put a pot of pansies out there (many supermarkets that sell plants outside the entrance will sell them in more "decorative" pots or something other than the 4-packs and you can just stick that out there.
I go to the Philly Flower Show every year (took the risk and went this year and have been counting days since ) and they usually have displays showing balcony flower/vine arrangements - even for the tiniest balconies. If you do get hooked, you can try herbs too and have a little "kitchen garden".
demigoddess
(6,640 posts)with that and some salad greens.
BumRushDaShow
(128,821 posts)Whether it's in the ground or in a pot. And at least you know where it came from!
And when the clover blooms, you'll get some happy honey bees too.
demigoddess
(6,640 posts)always try to keep something for his bees. But my husband keeps digging them up, or cutting them down. So pots it is.
BumRushDaShow
(128,821 posts)At least if you have something needing pollination, you have a ready source!!!! I used to have to rely on carpenter bees and bumble bees to pollinate my blueberries. They managed to do it though.
VWolf, I also don't post much at all, although I've been a DUer for a long time. You may think you think in numbers mostly, but that was a beautifully eloquent post and wonderfully uplifting in this time of grave concern and uncertainty. Thank you.
I_UndergroundPanther
(12,463 posts)Your writing took me to your balcony..
planetc
(7,805 posts)give in to it immediately.
(signed) your local English teacher
Also, it may be possible to find a site online which will help you distinguish birds by their songs. You deserve to know what a chickadee looks like.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)Thank you for your feedback!
FailureToCommunicate
(14,012 posts)(Maxfield Parrish)
Laura PourMeADrink
(42,770 posts)You probably didn't see the Dr speak yesterday during daily briefing.
I thought it was very interesting. She said that there was a rise and peak of the virus for each state. And that virus spreading 3 weeks before first case.
While I totally agree that we need to enjoy nature now, think it
would be very interesting to me to do some analysis with numbers and dates per state.
A long time ago I read a story about how to be happy. They talked about filling your life with "flow" moments. This can be anything that you do that you completely lose yourself in. For me it's taking data and figuring out trends.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)Many examples were from the world of epidemiology. It was interesting stuff back then - now it's too damn close to home.
stonecutter357
(12,695 posts)wendyb-NC
(3,321 posts)these present times, Thank You, for it.
The_jackalope
(1,660 posts)As an engineer myself, I tend to get caught in the numbers, making exponential graphs of cases and deaths shooting up into the stratosphere. I can only do that so many times before I start thinking that life just isn't worth living. My partner finally got through to me with your message, by posting a reply on one of my gloomier FB threads. She said the same things you're saying, and pleading with me to come back. I read her your post and we both got huge smiles. Now I'm looking out the window, and despite the fact that it's still winter in Ottawa I can see joy and hope - even the snow looks more cheerful after reading your post.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)Feels good to have brightened someone's day in all this.
Now if I could only make a few respirators ....
homegirl
(1,428 posts)no traffic noise. By telephone friends have been sharing observations on new growth, birds and the wonders of nature. One friend whose home was almost lost to one of the Northern California fires announced the other day that "the jack rabbits are back." May we all find peace and comfort in experiencing the beauty and balance of nature and our capacity for mutual support. Peace and good health to all.
grantcart
(53,061 posts)Great post
VWolf
(3,944 posts)Thank you
US4u2
(91 posts)The Earth I Know
When I walk with thee,
I blend into your nature
As if the grass before me
Takes root in my flaming heart;
As if the autumn trees,
Roiling in the breeze,
Dance brightly within every fiber of my being;
As if even the firmament above,
Clouds white upon a cerulean blue,
Take on a human hue
And unwraps its lavish arms
To hug my very soul
Such is the earth I know.
When I look at thee,
I dissolve within
The essence of your beauty
That sets my spirit quivering;
For in your hallowed majesty
Displayed so eloquently
I find myself overcome with awe;
An emotional turbulence far beyond
My ability to respond
To such splendor and magnificence
These humble eyes you show
Such is the world I am thrilled to know.
When I live in thee
Each day is full of meaning.
Experiences follow me
Whatever path I roam;
Experiences devoted to eliciting
The complexities of my soul;
Whether I can let go
Of the burdens of this life
And find a way to reunite
With the love
That surrounds my every pore;
Your kiss, whichever way the wind may blow
Such is the planet that helps me grow.
And when I come to sleep with thee
As at last my journeys done,
Ill make my bed so easily
Amongst the ancient mud,
Ashes to ashes and dust to dust,
A part of your stoic history,
So happily
To have joined with you as one,
For all time
immortal
As deep within your fair caress
Shall I finally find my rest
And surrender to your precious flow
Such is the Earth I will forever know.
redstatebluegirl
(12,265 posts)JudyM
(29,225 posts)Joinfortmill
(14,413 posts)Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)I love your attitude and it is contagious....thank you
helpmenow
(16 posts)This made me cry. Its so beautiful and poetic. Thank you.
Can we get a daily post for you to counteract the daily turd talks from he who shall not be named?
Wishful thinking.
CountMyVote4Reality
(209 posts)Leaves are still green.
helpmenow
(16 posts)Im pretty sure we all knew what he meant. Thanks anyway, Debbie Downer.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)MichaelSoE
(1,576 posts)Warpy
(111,241 posts)because you've got a pretty tree to look at and the air might be approaching freshness with fewer people driving around. Sunlight has a direct effect on your mood, so if you can manage to soak some up on your balcony, good for you.
People who are urban cliff dwellers without balcony space can use open windows.
It's moving slowly here in NM, but it's moving, looks like we finally got more tests because there are now 100 confirmed cases, 43 in town, 7 in Santa Fe, and most of the others along the Rio Grande Valley.
I'm an introvert, I'll be fine as long as the Sriracha holds out and I got a new jar 2 weeks ago.
Faux pas
(14,659 posts)redstateblues
(10,565 posts)calimary
(81,209 posts)Take a moment to smell the roses - no matter how fleeting. And feel the gratitude.
And as Jonathan Winters once told me during an interview, "it sure beats the ol' dirt nap."
tazkcmo
(7,300 posts)All I did in my first post was say hi.
Strelnikov_
(7,772 posts)Hotler
(11,415 posts)I'm a steel detailing checker and I have a bitch about your contract drawings........
VWolf
(3,944 posts)VWolf
(3,944 posts)I love DU
TomSlick
(11,096 posts)I'm a cynical old lawyer and found your post moving.
C Moon
(12,212 posts)Demovictory9
(32,447 posts)WiffenPoof
(2,404 posts)My son is an engineer. We were just talking last night about the fact that he thinks with his head while I think with heart. Hes more like his mom in that regard.
For an engineer, you wrote beautifully.
Might I suggest that you do a weekly post from your balcony. I think it would be a welcomed addition to the DU.
canetoad
(17,149 posts)I don't like travelling. Destinations would be good if you could teleport but I hate the anxiety, the waiting and the discomfort.
Instead I prefer to stay in my own area, learn its secrets, its hidden gems and history; become knowledgeable about my own environment.
I'm lucky to have kilometers of deserted beaches, reefs and dunes nearby. From the tracks of tiny marsupial mice in the sand, to the breeding seasons of limpets and onchidellas, to the petrified wood and ancient coal and iron beds.... There's more than enough to occupy every waking moment until the end of my life.
Peace and contentment is where you find it.
summer_in_TX
(2,731 posts)You reminded me of the chapter (Ch. 21) I'm reading in David Brook's book, The Second Mountain. He tells of suddenly recognizing that living web of souls in the mass of humanity around him.
Your words are similarly evocative and numinous.
imblue
(23 posts)Even if it is only a virtual balcony. We would all be happier and less stressed.