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Yavin4

(35,421 posts)
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 03:52 PM Mar 2020

Are you self-conscious about the backdrop of your home while working from home?

Are you taking steps to ensure that your webcam does not pick up how untidy your home is in the background while you're on a conference call with your co-workers?

Or, that you have some really weird art hanging on the walls?

Or, those dead bodies that you have hanging around because you couldn't get out to dispose of them because of that whole social distancing thing? Am I right?

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Are you self-conscious about the backdrop of your home while working from home? (Original Post) Yavin4 Mar 2020 OP
I'm not working from home, but I love seeing the homes.. LAS14 Mar 2020 #1
One of them had two cats snoozing on the couch while he was doing his piece mcar Mar 2020 #3
LoL🤣😂 dewsgirl Mar 2020 #2
We have beautiful tiles behind the toilet... ret5hd Mar 2020 #4
omg Skittles Mar 2020 #7
It's that unforgettable tinkle shanti Mar 2020 #10
I understand people need to pee Skittles Mar 2020 #21
Even more offensive MontanaMama Mar 2020 #58
And being a dude, chances are good... 3catwoman3 Mar 2020 #59
lol LizBeth Mar 2020 #19
Ahhh trumpdump style. LakeArenal Mar 2020 #11
Yes. I have to teach from home - Ms. Toad Mar 2020 #5
:) Sounds nice for them. Hortensis Mar 2020 #35
Yes & no Ms. Toad Mar 2020 #36
There's usually far more to anything others do than we realize. Hortensis Mar 2020 #37
11 years in an inner city high school - and 6 years in law school. Ms. Toad Mar 2020 #38
:) Not hardly. Any chance, though, that your presumably Hortensis Mar 2020 #62
Not likely - Ms. Toad Mar 2020 #65
Lol. Good. I miss our silly billies. nt Hortensis Mar 2020 #69
No Zooming for me. underpants Mar 2020 #6
Speaking of which... Totally Tunsie Mar 2020 #14
Uh underpants Mar 2020 #17
Yeah, crap happens. Igel Mar 2020 #66
So much so that I don't have a camera. catrose Mar 2020 #8
Reminds me of when His Fraudulency45 got busted for pretending to write Tanuki Mar 2020 #9
We've all agreed not to use video meadowlander Mar 2020 #12
I arrange the camera with a wall of books in the background, so they'll think I'm an intellectual. trackfan Mar 2020 #13
Classic ESPN move. Iggo Mar 2020 #64
You take any Selfies... Clean The Mirror! nuff said irisblue Mar 2020 #15
Luckily my backdrop is a window! LisaM Mar 2020 #16
There is easily available software to put a backgound sdfernando Mar 2020 #18
That explains how the MSNBC anchors are able to have their usual backdrops then. Cool. nt Hekate Mar 2020 #22
Yeah, Zoom has a function like that too. JHB Mar 2020 #47
Yep..our dept daily meetings, we've been trying to keep them upbeat sdfernando Mar 2020 #50
Our one boss (not the big boss) created a Zoom background woodsprite Mar 2020 #56
I bet there's an app for that central scrutinizer Mar 2020 #20
I refuse to work from home. Luckily, I have the office to myself bluedye33139 Mar 2020 #23
With Zoom you can set a nice background. I do that. CousinIT Mar 2020 #24
No videos in my industry. nt NutmegYankee Mar 2020 #25
YES! RandySF Mar 2020 #26
I sit in a recliner in front of a big window. davsand Mar 2020 #27
Totoro Kitchari Mar 2020 #53
We are big fans of Miyazaki's films. davsand Mar 2020 #60
My hubs introduced me to Kitchari Mar 2020 #71
Ha ha heh...I don't think people are really worried about the optics nowadays. But, I would hide... SWBTATTReg Mar 2020 #28
that was hilarious... like a movie done within 1 minute. Wife's pants were undone - she has been in Demovictory9 Mar 2020 #30
This poor business Dad. magicarpet Mar 2020 #31
Thanks for popping out there on DU. I love this! It is a classic. NT SWBTATTReg Mar 2020 #40
I think the guy should have just picked up his kid and kept talking Victor_c3 Mar 2020 #46
The little one in the yellow,... magicarpet Mar 2020 #48
My place is a dump, when home I walk around in the nude. magicarpet Mar 2020 #29
You can choose a virtual background on Zoom. mia Mar 2020 #32
Pee Wee Hermann's Playhouse Phone Booth TheBlackAdder Mar 2020 #33
Collecting road kill and freeze drying for display is a legitimate hobby. hunter Mar 2020 #34
How about this? PufPuf23 Mar 2020 #41
Yeah, taxidermy doesn't strike as a hobby you'd want to share with others you might want to date Victor_c3 Mar 2020 #45
untidy?....fu#k yes Demonaut Mar 2020 #39
I sit in front of a coat rack. qwlauren35 Mar 2020 #42
I'm careful how I leave porn laying around. lpbk2713 Mar 2020 #43
As a recently single guy, I quickly learned to keep my apartment spotless at all times Victor_c3 Mar 2020 #44
I do chuckle at seeing so many bookshelves. nolabear Mar 2020 #49
Maybe they're at their country house. Igel Mar 2020 #67
Well, it's tricky neeksgeek Mar 2020 #51
There was a local newswoman this morning that had inside of her door in the background. dem4decades Mar 2020 #52
My background is a white wall (I'm in the dining room) woodsprite Mar 2020 #54
I use various backgrounds like grand canyon or niagara falls DenverJared Mar 2020 #55
Mine looks a lot like the office of the dead dad in Death At A Funeral ... mr_lebowski Mar 2020 #57
I don't use video, just audio. smirkymonkey Mar 2020 #61
No webcam. Iggo Mar 2020 #63
Don't work but I use zoom for bookclub marlakay Mar 2020 #68
I like my backdrop of some whisky on a shelf, ... JustABozoOnThisBus Mar 2020 #70

LAS14

(13,769 posts)
1. I'm not working from home, but I love seeing the homes..
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 03:53 PM
Mar 2020

... of all the CNN and PBS people. Looks like people are still reading books!!

But I do go to church via zoom. My backgrond is book cases too.

Skittles

(153,113 posts)
7. omg
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 04:00 PM
Mar 2020

I once paged an on-call and when he called back, as I was relating the issue to him, I stopped and asked, Are you......PISSING???? He quickly said he would call me back and hung up.

Ms. Toad

(33,992 posts)
5. Yes. I have to teach from home -
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 03:57 PM
Mar 2020

So every single one of my students gets to see me at home.

House is untidy - camera pointed away from the untidy.

We upped the ante on my background. I'm in a recliner (I don't have a work station since I've always worked entirely from work), but a giant frog is sitting behind my head now. Occasionly my cat (who also occasionally walks across my laptop). The frog blocks the mirror that threatens to display the mess.

No dead bodies, unless you count the mice my cat tortured but didn't finish off.

Ms. Toad

(33,992 posts)
36. Yes & no
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 05:45 PM
Mar 2020

They get to see me less formally - we've gone to CR/NCR so I don't have to be so strict on grades - and - we are moving into the period when I want them to see me as their best buddy (I have to prepare them for the bar exam after graduation, and I need to be approachable).

Not so good, since teaching a live class remotely is an art I have not yet mastered. My first full class will be Monday - but during our time off I've interacted with groups ranging from 1 to 30+. I have always known I depend heavily on audience reaction to adjust what I am doing & it is very hard to gauge audience reaction when I'm the only one talking and (so far) only a few are willing to be on video. I'm debating whether to require video. That will be a challenge for those with less stable internet connections (and poses the same "what can everyone else see about me" issues for my students).

I'm getting better - a half-dozen small group, voluntary, classes in. But it's a far cry from how comfortable I've always felt in the classroom.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
37. There's usually far more to anything others do than we realize.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 06:11 PM
Mar 2020

I'm smiling at the thought of all the video conundrums, so understandable. At least you're not a novice thrown in to teach with no art developed to build on. Have fun. They want it to work as well also.

Ms. Toad

(33,992 posts)
38. 11 years in an inner city high school - and 6 years in law school.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 06:16 PM
Mar 2020

(And 15 years as a lawyer between the two). Nope, not a novice.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
62. :) Not hardly. Any chance, though, that your presumably
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 04:23 PM
Mar 2020

novice assistant might accidentally pull the frog down during class? Little details.

Ms. Toad

(33,992 posts)
65. Not likely -
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 04:43 PM
Mar 2020

He was scared of it at first (it's between 2 and 3 feet tall). He seems to have gotten used to it - but it's a bit heavy for him to knock over.

underpants

(182,613 posts)
6. No Zooming for me.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 03:59 PM
Mar 2020

We have conference calls daily for work. Not Zoom just voice

Twice we've had people (management) tell us precautionary tales about people not muting their phone and going to the bathroom OR on Zoom calls taking their phone in to the bathroom or changing clothes during the call.

All of those have happened since last Wednesday

Igel

(35,274 posts)
66. Yeah, crap happens.
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 04:51 PM
Mar 2020

Empathy, not so much.

Until we need it. Then it still doesn't happen, but, dammit, it *should*!

Tanuki

(14,914 posts)
9. Reminds me of when His Fraudulency45 got busted for pretending to write
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 04:02 PM
Mar 2020

his Inaugural Address with a sharpie at what turned out to be the receptionist's desk at Merde-a-Loco.

https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2017/01/why-doesnt-donald-trump-have-his-own-desk-at-mar-a-lago.html

meadowlander

(4,388 posts)
12. We've all agreed not to use video
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 04:05 PM
Mar 2020

or to give a heads up/set a meeting time if video is required.

I'm more worried about the PJs than the house. There's a blank white wall behind my sofa, so I'm covered.

trackfan

(3,650 posts)
13. I arrange the camera with a wall of books in the background, so they'll think I'm an intellectual.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 04:06 PM
Mar 2020

Fools them every time.

sdfernando

(4,925 posts)
18. There is easily available software to put a backgound
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 04:13 PM
Mar 2020

on your video feed. You could be on the beach or in the Grand Canyon.

JHB

(37,156 posts)
47. Yeah, Zoom has a function like that too.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 07:26 PM
Mar 2020

So far, I've used the foyer to Bag End (Bilbo & Frodo Baggins' house) and the Planet Express building from Futurama.

For Monday I think I'll use an International Space Station view of the Aurora Borealis.


Needless to say, this is just for in-department touchbases.

sdfernando

(4,925 posts)
50. Yep..our dept daily meetings, we've been trying to keep them upbeat
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 09:56 PM
Mar 2020

Shared are WFH work areas, had a costume day...someone wants "contents of your refrig"....and I'm like NO WAY!

woodsprite

(11,904 posts)
56. Our one boss (not the big boss) created a Zoom background
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 10:49 PM
Mar 2020

that made him look like he was sitting at his desk. He even did it as a loop so it showed him blinking and smirking every once in awhile. He didn't let it go on long because he poked his head in from the side, but it was pretty funny.

bluedye33139

(1,474 posts)
23. I refuse to work from home. Luckily, I have the office to myself
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 04:28 PM
Mar 2020

I work in a small practice and we have switched all psychotherapy to telehealth. I have never been able to work at home, never. When I was a university professor, I had a blanket policy of refusing to take student papers home to grade. I refuse to sit in my home and think about students or clients, as my home is my sanctuary and I have programmed my mind to relax when I get home.

I used to do crisis mental health work, and when you go to a home at 3:00 a.m. and deal with suicidal or homicidal mentally ill people and you see astonishing despair and violence and disruption, you need to develop techniques to keep that out of your home.

When I am at home, I do not think about my clients or students.

My heart goes out to people who are forced by circumstance to work from home. I believe that a healthy work life balance involves putting barriers up against our professional lives outside of the home and maintaining the home as a sanctuary of peace, love, and safety.

davsand

(13,421 posts)
27. I sit in a recliner in front of a big window.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 04:54 PM
Mar 2020

I'm backlit, and that's fine by me! Occasionally, one of the two cats will be climbing around on the chair or on me, and that's when hilarity ensues. Totoro--the kitten--completely scattered a file folder the other day when he decided to climb up on the table next to me. We will not be doing that again! LOL!


Laura

davsand

(13,421 posts)
60. We are big fans of Miyazaki's films.
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 03:50 PM
Mar 2020

Our daughter tells her friends that her childhood was a combination of Disney and Studio Ghibli. My Neighbor Totoro was one of the first of his films I watched, and has remained a favorite over the years.




Laura

Kitchari

(2,165 posts)
71. My hubs introduced me to
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 07:21 PM
Mar 2020

The wonderful anime mivies, but I'm not fluent in the genre. I enjoy so much the ones ive seen, such as Totoro, which ive seen several times. Love love love

SWBTATTReg

(22,065 posts)
28. Ha ha heh...I don't think people are really worried about the optics nowadays. But, I would hide...
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 04:55 PM
Mar 2020

the dead bodies! I remember that clip that showed on national TV about the little kids coming into their Dad's office while he was on the conf. call, and it was cute. The wife comes running in, and grabs the two kids and ushers them out, and you could see the Dad still maintaining his composure, all during the invasion (kids and wife)...funny.

Demovictory9

(32,421 posts)
30. that was hilarious... like a movie done within 1 minute. Wife's pants were undone - she has been in
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 05:00 PM
Mar 2020

potty. they filmed a follow up with the family one year later.

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
46. I think the guy should have just picked up his kid and kept talking
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 07:24 PM
Mar 2020

That’s what I would have done. I’d say “sorry for the distraction, but it looks like I have a helper” and kept going without missing a beat with my kid in my lap.

I love the kid in the walker trailing behind! Too funny.

magicarpet

(14,119 posts)
48. The little one in the yellow,...
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 07:43 PM
Mar 2020

Said I want to be a movie star too, just like Daddy. Am I on the camera, can you see me on the camera too..... ?

magicarpet

(14,119 posts)
29. My place is a dump, when home I walk around in the nude.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 04:56 PM
Mar 2020

You cant see in my windows on Goggle Drive By, right ?

mia

(8,360 posts)
32. You can choose a virtual background on Zoom.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 05:03 PM
Mar 2020

You can choose from your own images too, including saved works of art and scenes. Here's one from wikimedia.



hunter

(38,302 posts)
34. Collecting road kill and freeze drying for display is a legitimate hobby.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 05:37 PM
Mar 2020

I'll ignore anyone who says it's not.

PufPuf23

(8,755 posts)
41. How about this?
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 06:50 PM
Mar 2020

I once was acquainted with a guy who would get road kill and cure or whatever one does and re-assemble parts of the various roadkill into phantasy animals of a combination of species and then try to sell them. This was in a very rural area within a National Forest so was a road kill rich environment and maybe he just killed too avoiding the roadkill step but he said road kill when he tried to sell to me.

Have no idea whatever happened to him but probably not so good and also I did not meet nor interact with him by my volition.

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
45. Yeah, taxidermy doesn't strike as a hobby you'd want to share with others you might want to date
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 07:18 PM
Mar 2020

That’s hilarious. I’m going to have to update my online dating profile and add that to it. I like to throw in bits of humor into things when I can.

qwlauren35

(6,145 posts)
42. I sit in front of a coat rack.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 07:09 PM
Mar 2020

The other day, I was caught off guard and had to do an unannounced video conference call in my pajamas before I had brushed my hair. I just focused on the technical part and decided I wasn't going to worry about how I looked.

With that said, I thought it was interesting that folks paid so much attention to Joe Biden's background, and I thought Trevor Noah's Daily Show background was fascinating.

So I guess people do look.

I could put a screen up. Hmm...

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
44. As a recently single guy, I quickly learned to keep my apartment spotless at all times
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 07:14 PM
Mar 2020

You never know who is going to come home with you on a given night and I hate to embarrass myself with a messy or dirty apartment.

Now, with social distancing, nobody is coming home with me, but at least things always look good on a webcam.

nolabear

(41,932 posts)
49. I do chuckle at seeing so many bookshelves.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 07:48 PM
Mar 2020

But they are a good backdrop. I use mine too. The house? It’s fine.

I also like seeing how modest the digs of most celebrities are. Very few are stinking rich.

Igel

(35,274 posts)
67. Maybe they're at their country house.
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 04:55 PM
Mar 2020

The one near town for weekends, not the nice one further away.

And certainly not the one in the north of Italy.

neeksgeek

(1,214 posts)
51. Well, it's tricky
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 10:14 PM
Mar 2020

My wife is working from home now too. We both have to talk on the phone and/or webcam. No way we can share an office if I’m teaching class and she’s on a call. So I moved my workstation into what used to be our dining room. My options for background are the kitchen or the folding doors of our laundry closet. Ugh. Thinking of hanging a curtain!

Edited to add, on Thursday I got a laugh out of my students when I leapt up to rescue the cat’s food bowl from our dog.

dem4decades

(11,269 posts)
52. There was a local newswoman this morning that had inside of her door in the background.
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 10:20 PM
Mar 2020

And you could see shows tossed around on the ground in the shot. After a while they adjusted the angle to keep the junk out of the picture.

woodsprite

(11,904 posts)
54. My background is a white wall (I'm in the dining room)
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 10:40 PM
Mar 2020

I found out that you can change your background on Zoom. I have it set to a favorite beach picture I uploaded, but there are canned backgrounds to choose from as well.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
57. Mine looks a lot like the office of the dead dad in Death At A Funeral ...
Sat Mar 28, 2020, 10:55 PM
Mar 2020

The one with Peter Dinklage ...

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
61. I don't use video, just audio.
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 03:57 PM
Mar 2020

My manager tells us its optional and I would say about 40% of the team uses video and the rest of us don't. It kind of creeps me out for some reason. I have never even done it for personal calls. I don't know why I am so opposed to it. My apartment isn't messy, but it just feels very invasive to me.

Also, part of the bonus about not having to go into the office is not having to get dressed or groomed and put on makeup, etc. I would rather not be seen au natural.

Iggo

(47,534 posts)
63. No webcam.
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 04:33 PM
Mar 2020

I did take a series of North West South East pics to post in the 7-member text group thread we have for my department.

But I had to keep retaking the photos because I saw something new and embarrassing.

After about three tries I gave up.

No pics from Iggo's Bunker.

marlakay

(11,425 posts)
68. Don't work but I use zoom for bookclub
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 04:55 PM
Mar 2020

And other stuff, do it on my desktop for bookclub and tall book cases behind me. My dance class I do in living room and I just clear out room and fix pillows on couch.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,321 posts)
70. I like my backdrop of some whisky on a shelf, ...
Sun Mar 29, 2020, 06:00 PM
Mar 2020

... and a print of Dogs Playing Poker on the wall. It's classy.

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