I just bought two cemetery plots for my Wonderful sister and her prick of a husband

[demtenjeep]

My sister is going down hill so very fast.

I got her near our parents.



I don't give a shit what happens to her asshole husband, but I want my sister to know she (and he) is taken care of.


I will surprise her this weekend. Covid be damned I am going to see my sister. I will mask up and glove up

[leftieNanner]

1. It is never wrong to be kind.

Take care of yourself demtenjeep. And blessings on your sister.

[Me.]

2. Gosh I Don't Know

is a cemetery plot good news, a hope killer?

[demtenjeep]

4. we had already talked about it

she said she wished she could hug me in person

what she doesn't know is she will be near our parents


they have no money. I wanted to take this off her worry plate




she does have some small life insurance and her prick of a husband can deal with that. While she is alive I don't want her to worry.

[Me.]

5. Ah, Then Not A Surprise

Really brave of her IMHO

[TreasonousBastard]

3. Good on ya. As crazy as things may be now, we are still human, still basically decent, and can...

do the right thing.

[cayugafalls]

6. You are a wonderful sister...

So wonderful. So strong. I am just in awe.

Be well. Stay safe.

[demtenjeep]

20. I am not that strong. I have cried a lot

but I need to help her .


When the end comes, I will be a horrible mess.

[malaise]

7. All the best

[wryter2000]

8. I'm so sorry

I can't begin to imagine how I'd feel if I lost my brother or sister. Keep yourself safe!

[Hekate]

9. Bless you both, and hugs

Maybe, just maybe, you might tell her sooner by phone. May your in-person visit be filled with love and light.

[gademocrat7]

10. What a kind act.

You have eased your sister's anxiety. Hugs and take care.

[Caliman73]

11. Sorry about your sister.

I am sure that it will comfort her to know that those arrangements have been made.

Protect yourself well. If possible get an N95 respirator mask and look for videos on how to properly fit it. A surgical mask on top might not be a bad idea either.

[babydollhead]

12. Tell her right now. She might breathe a sigh of relief and sleep well tonight

You are a good sister. If there is anything I know, it's that if you have a surprise for someone who is not well, give it to them right away. Worry is such a waste of time and feels heavy and hard. May she be light.

[demtenjeep]

14. she is in the ER getting fluids right now

she threw up all day yesterday and last night.

I'll talk to her tonight

We live 60 miles apart and because of the covid I haven't seen her in person since Christmas

[lunatica]

13. Loving hugs to you and your sister

[Alliepoo]

15. It's a wonderful thing you did.

I’m so sorry about your sister. I’m glad you’re going to see her.

[Totally Tunsie]

16. Easing your sister's mind is a wonderful gift to her.

That had to be a sad task for you to handle.

Sending you a virtual hug...

[demtenjeep]

17. thanks all

it is just so hard.


but I can't just sit by and not do anything.

in our home town, the plots are not horribly expensive like where I live now.


When I was soooo sick you all helped me get back to right.

this is the least I can do for my sister who is more like my mommy

[demtenjeep]

18. They are admitting her . She is 30 miles away

and I can't go see her...

[babydollhead]

19. close your eyes and breathe.

inhale, and come back to right now.
exhale, and send your sister your deep well of love.
here is a hug. lean on us.

[demtenjeep]

21. she made it through the night

feels better and if all goes well, she goes home @ 8AM

[phylny]

22. Sending good thoughts your way.