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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsA very moving account: Life or death still possible': 31 days at my dad's virtual bedside.
One of the most difficult things one can do is to preside of the extreme illness of one's parent or spouse, or son or daughter.
This account, on the CNN website, moved me to tears: Covid-19 Life or death still possible': 31 days at my dad's virtual bedside
He had been on a ventilator for 11 days. The attending physician at the intensive care unit had called that morning and asked whether they should include a Do Not Resuscitate order in my dad's chart. They had asked before. I had been indecisive. A successful resuscitation would extend his life. But it might also lead to brain damage.
Now multiple organ systems were failing. They needed an answer...
It's a beautifully written piece, a profound tribute to a father, written by his son.
renate
(13,776 posts)I'll let its beauty speak for itself.
But as much as I've been watching the news (and believing it), hearing the toll mount every day, taking the virus 100% seriously, this was a picture of the hospital experience of so many COVID patients that I had never seen or heard before. I knew, abstractly, that it was painful and difficult, with ups and downs and hopes and fears, but this article... wow.
I wish so much that the people partying in Lake of the Ozarks and behaving like fools could have read this first and decided to not even roll the dice with their or, more importantly, others' health. This stuff is so important to know about.
Less focus on the numbers and more focus on the experience of having COVID would make such a difference. I know that responsible people in the media are doing their best to warn, and I also know it's not working, because for too many people looking a little bit silly with a mask on is apparently worse than throwing clots or drowning internally. If more people wrote more articles like these, and more people read them, so much suffering could be avoided.
NNadir
(33,468 posts)This piece puts the humanity back into those numbers.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,517 posts)Superb writing!
I felt as though I'd been present for all the things that happened.
Thank you for posting this story.
It's magnificent!
NNadir
(33,468 posts)Frustratedlady
(16,254 posts)I've been there with parents, siblings and in-laws, but never with Covid-19. I can't imagine how difficult it would be to have a family member or friend going through this misery and not be able to stay with them and support them...talk to them or touch them.
This young son was fortunate to have the medical support system that would give him information twice per day, but the roller-coaster ride he and his family were on was incredible. We hear the same type of situation from other stories and the stress has to be nearly unbearable. They say God only gives you what you can handle. This is stretching that thought to the limit.
The article is long but well worth the read. Be sure to have some tissues nearby.
qazplm135
(7,447 posts)you read it thinking the dad is going to pull through and then wham.
Oof...that's...tough.