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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy friend's son is still hospitalized seven weeks now
Im sharing this because I want others to know of the devastation it can wreak as a warning.
Hes recently tested negative for Covid though still on a vent. They tested him twice and then even tested the mucus he continues to emit a third time and all tests were negative. At this point it seems hes suffering from the after effect of acute respiratory syndrome. (When he was first hospitalized he tested negative twice with textbook symptoms and only tested positive a third time when on the vent.)
He was briefly taken off the vent several days but couldn't breathe on his own, became extremely agitated and they re-intubated him. He got air pockets in his chest cavity from the initial intubation. They want to do a tracheotomy with him still on the vent but his mother is resisting that.
He was initially given Trumps drug and subsequently sustained kidney damage. He was then put on dialysis while on the vent. He was given plasma which seems to have helped stop the raging infection as he had a fever for almost a month. Hes 38 and never had kidney problems. Remdesivir became available as well but with the plasma and the dialysis and Remdesivirs possible liver damage as a side effect it was not administered--especially because hes way past the window where its supposed to do the most good which is shortening the severity and duration of the illness.
The doctor told his mom one lung appears almost completely black. Hes got multiple blood clots. They do periodic video chats and hes managed to blink or shed a tear at the sound of familiar voices.
The most important thing is that hes still alive. Life, with Gods grace, wont ever be the same for him. But we pray and hang on to hope every time we see a story about somebody else who also was hospitalized for a prolonged period and survived.
This thing can be monstrous.
Ilsa
(61,694 posts)Tell her others are thinking about those stricken and their families, offering up prayers and good wishes and peace.
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(13,100 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)I hope he survives and gets better very soon. This is such a hard time for all of you. Im so sorry that everyone is going through this.
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(13,100 posts)mercuryblues
(14,530 posts)The virus is monstrous.
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(13,100 posts)SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)live love laugh
(13,100 posts)SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)I wish I could do more.
helpisontheway
(5,007 posts)live love laugh
(13,100 posts)Shanti Mama
(1,288 posts)Why can't people get it that this virus is terrible, awful, deadly, contagious, not to be messed with?
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(13,100 posts)Shanti Mama
(1,288 posts)Yet so many are relaxing a bit. I guess they want/need to to feel secure.
I think we need to accept, even embrace our new normality.
My thoughts are with you and your son and his friend. I will hold the friend in my heart.
ancianita
(36,023 posts)Please let your friend and son know how many here hope and pray with them for a life ahead.
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(13,100 posts)dawg day
(7,947 posts)He's been through such a terrible ordeal.
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(13,100 posts)Scarsdale
(9,426 posts)have to face so many ailments. Anyone who feels that wearing a mask is dumb should read this. The effects of this virus are not all revealed yet. Please tell your friend we are all pulling for her and her son to both come through this ordeal soon.
live love laugh
(13,100 posts)I will tell her. Thanks
cayugafalls
(5,640 posts)People need to realize how bad COVID can really be.
He will be in my prayers.
live love laugh
(13,100 posts)Books_Tea_Alone
(253 posts)She has a long road ahead in a rehab facility but was able to come off the vent and will survive. Thinking of your friend's son and wishing him well.
live love laugh
(13,100 posts)I'm constantly watching the counts and give thanks hes not included in the casualties.
soldierant
(6,847 posts)My husband would have been dead for over 50 years had he not received an emergency tracheotomy in the ambulance taking him from the scene of the accident (they thought he was dead but heard him make a sound.) He was sensitive about the scar when we met, but it's no longer visible. I would expect a tracheotomy done in a hospital to leave even less of a scar, but ask the experts. But please - give it consideration.
live love laugh
(13,100 posts)Ive been trying to tell her a trach should only be temporary and that if he has less discomfort its worth it. Thanks
soldierant
(6,847 posts)If they think it's a good idea, there's a reason. Thanks. Hope the information helps. If she has any questions, feel free to DUmail me. I'm not medical, though, just a spouse
onecaliberal
(32,826 posts)Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)Always Randy
(1,059 posts)live love laugh
(13,100 posts)Chicagogrl1
(418 posts)For your friend & her son. Hoping & 🙏🏻 that he improves.
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(13,100 posts)malaise
(268,935 posts)live love laugh
(13,100 posts)Hortensis
(58,785 posts)people whose lives will never be the same, and the more we do the better. Thanks for posting his experience, Live.
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(13,100 posts)MLAA
(17,282 posts)live love laugh
(13,100 posts)Beacool
(30,247 posts)I'm so sorry your friend and her son are going through this ordeal. My thoughts, prayers and good vibes are going their way.
I hope that he recovers.
G_j
(40,366 posts)all I can do is try to express to others how very real and terrible the danger is.
..sending every positive thought I can, with love.