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My daughter texted me a couple of days ago, to ask that I don't mention the election to her husband because he voted for Trump. I'll try to honor her wish - I certainly don't want to to make a difficult situation more difficult for her, and I do love and respect my son-in-law. But, just how long do I have to avoid it? Do I have to pretend for the next four years that Trump is still the president when I'm with her husband?
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,588 posts)Unless he's in a coma! He will surely find out, one way or another.
I don't think your daughter is doing her husband any favors.
The Roux Comes First
(1,298 posts)grade into coma? Inquiring minds &etc.
BusyBeingBest
(8,052 posts)Is he that big of a baby that he can't handle his guy losing? Jesus Christ.
Demsrule86
(68,552 posts)lettucebe
(2,336 posts)When Obama ran they said he'd lock all Christians up in camps. Didn't happen. When he ran again, I think they rehashed the same BS. Didn't happen. I didn't gloat (as much as I wanted to), and I didn't remind them of how foolish their beliefs were. I just went about my business.
Will admit I did tell them no republican would ever be elected president again, and then tRump won, so learned that lesson. I just do not discuss politics or religion for that matter with anyone I know holds the opposite beliefs. It's just a waste of breath. They are certainly not going to change my mind so why should I think I'd change theirs?
Demsrule86
(68,552 posts)discuss politics. It is so not worth it to lose people you love because of politics.
TeamPooka
(24,221 posts)I'm sure she can find love elsewhere.
LexVegas
(6,059 posts)Statistical
(19,264 posts)Turn a family event into a screaming match about how Biden stole the election and libtards are communists. Talk about the weather, talk about the food. Sometimes it is good enough that Joe won. No matter what he thinks Joe won.
lame54
(35,284 posts)birdographer
(1,323 posts)If not, treat this like she told you not to mention the pollution in Pune, India or the new tapir born at Tufts University. There's a lot of other stuff to talk about!
JCMach1
(27,556 posts)Tell him to put on his big boy pants
avebury
(10,952 posts)the snowflake. BUT, if he brings it up, all bets are off.
Mariana
(14,854 posts)A lot of Trump supporters are very, very angry right now.
SlogginThroughIt
(1,977 posts)You do not have to stow truth and your feelings for ANY MAN. And neither should your daughter. Maybe your son in law is a great guy. I don't know. But these are some massively large red flags here.
Women should no longer pretend to go along just to get along.
EDIt; i just realized for some reason I assumed you were her mom. I shouldn't have but everything I said applies to your daughter as well.
Good luck.