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Charles Ghoul-ba
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Oy vey.
Anne Helen Petersen
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40% of American still planning to attend Thanksgiving with 10+ people; 30% not planning to mask or ask others to mask:
https://upi.com/Health_News/2020/11/12/40-in-US-planning-large-gatherings-for-holidays-despite-COVID-19-warnings/1161605213219/?spt=su&or=btn_tw
northoftheborder
(7,572 posts)Squinch
(50,941 posts)isolate for the remaining time before Thanksgiving.
And I'm STILL nervous!!!
I am hosting and have a beloved 88 year old aunt coming. If she ever caught Covid at my home, I would never forgive myself.
I wonder if I could get my family to adhere to such a thing! Doubtful, as a few of them are Trump weirdos.
To heck with the gathering if not! I'll get heat from a couple of them, but fuck it. I'm taking care of my mother with dementia. There is no way I can bring even a molecule of that shit in this house.
Squinch
(50,941 posts)I'm not willing to risk dying alone and painfully just because a relative wants to make a point.
malaise
(268,898 posts)absolutely no months ago. Just as well given the spike there and here.
Blaukraut
(5,693 posts)SunSeeker
(51,550 posts)madaboutharry
(40,203 posts)Everyone at their own house. It makes me sad, but we want to be safe.
It is going to get so much worse because of the holidays. How will they feel when multiple relatives get sick and might even die? For what, just to have dinner?
soothsayer
(38,601 posts)PJMcK
(22,026 posts)Not that we're all going to die, of course. But such a large percentage of Americans are just stupid, ignorant or represent examples of the Dunning -Kruger effect.
I have family members who still think the virus is a hoax! We're closing in on 300,000 deaths since March(!) and they think this is fake. One cousin said that wearing masks is part of the Democrats socialist plot to deny all Americans their rights. Insane.
We're having exactly three people at our Thanksgiving table: my son, my wife and me. I would love to dine with my 89-year old father, my sister and her family and my brother and his family as we've done for decades. Not this year.
We were walking in NYC this afternoon and I was appalled how many people were not wearing masks! This is New York State which is fighting really hard to stem the tide of the virus and yet, some people don't seem to care. It's baffling.
It makes us feel like it's everyone for themselves. Not a good look for America.
luvs2sing
(2,220 posts)and two friends who are in our bubble. Lots of layers, depending on the temperature, and open windows, masks required. We are all psychotically careful..and we always spend the holidays together.
onecaliberal
(32,816 posts)sarcasmo
(23,968 posts)soothsayer
(38,601 posts)Probably turn into buffet style in front of tv football
CottonBear
(21,596 posts)We miss our parents, grandparents, children, other relatives, siblings, and friends, however, we dont want to risk our lives or theirs. We havent even met the newest member of our family, a baby girl, because of COVID19.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Not worth the risk, especially with children who are attending school. I will miss seeing my family, but I think it's for the best this year. All of us are staying home this holiday and possibly Christmas as well. I will really miss seeing the dogs.
Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)No big family gathering which I will miss.
Midnight Writer
(21,738 posts)A feast fit for kings.
Not this year.
She has called it off. It's not worth someone getting sick.
I whole heartedly agree with her.
I love seeing family, love the great meal, love the atmosphere of familial love.
But skipping a year isn't going to kill anyone.
Not skipping a year just may.
soothsayer
(38,601 posts)captain queeg
(10,157 posts)We were starting to plan to have dinner out in the car port, and I made tentative reservations at a hotel. But at this point doesn't sound like its going to happen. Its a bummer, but lots of worse things, like getting people sick or dying.
I have a friend who keeps spouting how its all exaggerated. Yes, I very likely wouldn't die. But I could get very sick and I could give it to someone else. That's the part the deniers don't bother to take into account; spreading it to others.
Brainfodder
(6,423 posts)For sure not taking the vax when it is first made available, after this much BS, you first red shirts!
It's the least you can do!
Meanwhile, the captain and I will stand here with phasers on.....
stillcool
(32,626 posts)for a funeral while they're in town. Maybe even their own!
NickB79
(19,233 posts)Because her birthday is on the 29th, they combine them.
All the family, including my 80-yr old grandparents and my brother-in-law's father who is in poor health, AND all my niece's school and neighborhood friends, AND some of my sister's coworkers and THEIR kids. Probably 20 people in one house, in central Minnesota, when it's 40F outside. No opening windows or doors for ventilation.
They're Trump-voting anti-maskers. I'll be staying home, no matter how much they try to guilt me into driving up north.
I honestly don't expect both of my grandparents to survive this shit.
JanMichael
(24,881 posts)moonscape
(4,673 posts)of that going on than I want to believe. So sorry. Hope your grandparents will be okay. Wish theyd decline, obviously.
mcar
(42,298 posts)We've canceled our plans to spend Tgiving with our kids in DC, as did DIL's family. We'll spend Christmas with my sis and BIL, but we'll be outside for most of it (Florida).
It's hard to not be with them but makes no sense to endanger ourselves and others.
Crunchy Frog
(26,579 posts)MissMillie
(38,548 posts)TWO
(I offered to deliver 1/2 of our turkey, some stuffing, some gravy and some pie to my sister and my dad who live two streets over, but they said they think they have everything covered.)
Beringia
(4,316 posts)And she called the shots of no family gathering this holiday. I really don't know if my older brother were in charge, if he would take the precautions or any other number of my siblings.
MoonlitKnight
(1,584 posts)Having a thanksgiving dinner this year assures that someone wont be having one next year because they will be dead.
Lets beat this virus and then we all will have a true thanksgiving to celebrate.
Klaralven
(7,510 posts)It is primarily the vibration of the vocal cords that produces droplets and aerosols that can infect other people. Normal breathing through the nose doesn't produce them.
So before coming into the house, everyone must be sworn to a vow of silence.
It will also prevent a lot of other problems.
gademocrat7
(10,654 posts)We are from big families but no Thanksgiving or Christmas gatherings.
Buckeye_Democrat
(14,853 posts)What was the answer to everything in "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy"? 42?
AwakeAtLast
(14,124 posts)Our big dinner was cancelled. I'm spending it with my husband, daughter and parents. Dad has already recovered from COVID (thank the Lord!).
ChazII
(6,204 posts)on Thanksgiving Day and all the rest of the days left in 2020.
LymphocyteLover
(5,641 posts)pansypoo53219
(20,969 posts)Duppers
(28,117 posts)Not even letting our son come home.
radius777
(3,635 posts)Nuclear families can do thanksgiving together, and simply Zoom in with extended family and friends doing the same thing. They can also share some of what they made with each other, just bag it up and deliver it wearing a mask.
People just have to sacrifice - it's better than being dead - and in all likelihood we'll be through this next year when we have a real president and the vaccine is widely distributed.
StevieM
(10,500 posts)I miss my family, but it is the right thing to do.
KY_EnviroGuy
(14,489 posts)We're royally screwed until Joe is in office and he will still have an uphill battle for months with the right-wing idiots, both public and political.
We should have a law similar to those allowing a declaration of war to combat a pandemic to remove idiot's freedom of choice until it's under control.
Our people, including my parents, were under strict rules and rationing during World War II and everyone pitched in with the war effort with little or no complaint.
This is a life or death matter and yes, it is a war......
KY