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Cyrano

(15,027 posts)
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 04:58 PM Nov 2020

Donald Trump never had a friend

Stop for just a moment and think about going through life without ever having had a friend. Seriously. Stop reading for just a few seconds and think about it.

Trump has spent his whole life surrounded by sycophants, -- those from whom he wanted something, -- or those who wanted something from him.

And my guess is that all of his blood relatives fear him and/or despise his existence, but none of them consider him a friend.

I don't think I've ever known anyone who didn't have a friend. No matter who or what they were, no matter their circumstance in life, everyone I've ever known had at least one person they could call a friend.

Imagine going through life without at least one friend.

Yet, Donald Trump has done exactly that. He's gone through 70 plus years using and abusing every other human being with whom he's come into contact, and many millions of others that he never met.

It seems that should be worthy of pity. But Donald Trump long ago used up any pity that any fool may have had for him. His MAGAts aren't his friends. They're his worshipers. No Republican is his friend. They despise him and live in fear of his base. Those who surround him aren't his friends. They're in it for whatever they can steal for themselves.

A human being who never had at least one single friend is both a horror and extremely rare. But don't waste an ounce of pity on Trump. If any human being ever deserved to be friendless, alone and shunned in this world, it's him.

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Wounded Bear

(58,598 posts)
1. "A friend is just someone who hasn't figured out what they want from you yet..."
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:01 PM
Nov 2020

Quote from an NCIS-LA episode from the cynical cop friend of Deeks. Of course he followed it with, "What do you want?"

PufPuf23

(8,754 posts)
2. Only a matter of time until the MAGAts turn on tRump as well.
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:04 PM
Nov 2020

Trump has no future once out of office and removed from the WH. The revulsion towards him will limit his post POTUS movements even if never jailed. His family will turn on tRump even, he will be reviled in any setting.

He is going to get ever desperate and dangerous until gone.

intrepidity

(7,275 posts)
3. Or a PET!
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:04 PM
Nov 2020

At least most antisocial people without friends *usually* have great non-human friends.

But not Trump.

Funtatlaguy

(10,862 posts)
7. A puppy or a kitten can melt any human heart.
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:14 PM
Nov 2020

Which excludes Trump who has no heart and isn’t human.

spooky3

(34,403 posts)
4. I had a boss who also was a narcissist (though not as sociopathic as Trump) and he
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:05 PM
Nov 2020

once told me he had many acquaintances but no one that he considered a friend.

Gee, I wonder why...

keithbvadu2

(36,654 posts)
6. Any school chums ever had a good word for him?
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:09 PM
Nov 2020

Any school chums ever had a good word for him?

I don't remember hearing of any.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,584 posts)
9. I'd feel sorry for him if he weren't so destructive and malevolent.
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:15 PM
Nov 2020

But it's probably true that nobody really loves him, and he doesn't love anybody. Malaria seems to be attached to him for her own narcissistic reasons but I don't think she actually loves him. His kids seem to be suffering from advanced cases of Stockholm Syndrome but I can't imagine that they will grieve sincerely when he's gone. And it's abundantly obvious that any love his withered soul is capable of is reserved exclusively for himself. Friends? Only hangers-on and people with mutual interests.

Trump is an empty and pathetic person. He doesn't have friends, people who love him, pets who love him, the enjoyment of anything other than golf (and that only so he can show off his properties and cheat at the game) and television shows that feature him. He doesn't go to concerts or plays or art museums (he has a fake Renoir which he insists is real and which he appreciates only a status symbol); he doesn't enjoy nature; he doesn't read; he doesn't even enjoy excellent cuisine. Even his taste in interior decorating is strictly gold-leafed dictator chic, chosen only for the display of wealth and not for any aesthetic value. Everything he has and does is only for show and is therefore hollow and meaningless. He's living in a Hell of his own creation.

Cyrano

(15,027 posts)
12. Well said and perfectly accurate, Velveteen Ocelet
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:25 PM
Nov 2020

You've described an empty, soulless creature who possess nothing but self love. He has lived a meaningless life, contributed nothing, and is nothing more than a stain on the human species.



Cyrano

(15,027 posts)
16. Really?? Epstein enabled Trump's urges regarding pedophilia
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:41 PM
Nov 2020

That's not friendship. It's a shared depravity.

PatSeg

(47,260 posts)
11. Yep, nary a friend in the world
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:22 PM
Nov 2020

He likes to frequently refer to certain foreign leaders as, "He's a good friend of mine", but no one really likes him and he knows that. The man is so pathetically needy, but he makes friendship impossible. Eventually, he finds reasons to throw everyone under the bus.

Once he no longer has any power or money, he'll find out that he doesn't even have any fake friends anymore.

world wide wally

(21,738 posts)
15. IF Trump did have a friend, I wouldn't even want to know that person either.
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 05:41 PM
Nov 2020

Anyone who would tolerate such an obnoxious pig would have to have many of the same qualities and I couldn't take it.
Period.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
19. It's not as rare as you think.
Sat Nov 21, 2020, 06:28 PM
Nov 2020

As many as 1 in every 8 persons suffers from a Cluster B personality disorder. None of them have friends. They have people that they use. It’s purely transactional. It’s not friendship.

-Laelth

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