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Put Your F**kin' Mask On (Original Post) intrepidity Dec 2020 OP
Excellent! I didn't say much to a maskless person at Whole Foods last week Maraya1969 Dec 2020 #1
I hear you and have the same reaction(s). Fuck all of them. I am also very sorry for your loss. Evolve Dammit Dec 2020 #5
My daughter lives in London .. CatMor Dec 2020 #6
England and the US are too damned much alike. eom Maraya1969 Dec 2020 #11
Stubborn self-centeredness in both places. wnylib Dec 2020 #34
..."about their rights..."??? BobTheSubgenius Dec 2020 #43
I am so very sorry for your loss to this damned trumpvirus. niyad Dec 2020 #9
Sorry for your loss Marthe48 Dec 2020 #23
I am very sorry for your loss! Do these people not even THINK of all the people like you who LaMouffette Dec 2020 #40
A medical reason? I call fucking bullshit on that RVN VET71 Dec 2020 #53
Well said! k&r n/t Laelth Dec 2020 #2
K&R! ProfessorGAC Dec 2020 #3
Probably would have been more effective if she wore a mask. jimfields33 Dec 2020 #22
Yo, man-- she's thinking she's alone in a room? LanternWaste Dec 2020 #24
I know, but she is demanding masks. jimfields33 Dec 2020 #25
She's in her kitchen, man! MustBeTheBooz Dec 2020 #28
ALSO: Cover your damn nose! Squinch Dec 2020 #4
Tip from a surgeon: soldierant Dec 2020 #16
I want to buy her dinner, take out, put the bag on her porch, bow and step back 10 feet irisblue Dec 2020 #7
Ugh! I can't stand her. NurseJackie Dec 2020 #8
She didn't tell people to like her... ret5hd Dec 2020 #13
It's an ineffective way to get the message out. I find her offensive and annoying. NurseJackie Dec 2020 #19
LOL, while her approach may alienate us libs, intrepidity Dec 2020 #47
No, it'll just be... NurseJackie Dec 2020 #52
I can't stand Deuxcents Dec 2020 #20
Well then, memorize her rant and give it a shot... NurseJackie Dec 2020 #27
Geez... Deuxcents Dec 2020 #36
No, not really. That's a question that should be asked of the woman in the video. She certainly... NurseJackie Dec 2020 #39
Agree Deuxcents Dec 2020 #46
Doesn't matter.... paleotn Dec 2020 #26
Well said Rebl2 Dec 2020 #10
I love this! Spot on! eom LittleGirl Dec 2020 #12
she's talented NJCher Dec 2020 #35
Yes indeed, she is! I love this so much. eom LittleGirl Dec 2020 #49
Wow! That girl is absolutely fierce. patphil Dec 2020 #14
Out-fucking- 3catwoman3 Dec 2020 #15
The REAL virus is republicans !! HUAJIAO Dec 2020 #17
If they can't be a responsible member of a "civilized, BigmanPigman Dec 2020 #18
I was outraged at WaWa's not a dang person with masks on jimfields33 Dec 2020 #21
click it or ticket , mask it or casket. AllaN01Bear Dec 2020 #29
More than masks ZERTErYNOthe Dec 2020 #30
Related ... ZERTErYNOthe Dec 2020 #32
Our world mourns for MFM nt intrepidity Dec 2020 #48
She's great. Love it! mnhtnbb Dec 2020 #31
Love it! nt iluvtennis Dec 2020 #33
Good show! housecat Dec 2020 #37
Great rant! And she's right - they can't shop "shoeless or topless" Rhiannon12866 Dec 2020 #38
I agree! Sheba-3 Dec 2020 #41
Welcome to DU, Sheba-3 DesertRat Dec 2020 #45
A postscript to my grocery store experience Sheba-3 Dec 2020 #58
Good for you for calling them DesertRat Jan 2021 #59
I support them with my $$$. Buy merchandise to let them continue the good work. ffr Dec 2020 #42
If you don't shout out atrocious behavior and injustices you are COMPLICIT! Cozmo Dec 2020 #44
You, my dear, are awesome! ShazzieB Dec 2020 #51
No I'm not. I don't confront strangers because I don't want to be punched in the face or shot... NurseJackie Dec 2020 #55
Awesome. lamp_shade Dec 2020 #50
The most hilarious one I saw yesterday was a guy saying wearing a mask is socialism. kimbutgar Dec 2020 #54
Amen!! karin_sj Dec 2020 #56
Hear, hear! n/t SpankMe Dec 2020 #57

Maraya1969

(22,462 posts)
1. Excellent! I didn't say much to a maskless person at Whole Foods last week
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 06:02 PM
Dec 2020

except "Where is your mask" and then I stared at him and his wife to the point where he pulled her and went the other way BUT what I thought about saying after that is:

"I bet you don't wash your hands after you go to the bathroom either you dirty disgusting thing"

So I'm holding onto that one for the next time I am faced with an idiot.

And btw I spoke with the management at Whole Foods and they told me the guy said he had a medical reason for not wearing a mask and because they have not been mandated here they could not do anything.

BUT I saw on Costo's door the other day that if you have a medical reason for not wearing a mask the you can wear a shield!

I'll also tell that to Whole Foods management if it happens again.

We need to fight these assholes off. They are killing people.

My Aunt died Sunday night from Covid. Fuck all of them!

CatMor

(6,212 posts)
6. My daughter lives in London ..
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 06:23 PM
Dec 2020

she was on a train and the woman next to her had her mask pulled down to her chin. My daughter very politely told the woman she didnt feel comfortable being next to the woman with her mask down, could she please pull it up. The woman refused and six other people on the train started harassing and threatening my daughter about their rights. My daughter was frightened and got off the train to take the next one instead. I saw today that England had a tremendous amount of cases reported today. The idiots are everywhere in the world and they make it almost impossible to stop the pandemic.

wnylib

(21,346 posts)
34. Stubborn self-centeredness in both places.
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 07:57 PM
Dec 2020

A refusal to accept that sometimes community well being really does take precedence over individual assertions of freedoms. You are not free to kill anyone you wish. That is true whether killing one person with a gun or several people with a virus.

Marthe48

(16,905 posts)
23. Sorry for your loss
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 07:07 PM
Dec 2020

I just got news today that one of my kids tested positive. And she is careful, so careful

LaMouffette

(2,020 posts)
40. I am very sorry for your loss! Do these people not even THINK of all the people like you who
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 08:32 PM
Dec 2020

are grieving a loved one who died from Covid? And how absolutely devastating it would be for grieving family members to then see people still, STILL, refusing to wear a mask?


RVN VET71

(2,689 posts)
53. A medical reason? I call fucking bullshit on that
Wed Dec 30, 2020, 10:37 AM
Dec 2020

The store can refuse entry to someone with leprous wounds dripping pus, can they not? “I can’t bandage up. My doctor tells me it will make my lesions worse.”

Yeah, sure, we’re Whole Foods! Come right the fuck inside and, oh my, you just dropped a pus-filled finger on the floor . . . .shame there’s no mask or bandage mandate.

Seriously? Who the hell is that manager and is this a rule coming down from Bezos or has Bezos already fired the son of a bitch?

Simple: my store, my rules. I’m not discriminating against you because of your medical condition. I’m discriminating against the pandemic disease you may be carrying and potentially spewing it on others.

Fucking nonsense.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
24. Yo, man-- she's thinking she's alone in a room?
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 07:09 PM
Dec 2020

Hence, a mask would be irrelevant at best, mere sanctimony at worst.

Not really sure what you're thinking...

soldierant

(6,792 posts)
16. Tip from a surgeon:
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 06:47 PM
Dec 2020

If putting it over your nose fogs your glasses, a little paper tape (available wherever first aid products are sold) will hold the mask in place and keep the fog from forming. And it's (the paper tape) hypoallergenic.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
19. It's an ineffective way to get the message out. I find her offensive and annoying.
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 06:58 PM
Dec 2020
She told people to wear a f’n mask.
It's an ineffective way to get the message out. I find her offensive and annoying. It's just an "oh-no-she-di'ent" type of over-the-top "Real Housewives" performance that does nothing except to entertain the choir... that's all. In spite of her wide-eyed head-bobbing, arm waving and hand gesticulations, and the loud and sarcastic-bossy know-it-all attitude... she will convince exactly zero anti-maskers to wear a mask. It's a pathetic performance. Ugh.

All I'm saying is... if she's serious about trying to educate people and convince others to always wear a mask... there are better ways to accomplish that goal. This ain't it.

intrepidity

(7,275 posts)
47. LOL, while her approach may alienate us libs,
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 10:27 PM
Dec 2020

it is probably right-on for the target audience, which is the anti-mask maskholes.

So, while your concern is duly noted, if someone mimicks this to the next maskhole they meet in CVS, it just might be effective. Fire vs fire, and all that.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
52. No, it'll just be...
Wed Dec 30, 2020, 07:20 AM
Dec 2020
it just might be effective. Fire vs fire, and all that.
No, it'll just be two trashy "Real Housewife" Karens shouting at each other, insulting each other and eventually coming to blows while onlookers record the spectacle.

So, while your concern is duly noted,
It's not so much concern. I think annoyance at her is a better word. Ugh. No anti-masker is going to be convinced with this "technique". If anything it only makes them dig-in harder and become more obstinate than before.



Happy New Year. Stay safe!

Deuxcents

(16,088 posts)
20. I can't stand
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 07:00 PM
Dec 2020

People who think they don’t need to wear a mask. I’m starting to get more assertive about someone in my space. I haven’t seen my family since February. Yeah..I’m pissed. Put on a damned mask. This woman’s rant says everything I wanna say.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
27. Well then, memorize her rant and give it a shot...
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 07:12 PM
Dec 2020

Well then, memorize her rant and give it a shot. Confront the next anti-masker you encounter and let 'em have it... then report back here and let us know if it the message was well-received and persuasive.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
39. No, not really. That's a question that should be asked of the woman in the video. She certainly...
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 08:23 PM
Dec 2020
Having a bad day?
No, not really. That's a question that should be asked of the woman in the video. She certainly doesn't "say everything I wanna say" that's for sure. Honestly, I think she probably does more harm than good with that wild-eyed profanity-laced rant.

It reminds me of that fast-talking coked-up dilated-eyes insane rant that Trump-Junior did one time. Only, his was worse because it wasn't scripted. This woman is clearly reading from a prepared script, or she memorized her rant before recording it.

I do not disagree with the message that people should wear masks. I just think her delivery and her smart aleck "Real Housewives" attitude causes more harm than good. Is it a race-to-the-bottom? She makes pro-maskers look like lunatics. Ugh.

There are better ways to get the message out.

Deuxcents

(16,088 posts)
46. Agree
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 09:51 PM
Dec 2020

There are better ways to express frustration or just a moment of rage. Personally, I have never reacted like that but there are times I just wanna scream. Won’t help matters but..I’d probably feel better for a moment or two. Thanks for the conversation and I sincerely wish you well 🙋‍♀️

paleotn

(17,884 posts)
26. Doesn't matter....
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 07:11 PM
Dec 2020

People don't like me. I don't like them either, so that makes us even. The point is, where your goddamn mask! For all of us. Even the one's you don't like.

Rebl2

(13,471 posts)
10. Well said
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 06:34 PM
Dec 2020

Also they can go to the back of the line as far as I’m concerned to get the vaccine, but then they probably don’t want it anyway.

BigmanPigman

(51,567 posts)
18. If they can't be a responsible member of a "civilized,
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 06:50 PM
Dec 2020

functioning society" then they need to leave the society. They have the freedom to move to a place that has no rules and laws. I guess they prefer anarchy or a Leper Colony instead. Good, GO! Leave! Good riddance to bad rubbish. They are as un-American as you can get.

jimfields33

(15,703 posts)
21. I was outraged at WaWa's not a dang person with masks on
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 07:05 PM
Dec 2020

They have a huge sign on the front door that require masks. Ugh!

ZERTErYNOthe

(195 posts)
30. More than masks
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 07:44 PM
Dec 2020

This is a bigger issue than masks. What about Shoes? Shirts? And the less discussed issue of pants?

No shirts, no shoes, no service. A typical sign on businesses. It says nothing about pants.


I really want to see a movement of people going in to stores without Shirts, or without Pants, of course barefoot, screaming about "constitutional rights!". I'm pretty sure that the first time an anti-mask nutso has her kids look at my elderly junk or saggy hairy moobs (s)he will suddenly have a double standard.

Who are the first volunteers to give them the freedumb they ask for?

ZERTErYNOthe

(195 posts)
32. Related ...
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 07:48 PM
Dec 2020

Did you hear about the elderly guy who streaked the flower show?

He won first place for his dried arrangement.

mnhtnbb

(31,374 posts)
31. She's great. Love it!
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 07:45 PM
Dec 2020

Only I have news for her: there is no such thing as a speed limit any more, at least here in the Triangle area of North Carolina. I would not use driving the speed limit as an example of rule following. But I have also thought for some time that the lack of following the speed limit is symptomatic of an American attitude that has developed in the past 20 or so years that "the rules aren't meant for me because I'm special and they don't apply to me". The anti maskers have the same attitude. There no longer is a sense of community and concern for your fellow citizens.

Rhiannon12866

(204,779 posts)
38. Great rant! And she's right - they can't shop "shoeless or topless"
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 08:10 PM
Dec 2020

By refusing to wear a mask, they are spreading this deadly virus causing more people to die! It's not a matter of "opinion!" It's just that simple - and serious!

Sheba-3

(4 posts)
41. I agree!
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 08:33 PM
Dec 2020

I live in Marietta, Georgia. Went to a local grocery store this afternoon. The store “says” it requires customers to wear masks. Yet, when I pointed out a man and a woman not wearing one - the manager I spoke within ignored me! This is the same store that makes in-store announcements saying shoppers are “required” to wear masks, yet their managers look the other way when a few people ignore their so-called requirements!


DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
45. Welcome to DU, Sheba-3
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 09:28 PM
Dec 2020

I had a similar experience at a Walgreens that had signs and announcements requiring masks. I saw at least 4 people in the store without them.
When I mentioned it to the cashier she replied that "for our own safety", they aren't supposed to confront customers who aren't wearing them.

Sheba-3

(4 posts)
58. A postscript to my grocery store experience
Thu Dec 31, 2020, 11:29 AM
Dec 2020

Thank you for welcoming me, DesertRat. I'm excited to join this wonderful forum.

As an OBTW, I called the regional office of the grocery store chain (Kroger's) and briefly explained that particular experience. I then asked for a senior person to call me back and explain why the rights of anti-maskers take precedence over everyone else wearing masks. Needless to say, I've yet to hear back from anyone.

Nonetheless, here's to a healthy and happy new year! We all deserve it.

Cozmo

(1,402 posts)
44. If you don't shout out atrocious behavior and injustices you are COMPLICIT!
Tue Dec 29, 2020, 09:18 PM
Dec 2020

These anti-maskers know what they are doing and they're asking for you to embarrass them. Today while waiting at the post office to pick up an overdue parcel, I was chatting with a woman who had lost her husband to the virus just one month ago. In walks an anti-masker. Repeatedly and very loudly, I asked her to please put on her mask. Her bad action was very deliberate, she had no mask. I reached into my purse and offered her one from a new package. She was shamed and she couldn't get out of the post office fast enough. I dare say, I believe she will think twice before entering a public building again, sans mask.

This was not fun for me, I don't relish having to ask someone to be responsible to others. I realized that this could backfire on me but, I just could not let this go. In fact, a couple of people thanked me. I think they knew I was standing up for all of us.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
55. No I'm not. I don't confront strangers because I don't want to be punched in the face or shot...
Wed Dec 30, 2020, 02:04 PM
Dec 2020

No I'm not. I don't confront strangers because I don't want to be punched in the face or shot... I'm not complicit. They are going to do what they want, regardless.

These anti-maskers know what they are doing and they're asking for you to embarrass them.
No, they're looking for a fight. I'm not inclined to be anyone's punching bag or target.

I dare say, I believe she will think twice before entering a public building again, sans mask.
We can hope, but nobody knows for sure. I dare say that the story is rather unbelievable... but I guess it's fortunate that the anti-masker in this story wasn't equally (or more) aggressive as the one doing the public scolding. I wonder what would have happened if she had been? Or if her aggressive and violent boyfriend had come waltzing-in right after her. What then? Who among us are willing to get into a knock-down drag-out brawl with an anti-masker to make their point?

I'm not... so, supposedly that makes me (and others like me) "complicit," eh? Charming.

kimbutgar

(21,056 posts)
54. The most hilarious one I saw yesterday was a guy saying wearing a mask is socialism.
Wed Dec 30, 2020, 12:27 PM
Dec 2020

He was confronted by the police in a hospital waiting room. He said he served in the military for 20+ year and had ptsd. And fought for this country against socialism. .

karin_sj

(808 posts)
56. Amen!!
Wed Dec 30, 2020, 02:28 PM
Dec 2020

I wish we could put all of these covid deniers and mask-holes on their own island where they could do whatever they please and let them be the only ones who experience the repercussions of their actions. It's infuriating.

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