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Funtatlaguy

(10,862 posts)
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:27 PM Mar 2021

Why does Atlanta shooter go to massage parlors for sex?

He’s claiming he’s been fighting his sexual urges.
Why doesn’t he pick up and kill prostitutes?
His excuse doesn’t add up unless these massage parlors are, in actuality, houses of prostitution.
Patriots owner Bob Kraft argued that these are legitimate massage therapists that he frequented.

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Why does Atlanta shooter go to massage parlors for sex? (Original Post) Funtatlaguy Mar 2021 OP
Did Kraft argue that temporary311 Mar 2021 #1
And killed people at the locations . .... Iliyah Mar 2021 #2
I think we agree that many massage parlors, not just Asian Runningdawg Mar 2021 #3
I bought Playboy mostly for the articles... PCIntern Mar 2021 #41
Post removed Post removed Mar 2021 #4
Can we not make priosn rape jokes, please? obamanut2012 Mar 2021 #7
Probability the Atlanta shooter was an incel,... a failed incel,... magicarpet Mar 2021 #5
So he kept going to massage parlors and killed those who wouldn't give him sex? Funtatlaguy Mar 2021 #8
More likely he killed those who did. lagomorph777 Mar 2021 #23
Well,... rape is not done for sexual desire,... but an expression of power,... overpower the,... magicarpet Mar 2021 #37
what you said, onethatcares Mar 2021 #36
One of the other things that really pissis me off Ka-Dinh Oy Mar 2021 #6
Bingo. You made my point. Funtatlaguy Mar 2021 #9
I tried to make it through massage school and encountered a lot of people who thought Ka-Dinh Oy Mar 2021 #14
I have very bad arthritis. Massage gives me relief. Sex doesn't. Funtatlaguy Mar 2021 #16
Sex hurts Ka-Dinh Oy Mar 2021 #18
It can. Both physically and emotionally. Funtatlaguy Mar 2021 #24
Have you ever driven through the SE? randr Mar 2021 #10
Correct. Police sometimes crack down but mostly ignore these places. Funtatlaguy Mar 2021 #11
Police would rather that prostitution be organized and orderly, rather than chaotic and troublesome Klaralven Mar 2021 #20
I think it should be legalized and regulated and taxed. Funtatlaguy Mar 2021 #21
A big focus of the anti-trafficking movement is engaging police underpants Mar 2021 #29
Several reasons... WarGamer Mar 2021 #12
True. My OP was a little tongue in cheek. Funtatlaguy Mar 2021 #15
absolutely!!! WarGamer Mar 2021 #17
So even though there was a woman there with her husband at one of these places, and even though Treefrog Mar 2021 #31
Yeah, We Have RobinA Mar 2021 #43
Prostitution today is done online through sites like OnlyFans. Yavin4 Mar 2021 #13
"Street walking prostitution is rare." EX500rider Mar 2021 #28
Just because there are some streetwalkers in your town... Yavin4 Mar 2021 #38
I really don't give a shit. What should be alarming is that he murdered 8 people, 7 of them Asian triron Mar 2021 #19
You've never heard of "Happy Endings"? NT Happy Hoosier Mar 2021 #22
Sure. But some believe "going there" demeans the victims. Funtatlaguy Mar 2021 #25
Where is the evidence that they were sex trafficked at all !?! omfg uponit7771 Mar 2021 #32
The women in those types of establishments Happy Hoosier Mar 2021 #40
This message was self-deleted by its author ahoysrcsm Mar 2021 #42
I'd say they are in fact houses of prostitution.. EX500rider Mar 2021 #26
Should've shot his own penis Walleye Mar 2021 #27
Agree MacKasey Mar 2021 #30
Probably because it requires the least work Azathoth Mar 2021 #33
Because sane people don't believe text book terrorist unless they're white? WTF people ?! uponit7771 Mar 2021 #34
He shot 8 women. Prostitutes or not, shouldnt make a difference. Volaris Mar 2021 #35
I think the police said they had no history with the establishments applegrove Mar 2021 #39
Sex has absolutely nothing to do with these murders. Did you see the ages of the women killed? Treefrog Mar 2021 #44

Runningdawg

(4,514 posts)
3. I think we agree that many massage parlors, not just Asian
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:37 PM
Mar 2021

could be considered houses of prostitution. And really? Bob Kraft is your guide to legit info? That's right up there with believing men used to buy Playboy to read the articles.
His excuse doesn't hold up. How many sex workers and sexually oriented businesses did he pass before deciding to enter an Asian business? And the next 2? He's been brainwashed by religion to believe men would never sin if it weren't for women and who believes he is completely justified in his actions.

Response to Funtatlaguy (Original post)

magicarpet

(14,121 posts)
5. Probability the Atlanta shooter was an incel,... a failed incel,...
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:40 PM
Mar 2021

.... then realized it was not love he found in the massage parlor but just a cold financial transaction.

He likely resented the fact that he was not found totally irresistible and desirous, and he wallet was all that they loved.

magicarpet

(14,121 posts)
37. Well,... rape is not done for sexual desire,... but an expression of power,... overpower the,...
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 05:05 PM
Mar 2021

... sexual partner.

What this Atlanta guy did was the ultimate expression of his power over his sexual partners. But he was very angry,... about what we can only speculate,.. only he truly knows what goes on in the deepest recesses of his mind.

But we do know that during the expression of his power over what he seems to think was his sexual partner(s),... he let his newly purchased gun do his speaking for him.

Rather than rape,... he let his gun be the instrument to express his power over these women he killed.

onethatcares

(16,163 posts)
36. what you said,
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 04:11 PM
Mar 2021

"but just a cold financial transaction" I wondered where he came up with that.

I'm a believer that children learn what they live and the transactions of what they see aren't always in dollar bills but in other exchange media (sic ?)

Maybe, and I say this as just "maybe", if the U.S. of A wasn't so obsessed with sex and violence, or sexual violence there may have been a much different outcome or it would not have happened at all.

Along with treasonous bastages trying to take our democracy away we have to deal with people afraid of their own sexuality. So we ban certain books by Dr. Suess. We are nucking futz.....

Ka-Dinh Oy

(11,686 posts)
6. One of the other things that really pissis me off
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:41 PM
Mar 2021

Is this is another huge step back for massage practitioners and massage therapists. The official people who do this type of work for injury and sports massage are getting a bad rap. This is once again giving people the picture that massage is a sexual thing.

Funtatlaguy

(10,862 posts)
9. Bingo. You made my point.
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:43 PM
Mar 2021

There is a world of difference from a certified or licensed massage therapist and someone who gives “massages” in massage parlors.
Ask anyone whose been to both or ask any cop.

Ka-Dinh Oy

(11,686 posts)
14. I tried to make it through massage school and encountered a lot of people who thought
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:54 PM
Mar 2021

it was just sex. I would like to hear the people who work at the parlors rattle off anatomy and physiology. That is why I couldn't make it. That is some hard stuff to learn.

randr

(12,409 posts)
10. Have you ever driven through the SE?
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:44 PM
Mar 2021

Large bill boards advertising 800 sex call numbers and strip clubs are almost every 5 miles along interstate highways. AT least they were a few years back when I made the drive up the coast. It would have been hard for me to have my younger children with all the flesh on display. It is a wonder the whole population is not over sexed with it all. It must be a huge source of income for them to put up with it.

Funtatlaguy

(10,862 posts)
11. Correct. Police sometimes crack down but mostly ignore these places.
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:49 PM
Mar 2021

I’d bet many women there are part of forced sextraffic and very underpaid and poorly treated.
These events will shine a light on them that some cops (that frequent them for ether sex or monetary payoffs) won’t want to see happen.

 

Klaralven

(7,510 posts)
20. Police would rather that prostitution be organized and orderly, rather than chaotic and troublesome
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 03:02 PM
Mar 2021

underpants

(182,628 posts)
29. A big focus of the anti-trafficking movement is engaging police
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 03:31 PM
Mar 2021

Mostly out in the areas of the truck stops. They have a real - who cares they are just drug addict - mentality. Explaining to them these are captives and probably from communities just like theirs is the first step.

WarGamer

(12,362 posts)
12. Several reasons...
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:51 PM
Mar 2021

all related to his age, community and religious training.

Can't bang the local talent because it might get back to your parents or the other people in the community who will judge you.

Why pick up food from McDonalds instead of street vendors?

Might have perceived that massage parlors were "safer" and more anonymous?

Funtatlaguy

(10,862 posts)
15. True. My OP was a little tongue in cheek.
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:54 PM
Mar 2021

It has long been a dirty little secret that these places are not legit massage therapy.
They use women who often are brought into America Thru sex trafficking.
These are not women trained as legitimate massage therapists.
Men that go there expect to get sex, not massage.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
31. So even though there was a woman there with her husband at one of these places, and even though
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 03:50 PM
Mar 2021

we know nothing about the other women killed, you want to call them prostitutes?

RobinA

(9,886 posts)
43. Yeah, We Have
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 12:34 PM
Mar 2021

have a thriving business of these "massage" parlors in Philadelphia. Everybody knows what they are because they don't make a big point of seeming legit.

Yavin4

(35,421 posts)
13. Prostitution today is done online through sites like OnlyFans.
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 02:52 PM
Mar 2021

The more savvy sex workers require screening for their clients along with references.

Street walking prostitution is rare.

EX500rider

(10,810 posts)
28. "Street walking prostitution is rare."
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 03:29 PM
Mar 2021

Not really, as least near where I live in Fla there are quite a few in certain parts of town on the streets 24/7 near their drug houses. (I don't live in a great part of town, lol)

Yavin4

(35,421 posts)
38. Just because there are some streetwalkers in your town...
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 05:39 PM
Mar 2021

that does not represent the majority of prostitution. For every one streetwalker in your town, there are thousands operating online.

Additionally, the vast majority of porn is also now online. What people think of as the "porn industry" is slowly giving away to sites like OnlyFans.

triron

(21,984 posts)
19. I really don't give a shit. What should be alarming is that he murdered 8 people, 7 of them Asian
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 03:01 PM
Mar 2021

so senselessly.

Funtatlaguy

(10,862 posts)
25. Sure. But some believe "going there" demeans the victims.
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 03:18 PM
Mar 2021

Whether or not these women were in the sex traffic, they obviously didn’t deserve to die.
Did they deserve to be sex trafficked? No.
Where are the owners of these places?
And who hired the women there?

Happy Hoosier

(7,221 posts)
40. The women in those types of establishments
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 09:12 PM
Mar 2021

Are usually victims. But I have not heard that these particular places were confirmed to be prostitution fronts.

Response to Funtatlaguy (Reply #25)

EX500rider

(10,810 posts)
26. I'd say they are in fact houses of prostitution..
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 03:25 PM
Mar 2021

...the biggest tell was one of them had "Aromatherapy" on their sign, a way to get around the need to have licensed masseuse's
as "aromatherapy" has no licensing.

Azathoth

(4,607 posts)
33. Probably because it requires the least work
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 03:54 PM
Mar 2021

Picking up a prostitute is likely a lot of work, including having to find them, having the confidence to approach them and negotiate, having some place to go, knowing the person you're picking up isn't going to rob/kill you, etc.

Hiring one online probably involves similar considerations.

Walking into a brick-and-mortar store and purchasing a service performed right there on premises seems much easier and probably safer.

uponit7771

(90,304 posts)
34. Because sane people don't believe text book terrorist unless they're white? WTF people ?!
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 03:55 PM
Mar 2021

The terrorist giving a reason for some shit should've be taken at face value no matter what their skin color is right?

tia

Volaris

(10,266 posts)
35. He shot 8 women. Prostitutes or not, shouldnt make a difference.
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 04:03 PM
Mar 2021

IF sex workers, it should prompt the debate about how to legalize, regulate, and tax the job (if legit)

If not legit, it should prompt a debate about illegal sex and human trafficking.

If legal and legit, it should prompt a debate about firearms control.

In any case, murder was not part of the above equation, so fuck this lock him the hell up. C'mon, republican lurkers, ARGUE WITH ME.

I fuckin dare you.

applegrove

(118,501 posts)
39. I think the police said they had no history with the establishments
Thu Mar 18, 2021, 06:20 PM
Mar 2021

and were not about to speculate on the dead victims.

I say just as likely the killer assumed they were places where sex was paid for and killed these people who were actually running a legit spa. Just as likely that the killer was assuming too.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
44. Sex has absolutely nothing to do with these murders. Did you see the ages of the women killed?
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 01:17 PM
Mar 2021

Have you read their stories?

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