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sinkingfeeling

(51,436 posts)
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 09:53 AM Jul 2021

She was forbidden as a young woman from trying on her dream wedding gown because she's Black. Now,

https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2021/07/19/wedding-dress-black-bride-segregation/

Martha Tucker always dreamed of wearing a classic white gown on her wedding day. But when she got married in 1952, she was barred from entering a bridal shop because of her race.

As a Black woman in Birmingham, Ala., she was forbidden from trying on her dream dress: an embroidered white gown with lace overlay and long sleeves. At the time, “I wasn’t even thinking about buying a wedding dress because I knew I couldn’t go in the store,” Tucker, who is now 94, recalled.

Recently, though, Tucker’s wish to wear a wedding dress was finally granted, when her family brought her to a bridal shop for a long overdue gown fitting — nearly 70 years after her wedding day.



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Sweet story behind WP paywall.
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She was forbidden as a young woman from trying on her dream wedding gown because she's Black. Now, (Original Post) sinkingfeeling Jul 2021 OP
Cool story! nt Wounded Bear Jul 2021 #1
Great story! And I have a subscription, so I was able to link the photo. Here: CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2021 #2
94 years old? She looks amazing! PatSeg Jul 2021 #11
I agree 100% with you! polmaven Jul 2021 #16
Sadly I don't think this is a sweet story malaise Jul 2021 #3
i find it sad, also. mopinko Jul 2021 #4
Yeah..... panader0 Jul 2021 #5
Perhaps "bittersweet" is a better term. Ilsa Jul 2021 #6
I will say that it wouldn't be what I would want to do dsc Jul 2021 #7
I like her choice iemanja Jul 2021 #8
K&R LetMyPeopleVote Jul 2021 #9
I'm glad she finally got her wedding dress. MineralMan Jul 2021 #10
She looks fantastic for 94. Wingus Dingus Jul 2021 #12
She is beautiful. A Tucker I could actually hug (or elbow bump). But yes, another example of racist Evolve Dammit Jul 2021 #13
Heart-warming story. Thank you! KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2021 #14
stunning sheilahi Jul 2021 #15
You wear it well, dear lady. calimary Jul 2021 #17

Ilsa

(61,690 posts)
6. Perhaps "bittersweet" is a better term.
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 10:24 AM
Jul 2021

I suspect the poster used "sweet" because the very elderly woman was smiling as a dream finally came true for her. And from the reflections in the mirrors, her family was thrilled as well.

She's especially lovely in that first dress.

dsc

(52,152 posts)
7. I will say that it wouldn't be what I would want to do
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 10:25 AM
Jul 2021

but she did her as did her granddaughter. Given how much she enjoyed the experience I am glad they were able to make it happen.

MineralMan

(146,254 posts)
10. I'm glad she finally got her wedding dress.
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 11:17 AM
Jul 2021

However, it is a sad, sad story. That a young woman about to get married could not be fitted with a wedding dress for her important day is a disgusting example of the pain racism has caused for so many people.

Evolve Dammit

(16,694 posts)
13. She is beautiful. A Tucker I could actually hug (or elbow bump). But yes, another example of racist
Mon Jul 19, 2021, 11:32 AM
Jul 2021

BS. I just realized that in 1965, only a little over 2% of POC were voting. God, our history is really shameful.

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