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Garion_55

(1,915 posts)
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 12:45 PM Jul 2021

Had to say goodbye to my kitty this week 😢

She was 20 years old. Had a great life. She drove with me from Arizona to Virginia when she was two.

She was never a rub my belly kind of cat. When in bed she used to love to just sit on my chest and stare at me never lay down just sit lol.

A few days ago she stopped eating so i knew the end was near.

Missing her terribly.

Hug em if you got em.

Love you Juniors.

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Had to say goodbye to my kitty this week 😢 (Original Post) Garion_55 Jul 2021 OP
I'm so sorry you lost your sweet girl. I love how she used to sit on you and stare! Maraya1969 Jul 2021 #1
What a sweet face. I am sorry for your loss. Doodley Jul 2021 #2
I'm so very sorry!! GPV Jul 2021 #3
I'm so sorry XanaDUer2 Jul 2021 #4
So sorry! Ocelot II Jul 2021 #5
She is my 4th ive said goodbye to as well. Garion_55 Jul 2021 #10
No, it never does get easier. Ocelot II Jul 2021 #11
Condolences ProfessorGAC Jul 2021 #6
I'm sorry you lost your sweet little girl MustLoveBeagles Jul 2021 #7
I'm so sorry. It's always hard. MineralMan Jul 2021 #8
My condolences Chautauquas Jul 2021 #9
I'm so very sorry. StarryNite Jul 2021 #12
I am so sorry Garion. lucca18 Jul 2021 #13
I am sorry for you loss LetMyPeopleVote Jul 2021 #14
Sorry you lost your sweet girl. Wingus Dingus Jul 2021 #15
Too sad malaise Jul 2021 #16
Very sorry for your loss. 7wo7rees Jul 2021 #17
... Nevilledog Jul 2021 #18
That is so hard KT2000 Jul 2021 #19
Lady Bast, please take Your little one gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace niyad Jul 2021 #20
Hugs to Garion 55 Tikki Jul 2021 #21
This message was self-deleted by its author YoshidaYui Jul 2021 #22
Oh God I Lost my kitty three years ago and I still miss his little fuzzy face YoshidaYui Jul 2021 #23
I'm so very sorry. catbyte Jul 2021 #24
Wow - you had her for a good long time! calimary Jul 2021 #25
I'm on my 8th cat, lost 7 and one lived until almost 21. virgdem Jul 2021 #26
She was with you through SO many life events Tadpole Raisin Jul 2021 #27
I'm so sorry. cate94 Jul 2021 #28
I am sorry for your loss. Ka-Dinh Oy Jul 2021 #29
What a sweet little face. Greybnk48 Jul 2021 #30
So sorry for your loss. blueinredohio Jul 2021 #31
Sorry for your loss! shanti Jul 2021 #48
I know this heartache well... sending love to you and all those who'll miss Juniors. NurseJackie Jul 2021 #32
My condolences. nuxvomica Jul 2021 #33
BTDT Jilly_in_VA Jul 2021 #34
We lost ours on Saturday ... Auggie Jul 2021 #35
I'm so sorry for your loss, too. femmedem Jul 2021 #44
Thanks. And thanks to Garion_55 for sharing. Auggie Jul 2021 #52
Sorry to hear that. Garion_55 Jul 2021 #45
Thank you. And thanks for the thread. Auggie Jul 2021 #53
Very sorry for your loss Garion_55 Devil Child Jul 2021 #36
Garion & Auggie Dreampuff Jul 2021 #37
I feel your pain, Garion Bayard Jul 2021 #38
I'm so sorry Danmel Jul 2021 #39
Juniors 🕯️ irisblue Jul 2021 #40
I'm very sorry for your loss, Garion. brer cat Jul 2021 #41
Such a sweet little face ♥️ I'm so sorry for your loss 💔 Raine Jul 2021 #42
I'm so sorry for your loss. femmedem Jul 2021 #43
Comfort is hard but I wish you Peace Deuxcents Jul 2021 #46
Sorry bout angie. Garion_55 Jul 2021 #47
Sweet memories Deuxcents Jul 2021 #61
Big ol beautiful eyes! Looks very sweet. Grown2Hate Jul 2021 #49
what a lovely girl Chili Jul 2021 #50
I am so sorry for your loss of Junior Meowmee Jul 2021 #51
So sorry to hear this! 20 years is a great run though for a cat. Always cherish the memories. Celerity Jul 2021 #54
Keep fond memories, even if tears come with them. twodogsbarking Jul 2021 #55
I'm sorry for your loss. sinkingfeeling Jul 2021 #56
Ouch. So very sorry for your loss, Garion_55. Roisin Ni Fiachra Jul 2021 #57
So sorry for your loss Klondike Kat Jul 2021 #58
Awwww BradAllison Jul 2021 #59
What a lovely girl radical noodle Jul 2021 #60

Maraya1969

(22,479 posts)
1. I'm so sorry you lost your sweet girl. I love how she used to sit on you and stare!
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 12:49 PM
Jul 2021

Cats are so perfect.

Ocelot II

(115,681 posts)
5. So sorry!
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 12:58 PM
Jul 2021

"We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own, live within a fragile circle; easily and often breached. Unable to accept its awful gaps, we would still live no other way. We cherish memory as the only certain immortality, never fully understanding the necessary plan."

"Another cat? Perhaps. For love there is also a season; its seeds must be resown. But a family cat is not replaceable like a wornout coat or a set of tires. Each new kitten becomes its own cat, and none is repeated. I am four cats old, measuring out my life in friends that have succeeded but not replaced one another."

-Irving Townsend, who said it better than I could. My condolences.

Ocelot II

(115,681 posts)
11. No, it never does get easier.
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 01:03 PM
Jul 2021

I lost two of mine last summer, just a month apart. I still think I see them now and then, out of the corner of my eye. Maybe they're haunting me. I hope so.

ProfessorGAC

(65,010 posts)
6. Condolences
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 12:58 PM
Jul 2021

We've gone through that several times.
It's a bummer. We try to get new to fill the void ASAP.
Take care!

Chautauquas

(4,440 posts)
9. My condolences
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 12:59 PM
Jul 2021

It's never easy to lose a pet. They do such a good job of providing unconditional love and companionship.

lucca18

(1,241 posts)
13. I am so sorry Garion.
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 01:11 PM
Jul 2021

Thank you for posting a photo of Juniors.
What a cute face!
I know it hurts.
It’s good that you were able to spend twenty years together.
❤️😢

LetMyPeopleVote

(145,152 posts)
14. I am sorry for you loss
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 01:18 PM
Jul 2021

It is hard to say goodbye to a family member. We had to say goodbye to my youngest cat. Evidently cats over the age of 10 or so tent to have kidney issues. The poor kitty lost a great deal of weight and it was hard to say goodbye

KT2000

(20,577 posts)
19. That is so hard
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 01:55 PM
Jul 2021

I am sorry you lost your good friend - she will be in your heart forever though. Peace to you.

niyad

(113,278 posts)
20. Lady Bast, please take Your little one gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 01:57 PM
Jul 2021

and comfort to her grieving loved ones.

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Response to Garion_55 (Original post)

YoshidaYui

(41,831 posts)
23. Oh God I Lost my kitty three years ago and I still miss his little fuzzy face
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 02:06 PM
Jul 2021

So, juju is letting me follow her kitty moo! I love lMoo! She is a queen at Juju’s house!!

Sorry for your loss - ❤️ Hugs

calimary

(81,220 posts)
25. Wow - you had her for a good long time!
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 02:09 PM
Jul 2021

I’m sorry the goodbye finally had to come.

It’s NEVER easy.

Never.

And I guess it’s never supposed to be, either.


virgdem

(2,125 posts)
26. I'm on my 8th cat, lost 7 and one lived until almost 21.
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 02:10 PM
Jul 2021

The losses never get easier, but the memories are always there to cherish. So sorry for the loss of your sweet kitty.💔

Tadpole Raisin

(972 posts)
27. She was with you through SO many life events
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 02:10 PM
Jul 2021

and you loved each other well. You were there for her all her life and you were there for her in the end!

So sorry for your loss. She had a great mom!

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
31. So sorry for your loss.
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 02:48 PM
Jul 2021

I lost mine last summer, she was 16. The picture looks like my cat she still ate a little but was very tiny and stopped grooming herself. I knew something was really wrong when she let the dog close enough to sniff her and didn't swipe at her.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
48. Sorry for your loss!
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 11:31 PM
Jul 2021

Sounds like my kitty girl who is 18 now. She doesn't groom much anymore, so her coat is full of knots. She's also almost deaf and blind, but she's still eating. Partially incontinent. It's hard, because I've had many cats, but none who have died of old age.

nuxvomica

(12,422 posts)
33. My condolences.
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 02:50 PM
Jul 2021

Cats are such simple creatures yet full of mystery. What a challenge it is to make one your friend, and so rewarding for the effort. This is my favorite poem about cats:

To a Cat

Mirrors are not more wrapt in silences
nor the arriving dawn more secretive;
you, in the moonlight, are that panther figure
which we can only spy at from a distance.
By the mysterious functioning of some
divine decree, we seek you out in vain;
remoter than the Ganges or the sunset,
yours is the solitude, yours is the secret.
Your back allows the tentative caress
my hand extends. And you have condescended,
since that forever, now oblivion,
to take love from a flattering human hand.
You live in another time, lord of your realm -
a world as closed and separate as a dream.

-- Jorge Luis Borges

Jilly_in_VA

(9,966 posts)
34. BTDT
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 02:55 PM
Jul 2021

More than once. It never stops being hard. My Jack Morris, Mittney, Bittycat, and others will see her at Rainbow Bridge.

femmedem

(8,201 posts)
44. I'm so sorry for your loss, too.
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 07:34 PM
Jul 2021

I know that reeling well. The only thing that has ever helped was making space in my heart and home for another. I hope you are able to when you are ready.

Dreampuff

(778 posts)
37. Garion & Auggie
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 04:01 PM
Jul 2021

So sorry to both of you for your losses. It is so hard to lose those beautiful little furry ones.

Bayard

(22,062 posts)
38. I feel your pain, Garion
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 04:13 PM
Jul 2021

I hope you can remember your girl when she was young and vibrant more than the sad ending.

Danmel

(4,913 posts)
39. I'm so sorry
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 04:22 PM
Jul 2021

We lost our sweet baby Boo a little over a month ago. She was 15. Please accept my sincere sympathy.

brer cat

(24,560 posts)
41. I'm very sorry for your loss, Garion.
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 05:44 PM
Jul 2021

I hope you have tons of memories to bring a smile to your face.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
42. Such a sweet little face ♥️ I'm so sorry for your loss 💔
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 07:22 PM
Jul 2021

20 yrs is along time to have a fur baby making the loss so painful because of the empty place they leave in your life.

femmedem

(8,201 posts)
43. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 07:32 PM
Jul 2021

It's so painful, even when you know you've given them a long, wonderful life.

Deuxcents

(16,195 posts)
46. Comfort is hard but I wish you Peace
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 08:57 PM
Jul 2021

I lost my sweetheart, Angie, last July. I’ve always had kitties since I was a kid. How wonderful you had so much time with your sweetie.. she lived a good long life b/c of your love 🐾

Garion_55

(1,915 posts)
47. Sorry bout angie.
Sun Jul 25, 2021, 10:08 PM
Jul 2021

20 years is a long time and we did share some awesome adventures. How often does a cat drive cross country lol

Deuxcents

(16,195 posts)
61. Sweet memories
Mon Jul 26, 2021, 06:06 PM
Jul 2021

Angie n I went to Texas n back twice..n she was no traveling kitty. She got car sick w/in a few miles but she was a trooper. We finally got back home n settled in again and all good until she developed some respiratory problems. Broke my heart. Even today. Your sweet memories will carry you thru..believe it or not. I have since rescued another kitty, Ruby. She’s a completely different personality, thankfully, as there will never be another Angie. I cried. I screamed. I went thru it all and some will not understand. I’m reaching out to say that even after a year, I have at times called Ruby Angie..it’s ok.. whatever gets you thru the day, as they say. You seem to have so much to give..yeah..I heard that, too..but it’s true. Again, I wish you some peace..🙏

Grown2Hate

(2,010 posts)
49. Big ol beautiful eyes! Looks very sweet.
Mon Jul 26, 2021, 12:06 AM
Jul 2021

I'm so sorry for your loss. We had to put my 16 year old pit-mix boy down (geez! Two YEARS ago now?!). I (STILL) feel your pain.

When someone special spends THAT much of your life with you, it's never easy to say goodbye. Thoughts are with you, Garion!

Chili

(1,725 posts)
50. what a lovely girl
Mon Jul 26, 2021, 03:10 AM
Jul 2021

I have an overweight cat who does that... she gets on my chest, licks my face, and just sits there. So I know what you're missing. I'm so so sorry. She's still there with you, and always will be.

Hugging you tightly.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
51. I am so sorry for your loss of Junior
Mon Jul 26, 2021, 05:18 AM
Jul 2021

What a beautiful girl she was. torbies/ torties are the best💕
20 years, a lifetime, she will be a part of you forever. I hope the pain of the loss and of missing her is eased by all of those cherished memories.

Run free sweet girl 💕🐾🐈🌈

Roisin Ni Fiachra

(2,574 posts)
57. Ouch. So very sorry for your loss, Garion_55.
Mon Jul 26, 2021, 08:11 AM
Jul 2021

I love our kitty, and would be crushed if something happened to her.

radical noodle

(8,000 posts)
60. What a lovely girl
Mon Jul 26, 2021, 10:49 AM
Jul 2021

They steal our hearts and leave us way too soon. I'm so sorry that she's gone but glad that you both had one another for so many years. Hugs!

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