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Maru Kitteh

(28,313 posts)
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 05:06 PM Aug 2021

Afghanistan fell because the MEN of Afghanistan prefer the Taliban.

Last edited Sun Aug 15, 2021, 10:22 PM - Edit history (1)

Afghanistan never could have fallen with the speed and efficiency that it did without overwhelmingly strong local support. The men of Afghanistan were "standing back and standing by," ready to join the religio-fascist Taliban at the very first moment of opportunity.

The men of Afghanistan chose to resign their daughters to a life of sexual slavery and abject oppression.




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Afghanistan fell because the MEN of Afghanistan prefer the Taliban. (Original Post) Maru Kitteh Aug 2021 OP
That's the impression I got. Maybe the women have to arm themselves? Walleye Aug 2021 #1
Arm themselves? jimfields33 Aug 2021 #10
You're right it's just frustrating to see these poor women have to go back to the ninth century Walleye Aug 2021 #12
Pray tell, from your morally superior position, what should these women do? PTWB Aug 2021 #20
+1 Dan Aug 2021 #21
Thank you. whathehell Aug 2021 #28
Get the heck out of there. They've had notice already and many have left jimfields33 Aug 2021 #41
You never really support any of your arguments with data or evidence, huh? LanternWaste Aug 2021 #43
How are women with children, with no resources mcar Aug 2021 #48
+43million kajillion. n/t Alpeduez21 Aug 2021 #54
Or get guns for that matter. Maru Kitteh Aug 2021 #62
You seem to be missing the point.. whathehell Aug 2021 #50
Are you suggesting women just allow themselves to be enslaved? whathehell Aug 2021 #35
I wonder if the women had been armed & well trained, would things be different? Deuce Aug 2021 #14
Yeah, that's what I was trying to say. Walleye Aug 2021 #30
The Kurdish women go into combat. Ligyron Aug 2021 #31
Yes, that is who I had been thinking of and they are tough fighters! Deuce Aug 2021 #38
Maybe that should have been the strategy from the beginning... Volaris Aug 2021 #61
Yes, and a generation of men raised by soldier moms Maru Kitteh Aug 2021 #69
Spot on!! PortTack Aug 2021 #2
Just like so many white men here and their support for the authoritarian GQP and trump NightWatcher Aug 2021 #3
Precisely. "Stand back and stand by" Maru Kitteh Aug 2021 #4
✔️✔️ blm Aug 2021 #5
Yes, but we have people pushing back against it here. JI7 Aug 2021 #6
"White men here"? SergeStorms Aug 2021 #27
"here" as in the USA. The men are trump boys and all those little clubs like the 3%'ers... NightWatcher Aug 2021 #47
Thanks for the clarification. SergeStorms Aug 2021 #64
Not exactly.. whathehell Aug 2021 #39
That was my thought. Srkdqltr Aug 2021 #7
Or maybe they never believed in 21st century government at all? Maybe because they're a bunch of Hekate Aug 2021 #8
Many Afghan soldiers hadn't gotten paid for months crimycarny Aug 2021 #24
Agreed, heck we still struggle after all this time tulipsandroses Aug 2021 #34
I would suspect that regular nationalism and tribalism has SOMEthing to do with it Hugh_Lebowski Aug 2021 #9
If the women of Afghanistan want their freedom, they may have to fight for it with the weapons they Chainfire Aug 2021 #11
"We have our own growing far right religious groups to deal with" Maru Kitteh Aug 2021 #15
for sure bdamomma Aug 2021 #29
Good food for thought. Thanks! nt Tommymac Aug 2021 #16
.What "weapons" would those be? whathehell Aug 2021 #42
Trump Cult + Taliban Praek3 Aug 2021 #13
+1000 smirkymonkey Aug 2021 #17
Yes I noticed the similarity. Armed undisciplined men in pick up trucks Walleye Aug 2021 #33
+100000 bdamomma Aug 2021 #53
And there are Christofascist men in our own country Mr.Bill Aug 2021 #18
In a heartbeat. nt Maru Kitteh Aug 2021 #65
The u.s. should have spent it's time there evacuating the women Fullduplexxx Aug 2021 #19
So true Traildogbob Aug 2021 #25
If they could 'tolerate' women like that they wouldn't be 'incels'... Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #58
I think so too bdamomma Aug 2021 #22
yep, pretty much. nt yaesu Aug 2021 #23
As I look at this, I wonder if we should have trained the women. Dan Aug 2021 #26
Taliban have been actively operating in villages all this time... MrModerate Aug 2021 #32
I suddenly got the image of the proud boys beating up on a female journalist Walleye Aug 2021 #37
Is that an "image" you got or a memory? whathehell Aug 2021 #45
It was on the video about the LA demonstration that got out of hand Walleye Aug 2021 #51
I'm sure that Proud Boys and like-minded people... MrModerate Aug 2021 #55
Truer words were never posted. joetheman Aug 2021 #36
By all means. Maru Kitteh Aug 2021 #68
Lots of Evangelicals here long to be like the Taliban and some are. nt joetheman Aug 2021 #40
It's why I call them Talibangelists...nt Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #59
Well the Taliban will let their SON live, take a bride of his choosing and have his goat herd Shanti Shanti Shanti Aug 2021 #44
Exactly what Malcom Nance just said on MSNBC. And we never took the time or interest. Evolve Dammit Aug 2021 #46
I'm not so sure Layzeebeaver Aug 2021 #49
True. Unevolved pieces of shit bhikkhu Aug 2021 #52
Unfortunate, sad, but true... Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #56
Generation? Been like that for thousands of years and will be for 1000s more. Jon King Aug 2021 #57
The Taliban, whatever we think of them, are the only ones organized enough to run the country Warpy Aug 2021 #60
Al Jazeera reporting moondust Aug 2021 #63
HA HA. Maru Kitteh Aug 2021 #66
This is true. It is also true that Iraqi's didn't want to be taken over by funamentalists. Renew Deal Aug 2021 #67

Walleye

(30,977 posts)
12. You're right it's just frustrating to see these poor women have to go back to the ninth century
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 05:49 PM
Aug 2021

They were like 4 million people in Kabul. How long are they going to put up with this after having a cosmopolitan city for 20 years

jimfields33

(15,688 posts)
41. Get the heck out of there. They've had notice already and many have left
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:58 PM
Aug 2021

Gun lovers always use excuses. The question you asked could be used in a million scenario excuses and actually have been.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
43. You never really support any of your arguments with data or evidence, huh?
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 07:03 PM
Aug 2021

You should. It assists in actual dialog.

Maru Kitteh

(28,313 posts)
62. Or get guns for that matter.
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 08:38 PM
Aug 2021

When you face being severely beaten, raped or killed for simply walking outside the house without a man, it's kind of hard to go get yourself a gun or plat a trek across the country with your children.




whathehell

(29,034 posts)
35. Are you suggesting women just allow themselves to be enslaved?
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:51 PM
Aug 2021

or do your think men would hesitate to use guns to protect themselves from slavery?

Deuce

(959 posts)
14. I wonder if the women had been armed & well trained, would things be different?
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:07 PM
Aug 2021

After all, they would have more to fight for on a personal level…
Seems like so many of the male soldiers were not willing to make the ultimate sacrifice.

Ligyron

(7,616 posts)
31. The Kurdish women go into combat.
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:48 PM
Aug 2021

As do a few of ours.

Proficiency with a weapon is a great equalizer.

Volaris

(10,266 posts)
61. Maybe that should have been the strategy from the beginning...
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 08:01 PM
Aug 2021

The kurds would have helped us with it, those women know..

SergeStorms

(19,184 posts)
64. Thanks for the clarification.
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 08:44 PM
Aug 2021

Not trying to cause trouble, but sometimes somebody gets up on the wrong side of the bed and let's fly with an over-broad generalization.

I should have known that wasn't your intent.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
39. Not exactly..
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:54 PM
Aug 2021

Even in conservative circles, women have FAR more freedom here than in Afghanistan, please

Hekate

(90,552 posts)
8. Or maybe they never believed in 21st century government at all? Maybe because they're a bunch of
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 05:26 PM
Aug 2021

…of tribes, each with their own leader.

Maybe because no matter what kind of structure the US put in place, it was riddled top to bottom with what we call corruption and what I think they think of as something that has no meaning for them, so every man for himself so long as he takes care of his own family and tribe.

Europe and America have a democratic tradition that is firmly established, and the roots of that tradition go back as far as the Magna Carta.

The tribes of Afghanistan do not have that, and trying to impose it on them failed from Day One.

crimycarny

(1,351 posts)
24. Many Afghan soldiers hadn't gotten paid for months
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:32 PM
Aug 2021

Due to corrupt leadership taking the money meant for the soldiers. Your points are spot on. We tried to force a Westernized view on a completely different type of mindset. It made as much sense to the Afghans as it would be for Afghanistan to try and enforce their tribal type of government on our democratic form of government. To expect that deeply entrenched philosophy/culture to change in 20 years—if ever—was a fool’s errand from the get go.

tulipsandroses

(5,122 posts)
34. Agreed, heck we still struggle after all this time
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:51 PM
Aug 2021

with our own versions of tribalism and we’ve had a heck of a lot more time than 20 yrs. This outcome was always inevitable.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
9. I would suspect that regular nationalism and tribalism has SOMEthing to do with it
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 05:35 PM
Aug 2021

One of those 'we may not LIKE the Taliban, but at least they're OUR Taliban i.e. not controlled by foreigners' type of deals ... the latter of which one might logically assume was the prevailing opinion of many there WRT to the government that the USA and allies had basically installed there.

Could also just be straight cowardice in many cases ... they weren't SURE their 'side' could 'win' in a prolonged war for control, but they WERE sure that if they did lose? The Taliban would torture and kill them, and their families.

I think there's a few explanations here is all I'm saying

Chainfire

(17,467 posts)
11. If the women of Afghanistan want their freedom, they may have to fight for it with the weapons they
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 05:42 PM
Aug 2021

have. Apparently we couldn't win social equality for them. The Taliban is a religious cult not unlike some we have in this country. We have our own growing far right religious groups to deal with before they gain too much power. Already they have taken rights from women and we just sit back and watch, glad that it hasn't happened in our state...yet. As old Barney used to say, "We need to nip it, nip it in the bud."

If the people of Afghanistan wants to live in the dark ages who are we to stop them. Perhaps one day they will get sick and tired of being sick and tired, poor and hungry and they will remember the brief taste of a higher level of civilization that they once saw. Or not.

It is not wrong that we are getting out, it was wrong that we got in and stayed in as long as we did. Biden is taking us in the right direction.

The Next time the Saudi's attack us, we should go after them instead of some poor proxy. Modern warfare could make a lasting impression on Saudi society.

Maru Kitteh

(28,313 posts)
15. "We have our own growing far right religious groups to deal with"
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:09 PM
Aug 2021

Indeed we do.

I agree with the entirety of your post. There is no wrong way to stop doing what we never should have started doing in the first place.





bdamomma

(63,797 posts)
29. for sure
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:40 PM
Aug 2021

those insurrectionists and those on the inside need to be held responsible. They are our far right terrorists.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
42. .What "weapons" would those be?
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 07:02 PM
Aug 2021

and please, however much we may want to see a "Taliban" in our country's conservatives, they, like Afghanistan, are so far from anything in the West as to make the comparison laughable.

Praek3

(149 posts)
13. Trump Cult + Taliban
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 05:59 PM
Aug 2021

Look at the photos and video of the Taliban taking over the palace/government offices in Afghanistan. Look familiar? Looks like Trump's racist, hateful supporters at the capitol. They are similar because the terrorists in both instances are mostly male chauvinists with low functioning intellect and emotional capabilities. They take pleasure in violence and hatred. Hurting women and children mean nothing to them. They have no use for anyone or anything that doesn't support their demented dreams of domination.

The losers at the capitol smeared human manure on the floors. They looted. They destroyed historical symbols of our country. The Taliban will take over and fail completely. They will be unable to create a functioning government. Afghanistan will remain a backward third world cesspool. It is the same destination for Trump's cult. Where certain kinds of men will hold all the power, employing violent oppression as the means to stay in control.

Both groups are dogs who chased and caught the car and now have no idea what to do.

But they will NEVER quell the hearts and minds of the good people. Woe is them when the masses strike back and blow the bastards into oblivion with overwhelming numbers employing all the guerrilla techniques they can muster.

It will suck to be Trump cultists and Taliban terrorists.

bdamomma

(63,797 posts)
53. +100000
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 07:37 PM
Aug 2021

the similarities are striking.

You cannot help the country if they don't want to help themselves. Even the Afghani President left.

Traildogbob

(8,674 posts)
25. So true
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:32 PM
Aug 2021

And the white wing “incels” may have found a good woman. A powerful, tough as hell, woman not willing to take any shit, and kick their asses into civility.

bdamomma

(63,797 posts)
22. I think so too
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:28 PM
Aug 2021

This was not on Biden. This was under a Republican President so those who oppose the pull out can screw off. The Russians were there for 20 yrs + and they were fighting a lost cause and they left.

Dan

(3,537 posts)
26. As I look at this, I wonder if we should have trained the women.
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:33 PM
Aug 2021

Maybe the males (via culture, everything else) there are a loss cause. But, it also implies that nothing we could have done (aside from investing in the women) would have made a difference.

 

MrModerate

(9,753 posts)
32. Taliban have been actively operating in villages all this time...
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 06:49 PM
Aug 2021

Expanding their influence and rubbing out those who disagree with them. And recruiting lots of mobile infantry.

The Taliban hearts & minds program is carried out at the muzzle of a gun and it's remarkably effective.

Walleye

(30,977 posts)
51. It was on the video about the LA demonstration that got out of hand
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 07:17 PM
Aug 2021

You see him come up while she’s filming and shove the camera into her face. I worked for years as a newspaper photographer, and believe me this stuff happens. The hatred against journalists was whipped up. So of course they will beat up on the woman if there is one around

 

MrModerate

(9,753 posts)
55. I'm sure that Proud Boys and like-minded people...
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 07:49 PM
Aug 2021

Are looking at what's going on in Afghanistan for tactical tips on their own dreamed-of Civil War.

 

Shanti Shanti Shanti

(12,047 posts)
44. Well the Taliban will let their SON live, take a bride of his choosing and have his goat herd
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 07:04 PM
Aug 2021

They'll TAKE that, all day long.

We just never understood the culture.

bhikkhu

(10,711 posts)
52. True. Unevolved pieces of shit
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 07:26 PM
Aug 2021

But the same could be said for most of our ancestors. We're better people now, but Afghanistan at least suggests that we didn't get that way through wars. If all it took was war to improve and evolve a population, they should be on the cutting edge. Quite the opposite, it seems.

And there also doesn't seem to be a way to cheat the game. I hate to think of all the suffering involved along the way, but perhaps they will eventually get there, if that is allowed. I still remember the early 90's when Afghanistan's internet site identified it as "the friendly country", a place where strangers were welcomed with smiles and great hospitality. That was 30 years of war and a generation and a half ago.

Wounded Bear

(58,598 posts)
56. Unfortunate, sad, but true...
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 07:51 PM
Aug 2021

the culture is decidedly masculine and toxic.

It will take more than one generation to fix that.

Jon King

(1,910 posts)
57. Generation? Been like that for thousands of years and will be for 1000s more.
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 07:54 PM
Aug 2021

Absolutely nothing will ever change there. This was the one chance and slim as it was, the only chance for the women.

Warpy

(111,138 posts)
60. The Taliban, whatever we think of them, are the only ones organized enough to run the country
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 08:00 PM
Aug 2021

Otherwise, it goes back to feuding warlords, and no one wants that.

The 20 year old firebrands that were the Taliban 20 years ago are now 40. We can only hope they've learned a few positive lessons along the way They're still full of toxic Wahabbi Islam from Saudi Arabia. Maybe it has been tempered by some common sense.

Don't think of this in "handmaid's Tale" terms, the bulk of the country wasn't any better than that at the best of times. Only the cities had liberalized, at all.

moondust

(19,958 posts)
63. Al Jazeera reporting
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 08:42 PM
Aug 2021

that the Taliban have said women/girls can continue to work and attend school as long as they wear the hijab.

Maru Kitteh

(28,313 posts)
66. HA HA.
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 10:02 PM
Aug 2021

Lindsey Graham has a better track record for honesty. Hell. DONALD TRUMP . . . . well that one's kind of close actually.

Renew Deal

(81,844 posts)
67. This is true. It is also true that Iraqi's didn't want to be taken over by funamentalists.
Sun Aug 15, 2021, 10:10 PM
Aug 2021

They chose to fight back.

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