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Yes, Facebook is every bit as bad as you thought. (Original Post) 2Gingersnaps Aug 2021 OP
Only worse. ...nt 2naSalit Aug 2021 #1
Far worse behind the scenes. dalton99a Aug 2021 #2
Never became part of that circus, and never will. JohnSJ Aug 2021 #3
Same here. Everything I hear about it freaks me out. lagomorph777 Aug 2021 #7
And DU Facebook users know it luv2fly Aug 2021 #4
Cuz it's so convenient. How else can grandparents get to know their grandkids? Dream Girl Aug 2021 #6
And so what if it helps condemn those grandkids to life under fascism? lagomorph777 Aug 2021 #8
OUCH..the truth hurts! PortTack Aug 2021 #31
This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Aug 2021 #35
Its absolutely right to blame users. No users- no fb. we can do it Aug 2021 #44
Don't know what that said above you luv2fly Aug 2021 #58
Lol, ok! Nt USALiberal Aug 2021 #45
You're certainly free to stay off it. Elessar Zappa Aug 2021 #10
Maybe it's just me but that's not the hill I would choose to die one. Dream Girl Aug 2021 #12
Precisely Sherman A1 Aug 2021 #23
Same here PatSeg Aug 2021 #55
Yes, unfortunately. It's polluting millions of minds even though I stay off of it. lagomorph777 Aug 2021 #32
Rock and Roll has GOT TO GO! NurseJackie Aug 2021 #60
As far as I know, Rock 'n' Roll was never used to deliver Russian propaganda... lagomorph777 Aug 2021 #61
The overwrought hand-wringing about Facebook is just as ridiculous as that dee-jay. NurseJackie Aug 2021 #62
Facebook could be shut down if some would get rid of the 1st Admendment. Kaleva Aug 2021 #66
I enjoy it very much. With my browser's ad-blocker... NurseJackie Aug 2021 #17
You confuse turning a blind eye, with eyes rolling at you. tritsofme Aug 2021 #33
Don't really care luv2fly Aug 2021 #57
Not sure what you mean by that? tritsofme Aug 2021 #63
Odd Sherman A1 Aug 2021 #5
Nor do I. MineralMan Aug 2021 #13
Lots of ways to lock your account down and edit your feed content. NCDem47 Aug 2021 #18
Yes. So is Google and everyone else on the Internet. MineralMan Aug 2021 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Aug 2021 #36
Agreed 1000%, MineralMan smatteson Aug 2021 #30
I don't either. I zap any troll at first comment to keep it the place clean. catrose Aug 2021 #14
Instead of making excuses people should choose to do what's right vs. being willfully blind. Dream Girl Aug 2021 #20
"people should choose" is correct. And we do. MineralMan Aug 2021 #56
Thank you. catrose Aug 2021 #64
I don't either. Animal rescue videos mostly and frogmarch Aug 2021 #16
I never see propaganda. Elessar Zappa Aug 2021 #9
It's about doing what's right.We all know what FB enables. Dream Girl Aug 2021 #15
So does the internet. Go ahead and stop using the internet... NurseJackie Aug 2021 #22
Agreed Sherman A1 Aug 2021 #24
If it bothers you don't use it Sherman A1 Aug 2021 #25
Nice try! Nt USALiberal Aug 2021 #46
Ten bucks says you fail to see the irony in your having said that. LanternWaste Aug 2021 #67
That's not the point. Dream Girl Aug 2021 #21
Then exactly what is the point? Sherman A1 Aug 2021 #26
Doing the right thing. Not supporting an entity that is actively been used to spread disinformation Dream Girl Aug 2021 #27
☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️ PortTack Aug 2021 #34
So does Cable (Noise) News and even though I use Facebook I somehow Sherman A1 Aug 2021 #39
Please tell that to Barack Obama, AOC, Liz Warren, Bernie Sanders, Joe Biden etc.... LeftInTX Aug 2021 #40
Good thought. I will do just that! Dream Girl Aug 2021 #41
Willful ignorance. I think you know. Dream Girl Aug 2021 #28
Please elaborate as to how my use of Facebook harms you in any way? Sherman A1 Aug 2021 #37
When the scolding starts, the subtext is "I'm better than you because I don't use Facebook"... NurseJackie Aug 2021 #49
Agreed and have been in the mix of these threads before as well. Sherman A1 Aug 2021 #52
Exactly right.... smatteson Aug 2021 #54
Link please canetoad Aug 2021 #70
Post removed Post removed Sep 2021 #73
But still we have defenders here. we can do it Aug 2021 #11
... NurseJackie Aug 2021 #19
We have our very own DU "anti-Vaxers" Dream Girl Aug 2021 #38
Ridiculous. NurseJackie Aug 2021 #43
It's up to individuals to curate their social media experiences Sympthsical Aug 2021 #42
It's like listening to a Peta rant. NurseJackie Aug 2021 #47
+! Kaleva Aug 2021 #65
If anything, Facebook isn't bringing us together. Initech Aug 2021 #48
That article ... holy shit. Qutzupalotl Aug 2021 #50
Well, then I guess it's not bad at all. Captain Stern Aug 2021 #51
Bullshit. Absolutely false. Don't blame Facebook for your shortcomings. Saboburns Aug 2021 #53
Sweets are very bad for some. You should never eat it! CrackityJones75 Aug 2021 #59
Sweets don't support insurrectionists luv2fly Aug 2021 #69
Oh that mr. goodbar is a real shady character. CrackityJones75 Aug 2021 #72
Younger generations seem more interested in Instagram, Twitch and Discord channels. ismnotwasm Aug 2021 #68
Vile leighbythesea2 Aug 2021 #71
Garbage In, Garbage Out Jim G. Sep 2021 #74

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
7. Same here. Everything I hear about it freaks me out.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:06 AM
Aug 2021

Invasions of privacy, uploading my life into the hands of a greedy right-wing billionaire, and making myself a target for right-wing and foreign attacks? Um, no thanks.

 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
6. Cuz it's so convenient. How else can grandparents get to know their grandkids?
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:04 AM
Aug 2021

Destruction of democracy and ranmpant disinformation fueling hate and a pandemic vs. pics of the grans? For a lot DUers it’s apparently an easy choice.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
8. And so what if it helps condemn those grandkids to life under fascism?
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:08 AM
Aug 2021

At least they got to see selfies of people with their food!

Response to Dream Girl (Reply #6)

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
23. Precisely
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:37 AM
Aug 2021

As mentioned I have no trouble with it. I hide each and every Meme (blocking the sources where I can) I see and am selective with the friends (the requests from the young ladies with impossible cleavages are just ignored).

It provides me with a wealth of information for my hobbies and I find it very useful.

PatSeg

(47,370 posts)
55. Same here
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 12:21 PM
Aug 2021

It is a place to interact with my friends and family. I don't go there for my news and I keep my friends to a minimum. I have a Facebook page for my colorized vintage photos that get far more exposure there than they do on Flickr. Any political interactions are kept to private groups.

Over the years, I have unfriended a few people due to posts I perceived as racist or anyone who openly supported Donald Trump. At my age, I really do not suffer fools gladly and usually find it easy to just release them. Meanwhile, I am very selective about any friend requests I accept, even if they are very old friends or relatives.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
32. Yes, unfortunately. It's polluting millions of minds even though I stay off of it.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:55 AM
Aug 2021

But hey, it's all about the self now.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
61. As far as I know, Rock 'n' Roll was never used to deliver Russian propaganda...
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 03:06 PM
Aug 2021

...though it did get a little edgy sometimes.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
62. The overwrought hand-wringing about Facebook is just as ridiculous as that dee-jay.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 03:18 PM
Aug 2021

Should I get rid of my Roku because they carry "BlazeTV"? Should I throw away my radio because it picks up conservative talk-shows? Should I stop going to my local grocery store because they sell Goya rice, beans, spices? I suppose I should cancel my subscription to the Washington Post because they print George Will? --- This over-the-top Facebook hate is absurd. Y'all are just too much.

Kaleva

(36,294 posts)
66. Facebook could be shut down if some would get rid of the 1st Admendment.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 05:55 PM
Aug 2021

Or maybe censorship boards could be set up that would control what Facebook, Twitter, DU, Daily Kos and others post.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
17. I enjoy it very much. With my browser's ad-blocker...
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:33 AM
Aug 2021

... it's damn near 100% ad-free. Y'all go ahead and gnash teeth, wring-hands and pull out hair... I'll share and enjoy photos, keep in touch, send birthday greetings, send condolences, and video chat with my kids and grandkids.

It's great!

tritsofme

(17,373 posts)
63. Not sure what you mean by that?
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 05:26 PM
Aug 2021

Sorry you are scared of Facebook. It’s good to know your own limits.

MineralMan

(146,284 posts)
13. Nor do I.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:31 AM
Aug 2021

The folks complaining the loudest about FB are those who have never really used it.

You could say the same about your TV set, or even the entirety of the Internet.

Shut them all off and go live off the land in some remote place. You'll never have to think about anything again. That's my advice to such folks.

NCDem47

(2,248 posts)
18. Lots of ways to lock your account down and edit your feed content.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:33 AM
Aug 2021

But yeah, at the end of the day, Facebook is mining and selling your info. to the highest bidder.

MineralMan

(146,284 posts)
29. Yes. So is Google and everyone else on the Internet.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:47 AM
Aug 2021

My FB page is friends-only. My spam filter gets updated daily. A guy has to take care of himself, it seems to me.

I don't see any propaganda on FB. NONE! I see some ads, of course, but I see those everywhere.

Facebook is what you make it. If you don't care, you get a lot of crap in your feed. If you care, you avoid that quite easily.

However, non-FB users don't know any of that. They don't use Facebook; they just complain about it.

Response to MineralMan (Reply #29)

 

smatteson

(3 posts)
30. Agreed 1000%, MineralMan
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:48 AM
Aug 2021

I don't have any issues with this on my FB feed either. And these repetitive posts griping about FB invariably seem to originate from people who have heard Very Bad Things about it but never used it.

Reminds me of the hysteria over Dungeons and Dragons in the 1980's such that one woman who kids I once watched for an afternoon (favor for a family friend) instructed me not to tell them anything about D&D since she knew I was a devotee because she "heard it involves Satanism."

If I had a nickel for every time I read someone here condescendingly telling others to "You! You there! You should write letters, send emails or make phone calls instead of using social media! Don't you know better??!" I'd be retired now.

But really the core of my peeve here is how we are perpetually talked down to and belittled for being so stupid to make a decision they don't like and using Facebook despite the constant hand-wringing here.

Let them make their choices, we'll make our own. Isn't that the core tenet of our belief structure?

Long time lurker, first time poster. Always enjoy your posts, MM.

catrose

(5,065 posts)
14. I don't either. I zap any troll at first comment to keep it the place clean.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:31 AM
Aug 2021

No one but friends or friends of friends can comment, and I keep refusing friendships with all those studly military dudes. And I NEVER look at an FB "news" item. I get my news elsewhere; FB is for keeping up with the friends scattered far and wide.

MineralMan

(146,284 posts)
56. "people should choose" is correct. And we do.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 12:22 PM
Aug 2021

Some of us use Facebook for very valid reasons. For example, my 75 year old sister has advanced Alzheimer's. She can't do much, but she can still look at photos of her children and grandchildren on Facebook when her husband goes to her page. She sees pictures of me, as well. I'm her big brother.

Please stop trying to shame people for making the choice to use Facebook. It's a little authoritarian, it seems to me. Clearly, you don't use Facebook, but you're happy to explain to everyone else why they shouldn't as well. Virtue signaling isn't a good look.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
16. I don't either. Animal rescue videos mostly and
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:33 AM
Aug 2021

photos of my great-grandchildren. I belong to a Fb group called Science Funnies, which I like too.

No political crap, just good posts from Democrats, including, but not limited to, Adam Schiff.

Elessar Zappa

(13,952 posts)
9. I never see propaganda.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:11 AM
Aug 2021

People see stuff in which they’ve indicated interest, either by google searches or other means. I don’t show an interest in bullshit so I don’t see bullshit.

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
25. If it bothers you don't use it
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:39 AM
Aug 2021

Others seem to have no problems with the service and are not seeing the alleged propaganda described.

 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
27. Doing the right thing. Not supporting an entity that is actively been used to spread disinformation
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 10:46 AM
Aug 2021

Undermine democracy help elect Trump.

PortTack

(32,751 posts)
34. ☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:00 AM
Aug 2021

Frustrating because there are lots of ways to stay in touch without using FB! I have grand kids that live away, we send photos, share and stay in touch and never use the site!

Zuckerburg helped elect tfg and that is common knowledge. He meant with him at the WH and in general is a big part of the problem.

Those of you who use the site are enabling this regardless of ad blockers, and other measures. It puts money in the coffers they will use to elect more gqp criminals...tell me it ain’t so

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
39. So does Cable (Noise) News and even though I use Facebook I somehow
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:12 AM
Aug 2021

managed to vote for Biden. Perhaps that is a surprise to you, perhaps not. My connecting with with the local historical preservation groups and botanical garden along with my hobby interests seems to have not made any difference in my ability to get to the polls and vote a straight Democratic ticket in November. I wonder just how that happened?

LeftInTX

(25,219 posts)
40. Please tell that to Barack Obama, AOC, Liz Warren, Bernie Sanders, Joe Biden etc....
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:13 AM
Aug 2021

They are all active on FB...

Telling us peons what to do is fine, but please tell the important people that they are undermining Democracy. Thank you.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
49. When the scolding starts, the subtext is "I'm better than you because I don't use Facebook"...
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:42 AM
Aug 2021

When the griping, scolding and nagging starts, the subtext is "I'm better than you because I don't use Facebook"... it's meant as a swipe to put people in their places and take them down a notch (for not being sufficiently progressive, I suppose.) It comes and goes in cycles. In a day or two this thread will sink... it will start up again in about 5-6 weeks. Ugh.

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
52. Agreed and have been in the mix of these threads before as well.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:51 AM
Aug 2021

I have noted that Our Doom and Gloom poster seems to not have an answer to my question regarding my use of FB affecting her, but then I never expected a response. FB is like anything else, it is a tool to be used. How it is used makes all the difference.

 

smatteson

(3 posts)
54. Exactly right....
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 12:02 PM
Aug 2021

... the preening condescension is what really gets me, along with the barking of commands along the lines of "You there! You stop using social media right now! Get back to sending emails, faxes and making phone calls! Write letters, what's the matter with you??! I HAVE SPOKEN! You'll do as I say or I'll insinuate you're stupid!"

And don't even get me started on the holier than thou types who come RUSHING into these repetitive threads to proudly boast "Never used FB, NEVER will!" the split second these rants start right up again.

Complaining about FB is mental masturbation for many on DU, plain and simple. And there are many who leap at the chance, every single time.

canetoad

(17,149 posts)
70. Link please
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 08:37 PM
Aug 2021

To the posts that say, "You there!..... " etc. You need to back up your assertions with facts.

With two posts under your belt, smatteson, I'm starting to wonder if you are on FBs payroll.

Response to canetoad (Reply #70)

Sympthsical

(9,067 posts)
42. It's up to individuals to curate their social media experiences
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:21 AM
Aug 2021

My entire family lives across country, so I'll keep using FB. During Covid, it's how I've kept up with friends.

I see no politics nor ads, because I use an ad-blocker and don't subscribe to groups that promote politics. If a friend or family starts posting wacky stuff, I just shadow block them from the feed I see.

YouTube has crazy crap on it. Reddit has crazy crap on it. Twitter is absolutely a shitfest of misinformation. If you think DU is 100% factual and doesn't contain lots of stuff to reinforce narratives that are not . . . objectively accurate, not sure what to tell you about that one.

People are 100% responsible for their online experiences. It takes a little bit of effort, but it is completely doable.

Once you realize the algorithms are designed to show you things it thinks will get you to engage more and click more, you'll quickly learn not to click on things.

As for selling information, that's every website ever. If you're using something for free, you are the product. And I do mean every website.

People aren't going to scold me out of using tools I find perfectly useful for my purposes.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
47. It's like listening to a Peta rant.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:32 AM
Aug 2021
People aren't going to scold me out of using tools I find perfectly useful for my purposes.
I know! It's like listening to a Peta rant.

Initech

(100,059 posts)
48. If anything, Facebook isn't bringing us together.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:35 AM
Aug 2021

It's having the opposite effect - it's driving us more apart and making us more isolated than ever before. And it's also radicalizing people like never before thanks to targeted propaganda.

Qutzupalotl

(14,300 posts)
50. That article ... holy shit.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:44 AM
Aug 2021

I don’t think we’d have had Brexit or Trump without Facebook.

Full disclosure: I use it. I do see propaganda. I see the effects of the algorithm controlling what I get shown; if I disagree with something a friend posted, it’s like, “You like arguing with Fred? Here’s a bunch more of his posts!”

I see propaganda from our side too — over-the-top stuff from Occupy Democrats, one-sided or factually wrong things, perhaps deliberately made that way to sow chaos. Like that pic of Obama laughing with a caption of something he never said; I had a friend who thought Obama was condescending but couldn’t say why; turns out he was exposed to a bunch of memes like that which created a false impression. I like a good political cartoon now and then, but of course those things are designed to be distorted. Now I get them from all sides.

The lesson? Don’t “like” something unless you want to see more of it. Don’t click on any ad. Don’t put a lot of personal info in your bio. Log out of FB on your browser so they don’t track your online movements. Don’t argue unless you’re prepared to argue constantly.

Even with all that, just by being a user doing nothing wrong (anymore), I am aware that I am swelling FB’s numbers and making them more powerful. Which sucks, as I become more aware of how they abuse that power to boost conservatives.

Captain Stern

(2,201 posts)
51. Well, then I guess it's not bad at all.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:45 AM
Aug 2021

I've used Facebook since 2008.

I don't see any pro-trump stuff in my newsfeed. I don't see any anti-vax stuff in my newsfeed. Nor do I see anything that belittles the BLM movement, or supports the Jan 6 Insurgents.

I don't see any anti-science stuff in my Facebook newsfeed (but I do occasionally see it right here on DU....go figure)

Perhaps the folks that are apparently inundated with all of these messages that they don't want to see, don't know how to use Facebook that well. Maybe Facebook could do a better job of familiarizing it's users with the tools that are available to them.

But, for the most part, Facebook, just like the Internet in general, or television, or radio, is pretty much what the user makes of it.

Saboburns

(2,807 posts)
53. Bullshit. Absolutely false. Don't blame Facebook for your shortcomings.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 11:55 AM
Aug 2021

Facebook doesn't post anything, never has. If you are seeing anti-vax horseshit and Q-conspiracy nuttery on your facebook feed it's because your friends are posting it.

I'm on Facebook multiple times daily, everyday, and I haven't seen one anti-vax post. Not 1 Q-conspiracy post. Not ever.

Again I am forced to say that most of you don't understand even the basics when it comes to Facebook. EVERY USER CONTROLS WHAT IS SHOWN TO THEM. My Facebook is full of rational articles urging taking vaccines, wearing masks, pro social distancing, and listening to Doctors and scientists. And memes promoting the truth about COVID-19. And the truth about Joe Biden trouncing Trump.

My Facebook is a force for good. As I imagine all other DU Facebook pages are.

Stop with the Facebook doom posting. Because either you don't know what you are actually talking about, or worse, you are letting you're Facebook page spread lies and misinformation.

You control what's on your page, not Facebook.

ismnotwasm

(41,975 posts)
68. Younger generations seem more interested in Instagram, Twitch and Discord channels.
Tue Aug 31, 2021, 06:32 PM
Aug 2021

As well as Snapchat and TikTok.
Everyone uses YouTube it seems. There are other social media platforms, such as Clapper, a TikTok alternative. Medium and Tumbler are still a thing. WhatsApp is popular. Twitter, of course.

Should everyone stop using all of these platforms, or just Facebook? Everyone of them is problematic in someway.
Crap. Almost forgot Reddit!

Could go back to email, or even letter writing I suppose.

Jim G.

(14,811 posts)
74. Garbage In, Garbage Out
Wed Sep 1, 2021, 04:45 PM
Sep 2021

I'm on FB but I have no toxic friends & I don't follow any toxic pages. Therefore my experience is obviously much different than those constantly complaining about it here.





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