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Nevilledog

(50,955 posts)
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 05:05 PM Oct 2021

Jim Acosta: Why are we building a nation of bullies?



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Acosta: If Bannon can defy a subpoena while spouting batshit crazy nonsense on his disinformation podcast… if the bullies and their enablers can continue gaslight us with their lies about bamboo ballots and horse paste then no wonder the bully-in-chief is plotting his comeback


1:44 PM · Oct 9, 2021
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Jim Acosta: Why are we building a nation of bullies? (Original Post) Nevilledog Oct 2021 OP
Cowards in high places? Xoan Oct 2021 #1
No, people achieve and get to high places by doing in adult life what they do on the playground AZLD4Candidate Oct 2021 #17
Overwealth in high places yonder Oct 2021 #2
Because MAGA loves authoritarians budkin Oct 2021 #3
"Building" Act_of_Reparation Oct 2021 #4
Why is the MEDIA enabling these bullies with the both sides are valid crap????? Tommymac Oct 2021 #7
Because people like that get ratings and money AZLD4Candidate Oct 2021 #18
Always stand up to a bully. multigraincracker Oct 2021 #5
Except in adult life when the bully is your boss, supervisor, or principal. AZLD4Candidate Oct 2021 #19
We are not building a nation of bullies OldBaldy1701E Oct 2021 #6
we have been all the way along . sorry no link but from personal experiance . AllaN01Bear Oct 2021 #8
Building? relayerbob Oct 2021 #9
Are you all noticing this for the first time? Baitball Blogger Oct 2021 #10
Because Bullies support mob rule. Compare Jan 6 to your local school board meetings. bucolic_frolic Oct 2021 #11
Lock them up RANDYWILDMAN Oct 2021 #12
Our freedoms protect all types of speech, even nasty, untrue, unpatriotic drivel Mr. Ected Oct 2021 #13
I wonder about that too I_UndergroundPanther Oct 2021 #14
I don't think Elessar Zappa Oct 2021 #15
Seriously, you're just seeing this now? We are a planet of bullies and we're proud of it. AZLD4Candidate Oct 2021 #16

AZLD4Candidate

(5,639 posts)
17. No, people achieve and get to high places by doing in adult life what they do on the playground
Mon Oct 11, 2021, 12:22 PM
Oct 2021

The bullying in adult life is just more subtle and indirect, but it's bullying none the less.

Tactics are still the same:

Gaslighting
Playing to the crowd
Intimidation
Stabbing in the back
Narcissism
Machiavellianism
Nihilism
Sucking up to those to gain power
Stepping on those they can to get ahead
Getting rewarded for it, then becoming insufferable dictators
Shaming and ostracizing
Passive-aggression

These tactics are well rewarded in adult life. And corporate culture (I include non corporate culture like schools because it happens in schools to teachers all the time) encourages it.

Social Darwinism and "survival of the fittest" are well ingrained in cultures everywhere.

As I get told, "it's the way things have always been."

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
4. "Building"
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 05:25 PM
Oct 2021

These media goobers just don't get it.

The time to ask that question was thirty years ago, when Ronald Reagan was acting like he was going to put swinging doors on Congress.

Fuck "building", dude. It's done been built.

Tommymac

(7,263 posts)
7. Why is the MEDIA enabling these bullies with the both sides are valid crap?????
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 06:00 PM
Oct 2021

TFG's supporters are the loudest in the room, no doubt...but they are also way in the MINORITY of Citizens!!!!!!!!

If the media would tell it like it is, stop trying to make ratings by falsely dissing President Joe, and telling the TRUTH about TFG and his insurrectionist Party, this would stop.

Answer me that Mr. Acosta...your industry is a HUGE part of the problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


AZLD4Candidate

(5,639 posts)
18. Because people like that get ratings and money
Mon Oct 11, 2021, 12:32 PM
Oct 2021

My wife loves Gordon Ramsay. I like his recipes, but he's EVERYTHING wrong with life and proof the bigger jerk you are, the more people will like it. Why no one has ever taken a swing at him, or that right wing toll Jon Taffer, I don't ever know.

Ramsay even belittles and insults children on that children's cooking show. He's a piece of crap.

Most "breakout characters" on sitcoms are the same way. They are all bullies. Some (like Sheldon Cooper) get their own spinoff. This crap normalizes this kind of behavior.

Dick Wolf World shows produce nothing but bullies as characters, holding them on a pedestal. Law and Order (all of them) and that awful Chicago PD are the worst examples.

OldBaldy1701E

(5,076 posts)
6. We are not building a nation of bullies
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 05:52 PM
Oct 2021

We are just not trying to act like it isn't there anymore. Which is a good thing.

AllaN01Bear

(17,894 posts)
8. we have been all the way along . sorry no link but from personal experiance .
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 06:14 PM
Oct 2021

we were doing well for a while untill tfg came along and allowed it.
why cant these ppl be arrested for contempt. i would .

relayerbob

(6,531 posts)
9. Building?
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 06:17 PM
Oct 2021

As in present tense? They really needed to have been paying attention for the last generation or two

Baitball Blogger

(46,658 posts)
10. Are you all noticing this for the first time?
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 06:40 PM
Oct 2021

It's been going on in my neighborhood for about twenty to twenty-five years now.

bucolic_frolic

(42,996 posts)
11. Because Bullies support mob rule. Compare Jan 6 to your local school board meetings.
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 07:11 PM
Oct 2021

They have a tactic, they're going to stick with it until it doesn't work anymore. Then they'll try something else, or something lethal.

Mr. Ected

(9,670 posts)
13. Our freedoms protect all types of speech, even nasty, untrue, unpatriotic drivel
Sat Oct 9, 2021, 07:35 PM
Oct 2021

Moreover, the wheels of justice turn slowly but grind exceedingly fine.

Too slowly. WAY too slowly. The world doesn't move that slowly anymore. Today's pressing issue can't be litigated five years from now. They're using the "gap" to get away with stealing our democracy. By the time they face justice, it's too late. Anyone clinging on to the "way it's always been done" isn't accounting for the speed at which our world turns today.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,462 posts)
14. I wonder about that too
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 12:09 AM
Oct 2021

Too many bullies too many enablers.
Too many dark triads.

Abuse dynamics are being writ large in this culture. I wonder how there has been so many abusers coming out of the woodwork and why now?

We have to do something about the psychopaths,authoritarians and narcissists.

They aren't that asshole guy at the bar or that fucker that mistreats his kids anymore . They have inserted themselves into our government and courts.

They have become a voting bloc big enough to dominate the republican party.

And they have gotten so much worse and too numerous.

But what to do about it?

I dunno.

Elessar Zappa

(13,880 posts)
15. I don't think
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 12:12 AM
Oct 2021

most Trump voters are sociopaths but I do think they appreciate an authoritarian, father figure type leader. The ones at the top who do the manipulating are certainly sociopathic though.

AZLD4Candidate

(5,639 posts)
16. Seriously, you're just seeing this now? We are a planet of bullies and we're proud of it.
Mon Oct 11, 2021, 12:11 PM
Oct 2021

Professors bully you (especially if you disagree with them)

Co-workers bully you (especially if you aren't part of the workplace clique)

Supervisors bully you (especially if you don't kowtow to them)

Police bully you (unchecked power and a culture that rewards it)

Family members bully you (especially if you don't follow what the elders of your family demand)

Government gaslights and bullies you (especially if you disagree)

People on the sewer of social media bully you (internet trolls can keep their identity safe and say whatever they want)

Hollywood gaslights you (unrealistic standards of beauty)

Media bullies you (well, they just treat you like you're stupid and creates a narrative you are browbeaten t accept)

Government bureaucrats bully you (because if you argue with how they speak to you or treat you, security is called)

Religion bullies and gaslights you (especially if you don't accept the faith and its teachings)

Civic organizations bully you (most just want your money and the leaders act like it's their own fiefdom when you volunteer)

Bill collectors bully you (their tactics border on psychological abuse)

Parents bully you (even as adults)

This entire society, as well as most societies in the world, is built on, encourages, and rewards those that bully, stab you in the back, lie about you, snitch on you, and exhibit the most manipulative, sociopathic, narcissistic, and Machiavellian traits.

But it's been this way since the beginning of civilization. And it will never change.

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