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Two days after arriving at a Fredericksburg, Va., hospital with covid-19 in September,
Misty Mitchem was put on a ventilator. Another two days later, she died.
Misty's husband, Kevin Mitchem, got the news as he arrived at a separate hospital with an unshakable cough. He also had covid-19, and within a week or so he couldn't breathe on his own.
Before being placed on a ventilator Kevin begged doctors to give him a vaccine.
The doctors told him it was too late. Kevin died on Oct. 8, orphaning the four children he and Misty had raised together.
Before he died, he expressed regret that he had not been immunized. Neither Kevin, 48, nor Misty, 46, were vaccinated against the coronavirus. The couple had regularly taken in online misinformation about the virus and vaccines.
"Different people saying . . . covid is not real."
Kevin's younger brother, Mike Mitchem, said almost a dozen people have reached out to tell him they have been vaccinated because they heard Kevin and Misty's story. Yet he's also noticed that
others online have called the story "fake news."
"Why would the media make up a story this tragic?" Mike said. "I would give anything for it to not be true, just to have my brother back."
https://www.greenwichtime.com/news/article/A-couple-died-of-covid-leaving-five-children-16550906.php
Kevin Mitchem, 48, and Misty Mitchem, 46, who had not been vaccinated against COVID-19, left behind five children and one grandson.
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malaise
(268,916 posts)Go figure
Bleacher Creature
(11,256 posts)I'm a pretty forgiving person, but that's at the top of the list of things for which there's no coming back from. The world is a better place without them.
malaise
(268,916 posts)Alex Jones is found liable over Sandy Hook hoax conspiracy
Updated October 1, 20215:04 PM ET
A Texas judge has found Infowars host and conspiracy theorist Alex Jones liable for damages in three defamation lawsuits brought by the parents of two children killed in the Sandy Hook Elementary School massacre over his claims that the shooting was a hoax.
Judge Maya Guerra Gamble in Austin, home of Infowars, entered default judgments against Jones, Infowars and other defendants for what she called their "flagrant bad faith and callous disregard" of court orders to turn over documents to the parents' lawyers. The rulings were issued on Monday and released on Thursday.
The cases now head to trial for juries to determine the amount of damages Jones and the other defendants will have to pay the families.
Sandy Hook Victim's Father Wins Defamation Suit; Alex Jones Sanctioned
The shooting at the Newtown, Connecticut, school on Dec. 14, 2012, killed 20 first-graders and six educators. The gunman, 20-year-old Adam Lanza, fatally shot his mother at their Newtown home before going to the school, and killed himself as police arrived.
gratuitous
(82,849 posts)The older ones may be able to process their parents' deaths, but the younger ones, and the grandson? Growing up and dealing with the fact that Kevin and Misty are gone when a vaccine (three vaccines) was readily and widely available. "Did Mom and Dad not love me enough to try to avoid dying?" I can't even imagine, and that's the real gut punch for me from these stories.
lagomorph777
(30,613 posts)Idiots like that could not have been great parents.
LiberatedUSA
(1,666 posts)It is hard to put people into a box. Very smart, good and otherwise (unintentional not caring by not getting a vaccine) caring people have died. To assume they must have been shitty parents, is to want to make every aspect of an anti-vaxxer the devil.
The mind is way way more complex than that.
lagomorph777
(30,613 posts)No pity for them, only for the kids. Sorry, not sorry.
LiberatedUSA
(1,666 posts)But we dont know they were negligent parents from the birth of their kids to their deaths. Did they feed, cloth, play with and teach them, give them good birthdays and Christmas and vacations?
Maybe were good people that made a bad decision as opposed to awful beings from hell from the moment they set foot on this planet. That is all I am saying.
SunSeeker
(51,550 posts)Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)orwell
(7,771 posts)...send the bills to 45.
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)Dustlawyer
(10,495 posts)I am working hurricane Ida in LaPlace Louisiana, a town completely devastated, in a state overwhelmed with COVID, yet very few masks. The facts are clear and have hit home with almost everyone here, yet they still refuse.
I think if Fox told them Ida was a hoax they would believe it while watching from their pop up camper parked in their driveway where their house used to be.
Evolve Dammit
(16,723 posts)Voltaire2
(13,008 posts)ecstatic
(32,681 posts)IronLionZion
(45,426 posts)and are saying he died from the vaccine or in spite of it. Completely ignoring his cancer treatment and old age.
FakeNoose
(32,628 posts)CloudWatcher
(1,846 posts)The problem is our educational system that fails to teach logic and skeptical thinking. The idiots that trust Fox News have no need of the Internet.
MissMillie
(38,548 posts)Can't help but wonder how many other people they infected.
And death isn't the only bad outcome.
Permanent health problems
Inability to return to previous activities--including jobs
Insanely high medical bills
Things don't get back to normal until we get this virus under control... we need all hands on deck.
orleans
(34,049 posts)calimary
(81,210 posts)Im assuming they were trump voters?
How thoughtful of him to weed the garden for us, how ever unintentionally!
tymorial
(3,433 posts)They left kids. What if they saw it? Someone celebrating their parents death.
Find a filter
calimary
(81,210 posts)But when I hear these stories, its seriously hard. If this were at the start of the pandemic, then thats one thing.
But there have been testimonials GALORE by now from people who refused to get vaccinated and finally see the light when theirs is about to be extinguished. For well being very a year now, and continuously. And how many of their friends and acquaintances and even friends-of-friends contracted the virus from them by now? And how long did they carry on without taking precautions before they showed any symptoms?
And seriously, had they not seen ANY of the coverage of doctor after doctor, ICU nurse after ICU nurse, expert after expert, Fauci interview after Fauci interview - for more than a year? How many grieving parents and adult children and close friends and teachers have been interviewed through tears and heartache over the loved ones they lost, sometimes having witnessed it close-up, or worse, having to ask the nurse to pass along one final I love you to someone dying behind that door that they cant even go visit one last time?
My friend, I have seen this all over the front pages, TV coverage on multiple channels, platforms galore, heard it on the radio - for what? A year and a half now (at least!)? And STILL the deniers stand firm. And maybe SOME come around after its too late and express regrets and I wish I would have or I guess I should have? And others who breathe their last, STILL in denial that its the virus for real and not something some libtard made up to keep the rest of us from having fun?
And even worse than that - how about all those who DID try to be careful and DID acknowledge the facts but STILL caught it from somebody who refused to wear a mask or take precautions- just out of plain ol common courtesy?
Yes. Im fed up and running on empty of understanding and patience with these folks. Last time I took note, Wednesday, 10/20/21 just before noon Pacific time, the data from Johns Hopkins and NBC News was as follows:
Confirmed cases US - 45,178,896
Deaths US - 733,011
Confirmed cases worldwide: 241,601,369
Deaths worldwide : 4,917,739
Look, youre clearly blessed with a larger and broader sense of compassion and understanding, and patience than I can muster anymore. And you have my admiration for that. But I can no longer see any logical, moral, unselfish, or sensible rationale for refusing to get vaccinated, aside from the rare extreme health-related exception. I just cant get there anymore.
Or perhaps its just another one of those things I still need to keep working on.