I have a few questions for DUers about immigration, RE: You know what this is about
1: How come Afghani refugees were allowed into the country almost immediately, but my wife was denied entry to reunite with her American husband and no one seems to think, nationally, that separating Americans from their families is a gross injustice that needs to be exposed?
2: How come J1, Student visa, and H1-B visas are so easy to receive, but my wife's IR1 takes forever so she can reunite with her American spouse and so few people know or even care?
3: Why can TFG's wife and in-laws, as well as others in that position, get expedited into the country on special visas, but my wife has to wait until the US Government decides she's worthy to enter?
4: Why is there such a push to give "undocumented immigrants" a pathway to citizenship immediately, but there is no push to give foreign spouses and families of American citizens a pathway to a green card?
And finally, why do so few Americans care what happens to Americans and their families? I ask because I am so close to a nervous breakdown (I have stalkers here so I will not say publicly what that "close to a nervous breakdown" means because there are people actively trying to undermine my career and political aspirations) and my wife sobs on video chat every night. People have picked up the fight for DREAMers and the "undocumented," but no one picks up the fight for people in my wife's and my position. We've fought for ten months to get her here and everything seems to have died.
Why is everyone else more important than Americans and their families in America? And why don't people call immigration groups and Congress critters to demand change and oversight to the "legal" immigration system?
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It is "xenophobic" to even suggest Chinese officials might not always be perfect? 
... the authorities suspected or believed to be the case. That doesn't mean that the poster is suggesting that you're lying. Instead, it's likely that the authorities can be wrong/mistaken about the facts and your characterization that they believed the documents were "fake" was an over-simplification that failed to provide the details needed for people to offer assistance.
So, the poster offered two highly probable and specific reasons that the authorities have rejected the documents (rather than a very broad and generic description of "fake".) Maybe it would be possible that this comment (from a DUer who was trying to be helpful) could be put to productive use. The anger and frustration you're feeling is certainly understandable, but the targets being chosen to receive the brunt of the anger do not deserve it.
Best of luck to you both! 
And I truly understand and feel your frustration. I'm not in disagreement with your points, either, but I'd ask you to be very cautious about pointing at Afghanis--thereby pitting their case against that of your very deserving wife. Given the horrific hell hole that Afghanistan was and has rapidly returned to under the Taliban, I think even those who most want to help you with your wife's case can see an immediacy there that is just not the same.
If you can use those who have been through the process (DFW and others) to strategize and then let all of us know how we can help, I know you'd find many more than willing to do so.
Does she have the same name as someone else in the immigration watch-list (or whatever list they're using) that may be causing the problem?
It's my understanding that there are other work-arounds that could be employed to bypass this situation. Of course, it's insulting and seemingly unnecessary to do these things, but rather than curse the darkness, wouldn't it be better to simply "like a candle" (ie: do whatever it takes) rather than fussing about the way it "ought to be".
Many of the delays are baked-in (especially for China) and that's just the way it is. As unfair as it feels to you, I'm sorry to be the one to tell you that no amount of complaining is going to make any improvements that cause the typical delays to have any significant improvements.
Good luck to you both!
Immigration is not the same as getting a license at the DMV. And for some countries (India and China) it appears as though the long waits are "baked-in" to the process. Nobody is singling you out based on the evidence provided. It's just a frustrating process and you've stumbled upon a roadblock. There are other ways to get around that roadblock... you both can "jump through hoops" and take a little detour that will STILL allow you to arrive at your destination.
I guess, in the end, you'll have to decide if the VERY SLOW straight-line path of getting from point-A to point-Z is really want's most important. Or, instead, is it worthwhile to take some side-roads, and paths through the woods... that will allow you to circumvent the obstacles... and get back to finally arriving at your destination. That's all.
If I'm driving on the interstate to my vacation spot, and I hear that a bridge has been washed out... I'm not going to stubbornly sit there in traffic and curse at the construction crew while they rebuild the bridge. Instead, I'd circle-back and re-map/re-plot and take some side roads and come up with an alternate plan. I think that's the gist of the best advice people are giving to you.
In the end, it's always your choice: sit in traffic and wait it out, OR, find an alternate route. But I think, also, that the sympathy will begin to wane for anyone who wants to wait and curse the process. Good luck!
... and also in Scotland. One doesn't negate the other, but it makes everything nice and tidy and covers all bases for any entity that prefers one particular ceremony or license over the other. It's just a formality. If that's what it takes to ensure success, why not do it? While it may be an inconvenience, and while one could rationally argue that they ought-not be "forced" to take such measures... as long as it helps you to reach your final goal, why not go ahead?
Every agency has obsolete rules and requirements and unnecessary redundancy that make zero sense. And when dealing with something as politically charged as immigration (and with a country like China which has many restrictions and MUCH LONGER wait-times than other countries) I don't think it's avoidable.
But if you put your mind to it, and if you're willing to be flexible and bend with the ever-changing breezes, then I'm sure that you'll find success. It's just a matter of sticking to it and exploring all the avenues available to you. Do what's required rather than trying to argue with authority about how unfair or ridiculous the rules/procedures may be. You could spend a lifetime trying to change the rules/procedures and get absolutely nowhere. Or you could methodically work your way through the archaic and tedious and politically motivated processes and eventually find success.
Good luck to you both!
It might save you some time if you did an advanced search using the key words "Jay Peak" in the thread titles.
Well. To all the posters here who've offered advice whether from your own experience or on a professional level.
I'll offer the thank you that seems to be often overlooked, in favor of building perhaps, something else. 
Perhaps a "thanks, & will let you know with a follow up. Appreciate the advice."
Oh well.