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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsJayzus...found this Twitter thread about lack of anesthesia
for gynecological procedures.
Ive had a cervical biopsy
not offered anything for pain, and was not expecting pain like that at all.
Link to tweet
Phoenix61
(17,000 posts)Lars39
(26,109 posts)Makes me so angry.
Phoenix61
(17,000 posts)Its getting better but theres still a long way to go:
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)no warning. I had no unusual symptoms, no reason for a biopsy,it was supposed to be an annual checkup.
Her explanation was ...it was quicker than to numb the area.
Except I had cramps for 5 hours after it.
Interestingly, she was German...as in accent and everything.
Never saw her again.
XanaDUer2
(10,643 posts)Put rubbing alcohol (a lot) on my genitals after lancing a labia boil. No warning. It was horrible, and I was shocked. I was only in my 20s, so didn't pushback. Never went back. Today, in my 50s, I'd have a fit.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)blueinredohio
(6,797 posts)ret5hd
(20,489 posts)if you let me poke you with THIS down there.
NullTuples
(6,017 posts)Woodswalker
(549 posts)And kick em right in the eye. Then say you said it won't hurt.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)if youve passed out from pain.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,326 posts)It's not a bad example of how systemic racism hurts everyone.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)NickB79
(19,233 posts)Due to "thicker skin" and a more primative biology.
https://historyofyesterday.com/the-myth-of-black-people-not-feeling-pain-is-still-believed-to-this-day-ddc73e0b8428
Celerity
(43,304 posts)one I had, back in London. The female doc we have now here in Stockholm is wonderful.
Wingus Dingus
(8,052 posts)he was being supervised by a more experienced Gyne. It didn't go super well for him. I was nice about it because I didn't want him to feel bad, knowing how that feels as a former nurse having to do uncomfortable things to people for the first time. But it hurt way more than I let on.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,841 posts)I've recently had a flare-up of bursitis in my shoulder, and I was reduced to begging for pain medication, which I got a completely insufficient prescription for, while I wait three weeks to get a cortisone injection. If it works as well as the last one, it will be another 25 years before I get bursitis again.
I only wish I had the right connections to get some good pain meds.
niyad
(113,258 posts)possibly hurt. (He had already annoyed me by telling me that I did not know anything about the headaches I had been having since age 7, because HE had not diagnosed me.) I offered to take a speculum out of the freezer in which he apparently kept them, shove it up his penis, and scrape. Then, as I was leaving, I looked at his receptionist, and said, loudly, "you told me that he is a wonderful doctor. He is a misogynistic prick." Then I looked at the women waiting and said, "you might want to reconsider your choice of gyn."
Lars39
(26,109 posts)The unexpected rudeness and arrogance always seems to leave my mind too jumbled to counter in a timely manner.
niyad
(113,258 posts)dealing with misogynistic pricks in every area.
malletgirl02
(1,523 posts)My first visit to a gynecologist was to a male doctor. I remember he didn't ask me any questions about my health, sexual history, or even the most basic question if that was my first time visiting a gynecologist. He just stuck his speculum in me, but he couldn't get it in because a combination of me not having any sexual experience, having a small vagina, and I was extremely tense. The doctor was extremely disdainful of my lack of sexual experience, and told me not to come back for another exam until I had more sexual experience. He made me feel extremely ashamed. The reason I didn't and still don't have sexual experience is sex is not appealing to me.
Due that shame it was years before I went to a gynecologist again. My mom told me regardless of my sexual experience I still had female organs, so I still needed to get them checked out. My second visit went much better. I was more comfortable with my second gynecologist and I was open about my lack of sexual experience. She used the smallest speculum possible, and guided me through the experience.
niyad
(113,258 posts)basically woman-hating sadists. Glad that the second was less awful.
KentuckyWoman
(6,679 posts)I had uterine cancer. A little pinch my ass.
After the surgery I had a post op infection and they had to open the surgical site and leave it open to heal from the inside out. It took nearly a year.
The initial surgery I don't know if they actually put me under or not. If I watch the end of Braveheart once and had nightmares about my hysterectomy for weeks after. I can't watch it. So I'm pretty sure I was never put under.
I was lucky, at least a doctor actually listened to my symptoms and did the biopsy instead of telling me it was "hysteria" because I lost 2 children in the womb.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)Its infuriating that a doctors kindness seems to be the exception.
KentuckyWoman
(6,679 posts)I won't say ALL women doctors are better, but my overall care is better primarily because I know I can speak up and be heard. I would expect many younger male doctors have learned hard lessons from the failing of the kind of men who led the profession in my younger days. I'm so grateful so many women pushed to get into medicine.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)I bet law suits helped weed them out.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)Except the surgeon...and he is lovely. I trust him. Very warm, very aware, very professional.
It's a small town...you get to know people.
but the oncology service is all female, it's lovely to be ablet o speak the same "language".
And my GP is female. A fundy, but good with needed prescriptions.
chia
(2,244 posts)and I was unprepared for how incredibly painful it was. I didn't make a sound, but the tears were rolling down the sides of my face as I lay there. All he said was "I told you you didn't have to do this."
Well, yes I did.
And I ended up having another, but not with him. Still extremely painful, but the woman gynecologist gently talked me through it, making the best of what is an incredibly painful procedure and I don't know why by now in this day and age they haven't made it less painful. In any event, I'll never have a male gynecologist ever again.
demtenjeep
(31,997 posts)I screamed
hubby about came unglued
MustLoveBeagles
(11,589 posts)When I had mine done last month they put me under. I also had an Endoscopy done at the same time so maybe that's why. For others here who've had a colonoscopy is anesthesia common practice?
demtenjeep
(31,997 posts)basically a biopsy of the female parts
MustLoveBeagles
(11,589 posts)I misread your post. Sorry about that.
Retrograde
(10,133 posts)for colonoscopies, at least in my case. For my first one, the doctor was a wannabee tour guide who pointed out all the interesting sections while I watched on the monitor.
róisín_dubh
(11,791 posts)Pap smears are excruciating for me. It feels like they're scraping the inside of my skull. I have a female gyn and NP and I'm probably going to switch to my regular doctor for these exams. They always seem to belittle my pain.
MustLoveBeagles
(11,589 posts)Last edited Sun Oct 31, 2021, 03:52 PM - Edit history (1)
I'm a wimp when it comes to pain.
róisín_dubh
(11,791 posts)Ive been getting tattoos for 26 years, including massive back pieces (ow), shins (ow) and my armpit (OWWWW)!
But blood draws make me faint and Pap smears are just awful.
I dont like being belittled when I say something is excruciating.
Retrograde
(10,133 posts)My gynecologist, a woman, had me lie down for an hour, made me some tea, and agreed to babysit any subsequent children if I got pregnant (I was almost 60 at the time). And she prescribed a day of putting my feet up and having my husband make meals. It was one of the more painful experiences I've had - and that includes broken bones and a hysterectomy.
MustLoveBeagles
(11,589 posts)When I was going to Planned Parenthood they took a scrapping of my uterus to test for cancer. I wasn't given anesthesia but they did warn me it could be painful. And it was. The first attempt at getting a sample wasn't successful so they had to do it again. The assistant held my hand and coached me to breath. They were very apologetic about causing me pain. I couldn't be mad because they did warn me. It seems many others on this thread were lied to.
Hekate
(90,643 posts)
pain was not an issue. Even before he proceeded I knew he was speaking from sheer blind ignorance. What the ever loving ?
Retrograde
(10,133 posts)I've had several uterine biopsies - which are definitely not my idea of fun - and don't see how administering a local, even if possible, would be any less painless. I did have a more complicated uterine procedure done under mild sedation: although I was conscious and got to watch the procedure on a monitor (always interesting to see one's insides), I had to have a driver and someone to stay with me for the rest of the day - I wouldn't want to go to that level for a quick procedure.
nini
(16,672 posts)Yep.. just go through the cervix and take a pinch of tissue. Yep No pain at all 😳