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Jayzus...found this Twitter thread about lack of anesthesia (Original Post) Lars39 Oct 2021 OP
The male gyn told me it wouldn't hurt at all. He LIED!!! nt Phoenix61 Oct 2021 #1
How are they getting away with this?! Lars39 Oct 2021 #3
An over representation of males in the medical field. Phoenix61 Oct 2021 #5
I had a woman GYN do it to me dixiegrrrrl Oct 2021 #17
I had a female doctor XanaDUer2 Oct 2021 #26
Medicine is a good profession for sadists, I swear. n/t dixiegrrrrl Oct 2021 #32
Yep, been there more than once. blueinredohio Oct 2021 #13
I'll let you poke me with that down here... ret5hd Oct 2021 #2
I'd like to see them "just breathe through" a penile or scrotal biopsy or scraping. NullTuples Oct 2021 #4
Point your big toe Woodswalker Oct 2021 #6
Good intention, but hard to do Lars39 Oct 2021 #7
Modern gynecology was developed by a white man experimenting on Black women. WhiskeyGrinder Oct 2021 #8
Yes. Absolutely horrendous. Lars39 Oct 2021 #10
This. And they didn't believe Black people felt pain either NickB79 Oct 2021 #27
I will pass on male gynaecologists. Did not like the only Celerity Oct 2021 #9
Had an endometrial biopsy--owie. It was the doctor's first time, Wingus Dingus Oct 2021 #11
It's not just in gynecology. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2021 #12
I once had a very arrogant, misogynistic gyn tell me that pap smears could not niyad Oct 2021 #14
Good for you! Lars39 Oct 2021 #15
As a Women's Rights activist, I have had plenty of practice over these many years in niyad Oct 2021 #16
My first visit malletgirl02 Oct 2021 #37
I am so very sorry that you had such a dreadful experience. Doctors like him are niyad Nov 2021 #41
Been there done that. KentuckyWoman Oct 2021 #18
Oh, I'm so sorry you went thru that! Lars39 Oct 2021 #19
Now all my doctors are women KentuckyWoman Oct 2021 #20
Mine are, too. Lars39 Oct 2021 #21
same here. dixiegrrrrl Oct 2021 #22
Only women gynecologists for me. The last male gynecologist I ever had did my first uterine biopsy chia Oct 2021 #23
I had a colposcopy onceno pain relief. Did not know it was going to hurt demtenjeep Oct 2021 #24
They didn't give you anesthesia for that? MustLoveBeagles Oct 2021 #29
nonot a colonoscopy. A colposcopy demtenjeep Oct 2021 #31
Gotcha MustLoveBeagles Oct 2021 #35
Sedation is more common than total anesthesia Retrograde Nov 2021 #39
It's why I won't have an IUD put in. róisín_dubh Oct 2021 #25
Same here MustLoveBeagles Oct 2021 #30
I'm generally not. róisín_dubh Nov 2021 #40
Having one removed is worse Retrograde Nov 2021 #38
For several years now I've had irregular periods MustLoveBeagles Oct 2021 #28
I remember a male doctor telling me there weren't any nerves to speak of in the cervix, so... Hekate Oct 2021 #33
I don't know if they can do local anesthesia for some of these Retrograde Oct 2021 #34
Did you know it doesn't hurt to get a uterine biopsy? nini Oct 2021 #36

Phoenix61

(17,000 posts)
5. An over representation of males in the medical field.
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 08:49 PM
Oct 2021

It’s getting better but there’s still a long way to go:

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
17. I had a woman GYN do it to me
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 09:40 PM
Oct 2021


no warning. I had no unusual symptoms, no reason for a biopsy,it was supposed to be an annual checkup.
Her explanation was ...it was quicker than to numb the area.
Except I had cramps for 5 hours after it.

Interestingly, she was German...as in accent and everything.

Never saw her again.

XanaDUer2

(10,643 posts)
26. I had a female doctor
Sun Oct 31, 2021, 12:59 PM
Oct 2021

Put rubbing alcohol (a lot) on my genitals after lancing a labia boil. No warning. It was horrible, and I was shocked. I was only in my 20s, so didn't pushback. Never went back. Today, in my 50s, I'd have a fit.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,326 posts)
8. Modern gynecology was developed by a white man experimenting on Black women.
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 08:58 PM
Oct 2021

It's not a bad example of how systemic racism hurts everyone.

Celerity

(43,304 posts)
9. I will pass on male gynaecologists. Did not like the only
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 09:01 PM
Oct 2021

one I had, back in London. The female doc we have now here in Stockholm is wonderful.

Wingus Dingus

(8,052 posts)
11. Had an endometrial biopsy--owie. It was the doctor's first time,
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 09:06 PM
Oct 2021

he was being supervised by a more experienced Gyne. It didn't go super well for him. I was nice about it because I didn't want him to feel bad, knowing how that feels as a former nurse having to do uncomfortable things to people for the first time. But it hurt way more than I let on.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,841 posts)
12. It's not just in gynecology.
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 09:06 PM
Oct 2021

I've recently had a flare-up of bursitis in my shoulder, and I was reduced to begging for pain medication, which I got a completely insufficient prescription for, while I wait three weeks to get a cortisone injection. If it works as well as the last one, it will be another 25 years before I get bursitis again.

I only wish I had the right connections to get some good pain meds.

niyad

(113,258 posts)
14. I once had a very arrogant, misogynistic gyn tell me that pap smears could not
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 09:19 PM
Oct 2021

possibly hurt. (He had already annoyed me by telling me that I did not know anything about the headaches I had been having since age 7, because HE had not diagnosed me.) I offered to take a speculum out of the freezer in which he apparently kept them, shove it up his penis, and scrape. Then, as I was leaving, I looked at his receptionist, and said, loudly, "you told me that he is a wonderful doctor. He is a misogynistic prick." Then I looked at the women waiting and said, "you might want to reconsider your choice of gyn."

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
15. Good for you!
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 09:24 PM
Oct 2021

The unexpected rudeness and arrogance always seems to leave my mind too jumbled to counter in a timely manner.

niyad

(113,258 posts)
16. As a Women's Rights activist, I have had plenty of practice over these many years in
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 09:30 PM
Oct 2021

dealing with misogynistic pricks in every area.

malletgirl02

(1,523 posts)
37. My first visit
Sun Oct 31, 2021, 11:26 PM
Oct 2021

My first visit to a gynecologist was to a male doctor. I remember he didn't ask me any questions about my health, sexual history, or even the most basic question if that was my first time visiting a gynecologist. He just stuck his speculum in me, but he couldn't get it in because a combination of me not having any sexual experience, having a small vagina, and I was extremely tense. The doctor was extremely disdainful of my lack of sexual experience, and told me not to come back for another exam until I had more sexual experience. He made me feel extremely ashamed. The reason I didn't and still don't have sexual experience is sex is not appealing to me.

Due that shame it was years before I went to a gynecologist again. My mom told me regardless of my sexual experience I still had female organs, so I still needed to get them checked out. My second visit went much better. I was more comfortable with my second gynecologist and I was open about my lack of sexual experience. She used the smallest speculum possible, and guided me through the experience.

niyad

(113,258 posts)
41. I am so very sorry that you had such a dreadful experience. Doctors like him are
Mon Nov 1, 2021, 10:01 AM
Nov 2021

basically woman-hating sadists. Glad that the second was less awful.

KentuckyWoman

(6,679 posts)
18. Been there done that.
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 09:51 PM
Oct 2021

I had uterine cancer. A little pinch my ass.
After the surgery I had a post op infection and they had to open the surgical site and leave it open to heal from the inside out. It took nearly a year.

The initial surgery I don't know if they actually put me under or not. If I watch the end of Braveheart once and had nightmares about my hysterectomy for weeks after. I can't watch it. So I'm pretty sure I was never put under.



I was lucky, at least a doctor actually listened to my symptoms and did the biopsy instead of telling me it was "hysteria" because I lost 2 children in the womb.

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
19. Oh, I'm so sorry you went thru that!
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 09:54 PM
Oct 2021

It’s infuriating that a doctor’s kindness seems to be the exception.

KentuckyWoman

(6,679 posts)
20. Now all my doctors are women
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 10:01 PM
Oct 2021

I won't say ALL women doctors are better, but my overall care is better primarily because I know I can speak up and be heard. I would expect many younger male doctors have learned hard lessons from the failing of the kind of men who led the profession in my younger days. I'm so grateful so many women pushed to get into medicine.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
22. same here.
Sat Oct 30, 2021, 11:23 PM
Oct 2021

Except the surgeon...and he is lovely. I trust him. Very warm, very aware, very professional.
It's a small town...you get to know people.

but the oncology service is all female, it's lovely to be ablet o speak the same "language".
And my GP is female. A fundy, but good with needed prescriptions.

chia

(2,244 posts)
23. Only women gynecologists for me. The last male gynecologist I ever had did my first uterine biopsy
Sun Oct 31, 2021, 12:26 AM
Oct 2021

and I was unprepared for how incredibly painful it was. I didn't make a sound, but the tears were rolling down the sides of my face as I lay there. All he said was "I told you you didn't have to do this."

Well, yes I did.

And I ended up having another, but not with him. Still extremely painful, but the woman gynecologist gently talked me through it, making the best of what is an incredibly painful procedure and I don't know why by now in this day and age they haven't made it less painful. In any event, I'll never have a male gynecologist ever again.

 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
24. I had a colposcopy onceno pain relief. Did not know it was going to hurt
Sun Oct 31, 2021, 12:52 PM
Oct 2021

I screamed


hubby about came unglued

MustLoveBeagles

(11,589 posts)
29. They didn't give you anesthesia for that?
Sun Oct 31, 2021, 02:29 PM
Oct 2021

When I had mine done last month they put me under. I also had an Endoscopy done at the same time so maybe that's why. For others here who've had a colonoscopy is anesthesia common practice?

Retrograde

(10,133 posts)
39. Sedation is more common than total anesthesia
Mon Nov 1, 2021, 03:04 AM
Nov 2021

for colonoscopies, at least in my case. For my first one, the doctor was a wannabee tour guide who pointed out all the interesting sections while I watched on the monitor.

róisín_dubh

(11,791 posts)
25. It's why I won't have an IUD put in.
Sun Oct 31, 2021, 12:58 PM
Oct 2021

Pap smears are excruciating for me. It feels like they're scraping the inside of my skull. I have a female gyn and NP and I'm probably going to switch to my regular doctor for these exams. They always seem to belittle my pain.

róisín_dubh

(11,791 posts)
40. I'm generally not.
Mon Nov 1, 2021, 07:14 AM
Nov 2021

I’ve been getting tattoos for 26 years, including massive back pieces (ow), shins (ow) and my armpit (OWWWW)!
But blood draws make me faint and Pap smears are just awful.
I don’t like being belittled when I say something is excruciating.

Retrograde

(10,133 posts)
38. Having one removed is worse
Mon Nov 1, 2021, 02:41 AM
Nov 2021

My gynecologist, a woman, had me lie down for an hour, made me some tea, and agreed to babysit any subsequent children if I got pregnant (I was almost 60 at the time). And she prescribed a day of putting my feet up and having my husband make meals. It was one of the more painful experiences I've had - and that includes broken bones and a hysterectomy.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,589 posts)
28. For several years now I've had irregular periods
Sun Oct 31, 2021, 02:22 PM
Oct 2021

When I was going to Planned Parenthood they took a scrapping of my uterus to test for cancer. I wasn't given anesthesia but they did warn me it could be painful. And it was. The first attempt at getting a sample wasn't successful so they had to do it again. The assistant held my hand and coached me to breath. They were very apologetic about causing me pain. I couldn't be mad because they did warn me. It seems many others on this thread were lied to.

Hekate

(90,643 posts)
33. I remember a male doctor telling me there weren't any nerves to speak of in the cervix, so...
Sun Oct 31, 2021, 10:04 PM
Oct 2021

… pain was not an issue. Even before he proceeded I knew he was speaking from sheer blind ignorance. What the ever loving —?

Retrograde

(10,133 posts)
34. I don't know if they can do local anesthesia for some of these
Sun Oct 31, 2021, 10:58 PM
Oct 2021

I've had several uterine biopsies - which are definitely not my idea of fun - and don't see how administering a local, even if possible, would be any less painless. I did have a more complicated uterine procedure done under mild sedation: although I was conscious and got to watch the procedure on a monitor (always interesting to see one's insides), I had to have a driver and someone to stay with me for the rest of the day - I wouldn't want to go to that level for a quick procedure.

nini

(16,672 posts)
36. Did you know it doesn't hurt to get a uterine biopsy?
Sun Oct 31, 2021, 11:11 PM
Oct 2021

Yep.. just go through the cervix and take a pinch of tissue. Yep No pain at all 😳

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