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At a September school board meeting in Southlake, Texas, a parent named Tara Eddins strode to the lectern during the public comment period and demanded to know why the Carroll Independent School District was paying counselors at $90K a pop to give students lessons on suicide prevention.
At Carroll ISD, you are actually advertising suicide, Eddins said, arguing that many parents in the affluent suburban school system have hired tutors because the districts counselors are too focused on mental health instead of helping students prepare for college.
Some of these kids, theyre just trying to get through the day, get through compacted math, get through algebra, go to cotillion on Sunday, Eddins said. They are not thinking about these issues.
Two days after Eddins made the remarks, Southlake Families PAC a group that has fought to stop a diversity plan at Carroll sent an email to supporters calling on the school district to Leave mental health and parenting to parents.
Christina Edmiston, a Southlake resident and mother of two, was outraged when she saw the email. Earlier that month, Edmiston had pulled her 12-year-old son out of the Carroll district after he reported thoughts of suicide after having been bullied by classmates for his sexuality.
You cant expect just to teach kids arithmetic and reading and look at their test scores and expect them to be decent human beings, Edmiston said. I personally cannot understand why a parent would not want their children to have knowledge of what depression looks like, what anxiety looks like.
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/parents-protesting-critical-race-theory-identify-new-target-mental-hea-rcna4991
iemanja
(53,012 posts)Sick fucks.
sinkingfeeling
(51,438 posts)supported that school district.
bluecollar2
(3,622 posts)They're flying under the radar right now but...
H2O Man
(73,506 posts)My younger son is employed at one of the better schools in our region. He deals with student crises daily. Even in a medium-sized school, students have serious problems, and his days are almost always full of serious cases.
By no coincidence, many of those issues confronting students are connected with parenting issues. That doesn't mean these parents are all "bad" people. It does suggest they have a lack of parenting skills. And those parents frequently are not comfortable with the school assisting those students navigate through their crises.
I_UndergroundPanther
(12,462 posts)Want to get away with abusing kids,and they wanna make sure there is no way for them to get help or freedom from evil nasty narcissistic abusive homes.
They want to dominate their kids and never be accountable for abuse.
Also the maga men want the same abusive
non- accountability
For women and kids.
Some are dark triad,others use that fucking bible to justify thier abusiveness.
The biggest threat to humanity besides global warming are dark triad assholes.
H2O Man
(73,506 posts)That is no surprise, as you are always on target.
My son's job is harder than mine was, back when I dealt with similar issues. I think that is partly because the kids he deals with today are the children & grandchildren of those I worked with years ago. And I remember some of their parents giving a twisted version of the bible to justify their behaviors.
Thank you. I always appreciate your contributions on this forum.
I_UndergroundPanther
(12,462 posts)I enjoy reading your posts too.🐈
multigraincracker
(32,641 posts)their schools teaching Replacement Theory?
nolabear
(41,932 posts)that if parents arent sending them voluntarilyand sometimes even if they arethey are very often scared to death about what will come out about them. They are even if its not abuse per se, but if it is, the idea of their actions being brought to light are the main fear, not the mental state of the child. They tend to deny that their acts are causing that kind of harm, and feel like victims rather than perpetrators.
Theres also a family dynamic that people are terrified of having disrupted. I actually stopped seeing kids because I couldnt take it any more. Its all too frequent for the child to be the designated patient rather than the pathological family dynamic being addressed, and when the child (and this always includes teens) starts getting better and not playing their role, the parents jerk them out of treatment.
Those school counsellors are often the only hope for kids in horrible, or even just miserable, situations. If they lose that, the suicide rate, not to mention drug use, violence, victimization by predators, and a host of other nightmares will escalate.
Wounded Bear
(58,598 posts)Was about to say, if parents were doing all that great of a job the school wouldn't need psych counselors.
But of course that is the point. Like you said, too many families hide in "don't air your dirty laundry in public" mode, and children suffer and grow up to be dysfunctional adults, thus perpetuating the cycle.
onecaliberal
(32,777 posts)Solly Mack
(90,758 posts)Alrighty then.
Ohio Joe
(21,727 posts)OK... I see the problem. Fuckin nutters.
geardaddy
(24,926 posts)Jilly_in_VA
(9,941 posts)Well, obviously they're not good Christians. Every Christian Texan knows that Sunday is for CHURCH...morning AND evening.
I'll see myself out.
tenderfoot
(8,425 posts)funded by Koch, Thiel, Cato...
rockfordfile
(8,695 posts)ShazzieB
(16,273 posts)I WISH there had been such a thing as a counselor who cared about mental health in the shitty little high school I graduated from! Maybe I would have actually gotten some help with MY mental health problems.
We had ONE so-called "guidance counselor" who was also the Asst. Principal AND a sports coach. I would have died before trying to talk to him about my depression and paralyzing social anxiety (even if I'd had the words to describe them, which I didn't) . Which is just as well, because I know he would have been worse than useless.
These parents are actually trying to TAKE AWAY something I would have given anything to have access to in high school. Damn them ALL to hell!
EDITED TO ADD: Also, wtf is "compacted math"? Is that actually a thing, or did that idiot woman just make that up?
NEVER MIND: It IS a thing: https://www.ncmcs.org/academics/mathematics/middle_school_compacted_math
I knew I should have googled first!
geardaddy
(24,926 posts)wearing an Andrew Yeager T-shirt. Apparently, this nut just won in the school board race there. She and her husband Scott Eddins are listed as endorsers.
https://www.andrewyeager4cisd.com/endorsements-testimonials
NowISeetheLight
(3,943 posts)happily want to talk to their religious fanatic Republican parent about sexuality than an impartial school counselor. Yeah right.
harumph
(1,893 posts)For those that don't know Southlake is an extremely affluent district (and extremely conservative) - which means that the
people in the district (for the most part) chose to live in that fucking place. Fuck them.
I've got my own problems to deal with rather than worry about a clown show of clueless entitled shits.
Jilly_in_VA
(9,941 posts)down toward the end of the article where the loudmouth mom says she is now pulling her kid out of public school and sending him to private school? Where, no doubt, she will continue to harass the administration and faculty.
Sympthsical
(9,037 posts)A proven method last brought to us successfully with the abstinence only brigade.
Fortunately, teenagers rarely have issues with mental health or suicide.
(hope I don't need a sarcasm thingy)
shrike3
(3,485 posts)And experienced suicide ideation, we do not need to go back to the days when depression in children was thought an impossibility.