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Blue_playwright

(1,568 posts)
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 09:25 AM Jan 2022

My 89-year-old dad has Covid

We all tried so hard to keep him safe. But he forgot his mask when he went to the store.

He was in pain yesterday and called for help. It apparently triggers his shingles nerve damage and it was so bad I wondered if he was having a heart attack or just needed to go to the ER. But, knowing he was triple vaxxed and careful and from being around him all the time - I didn’t mask at his house. Forced him to the drive through testing and dammit if he doesn’t have it. 😳

Now I’m quarantined at his house with his grumpy a$$.

Aside from his pain, he says it’s like a bad cold. So that’s good.

Just ironic that we’ve tried so hard to keep him safe and he’s the Typhoid Mary that will have given it to me. I get tested tomorrow. 🤦‍♀️

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My 89-year-old dad has Covid (Original Post) Blue_playwright Jan 2022 OP
Hang in there. Hoping for a safe recovery! bearsfootball516 Jan 2022 #1
I'm sorry Diamond_Dog Jan 2022 #2
Oh no! MissB Jan 2022 #3
Omicron sucks, it's so transmissible, but it's less deadly. lark Jan 2022 #4
This "less deadly" Omicron is filling up the hospitals. LisaL Jan 2022 #16
The vast majority of those being hospitalized are Unvaxxed. maxsolomon Jan 2022 #21
My relative was vaxxed, boosted, hospitalized, on ventilator, and is now dead. LisaL Jan 2022 #23
the exception proves the rule maxsolomon Jan 2022 #26
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jan 2022 #5
Wishing you both a speedy recovery. Bluethroughu Jan 2022 #6
I'm glad to hear he got his shots Clash City Rocker Jan 2022 #7
If it's possible to get him Pfizer's pills or monoclonal antibodies I would go for it. LisaL Jan 2022 #17
My 3x vaxxed, 85-year old father got antibodies maxsolomon Jan 2022 #25
I am on lockdown until I have a test kit at home Cicada Jan 2022 #8
I work online too. But dad doesn't have Internet Blue_playwright Jan 2022 #10
LOL...Tell him that he shouldn't talk.. LeftInTX Jan 2022 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author LeftInTX Jan 2022 #13
:) Sounds like you may be a consolation to a sick old guy. Hortensis Jan 2022 #19
I'm so sorry to hear this. crickets Jan 2022 #9
My 89 yo Mother in law just recovered from it LeftInTX Jan 2022 #11
That's terrible. I'm sorry. I hope he recovers quickly. PTWB Jan 2022 #14
Make sure to check his oxygen levels with pulse oximeter. LisaL Jan 2022 #15
You will in all likelihood test+ 3-5 days after exposure. It'll be pretty strange Maru Kitteh Jan 2022 #18
Yep. LisaL Jan 2022 #20
Sorry to hear that, truly. "Omicron isn't that dangerous" crap has Maru Kitteh Jan 2022 #22
Not as deadly isn't the same as harmless either. LisaL Jan 2022 #24
I forgot my mask on a visit to Walgreen's three days before Christmas. lpbk2713 Jan 2022 #27
Now is a really bad time to not wear your mask. LisaL Jan 2022 #28
I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles Jan 2022 #29

lark

(23,078 posts)
4. Omicron sucks, it's so transmissible, but it's less deadly.
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 09:47 AM
Jan 2022

Hopefully he has that kind and won't need hospitalization. Hope if you get it (sounds likely) you will have no to mild symptoms.

LisaL

(44,972 posts)
16. This "less deadly" Omicron is filling up the hospitals.
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:33 PM
Jan 2022

US as a country is full of overweight people with pre-existing conditions.

maxsolomon

(33,265 posts)
21. The vast majority of those being hospitalized are Unvaxxed.
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:51 PM
Jan 2022

Omicron IS less deadly - not as hard on the lungs.

Response to Blue_playwright (Original post)

LisaL

(44,972 posts)
17. If it's possible to get him Pfizer's pills or monoclonal antibodies I would go for it.
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:38 PM
Jan 2022

My relative died despite being vaxxed and boosted.

maxsolomon

(33,265 posts)
25. My 3x vaxxed, 85-year old father got antibodies
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:53 PM
Jan 2022

after getting Delta just prior to the Omicron explosion. his doctor also gave them to his GF, even though she never tested or felt sick!

its a good idea for any elderly people.

Cicada

(4,533 posts)
8. I am on lockdown until I have a test kit at home
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 12:07 PM
Jan 2022

The new Pfizer pill apparently blocks 89% of deaths if started within 5 days of symptoms. So once the pills are available and I have a test kit in hand I will reengage. I am at relatively high risk so I am being cautious. Fortunately I work at home on the internet so a lockdown works for me. I hope his dad is ok.

Blue_playwright

(1,568 posts)
10. I work online too. But dad doesn't have Internet
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:00 PM
Jan 2022

So I’m scrambling to get work done. And he won’t. Stop. Talking.

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

LeftInTX

(25,201 posts)
12. LOL...Tell him that he shouldn't talk..
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:13 PM
Jan 2022

Seriously, when I got it, I held back on the talking, but that's just me. I get laryngitis and bronchitis too easily.

Response to Blue_playwright (Reply #10)

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
19. :) Sounds like you may be a consolation to a sick old guy.
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:44 PM
Jan 2022

Stay well. Just told my husband about the shingles involvement, not exactly thrilled to hear it since he's prone also. But thanks for the info.

LeftInTX

(25,201 posts)
11. My 89 yo Mother in law just recovered from it
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:10 PM
Jan 2022

She has a blocked aorta (yeah, she's on her way out already)
She went to the hospital thinking it was her aorta, but was diagnosed with Covid. She was in the hospital for 5 days. However, she's been the the hospital 3 times since November 1st for her heart. Hubby and I both got it because she and the rest of the family insisted on a huge party for Christmas...(I know. It does not make sense. But in his family when someone is gonna die, they have huge parties. They piled about 20 of them in my mom's ICU room in 2014. My dad who was alive at the time said, "If I'm dying, do not allow them near"..LOL )

LisaL

(44,972 posts)
15. Make sure to check his oxygen levels with pulse oximeter.
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:31 PM
Jan 2022

I just lost a vaxxed and boosted relative to covid.

Maru Kitteh

(28,333 posts)
18. You will in all likelihood test+ 3-5 days after exposure. It'll be pretty strange
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:41 PM
Jan 2022

if you don't get it, being Omicron and all.

Sorry this happened to both of you.

Your father is still quite vulnerable to an unfavorable outcome due to his age so it's good you are there with him because stubborn old codgers tend to ignore their symptoms till it's way too late.

If you are able to get him monoclonal antibodies, please try to do so due to his age, even if they aren't working as well with Omicron, it probably couldn't hurt anything - if they have any and they'll let him have them.

Keep an eye on his blood oxygen level with a pulse oximeter.

Don't ignore heart arrhythmias or shortness of breath. DON'T ignore low oxygen readings thinking the oximeter must be wrong.

Best of luck to both of you.


LisaL

(44,972 posts)
20. Yep.
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:45 PM
Jan 2022

Being vaccinated and boosted doesn't guarantee a good outcome in high risk group. My vaccinated and boosted relative died. I don't know if it was an Omicron or Delta that killed my relative.

Maru Kitteh

(28,333 posts)
22. Sorry to hear that, truly. "Omicron isn't that dangerous" crap has
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:51 PM
Jan 2022

got to stop. Vulnerable remain so, and there will still be instances of healthy younger persons who die with this disease in not insignificant numbers.

It's NOT a cold. I wish the pundits would quit spouting that narrative, as it's merely fueling the spread.

lpbk2713

(42,750 posts)
27. I forgot my mask on a visit to Walgreen's three days before Christmas.
Thu Jan 6, 2022, 08:58 PM
Jan 2022


I was in a hurry and there were a lot of last minute shoppers there.

I got lucky. No apparent symptoms.

I think this is the first time I did this since the pandemic started.

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