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Lunabelle

(454 posts)
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 07:45 PM Jan 2012

I Fed A Hungry Person Today.

My ritual on Saturdays when I have to work is Chinese food. (My favorite!) I am walking to my car when this little, but obviously pregnant woman approached me and said she was hungry and hadn't eaten all day. I was saddened to tell her that I didn't have any money (true, no cash) and she said, "That's ok, but thank you anyway." I then said to her, "Wait, do you like Chinese Food?" Her face brightened and she said "YES!"

I took her into the restaurant and bought her a meal of shrimp fried rice and spare ribs. I couldn't stay to talk to her because I had to go to work, but her short story is that she was laid off and travelling form the north down to Ft. Lauderdale where she had family. She had just enough gas money to get her there, but no money for food.

I suppose I just wanted to share this because it felt really good to help someone who was so in need of help. Please be kind to a stranger. If you can't stop to give help, at least give a little wave or a peace sign. Times are tough out there.

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I Fed A Hungry Person Today. (Original Post) Lunabelle Jan 2012 OP
good on you, Lunabelle mattvermont Jan 2012 #1
k&r Liberal_in_LA Jan 2012 #2
EVERYONE WRITE THIS DOWN (well said!) "Please be kind to a stranger. If you can't stop to give help. CurtEastPoint Jan 2012 #3
A friend of mine socialindependocrat Jan 2012 #4
This is where restaurants, even school cafeterias could help HockeyMom Jan 2012 #5
My daughter was fired, twice, for giving food to the homeless. Shakes head. Good one for the OP! N/t Mnemosyne Jan 2012 #16
being fired once for giving food to the homeless--well, live and learn, but... renate Jan 2012 #21
She is a good woman, now 32, and did this at ages 17 & 19. Guess she just doesn't learn! :) Mnemosyne Jan 2012 #29
nice! Liberal_in_LA Jan 2012 #35
I work for a grocery store, that has been doing that for years. unapatriciated Jan 2012 #19
Bless your sweet heart! liberalmuse Jan 2012 #6
A good approach. Better to actually buy food than to give cash, Nye Bevan Jan 2012 #7
...or food to take home for their family. demosincebirth Jan 2012 #10
Yes. I have given food to homeless people Nye Bevan Jan 2012 #11
i always give cash shireen Jan 2012 #23
I gave cash one time Nye Bevan Jan 2012 #28
Did you feel that that tiny little white spot on your soul... ret5hd Jan 2012 #34
Cash can save a life when withdrawal occurs. I agree, no questions asked. n/t Mnemosyne Jan 2012 #31
Giving is the charitable act itself. When it happens to be money, it's better LuckyLib Jan 2012 #32
Good for you! MarianJack Jan 2012 #8
Very, very nice, Lunabelle....I always give to the homeless when I have $ on me. whathehell Jan 2012 #9
one nice thing about buffets handmade34 Jan 2012 #12
I used to walk right by the homeless without a second glance SomethingFishy Jan 2012 #13
You warmed my heart Lunabelle. Nice job! n/t Little Star Jan 2012 #14
More evidence DUers are good people Dragonbreathp9d Jan 2012 #15
this touched me dembotoz Jan 2012 #17
As you treat the least among you, you treat me... rustydog Jan 2012 #18
Thank you all my DU friends. Lunabelle Jan 2012 #20
I give when I have small amounts in my wallet - I can't afford to give more than that these days. applegrove Jan 2012 #22
Good on you! Lil Missy Jan 2012 #24
Sigh, we're there as a country Prism Jan 2012 #25
You, Lunabelle, are a wonderful lady, and people like you ought to be praised more in society. =) AverageJoe90 Jan 2012 #26
K&R BrendaBrick Jan 2012 #27
Good for you... joeybee12 Jan 2012 #30
Thank you! Rex Jan 2012 #33

mattvermont

(646 posts)
1. good on you, Lunabelle
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 07:48 PM
Jan 2012

Acts like that are what gives meaning to our sorry myopic lives.
I love how these acts lift us up as well.

CurtEastPoint

(18,639 posts)
3. EVERYONE WRITE THIS DOWN (well said!) "Please be kind to a stranger. If you can't stop to give help.
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 07:50 PM
Jan 2012

at least give a little wave or a peace sign. Times are tough out there."

socialindependocrat

(1,372 posts)
4. A friend of mine
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 07:53 PM
Jan 2012

was in a Boston Market and he ordered his meal and
they said they had a deal - whatever - you get so
much and they give you a whole chicken.
He thought - for free - why not
But, he didn't know what he was going to do with the extra chicken.

When he went outside he saw a homeless person sitting there in the parking lot and he gave the chicken to him.

My friend was tickled pink!!

It was a happy moment for them both..

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
5. This is where restaurants, even school cafeterias could help
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 07:53 PM
Jan 2012

In the past I worked in a school cafeteria. People would be amazed at all the food that is thrown out at the end of the day. I am sure it happens also with restaurants. All this perfectly good food (not SERVED) could be given away to the homeless and the hungry rather than be thrown in the garbage.

Mnemosyne

(21,363 posts)
16. My daughter was fired, twice, for giving food to the homeless. Shakes head. Good one for the OP! N/t
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 09:13 PM
Jan 2012

renate

(13,776 posts)
21. being fired once for giving food to the homeless--well, live and learn, but...
Sun Jan 15, 2012, 12:12 AM
Jan 2012

Being fired a second time for giving food to the homeless means that you have a lovely and compassionate and incredibly selfless daughter who puts others' wellbeing ahead of her own with full knowledge of what the consequences to her could be. What a wonderful person!

Mnemosyne

(21,363 posts)
29. She is a good woman, now 32, and did this at ages 17 & 19. Guess she just doesn't learn! :)
Sun Jan 15, 2012, 01:12 PM
Jan 2012

I am so very proud of her. She is now helping to open a free clinic in her small town. It's a volunteer position until she finishes her medical office internship, then she will be on the payroll.

unapatriciated

(5,390 posts)
19. I work for a grocery store, that has been doing that for years.
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 09:44 PM
Jan 2012

We don't have sales, one of the reasons why is we donate daily to the local food bank.
At store closing we pull all date coded items with two - three shelf days before expiration. We box it (freezing the meat) the next day the local food bank picks up the donation.

The other reasons my company does this is that it saves them money. They get a tax deduction and do not incur the cost related to constant weekly sales. It also promotes good will in the community for our stores.

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
6. Bless your sweet heart!
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 07:54 PM
Jan 2012

I love stories like this. Times ARE tough out there, but there are more people like yourself stepping up than we would think. Thank you for sharing. Beautiful post!

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
7. A good approach. Better to actually buy food than to give cash,
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 07:59 PM
Jan 2012

which may well end up being spent on drugs or alcohol.

shireen

(8,333 posts)
23. i always give cash
Sun Jan 15, 2012, 01:56 AM
Jan 2012

I never assume anything about them. If someone asks for money, I give them what I can, no questions asked. What they do with it is their choice to make.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
28. I gave cash one time
Sun Jan 15, 2012, 12:29 PM
Jan 2012

and later found out that the person I had given the cash to was a "professional", not really homeless, and probably making more money than me. Given that I have limited resources to donate, I now prefer to make sure that what I give actually helps the homeless to eat.

ret5hd

(20,491 posts)
34. Did you feel that that tiny little white spot on your soul...
Sun Jan 15, 2012, 04:48 PM
Jan 2012

was just tiniest bit smaller becUse of how the money was spent?

i didn't think so.

LuckyLib

(6,819 posts)
32. Giving is the charitable act itself. When it happens to be money, it's better
Sun Jan 15, 2012, 02:55 PM
Jan 2012

for all if we withhold judgment about what it will be used for. That's not the giver's decision to make.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
9. Very, very nice, Lunabelle....I always give to the homeless when I have $ on me.
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 08:02 PM
Jan 2012

I once gave some poor middle-aged woman panhandling in the street a

twenty dollar bill...It was worth twice that much just to see the look on her face.

handmade34

(22,756 posts)
12. one nice thing about buffets
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 08:23 PM
Jan 2012

when the situation arises we take people asking for help into a buffet restaurant and pay... let them have their fill

SomethingFishy

(4,876 posts)
13. I used to walk right by the homeless without a second glance
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 08:25 PM
Jan 2012

and then... A musician sang to me:

"Out of the way
It's a busy day
I've got things on my mind
For want of the price of tea and a slice,
the old man died."

Those words really meant something to me. That was 30 years ago. I still give whatever I can.

Lunabelle

(454 posts)
20. Thank you all my DU friends.
Sat Jan 14, 2012, 11:47 PM
Jan 2012

I still have a warm glow from giving. I feel so truly blessed in this life. I'm not rich and don't have a high paying job. I'm just a nurse with a big fat liberal bleeding heart!!!!!

applegrove

(118,622 posts)
22. I give when I have small amounts in my wallet - I can't afford to give more than that these days.
Sun Jan 15, 2012, 01:12 AM
Jan 2012

I'm too skittish to sit down with someone and feed them. I just trust that the money will go to where they need it most. Good for you for helping that woman out.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
25. Sigh, we're there as a country
Sun Jan 15, 2012, 04:12 AM
Jan 2012

In North Berkeley, there's this little old woman - a bone cancer survivor - just about the nicest person you could ever want to meet. Sometimes she sits outside Chez Panisse, a very high-priced, trendy restaurant, with her little cup. I talk to her sometimes when walking a patient around the neighborhood at night. Around New Year's, it was so cold out, and there she was, all wrapped up, sitting on a bucket. I couldn't help it. I reached into my wallet, grabbed what was in there, and put it in her cup. I don't know how much it was. I didn't care.

Sometimes you see suffering and need and just have to do something.

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