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FRI JAN 18, 2013 AT 12:16 AM PST
The best Dear Abby answer. Ever.
byFiddler On A Hot Tin Roof
Offered without further comment:
Dear Residents: You could move.
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2013/01/18/1179980/-The-best-Dear-Abby-answer-Ever
Stuart G
(38,359 posts)NoMoreWarNow
(1,259 posts)unapatriciated
(5,390 posts)Thanks for the morning chuckle.
efhmc
(14,709 posts)Awesome!
skypilot
(8,847 posts)Because diversity is SO suspicious.
Where the hell is this person from that this would even faze them in San Francisco of all places.
question everything
(47,264 posts)In 1970, she published a reader's letter asking whether homosexuality was a diseaseas the American Psychological Association said at the time. "It is the inability to love at all which I consider an emotional illness," she replied.
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424127887324468104578247943685507534.html
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)ahead of her time!!
(I've known plenty who couldn't love at all. Yeah, they were sick alright!)
mahatmakanejeeves
(56,886 posts)I've loved that one for years. I was hoping that was going to be chosen as the best answer ever.
kentuck
(110,950 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)Here's another version:
Dear Abby: About four months ago, the house across the street was sold to a "father and son" or so we thought. We later learned it was an older man about 50 and a young fellow about 24.This was a respectable neighborhood before this "odd couple" moved in. They have all sorts of strange-looking company. Men who look like women, women who look like men, blacks, whites, Indians. Yesterday I even saw two nuns go in there!... Abby, these weirdos are wrecking our property values! How can we improve the quality of this once-respectable neighborhood? Up In Arms
Dear UP: You could move.
http://news.yahoo.com/13-dear-abbys-best-zingers-115100506.html
FreeState
(10,552 posts)That zinger, contained in the 1981 collection "The Best of Dear Abby," was such classic Abby real name, Pauline Friedman Phillips that it moved her daughter to burst into laughter Thursday when reminded of it, even though she had just returned from the funeral of her mother. The elder Phillips had died a day earlier at age 94 after a long battle with Alzheimer's disease.
"People weren't really talking about homosexuality back then," Jeanne Phillips, who now writes the famous syndicated column, said. "But you know, there wasn't a subject my mother wouldn't take on."
oberliner
(58,724 posts)I've seen about a half dozen different version of this online - all with different text, and signed with a different moniker.
Doesn't that suggest that the letter isn't real? At least not as posted on Daily Kos. Perhaps the spirit is accurate, but not verbatim.
csziggy
(34,120 posts)So even if it wasn't real, Pauline Phillips' family embraced the sentiment.
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/01/18/business/media/pauline-phillips-flinty-adviser-to-millions-as-dear-abby-dies-at-94.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
(The letter is quoted at the very end.)
oberliner
(58,724 posts)I am just saying that this particular version is fake, in terms of the wording and the "Nob Hill" reference - which contradicts other, earlier iterations of same.
csziggy
(34,120 posts)I think I would accept that version as true over some other source.
ETA - The source linked above with the 'different text' is a paraphrasing of the letter, not a direct quote, btw. That could explain the difference.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Herald Journal, May 22, 1981.
Looks to be the same as the Daily Kos (with one paragraph elided out)
Thanks for helping me sort out the discrepancies!
csziggy
(34,120 posts)Egalitarian Thug
(12,448 posts)LibertyLover
(4,788 posts)I have to paraphrase the letter, but it went something along the lines of "Dear Abby, what is the cure for a man who hasn't been faithful to his wife during their 40 years or marriage?" Abby's reply (and this is not paraphrased): "Rigor mortis."
ConservativeDemocrat
(2,720 posts)...of white-flight.
So the "Residents" do buy up valuable farmland and pave it over with pure white-only-in-everything-but-name gated communities, where they surround themselves in a little bubble of flag-pins, talk radio, and FOX. And due to the inherent bias toward rural and suburban spaces built into our system (by our founding fathers specifically to prevent national politics becoming a mere extension of big-city politics), they have disproportionate electoral influence.
A much less snarky, and better, reply would have been:
Dear Residents: Before you condemn them, why don't you meet them? If you're religious, recognize that they are children of God, just as you are. Different does not mean evil.
We need less hatred in this country, and it's very hard to hate people you've actually met. And by the way, this goes both ways, my dear hyper-partisan friends.
- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)That is stupendous!!!
Robb
(39,665 posts)Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)You inspired millions with your editorials. There may never be another quite like you.....you were a true American icon.
Rest In Peace.