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That's the nicest thing I can think of saying.
As a married gay man whose community was in the previous Pope's crosshairs, forgive me for being annoyed by the outpouring of ecstasy about this man who has said some pretty awful things.
But perhaps this leopard will change his spots. Millions of Americans have changed their attitudes about gay rights, but I have little hope that the institutional homophobia of the Catholic Church will change any time soon.
I would love to have to eat my words. Truly.
There are many good Catholic DUers and dems. If change does happen, it will be incited by people like them.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)We shall see.
Autumn
(44,986 posts)of wonderful young priests, someday they may be Cardinals and then there may be change.
rurallib
(62,387 posts)Seems the last time the church took s chance on an 'unknown' quantity was John XXIII. Don't think they will make that mistake again soon.
HuckleB
(35,773 posts)He's a well-known entity.
HuckleB
(35,773 posts)... was from his bizarre attacks against gay marriage in Argentina a couple years ago. Not only that, he actually argued against adoption of children by gay parents, because he thinks it's discriminatory against children.
More at the saved wiki site (apparently all controversial information was quickly cut earlier today).
http://web.archive.org/web/20120212075714/http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jorge_Bergoglio
gateley
(62,683 posts)I fear he's another John Paul/Benedict when it comes to gay/women's rights and other issues that are important to us. (Makes sense, I guess, since they probably choose Cardinals who share the same beliefs.)
You're right about the people who have changed their minds (I bet twenty years ago Joe Biden would have been against gay marriage, too, but he's the one who got the ball rolling for this administration.) So I guess there's hope.
If not, just know that the majority of people are on your/our side, and will follow their hearts regardless of the official stance.
Politicub
(12,165 posts)Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)gateley
(62,683 posts)it comes to marriage equality. He doesn't even believe in marriage equality for priests!
I'm hoping he will evolve, like the rest of the world is. Again, I think he's a good man, so maybe his goodness will overcome his ingrained beliefs. It could happen!
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)Until he demonstrates otherwise, he's a bad guy with "pet the dog" moments when it comes to caring for the poor. Big fucking deal.
gateley
(62,683 posts)goodness of most people. His pet the dog moments are pretty amazing and I think speak to who he is. He's just been brainwashed like so many others of his age and religion.
I hope he does change his mind, but it will be incremental if he does, I fear.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)are doing the work of Satan. Not a moderate, nor open minded by any stretch of the imagination.
gateley
(62,683 posts)in other areas. That's what makes me hope that deep down he knows this isn't right.
I never follow a Pope's dictates anyway -- and I think that can be said for a lot of people. There will always be haters and bigots and homophobes, it would just be nice if an institution like the Church came out in support of ALL peoples' rights.
Other organized religions are coming around, this may just be a tougher nut to crack. WILL be a tougher nut to crack.
I'm not a fan of any organized religion, but figure if it helps someone get a long a little easier, what's the harm. But too many place the emphasis on what is WRONG with the person. Sad, sad, sad.
LuvNewcastle
(16,838 posts)John Paul and Benedict held the office. That's about the nicest thing I can say. It's not the end of the world, but things aren't any better either. People who like the Catholic Church as it is can celebrate a continuation of the status quo. For the rest of us, we have the same problems we had before.
Warpy
(111,174 posts)which means he's not a hidebound conservative like the last few. Jesuits are the rabble rousers of that organization (yeah, I know, hard to tell) and he's likely to shake them up here and there.
He will be a lot noisier when it comes to the rights of the world's poor.
He'll likely be just as bad as the rest of them concerning women and gays/lesbians.
Politicub
(12,165 posts)I just hope Francis isn't a jerk.
gateley
(62,683 posts)in a hospice makes me shake my head and catch my breath in awe. I can't understand how someone so compassionate stops short. I read that he's adamant about respecting gays, but couldn't he just move a little bit further and give them (you) the total respect and equality that's deserved?
Incitatus
(5,317 posts)For the church to survive it will have to evolve and change positions like society has. All I see is another robe wearing hypocrite that tells others how to live. Of course, I have been called a cynic by many