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Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 03:45 PM Mar 2013

Are you a non-Catholic, a full Catholic, or a "cafeteria Catholic"?

clarification: by "Catholic" here I mean "Roman Catholic".

A "full Catholic" would agree with the Catholic church on every single issue. That is, all abortion is a sin, no contraception allowed except for the rhythm method, missing Mass is a serious sin, etc.


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I am a non-Catholic.
8 (67%)
I am a full Catholic who agrees with every single position of the Catholic church.
0 (0%)
I am a \"cafeteria Catholic\", agreeing with many but not all positions of the Catholic church.
4 (33%)
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Are you a non-Catholic, a full Catholic, or a "cafeteria Catholic"? (Original Post) Nye Bevan Mar 2013 OP
I don't believe a group of men can elect another man to become infallible. nt TheBlackAdder Mar 2013 #1
The problem with this question is that there is more than one type of Catholic. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #2
Thanks for the reminder. I have edited to clarify. (nt) Nye Bevan Mar 2013 #4
Ha ha, I remember our RC priests telling us that you are NOT Catholic.... bettyellen Mar 2013 #11
We march on anyway, but yes the RCC does not agree with us. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #12
Ex-Catholic. A priest gave me the "God works in mysterious ways" runaround once too often. Tierra_y_Libertad Mar 2013 #3
I dont believe in any fairy tales. libtodeath Mar 2013 #5
Other HockeyMom Mar 2013 #6
Yes, same here customerserviceguy Mar 2013 #18
I was raised Catholic. DireStrike Mar 2013 #7
And you're not alone. nt wandy Mar 2013 #8
Ex Catholic. After the sacraments were alsame Mar 2013 #9
Left the church, otherwise I would be a hypocrite. Which kind of fucks up the "belief" part, no? bettyellen Mar 2013 #10
I'm a non-Catholic married to a Catholic. NaturalHigh Mar 2013 #13
Me, too. Been going to mass with her for 35 years in a liberal, non-territorial parish. pampango Mar 2013 #15
I was raised as a Catholic aint_no_life_nowhere Mar 2013 #14
A cafeteria Catholic treestar Mar 2013 #16
The sort Pope Joan the Second apologizes to a few hundred years from now. hunter Mar 2013 #17
And her wife will support this position (nt) Nye Bevan Mar 2013 #26
I was baptized and raised Catholic phylny Mar 2013 #19
Raised Catholic. Now Atheist. Magic Isn't Real. RedCappedBandit Mar 2013 #20
I think I'm the "fence sitting" type of Catholic..... a kennedy Mar 2013 #21
12 years of Catholic school turned me into an agnostic, non-theistic evolutionist. MrSlayer Mar 2013 #22
i am a recovering catholic. spanone Mar 2013 #23
None of the above. talkingmime Mar 2013 #24
I'm a ham sandwich MattBaggins Mar 2013 #25
 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
2. The problem with this question is that there is more than one type of Catholic.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 03:50 PM
Mar 2013

Not all catholics are in communion with the pope. Anglicans/Episcopalians are also catholic so I would say yes I am catholic.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
11. Ha ha, I remember our RC priests telling us that you are NOT Catholic....
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 04:07 PM
Mar 2013

not that I give a rats ass.

 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
3. Ex-Catholic. A priest gave me the "God works in mysterious ways" runaround once too often.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 03:51 PM
Mar 2013

Not to mention I found the whole set of beliefs unbelievable and downright silly.

"It is difficult to believe in a religion that places such a high premium on chastity and virginity."
Madonna

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
18. Yes, same here
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 05:59 PM
Mar 2013

It would have been nice to have had "recovered Catholic" or something to that effect here.

alsame

(7,784 posts)
9. Ex Catholic. After the sacraments were
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 04:05 PM
Mar 2013

done, I never went to church again other than for weddings and funerals.

I've lived my life without paying any attention to the dogma.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
13. I'm a non-Catholic married to a Catholic.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 04:12 PM
Mar 2013

I respect the Catholic doctrine and teachings, although I don't always agree.

pampango

(24,692 posts)
15. Me, too. Been going to mass with her for 35 years in a liberal, non-territorial parish.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 05:16 PM
Mar 2013

It's the only kind of parish that we (and many others) can tolerate with its increased participation by women, a mandate of social justice for a percentage of our contributions and a wink and nod from the archdiocese which must understand that they would lose everyone in the parish if it cracked down.

My wife was born Catholic and it is very important to her. It has not been hard for me because the people here are so liberal and so critical of the church hierarchy. For their own personal reasons they all chosen to maintain their connection to the church despite their dissatisfaction as long as they are able to maintain their community as it is. With the shortage of priests growing there seems to be a consensus that if the parish has to close in the future, they will not attend other parishes.

on edit: I voted as a 'cafeteria Catholic' on behalf of all those people I go to church with even though I'm not a Catholic myself.

aint_no_life_nowhere

(21,925 posts)
14. I was raised as a Catholic
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 04:24 PM
Mar 2013

but when I was about 12 years old, a priest got really angry and nasty with me during confession and chewed me out for almost nothing. It seems the boy ahead of me in line was dying of cancer and nonetheless dragged himself to confession and the priest got emotionally upset on hearing his confession and then got very angry with me when I told him I'd missed confession on the last few Sundays. I realize now that he was just being emotional and human but at the time, after hearing him shout at me loudly through the confessional I decided to avoid confession and holy communion altogether. I never confirmed because of that incident and I went less and less to Mass and now I haven't been in years.

I deplore abortion but I think every woman who has one probably deplores it too and wishes she had an easier choice. I wouldn't want to force someone to have a child they don't want. I don't agree with the church on contraception or abortion or gay marriage but I still admire the beauty of Catholic ritual, the echo in the church, he tinkling of the bell, the smell of incense, the candles, and especially the way the mass was when I was a kid and the priest would sing in Latin.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
16. A cafeteria Catholic
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 05:17 PM
Mar 2013

Which everyone is, even if they don't admit it - nobody expects to abide by the rules of 1420, they change.

hunter

(38,310 posts)
17. The sort Pope Joan the Second apologizes to a few hundred years from now.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 05:59 PM
Mar 2013

She's going to say it was wrong to exclude women from the hierarchy, and married people, gay or straight, from the priesthood.

phylny

(8,379 posts)
19. I was baptized and raised Catholic
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 07:00 PM
Mar 2013

but realized that since I didn't believe birth control was wrong, didn't believe the Pope was infallible, and didn't believe in praying to Mary, I probably wasn't really Catholic.

I am now Presbyterian, and attend a church that is an ecumenical church of Presbyterians, Episcopalians, and Lutherans.

a kennedy

(29,647 posts)
21. I think I'm the "fence sitting" type of Catholic.....
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 07:37 PM
Mar 2013

I believe in abortion, gay marriage, birth control, but I don't eat meat on Friday, and I've given up alcohol for lent.

 

MrSlayer

(22,143 posts)
22. 12 years of Catholic school turned me into an agnostic, non-theistic evolutionist.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 07:38 PM
Mar 2013

When I started getting hollered at for asking questions in third grade I was on to the scam.

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