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CaliforniaPeggy

(149,523 posts)
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 12:31 PM Mar 2013

Many people have proposed that we have a Memorial Group to commemorate our DUers who have passed...

Today I got the go-ahead from Skinner. (See my post in AtA.)

He would like us to put together a list of names.

So, if you knew any DUer who has died, post the name here. Once we do that, we'll get our Group.

Thanks!

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Many people have proposed that we have a Memorial Group to commemorate our DUers who have passed... (Original Post) CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 OP
I'll start: Redstone, khashka, nostamj. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #1
I was going to say nostamj BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2013 #21
There was this post he did during the prelude before the Iraq War . . . hatrack Mar 2013 #234
kephra, 180, Gbnc blm Mar 2013 #29
MonkeyMan. I miss him. n/t FourScore Mar 2013 #51
Me too. lonestarnot Mar 2013 #159
I want to also pay tribute to all those we never know about... FourScore Mar 2013 #197
... SammyWinstonJack Mar 2013 #228
K8-EEE proud2BlibKansan Mar 2013 #2
Khephra, January 8, 2005. Solly Mack Mar 2013 #3
thanks for remembering Khephra... ewagner Mar 2013 #60
Would be hard to forget him. Solly Mack Mar 2013 #108
LBN has yet to recover xxqqqzme Mar 2013 #61
I still miss seeing his name in LBN. Solly Mack Mar 2013 #106
Momma Khephra's post... countryjake Mar 2013 #63
Thanks for the links! Solly Mack Mar 2013 #105
Khephra, Khephra, Khephra, Khephra, Khephra, Khephra, SharonAnn Mar 2013 #84
He was LBN. Solly Mack Mar 2013 #104
Under Kheph's name, I think JanMichael Mar 2013 #100
I remember that. Solly Mack Mar 2013 #103
I remember Khephra. Still Blue in PDX Mar 2013 #126
I still miss Scott Skittles Mar 2013 #153
Me too. lonestarnot Mar 2013 #160
Hoping I get this right - someone I got to know modding with at DU2 - TommyO NRaleighLiberal Mar 2013 #4
MaddieJoan and SapphireBlue, two of my favorite DU posters EVER! boston bean Mar 2013 #5
I still can't get over Sapphire Blue being gone, an amazing, tireless DUer! countryjake Mar 2013 #59
SB was great and really so kind. boston bean Mar 2013 #109
I Miss Them Irishonly Mar 2013 #102
Blue lonestarnot Mar 2013 #163
I still have email from Maddie in my DU2 archives mtnester Mar 2013 #223
MaddieJoan was one of my most favorite posters. Jamastiene Mar 2013 #225
Andy Stephenson... catnhatnh Mar 2013 #6
I think Andy's passing xxqqqzme Mar 2013 #39
I went to his RL memorial tavalon Mar 2013 #172
Thank you. I second Andy's name for this. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2013 #65
Andy came to mind right off for me as well. n/t AndyA Mar 2013 #101
Andy was a saint. no_hypocrisy Mar 2013 #115
Andy's name came to my mind. Still Blue in PDX Mar 2013 #125
+1 shireen Mar 2013 #178
The first name that came to my mind HarveyDarkey Mar 2013 #145
Gawd lonestarnot Mar 2013 #161
Nostamj, creator of DU's TOON tradition JHB Mar 2013 #7
Oh yes...and his theater group "Question 'W'" before KoKo Mar 2013 #90
I went to see his "Question W Revue"... JHB Mar 2013 #143
I remember listening to one of the perfomances on Mike Malloy's Show KoKo Mar 2013 #144
OlafTheWhite WilliamPitt Mar 2013 #8
the arkansas liberal Broken_Hero Mar 2013 #9
Blonde at Last...knr joeybee12 Mar 2013 #10
Her old DU Journal... countryjake Mar 2013 #52
Thanks! joeybee12 Mar 2013 #56
+1. Miss her. n/t FSogol Mar 2013 #64
+47 lonestarnot Mar 2013 #162
I miss her as well. nt TBF Mar 2013 #139
i had no idea she passed fizzgig Mar 2013 #222
Oneighty.... Little Star Mar 2013 #11
I scanned a pic of him from the back cover of his book he autographed for us in 2004 madfloridian Mar 2013 #131
That's so great! He could sure write a story, that's what I remember most. Little Star Mar 2013 #134
I HAVE THAT TOO!! Skittles Mar 2013 #155
Thanks for sharing that. nt redqueen Mar 2013 #191
he was my DU Dad Skittles Mar 2013 #154
I have a copy of his book MuseRider Mar 2013 #226
troubleinwinter Wilms Mar 2013 #12
AlienGirl. n/t RiffRandell Mar 2013 #13
Yes. She broke my heart. nolabear Mar 2013 #93
It's still fresh to me... Phentex Mar 2013 #110
she tried so hard Skittles Mar 2013 #152
JanusAscending Wilms Mar 2013 #14
Didn't know she passed away politicasista Mar 2013 #205
Alarcojon Wilms Mar 2013 #15
Alarcojon's old DU Journal... countryjake Mar 2013 #69
Playahata1 JanMichael Mar 2013 #16
Steve Deshazer Wilms Mar 2013 #17
I still look for him. lonestarnot Mar 2013 #164
Fearsidhe Wilms Mar 2013 #18
Thank you JanMichael Mar 2013 #30
Did NewYawker99 pass away? (nt) Nye Bevan Mar 2013 #19
I'm not sure about her...Sorry. CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #31
I think she took a voluntary leave of absence. progressoid Mar 2013 #70
Someone thinks she may have. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #77
I remember people saying she was ill. And whatever happened to SwampRat?? Hissyspit Mar 2013 #135
No one seems to know. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #140
180 Gemini Cat Mar 2013 #20
Longhorn n/t Lisa D Mar 2013 #22
Ditto, was just looking to see if that one made the list, nt Broken_Hero Mar 2013 #24
Yes..she was the only one who made sense of all of us posting in Sports! joeybee12 Mar 2013 #67
Givemebackmycountry Wilms Mar 2013 #23
damn, I had not heard that hfojvt Mar 2013 #121
Fearsidhe JanMichael Mar 2013 #25
Tangerine LaBamba BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2013 #26
Annette Appollo - I miss her still n/t Mira Mar 2013 #62
Yeah- FKA Old Lefty Lawyer. Miss her tons. PeaceNikki Mar 2013 #91
Me too. lonestarnot Mar 2013 #166
Miss her big time malaise Mar 2013 #97
The Senator and MazeRat7 UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #27
Longhorn, AlienGirl, Blondeatlast, TangerineLaBamba LeftishBrit Mar 2013 #28
Yes, too many......but now we can properly grieve and remember... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #32
Peggy, besides just a list of their names... DonRedwood Mar 2013 #37
Oh, absolutely. CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #38
I just added a link to my post above. Little Star Mar 2013 #41
+1 Little Star Mar 2013 #42
So their names would be threads in the group forum? So people could add links & pictures to patrice Mar 2013 #81
That would certainly work. CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #107
These people have helped other people here, so it would be good for their friends to show honor patrice Mar 2013 #111
How did I miss TLB? Damn. nt awoke_in_2003 Mar 2013 #85
AllJunkMail KamaAina Mar 2013 #33
PJM is a cool guy JanMichael Mar 2013 #44
thanks for remembering my great grandfather ProdigalJunkMail Mar 2013 #173
probably lots of people still miss him, JanMichael Mar 2013 #185
Found my first post on this board... about William... ProdigalJunkMail Mar 2013 #186
you should send the link to C.Peggy JanMichael Mar 2013 #187
Good idea... done and thanks! n/t ProdigalJunkMail Mar 2013 #189
his 'repuke' great-grandson is still here... ProdigalJunkMail Mar 2013 #184
Glad we could be of service. KamaAina Mar 2013 #199
This thread covered all the ones I know and some I didn't know who Cleita Mar 2013 #34
I am sorry, my dear Cleita... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #36
5thGenDemocrat KamaAina Mar 2013 #35
What?? When? Flaxbee Mar 2013 #43
A couple of years ago KamaAina Mar 2013 #71
I didn't see your post. Thank you from his Auntie A for remembering John. n/t sarge43 Mar 2013 #76
He was truly awesome KamaAina Mar 2013 #79
John was a pretty special guy. davsand Mar 2013 #170
Thank you for getting the go-ahead xxqqqzme Mar 2013 #40
This occurred to me yesterday, when I was reading about K8-EEE. CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #47
ginbarn/ChickMagic redqueen Mar 2013 #45
Yes, ginbarn Richardo Mar 2013 #182
stevedeshazer FourScore Mar 2013 #46
Reading the names.... nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #48
Wiley50 DollarBillHines Mar 2013 #49
Yup. Hissyspit Mar 2013 #136
Monkeyman countryjake Mar 2013 #50
It broke my heart when he passed away. FourScore Mar 2013 #195
That is true for so many named on this thread... countryjake Mar 2013 #201
My beloved Zodiak Ironfist. VenusRising Mar 2013 #53
Oh, my dear VenusRising... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #54
I was about to post his name. OnyxCollie Mar 2013 #58
Thank you for remembering him. VenusRising Mar 2013 #83
He had posted a video OnyxCollie Mar 2013 #87
That was him, alright. VenusRising Mar 2013 #95
... OneGrassRoot Mar 2013 #92
Right back at ya, OneGrassRoot. VenusRising Mar 2013 #96
... :hug: auntAgonist Mar 2013 #224
Thank you, Peggy -- and thank you, Skinner! gateley Mar 2013 #55
This is a wonderful idea. colorado_ufo Mar 2013 #57
Thank you for doing this, Peggy. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2013 #66
So many gone....this is a wonderful idea. sunwyn Mar 2013 #68
great idea d_b Mar 2013 #72
I'm for anything Peggy wants. JEB Mar 2013 #73
Aw, thank you...... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #74
My nephew, John Herbst, 5thGenDemocrat sarge43 Mar 2013 #75
There was a man from the DU2 Bicycling forum who posted a Katy Trail travelogue Kolesar Mar 2013 #78
Do you mean Fovea (realpolitik)? countryjake Mar 2013 #82
I have to find out if they got that bench on the Katy Trail Kolesar Mar 2013 #86
He was a great guy! MuseRider Mar 2013 #230
Andy Stephenson Jack Rabbit Mar 2013 #80
OneEighty.. KoKo Mar 2013 #88
The Long Haul Truck Driver who had many good posts KoKo Mar 2013 #89
And I do hope people respect it as an absolute conflict free zone. nolabear Mar 2013 #94
This made me smile; our friend "Fearsidhe" (John) JanMichael Mar 2013 #98
LOL! Maybe that can be a whole 'nother area, the DU Memorial Free-for-All! nolabear Mar 2013 #119
Can you even imagine JanMichael Mar 2013 #122
Award winning documentary filmmaker David L. Wolper was a DUer Kolesar Mar 2013 #99
that is a wonderful idea - thank you. hollysmom Mar 2013 #112
nicknameless, lover of animals, and Tommy O, former mod Rhiannon12866 Mar 2013 #113
MrJim graham4anything Mar 2013 #114
Just last year we lost pnorman... countryjake Mar 2013 #116
Wonderful idea, Peggy! Thank you. dgibby Mar 2013 #117
The Notorious P.I.G.was the member. I'm thinking though that this should be just for DUers... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #118
I believe he WAS a member. GoCubsGo Mar 2013 #218
Thanks! I guess he didn't. CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #219
A few names Lithos Mar 2013 #120
Merci_me is gone? countryjake Mar 2013 #127
Also Fearsidhe and JanusAscending Hissyspit Mar 2013 #132
Thanks for spearheading lillypaddle Mar 2013 #123
It's so strange to read so many names RainDog Mar 2013 #124
I have one.. rebel with a cause. Her daughter Abbey Road Cha Mar 2013 #128
Excellent memorial Aerows Mar 2013 #129
there was a poster named Housewolf who frequented cooking and baking. grasswire Mar 2013 #130
I fear she is gone NMDemDist2 Mar 2013 #231
I thought she had some family somewhere grasswire Mar 2013 #232
i met her when she still lived in AZ NMDemDist2 Mar 2013 #235
Redstone liberaltrucker Mar 2013 #133
yes. lonestarnot Mar 2013 #165
I was thinking about Redstone the other day. grasswire Mar 2013 #233
NeverCryWolf, oneighty, Massafra Hissyspit Mar 2013 #137
I never saw a post from NYGuy after 9/11 mithnanthy Mar 2013 #138
Seriously? That's so sad. n/t FourScore Mar 2013 #196
Thank you for this, Peggy. nt msanthrope Mar 2013 #141
MedicalAdmin EvolveOrConvolve Mar 2013 #142
+1 justabob Mar 2013 #181
His story affected me also. unapatriciated Mar 2013 #210
His post just ripped my heart out. Arugula Latte Mar 2013 #214
A list of some here as well: The Straight Story Mar 2013 #146
Thank you for these links! CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #149
Ahhh I know why now The Straight Story Mar 2013 #150
Should include journal links if they had them eridani Mar 2013 #147
I know Skinner could make it available only to registered members. CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #148
WONDERFUL idea Skittles Mar 2013 #151
Thanks for posting - I had no idea Rosa Luxemburg Mar 2013 #156
:(::::::::::::::::::::: Man... So Many... WillyT Mar 2013 #157
It needs to be in honor of Andy Stephenson and Kephra Hekate Mar 2013 #158
Thanks, Peggy. Well done. nt Zorra Mar 2013 #167
What about eggbeater? murielm99 Mar 2013 #168
A post from Mrs. eggbeater, Nov. 2006... countryjake Mar 2013 #177
I want to thank you for doing this, CaliforniaPeggy. countryjake Mar 2013 #169
I wonder about Rebellious Republican, haven't seen him around for years. madfloridian Mar 2013 #171
It's a great idea to have a memorial group. Thanks so much. Sunlei Mar 2013 #174
Mikimouse passed away March 8, 2007 after battling cancer. countryjake Mar 2013 #175
JacksonB57 died Oct. 7 2010, I don't know if he ever posted much but he donated Raine Mar 2013 #176
... SammyWinstonJack Mar 2013 #229
Hillbillybob Duppers Mar 2013 #179
Playahata and blondeatlast. Nt XanaDUer Mar 2013 #180
This is a wonderful idea. K&R myrna minx Mar 2013 #183
Here is the link to the announcement of the passing of my Great-Grandfather, William (AllJunkMail) ProdigalJunkMail Mar 2013 #188
His funniest thread: JanMichael Mar 2013 #192
I remember that one being shared with me on his passing. ProdigalJunkMail Mar 2013 #193
to all du members who have passed allan01 Mar 2013 #190
HerrHerr redqueen Mar 2013 #194
HerrHerr JanMichael Mar 2013 #202
Auto accident. redqueen Mar 2013 #203
oh no JanMichael Mar 2013 #204
Thank you Skinner. And thanks Peggy for putting it together. uppityperson Mar 2013 #198
Also--hayu_lol CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #200
AzLady too. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #206
I still have a PM Redstone sent me, he said that one of my posts made him laugh out loud. Ikonoklast Mar 2013 #207
Did someone already list Texasgal Mar 2013 #208
No worries, my dear Texasgal! She was listed above. And thank you...n/t CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #209
thank you for this thread. unapatriciated Mar 2013 #211
I don't know who died, but can think of two that I liked who aren't here anymore.. fadedrose Mar 2013 #212
Feel free to have a "We miss you" post for that... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2013 #213
JitterbugPerfume - We miss you . . . hope you're OK fadedrose Mar 2013 #215
mvccd1000 - We Miss You fadedrose Mar 2013 #216
MaineDem - We Miss You in Fiction fadedrose Mar 2013 #217
PBS Poll-435, formerly prodn2000. NYC_SKP Mar 2013 #220
I think an early DUer named Freddy57 died, too, Lydia Leftcoast Mar 2013 #221
Thank you for doing this Peggy. MuseRider Mar 2013 #227
Whatever happened to farmboxer? Art_from_Ark Mar 2013 #236

hatrack

(59,574 posts)
234. There was this post he did during the prelude before the Iraq War . . .
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 10:45 PM
Mar 2013

It was all about how the UN had discovered the possibility that Saddam Hussein had developed supplies of NERVE GAS (except the words "nerve gas" were in a scary, shaky green font and in all capital letters).

I just about wet myself laughing - I miss that guy!

FourScore

(9,704 posts)
197. I want to also pay tribute to all those we never know about...
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:46 AM
Mar 2013

The ones who just never return and we don't know their fate. There are those who just move on, but I am certain there are also those who have died and we never hear about it. Eventually, their memory fades away...Or did we even notice them that much? Did we notice they are gone? Those cases make me sad. And I am sure they are numerous.

SharonAnn

(13,771 posts)
84. Khephra, Khephra, Khephra, Khephra, Khephra, Khephra,
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 03:09 PM
Mar 2013

LBN has never been the same since his passing.

His information kept me sane during "W"'s first term.

It was the only place where I could find published, thoughtful articles that raised all the serious questions about "W's policies and the Iraq war. And now we know the answers to those questions. But at that time, the media was full of "tax cuts will help the economy" and "the Iraq war was about WMD's and wouldn't cost anything.

JanMichael

(24,873 posts)
100. Under Kheph's name, I think
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 04:05 PM
Mar 2013

there should be a link to what had to be his funniest thread...I can't remember the title of it, but it was in the Lounge, and said something to the effect of "I can't post anymore...our house is on fire...."

Apparently, it was too--- nothing got by him that did not go onto DU....everyone still misses him

NRaleighLiberal

(60,006 posts)
4. Hoping I get this right - someone I got to know modding with at DU2 - TommyO
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 12:38 PM
Mar 2013
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=profile&uid=136340

Please someone let me know ASAP if my memory is in error. Great guy - loved to share recipes, used seasonal avatars, fair minded - great teammate in the hot tub.

boston bean

(36,218 posts)
109. SB was great and really so kind.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 04:15 PM
Mar 2013

Maddiejoan was the most wittiest person on DU. Gosh I really miss them both.

mtnester

(8,885 posts)
223. I still have email from Maddie in my DU2 archives
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 05:15 PM
Mar 2013

she was great, and funny, and concise. Would talk to anyone. Was the same person away from this board as she was on this board.

Her loss is plenty tragic in a thousand different ways.

Still Blue in PDX

(1,999 posts)
125. Andy's name came to my mind.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:32 PM
Mar 2013

I was struck by the outpouring of love by DUers. That's one of the reasons I keep coming back here.

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
90. Oh yes...and his theater group "Question 'W'" before
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 03:20 PM
Mar 2013

anyone really knew the worst that George II would do in taking us into Iraq.

JHB

(37,154 posts)
143. I went to see his "Question W Revue"...
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 08:43 PM
Mar 2013


Hate to say it, but I was a little disappointed. It was funny if you were already "on board", but didn't offer much to people who weren't already opposed to Bush (like my guest).

That said, the "Spawn of Barbara" song was rollicking. And on that topic...
From nostamj:
http://upload.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=104&topic_id=2809770&mesg_id=2809770

THE SPAWN OF BARBARA
(To the tune of “This Joint Is Jumping”)

THEY PLAN GLOBAL EXPANSION
BUT IN A FAMILY WAY
THEY’RE CHUMMY WITH THE SAUDIS
AND PALS OF KENNY LAY
TO SAY THAT THEY ARE SHADY
UNDERSTATES THE CASE
THIS DYNASTY IS SO NASTY
THEY’RE A NATIONAL DISGRACE!
(“You’ve been warned!”)

THE SPAWN OF BARBARA
SHOULD TERRIFY YA
MARVIN, JEB AND NEIL AND GEORGE
I FEAR THE SPAWN OF BARBARA

THEY’RE CORPORATE CROOKS, WHO
ALL COOK THE BOOKS, TOO
POPPY’S BROOD
IS MORE THAN RUDE
I FEAR THE SPAWN OF BARBARA

THEIR COMPASSION IS A POSE
AND THEY DON’T CARE WHAT YOU THINK
SCRATCH ANY SCANDAL AND YOUR NOSE
WILL GET A WHIFF OF BUSH-STINKFROM JEB’S DECEPTION
IN THAT ELECTION
MARVIN’S SCORES
AND NEIL’S WHORES
I FEAR THE SPAWN OF BARBARA

THE SPAWN OF BARBARA!
SHOULD TERRIFY YA
HER FIRST BORN DESERVES THE SCORN
I FEAR THE SPAWN OF BARBARA

EACH GENERATION...
DEGENERATION
BOOZE AND PILLS,
THEY FLAUNT THEIR ILLS
THIS IS ONE GRAND ‘MUTHA’

PRESCOTT’S EVIL NAZI TIES
WERE ONLY THE BEGINNING
PEOPLE DIE WHEN DUB’YA LIES--
OH, LOOK! GEORGE ORWELL’S SPINNING!

THEIR THIRST FOR POWER
GROWS EVERY HOUR
MARVIN, JEB AND NEIL AND GEORGE
I FEAR THE SPAWN OF BARBARA

MARVIN, JEB AND NEIL AND GEORGE

I FEAR THE SPAWN OF BARBARA!

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
144. I remember listening to one of the perfomances on Mike Malloy's Show
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 08:57 PM
Mar 2013

Last edited Tue Mar 19, 2013, 08:14 AM - Edit history (1)

I think that's where it was. It was the BEST WE HAD at that point and I will always be thankful to him for trying...even though it didn't quite come off as "Occupy Wall Street" at that point in time...it still should be in the History Books along with Cindy Sheehan for the First to Speak Up against the MIC Media who had all of America in a Frenzy over "9/11" and WAR...WAR...WAR..

The early spokespersons often get a footnote in History when a movement against Power starts...but, eventually someone notices. I was glad to have them speaking for many of us who had "QUESTIONS" back then.

But, I understand what you say...of the innocence of it.

madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
131. I scanned a pic of him from the back cover of his book he autographed for us in 2004
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 06:25 PM
Mar 2013

Setting the crab traps. From The Voyages of the Vicky Mary by Ed Gard. Plus by favorite of his stories about his little silver car.

http://journals.democraticunderground.com/madfloridian/311

MuseRider

(34,095 posts)
226. I have a copy of his book
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 01:07 PM
Mar 2013

and some pictures of him from his time in the Korean war. I miss him a lot.

 

Wilms

(26,795 posts)
12. troubleinwinter
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 12:51 PM
Mar 2013

I googled to make sure I got the user name right. The thread that came up was one saluting Andy Stephenson.

politicasista

(14,128 posts)
205. Didn't know she passed away
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:22 PM
Mar 2013


She was a very sweet and funny lady. Always mad love for her posts. Thoughts are with her family.

JanMichael

(24,873 posts)
30. Thank you
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:11 PM
Mar 2013

he was a personal friend, and he would be pleased to see that someone else remembered him on DU; he was a raging liberal. I am sitting under a fly rod he bought while I am typing this-

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
121. damn, I had not heard that
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:13 PM
Mar 2013

He was a guy I had actually met at a DU meetup in 2005 or so, when he was in KC.

I thought he was a fairly young guy, but later he posted about some strange health problem. I don't know if that was connected.

It sorta bothers me when youngish people pass away and no reason is mentioned. Not that 40s or even late 30s is particularly "young" but it is too young when you have the mindset that people SHOULD live to be at least 70, barring car accidents, gunfire, or the other c-word.

DonRedwood

(4,359 posts)
37. Peggy, besides just a list of their names...
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:17 PM
Mar 2013

Maybe under their names people could leave a link to one of their old essays or posts that meant a lot to them? I'm sure a lot of them have disappeared over time, but some of their best posts would sure be a nice way to be remembered. I hope after I am gone someone dredges up a few of my posts for a reread.

:0)

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,523 posts)
38. Oh, absolutely.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:18 PM
Mar 2013

Any links to their posts or whatever would be wonderful.

Thank you for mentioning this!

patrice

(47,992 posts)
81. So their names would be threads in the group forum? So people could add links & pictures to
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 02:57 PM
Mar 2013

Last edited Mon Mar 18, 2013, 04:06 PM - Edit history (1)

the threads by posting under a person's name???

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,523 posts)
107. That would certainly work.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 04:14 PM
Mar 2013

I think it would be essential to be able to add our memories and links to threads or pictures, or whatever we had that was appropriate.

Thank you for bringing this up.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
111. These people have helped other people here, so it would be good for their friends to show honor
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 04:23 PM
Mar 2013

for what they did.

Also, so we don't forget what we can be to one another if we choose.

Thanks for doing this, Peggy!

JanMichael

(24,873 posts)
44. PJM is a cool guy
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:25 PM
Mar 2013

he set up the DU account for his grandfather, and when he died....PJM printed out the condolence thread and placed it in his coffin.

He also posted an hour ago...so, likely he'll be reading this thread. I hope he sees that folks still remember his grandfather-- what a cool old guy he must have been-

ProdigalJunkMail

(12,017 posts)
173. thanks for remembering my great grandfather
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:07 AM
Mar 2013

It has been a lot of years... he loved this place. And despite all the wrangling that I have gotten into I love it too. You folks have taught me so much that I never knew about the Democratic Party that it has become invaluable to my experience and understanding.

sP David

JanMichael

(24,873 posts)
185. probably lots of people still miss him,
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 08:55 AM
Mar 2013

He was a great addition to any thread-- he had many online friends here- I didn't realize he was your great grandfather-

He was one of those folks that you wish you knew, and had more time with-

ProdigalJunkMail

(12,017 posts)
186. Found my first post on this board... about William...
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 09:20 AM
Mar 2013

Hello. My name is David and while I am not a member of your board I am taking a moment to post some news about my great grandfather, William who most of you know as Junk.

On Monday, the 10th of March, at approximately 4:00PM, just 14 days shy of his 85th birthday, William suffered a massive stroke. He was found by his wife, Ruth about an hour later. He was taken to a local hospital where he lived for two days then had a heart attack that was his end. He never regained consciousness after the stroke and doctors assured us that he was unaware of what was happening to him. William died at 7:24PM, March 12, 2003.

He is survived by his wife (his and her second marriage) of 11 years, Ruth. He had eleven sons, all of whom are still alive and one daughter who died at the age of four. He had 42 grandchildren and 71 great grandchildren and my sister and her husband gave him his first great great grandchild in November of last year. He is preceded in death by his first wife, Elanor (1918-1989) and daughter Samantha (1942-1946). He lived in amazing times and brought insight and discerment to those of us who would learn from him.

Now a little personal note to those of you with whom he chatted. I am a rather staunch Republican and my great-grandfather was a fairly liberal Democrat. While we disagreed on many many things, he loved this board and so do I. I got him signed on for the first time a few months back and after showing him how to browse your site and post messages (thanks to all the admins for making this such an easily accessible website) he was off and running.

The discussions he had here and the people that he was getting to know gave him a new light that I had not seen in him for a long while. He worked literally to his last moments and enjoyed life, but this place seemed to fire him in a way that little else had in recent years. We had some wonderful discussions based on what he learned of and talked about here. I just want to thank all of you for allowing him a place to come and voice his opinions and listen to those who were like minded. Like I said, he loved this place.

Services will be held on Friday at 1:30PM. I would ask that those of you who are inclined to say a little prayer of remembrance for him, and those who are not inclined, if you just think of him, that would be greatly appreciated. Also, anything written in response to this thread (provided appropriate) will be sent along with him to his resting place; I think he would like that.

I will be checking back tonight and tomorrow. Thank you all for helping to so enrich the last few months of his life.

David

Everybody now bring your family down to the riverside
Look to the east to see where the fat stock hide
Behind four walls of stone the rich man sleeps
It's time we put the flame torch to their keep

Burn down the mission
If we're gonna stay alive
Watch the black smoke fly to heaven
See the red flame light the sky

-Elton John and Bernie Taupin

JanMichael

(24,873 posts)
187. you should send the link to C.Peggy
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 09:25 AM
Mar 2013

and get that whole thread on the memorial page. I remember it well. I think either me or my wife is on that thread-- it was a testimony to how well liked and respected he was here.

ProdigalJunkMail

(12,017 posts)
184. his 'repuke' great-grandson is still here...
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 08:47 AM
Mar 2013

though, my views have tempered thanks to a lot of the knowledge i have gained here...

sP

davsand

(13,421 posts)
170. John was a pretty special guy.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:30 AM
Mar 2013

We made it to a couple of Fundays and those were weekends that left me treasuring the memories. Yes, they were great parties and lots of fun, but what set them apart for me was John and time with him and all his friends.

We met John when he came to our house for the first ever DU meetup--along with Scott (Keph) and Doctor Gonzo. As others here have come to realize, a DU meetup is a whole lot of fun, and it is not at all like meeting people for the first time. We had a blast that weekend, and when John said, "Come on up to Saginaw for Funday in June!" we started making the plans.

He was a friend and I miss him. I'm so very glad that others here remember him fondly.



Laura

xxqqqzme

(14,887 posts)
40. Thank you for getting the go-ahead
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:24 PM
Mar 2013

for a Memorial group. I know it has been discussed over the years. I think an important part of DU is to remember our friends here.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,523 posts)
47. This occurred to me yesterday, when I was reading about K8-EEE.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:28 PM
Mar 2013

And since we now have easy access to the admins via ATA, it was simple.

I agree about how important this is.

FourScore

(9,704 posts)
195. It broke my heart when he passed away.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:43 AM
Mar 2013

He is the one DUer I really, really, really wanted to meet in person.

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
201. That is true for so many named on this thread...
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 06:10 PM
Mar 2013

I tried to listen to that video I linked to, the one I'd saved that Monkeyman himself had posted, and it was just too sad to play...only made it about halfway thru, before I had to stop listening. This thread is heartbreaking on it's own, without any bagpipes.

 

OnyxCollie

(9,958 posts)
87. He had posted a video
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 03:13 PM
Mar 2013

of himself rockin' out on his Rickenbacher.

Talented and cool, so sad he died young.

VenusRising

(11,252 posts)
95. That was him, alright.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 03:32 PM
Mar 2013

His channel is still up on YouTube. It's nice to still be able to watch him doing something he loved so much.

auntAgonist

(17,252 posts)
224. ... :hug:
Wed Mar 27, 2013, 01:28 AM
Mar 2013
and more


I'm glad his name is on the list, well, ... glad he's included. Certainly NOT glad he's a part of the family we've lost.


you know what I mean




aA
kesha

gateley

(62,683 posts)
55. Thank you, Peggy -- and thank you, Skinner!
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:43 PM
Mar 2013

Some amazing people have gifted us with their presence, wisdom and humor on DU.

Kolesar

(31,182 posts)
78. There was a man from the DU2 Bicycling forum who posted a Katy Trail travelogue
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 02:40 PM
Mar 2013

He was recovering from some disease and I think we lost him. How do I search the DU2 archives?

Kolesar

(31,182 posts)
86. I have to find out if they got that bench on the Katy Trail
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 03:12 PM
Mar 2013
Thanks so much for finding that. His last Journal entry from June 12 was fantastic.

MuseRider

(34,095 posts)
230. He was a great guy!
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 04:18 PM
Mar 2013

I never met him although I live close and we did have a few DU meetups, he was never there. I will never forget one election. I had to be in Kansas City as one of my sons had a very important gig to play. I was totally freaked out about the local elections and he kept me sane sending me text messages of all the returns as they came in. Bless his heart. What a great guy.

Jack Rabbit

(45,984 posts)
80. Andy Stephenson
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 02:53 PM
Mar 2013

It is very important for us not forget Andy Stephenson, who was a tireless activist for voting rights who died of cancer at the age of 43 in Seattle in 2005. Beloved of DUers, he spent his final days surrounded by friends while being slandered by right wingers who claimed that his illness was a hoax, that the fund to raise $50K for an operation was a fraud and even dedicated a website to promoting such nonsense. There was once a Wikipedia article about Andy, but right wingers, wishing to cover their tracks after all the perfidy and slander they committed against him, organized in an unfortunately successful effort to get it removed.

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
89. The Long Haul Truck Driver who had many good posts
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 03:18 PM
Mar 2013

about his experiences on the road and about Labor.

I think he died last year.

JanMichael

(24,873 posts)
98. This made me smile; our friend "Fearsidhe" (John)
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 03:38 PM
Mar 2013

would laugh his ass off if he knew he could STILL cause political arguments! He was a raging liberal/ feminist-

But, otherwise, yes-- agreed-

JanMichael

(24,873 posts)
122. Can you even imagine
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:17 PM
Mar 2013

"Well, lemme tell ya what Kheph would have said!"



I laughed when I read your post, but I think it will remain respectful-

Kolesar

(31,182 posts)
99. Award winning documentary filmmaker David L. Wolper was a DUer
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 03:46 PM
Mar 2013

He didn't ring up a huge post count, but we can claim him. I think his user name was davidwolper.
http://www.davidlwolper.com/

 

graham4anything

(11,464 posts)
114. MrJim
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 04:30 PM
Mar 2013

from California
moved to Canada
got very, very sick - died a few years ago now
young children,wife
knew him from the Kerry-Edwards board and the followup CGCS
I know he also was here however don't know if he used that name on one of the older versions of DU


Had a great sense of humor, down to earth, his jokes were the groaner types I liked.
Miss him greatly

He wrote a final post most likely weeks or even days before the end, heartbreaking, always wish someone had contact info to let his family know how much he meant to all of us.
Don't think there was a person on the boards who didn't like him.

at various times his avatar was either the chimps playing cards, or Curly of the Three Stooges

Love you MrJim, think of you often, miss you.
Wish I got the chance to know you outside of the net.

dgibby

(9,474 posts)
117. Wonderful idea, Peggy! Thank you.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 04:44 PM
Mar 2013

I can't remember the names, but she was a newlywed who's husband was killed in an auto accident in Europe. Can't remember if he was a DUer, but I know she was.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,523 posts)
118. The Notorious P.I.G.was the member. I'm thinking though that this should be just for DUers...
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 04:48 PM
Mar 2013

Her husband was not a member.

If there is support for including spouses, then I suppose we could do that. The original idea was just for DUers.

Lithos

(26,403 posts)
120. A few names
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:11 PM
Mar 2013

Hayu_lol, erma, Longhorn, massafra, nostamj, alarcojon, merci_me, givemebackmycountry, never cry wolf, oneighty, khaska, blondeatlast.

Obviously Keph, Andy, AlienGirl...

Also Elizabeth Edwards was a DU'er - mostly a lurker, but she did post once in a while.

Also, NY99er did not pass away (ie, that was not why she left). However, I would think there is a good chance she may have passed away in the interim since her last post. In any event, I think she should be included in any memorial.

L-

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
127. Merci_me is gone?
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:47 PM
Mar 2013

Oh no no! When did she die?

I started out on another message board with her, years and years ago (before Bush), and she was a dear person.

I'm so sorry I didn't know.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
124. It's so strange to read so many names
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:22 PM
Mar 2013

and realize what a community this is - and how many have contributed and are missed.

Cha

(296,848 posts)
128. I have one.. rebel with a cause. Her daughter Abbey Road
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:53 PM
Mar 2013

came on DU and told us about it when she passed away.

Just a snippet from the link..

So please appreciate the ones you love while you have them with you. My brother and I loved her dearly and she knew that. There's never been a minute that we doubted her love.

Thanks to all on the DU who have been kind to her, and if you could, please wish her peace.
http://metamorphosis.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=389x7610397

Still miss you, rebel

thanks Peggy for doing this..

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
130. there was a poster named Housewolf who frequented cooking and baking.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 06:16 PM
Mar 2013

She occasionally spoke of an illness. She disappeared before the switch to DU3. I don't know what happened to her, but perhaps someone does.

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
232. I thought she had some family somewhere
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 10:40 PM
Mar 2013

IIRC an aunt died in the year before DU2 went down, and she traveled to the midwest. IIRC. Too bad she and I never did get together -- we live in the same metro area. We talked about going for cupcakes one day.

RIP.

NMDemDist2

(49,313 posts)
235. i met her when she still lived in AZ
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 11:43 PM
Mar 2013

she moved to the NW I know, I think there was some family there.

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
233. I was thinking about Redstone the other day.
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 10:42 PM
Mar 2013

I happened to see a photo of the old Opera House in the town where he thought about buying a B&B. I guess that never happened.

RIP

unapatriciated

(5,390 posts)
210. His story affected me also.
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 04:17 PM
Mar 2013

I was going through a very bad time. My son had a relapse and his words to me were comforting and gracious. In memory of him, I will continue to fight for universal health care.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
146. A list of some here as well:
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 09:37 PM
Mar 2013
http://journals.democraticunderground.com/The%20Straight%20Story/29

And here is an initial list - please add more that I have missed:
My dear Khash...May you rest in peace...
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

Very sad news regarding DUer Alarcojon
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

DU has lost a great friend: Mike McArdle, AKA "birdman"
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

His name was Scott Lowery, and he was my friend (Khephra)
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

One of our DU friends has died (playahata1)
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

our dear Oneighty has passed away
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

We also lost DUer scottie72 in 2005 (noted by flamingyouth in the following thread
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

4 Years Ago Today, Andy Stephenson, died.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

AllJunkMail (as noted in thread below)
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

Olaf the White - as noted here:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

nostamj (nice thread here about it
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

Tangerin LaBamba
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discu...

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,523 posts)
149. Thank you for these links!
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 10:05 PM
Mar 2013

The ones in your Journal work, but unfortunately, the ones you posted out here where we can see them, don't. No idea why.

eridani

(51,907 posts)
147. Should include journal links if they had them
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 10:00 PM
Mar 2013

Also the forum might have extra safeguards against trolls.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,523 posts)
148. I know Skinner could make it available only to registered members.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 10:04 PM
Mar 2013

And I agree about including journal links, as well as links to individual posts.

 

WillyT

(72,631 posts)
157. :(::::::::::::::::::::: Man... So Many...
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 11:09 PM
Mar 2013


Thank You for this CaliforniaPeggy.

They all need to be remembered, and kept alive in our hearts, here.



& Rec !!!

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
169. I want to thank you for doing this, CaliforniaPeggy.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:16 AM
Mar 2013

This is a sad sad thread, remembering so many that we've lost, but making a special group to permanently memorialize each of them will be a very nice tribute.

I just found out here this afternoon that an old friend of mine died some time ago and without your Group proposal, I likely would have never learned of her passing. I am kicking myself now, fresh grieving over Merci_me, a wonderful woman who I knew for years as "Midge" on a media message board, crying reading inspiring and often hilarious emails as I mourn our sweet lost Mary.

We have long-needed this Memorial Group for DU; just as newyawker99 once so diligently kept track of each of our "milestones" by proclaiming post-counts, dedicating a respectful nook to all those who have passed on is proper and necessary in our DU community.



madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
171. I wonder about Rebellious Republican, haven't seen him around for years.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:58 AM
Mar 2013

He was a Republican who was against the Iraq invasion, and he hung around here for several years. Loved his posts. Believe he was a Floridian.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
174. It's a great idea to have a memorial group. Thanks so much.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:13 AM
Mar 2013

I didn't know any of these people and it is wonderfull to read their posts. They are a part of the DU history forever.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
176. JacksonB57 died Oct. 7 2010, I don't know if he ever posted much but he donated
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 03:04 AM
Mar 2013

Last edited Wed Mar 20, 2013, 07:21 PM - Edit history (2)

and always read DU. JacksonB57 was the love of my life, we were together 32 years when he died at age 54 from a sudden unexpected heart-attack. I know it would have meant so much to him to be listed in a memorial here, I know it would mean so much to me to see his name. THANKS!

ProdigalJunkMail

(12,017 posts)
193. I remember that one being shared with me on his passing.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 09:46 AM
Mar 2013

I was so happy to see that he had found such a great place here.

David

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
207. I still have a PM Redstone sent me, he said that one of my posts made him laugh out loud.
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 01:11 PM
Mar 2013

I consider that one PM my best moment as a member of this board.


All who have passed on, so many good people....

fadedrose

(10,044 posts)
212. I don't know who died, but can think of two that I liked who aren't here anymore..
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 04:20 PM
Mar 2013

Actually, more than two, but how does one find out if they're dead?

How about a "We miss you" post where we can inquire about them?

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,523 posts)
213. Feel free to have a "We miss you" post for that...
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 04:30 PM
Mar 2013

I'm not really in charge of this, ya know!

It's a good idea.

fadedrose

(10,044 posts)
215. JitterbugPerfume - We miss you . . . hope you're OK
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 04:37 PM
Mar 2013

Your last post was in January, and only 12 posts in the 90 days before that. I was so accustomed to seeing you and your science fiction books in Fiction...

fadedrose

(10,044 posts)
216. mvccd1000 - We Miss You
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 04:41 PM
Mar 2013

Your last post was in October of last year. I miss sharing opinions with you in Fiction about detective novels, both of us liking the type of hero who defied authority...Hope you're okay.

fadedrose

(10,044 posts)
217. MaineDem - We Miss You in Fiction
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 04:48 PM
Mar 2013

You read the same types of books I liked. It was May of last year that you last posted, but haven't heard anything since. I hope you're fine.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
220. PBS Poll-435, formerly prodn2000.
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 11:04 PM
Mar 2013
I Just Learned That a Precious Member of the Democratic Underground Community Has Passed Away.
Posted by NYC_SKP in General Discussion
Tue May 31st 2011, 02:41 PM


You knew him as PBS Poll-435, formerly prodn2000.

I knew him as Brian.

His dear friend, Mark, contacted me today to share the sad news and to ask that I tell all of you at DU.

Brian loved this board, Mark said. He loved people and was the kindest of souls, this I know for certain.

I'm so sad right now, Brian was the nicest DU member I've ever known.

Brian's Avatar:

You may send me a PM if you'd like me to forward any communications to his people.



PLEASE, may we preserve their avatars, too?

TIA

MuseRider

(34,095 posts)
227. Thank you for doing this Peggy.
Thu Mar 28, 2013, 01:21 PM
Mar 2013

I have long thought this was something we should do.

I just read through, there is one I am thinking of but can't remember for certain and I will add him later if I don't see his name come up. It was an odd name that I knew well but never put sounds to it, one of those hard for me to remember.

Sad, sad thread. There are actually quite a few I did not know had left us. Missed their names but never thought it was because they had died. I think I will go meditate for a while.

Thank you.

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